Who else knows your a cuck ?

[desertsub]

Back early in our marriage, when my wife first started cuckolding me, all her girlfriends knew I was a cuckold. She would go out with them and usually get fucked before the night was over. She even brought a couple of them home from the bar a couple of times to show them how she left me, tied spread eagle to the bed, naked and blindfolded, while she was out with them partying and fucking other guys.

When the kids got older she stopped but she started again a few years ago. She's a lot more discreet now because of her job, but two of her best friends (who also work with her) know I'm a cuckold. I'm pretty sure my stepdaughter knows or at least suspects, my wife said she once told her "Mom, you should try black cock, you would love it!" My best friend also knows I'm a cuckold. My wife told him at a cookout at his house a couple of years ago after everyone else had left. His response was that he wouldn't sleep with her because we're friends. A couple of days later I brought it up again and told him that if he and my wife wanted to fuck I was okay with it and assured him that it would not hurt our friendship. He has no problem kissing her on the mouth and getting a handful of her tits in front of me now, but they still have not fucked.

What happens when you have to pee? Lol

I always knew ahead of time when she was going to go out and made sure to limit my fluid intake and always went to the bathroom before she tied me up. There was one time though where I had to release myself and go to the bathroom. Our restraint system has a quick release and I had to use it. Once released though, I can't retie myself. She wasn't too happy when she got back and found me loose but hey, what are you going to do?

[vmb69]

I was sharing some of the post with my wife yesterday and she told me that DesertHub relationship sounded just like ours and she thinks this is where we are going. I was thinking I have mental issue for wanting to be a cuck but she reassured me that she does not want me to change, and is very happy with me being her cuck

[imbootlover]

My wife was at her girlfriends house one day several months and they started discussing their sex lives. After a few glasses of wine my wife blurted out that I wanted to share her with someone. This led to an extended conversation my wife said about the reason I wanted to do this. My wife assured her girlfriend that I was not looking for any one for me. Her girlfriend's husband also happened to be in the room and heard the whole thing. My wife said it made the conversation very awkward. After it was said and done they both accepted it. I have not seen either of them since my wife shared my secret. I wonder what will happen when I do.
These 2 have shared a lot of secrets over the last 30 years and both have been married previously.

[cuckcouple]

At this point in things most people know we are a cuck couple. All of my family knows, most of hers with the exception of her mom, pretty much all of our friends...

I have one cousin that is cuckolded. I think he always had a desire for it, but wasn't sure how to get his wife to give it a shot. Then he had a medical issue in his late 30s that literally made his dick a limp noodle. He came to me to "coach" him on how to get her to do it and I am proud to say my methods worked

I have a casual friend that works in another area at my job that is either a cuck or his wife hotwifes. I have heard a lot of stories about her from enough different people to believe she is fucking other men.

My supervisor (female) is not too shy about the fact that she swings and her husband is very introverted and reserved, so I suspect she cucks him. She wears lowcut tops, is always tanned, always with a perfect pedi and wears anklets and toerings. She just strikes me as a cuckoldress, whatever that is worth.

[trecital]

My wife has had a long term sexual relationship (over 30 years) with the same boyfriend.
He was a work colleague, and they started by having a secret affair. Sometimes I used to collect her from her workplace, and met other work colleagues who probably knew about their affair.

After I found out about her affair I agreed she could continue seeing him.

Her boyfriend was a rugby player, and used to regularly go out drinking with mates from the team. When he started fucking my wife he would sometimes have to make excuses to them as to why he couldn't join them. They soon found out he was fucking a married woman, even though he tried to be discrete about it.

One saturday she went to his house to stay overnight, and some of his rugby mates turned up that evening, unplanned. They wanted him to join them for a pub crawl, but ended up staying the evening, and the night, at his house. My wife and boyfriend slept upstairs in his bedroom, while they crashed out downstairs. As previously arranged, I came by in the morning to join my wife and boyfriend for some threesome fun. But I didn't know about his rugby mates being there until I arrived. Caught off guard I was invited in for coffee. My wife and boyfriend were still in bed, and didn't know I'd arrived.
I made small talk with his mates for a while, with a few awkward questions being asked. Then the sound of bed movement started upstairs, followed eventually by my wifes loud orgasm. So, inevitably, his whole rugby club soon knew that he was fucking my wife, and that I knew about it too.

I am pretty sure that one of my wifes female friends knows she is regularly being fucked by another man. I don't
particularly get along with this woman, although I am polite and outwardly friendly. She dropped in at our house one evening, whilst my wife was at her boyfriends. I had to quickly make excuses as to where my wife was, and I don't think her friend believed me. We chatted for a while, and I offered her a glass of wine. I poured myself one too, but in a smaller glass, as I didn't want to start drinking too early. Her friend made some strange comments about me having "a small one", how deceptive it was that "a slightly larger glass could actually have probably twice the volume of a smaller one" and that she thought my wife "would definitely appreciate a bigger one".
I later found out she knew quite a bit about my cuckold status.
I particularly remember a comment of hers one time, when she saw a diy job at our house that I was struggling to finish.
"Can't you bring it to completion?" she said. "You need some bigger tools. Anyway I'm sure you know a real man who can come and finish the job for you." I think she knew that I can't make my wife orgasm, and her boyfriend can.

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

"I later found out she knew quite a bit about my cuckold status.
I particularly remember a comment of hers one time, when she saw a diy job at our house that I was struggling to finish.
"Can't you bring it to completion?" she said. "You need some bigger tools. Anyway I'm sure you know a real man who can come and finish the job for you." I think she knew that I can't make my wife orgasm, and her boyfriend can."

Your recent posts are extremely well-written, and have given me some things to think about.

I guess my question for you- and so many other cuckolds on here is this- If your wife knew (before she married you) that you could not give her an orgasm- and if (apparently) a lot of men on here had wives they weren't able to sexually satisfy before marriage- why are these women marrying men who can't satisfy them? I mean, I'm sure that there is (probably) no "one-size-fits-all" explanation, but one theme I keep seeing on here, is women marrying men that they ALREADY know are inadequate in bed. I'm quite curious.....

[Open2it]

It could be because intense sexual satisfaction is only part of the equation for a happy marriage.

[trecital]

I guess my question for you- and so many other cuckolds on here is this- If your wife knew (before she married you) that you could not give her an orgasm

why did she still marry you?

I can only answer for my case. We met at university, and started our sexual relationship when I was 19. This was in the mid 1970's. We were both virgins, and the internet didn't exist. Sex education at school was limited in those days. But we were both liberal minded, and I was keen to learn about all aspects of sex. Feminism, or 'Womens Liberation', as it was known then, was relatively new. Women's sexuality wasn't widely discussed.

But I did read that sexual research revealed that most women didn't achieve orgasm from penetrative sex, i.e. penis in vagina sex.
When we had sex I was able to orgasm from PIV sex, but my, then, girlfriend could only achieve orgasm if she masturbated whilst I was in her, or if she masturbated without me in her. So we both thought, given the evidence of the research, that it wasn't unusual that I didn't make her orgasm. We were both pretty inexperienced, as were most people of our age, at that time.
But we both enjoyed our sex life, and I, in particular was keen to try 'kinky stuff'. I encouraged her to try 'pee games' (normally her on me), shaved her pubes, encouraged her to wear revealing clothing and be somewhat exhibitionistic.

We were married not long after leaving university. She didn't see that her not achieving orgasm from PIV sex only as being a problem. Neither did I. Why were some men able to make their wifes or girlfriends orgasm from PIV sex, and others couldn't? I never came across any definitive answers to that, so we didn't worry about it.

By 1989 we were still having regular sex (her still not orgasming from penetration alone).

Then, temptation came her way, in the form of a work colleague, and she started a secret affair. She didn't start it because she was unsatisfied by me. I remember, when I found out about her affair, thinking that it might just as easily been me having the affair, if a suitable opportunity had presented itself.
I encouraged her to continue the sex with the new boyfriend, but only on the condition that everything was out in the open. Of course, I was also interested in the extra possibilities that threesomes would present.
After I discovered her affair I, naturally, asked her about the sex with him. "Was he good in bed, was he bigger than me..." etc.
She didn't tell me that he could make her orgasm from fucking her. She wasn't sure what my reaction to that would be.

Soon we had our first threesome, and, being a gentleman, allowed him to fuck her first. His cock was bigger than mine. I didn't think it was much longer, but he was definitely thicker. So I watched while they had sex, missionary position. She had an orgasm after about 10 to 15 minutes, and he climaxed shortly after. I was surprised, when my wife orgasmed, as it was clear her hands were nowhere near her clit. I fucked her afterwards, but didn't last long. I was even more surprised when she later told me that he had made her orgasm from the first time he fucked her, and every time since. From that moment my sexual arousal and humiliation became intertwined.

Some while later, after a few more threesomes, he noticed that she wasn't orgasming when I fucked her. He later asked her about my performance, and she told him that I never made her come from PIV sex. She, somewhat guiltily, told me a few days later that she had mentioned it to him. So I suggested that she should make me 'confess' to him about my inadequacy in the bedroom. Which I did, and which both embarrassed and excited me hugely. From then I was increasingly hooked on sexual humiliation.

I still have sex with my wife, and she still wants that.

I asked her a few years ago (after nearly thirty years of her and him fucking) if she had ever considered leaving me for him. She straight away said "Why on earth would I do that?" I said, "Well, because he makes you orgasm." She replied that she liked him, and had affection for him (he's a nice guy), but she could never love him. And, she added, "What woman wouldn't love a husband that gives her the freedom to have sex with another man, and still continue to love her?"

[ErikaPeter]

A few of our friends who are sexually liberal know about our lifestyle. One of the couples were actually our vanilla friends and recognized us from our photographs on the internet. They were curious about the lifestyle and I helped the wife become a hotwife.

Also, I wear a hotwife anklet sometimes and my husband has a cuckold bumper sticker on his car. So there may be some friends, neighbors, coworkers, and strangers who are in the know but do not want to say anything.

[elina]

And, she added, "What woman wouldn't love a husband that gives her the freedom to have sex with another man, and still continue to love her?"

That is the response of the Perfect Hotwife/Cuckolderes!!!

Sincerely
elina

[desertsub]

I guess my question for you- and so many other cuckolds on here is this- If your wife knew (before she married you) that you could not give her an orgasm- and if (apparently) a lot of men on here had wives they weren't able to sexually satisfy before marriage- why are these women marrying men who can't satisfy them? I mean, I'm sure that there is (probably) no "one-size-fits-all" explanation, but one theme I keep seeing on here, is women marrying men that they ALREADY know are inadequate in bed. I'm quite curious.....

I can answer this one for my wife very easily. She knew that my first wife had cuckolded me and that I accepted it. She also knew that I would accept her cuckolding me too because she fucked another guy for two months before we got married. We were living together and I caught her cheating on me with him. I moved out and she continued to fuck him until she got tired of him and then told me she wanted me back. I took her back immediately and confessed to her that I had masturbated pretty much every night we were apart, thinking about her fucking the other guy. I asked her to marry me shortly after that and she later told me "I knew that I would be able to fuck whoever I wanted when I said yes! Your dick is nothing special but damn, you eat pussy better than any man I've ever been with!"

[Triceratops]

Today I recalled two other people who know me and know that Lila cucks me. One is Curtis. Curtis retired but formerly worked. with me and knew about many of my own affairs and was always wanting to hear about them. He was a keen observer. And he observed Lila and her distinctive sporty convertible parked at the house of her long term lover Clark on many occasions because his backyard look down to Clark’s carport. A fact which Lila either forgot about or didn’t care. Curtis had seen her parking here many times for over a year before he said anything to me. He knew that I was screwing women in our office so he didn’t think it would bother me too much. Curtis had retired and was home a lot but one day he met me for lunch and just said oh by the way I sure see Lila‘s car at Clark’s house a lot. And he winked and smirked. Curtis knew that Clark’s wife Peg traveled a lot for busiNess. Whenever Peg was conveniently out of town lila would meet up with Clark and just have a good fucking time right there in their marital bed in the middle of the day and sometimes at night. I didn’t learn about this till later on so when Curtis told me this I just let him think I was blowing it off and that she often came by there to visit them. Curtis was a wise old bird and knew that Lila and Clark were obviously screwing their genitals off. I just let him think I was blowing it off and that she often came by there to visit them. Curtis was a wise old bird and knew that Lila and Clark were obviously hooking up. I never admitted it to Curtis

As a footnote Lila confessed all this and gave me a couple of juicy details. She said at one time she came into the house and heard the shower running. Clark was not expecting her at any certain time. Lila went into the master bedroom then stripped off her clothes and surprised Clark when she opened the shower door and finished the shower with him. She said that was a very hot fuck that afternoon. In the next post I will tell about Lilas boss adding up two and two to figure out that she and his friend one of our main elected officials were obviously getting together secretly. His pal asked him if he could get Lila her on own phone line. so they could have more private conversation He did not want to leave his number or messages on her cell phone

[Filou]

Some of our friends and family might have figured out that we have a somewhat diffetent relationship than usual, but they never have been told about our FLR - let alone the cuckolding part. But it is hard to hide every aspect of of your FLR from those who know you best - even if you arediscret in public...

For the the cuckolding part - apart from the members of a munch we attended regulary in germany only three people know and they have been directly involved. 2 other subs or bulls of her (however you might call them) and her best friend with whome she also has sex from time to time.

So it is a somewhat small group, but why should it be otherwise. Just because we have a somewhat different sexlife than usual it is still no reason that it should be anyones imterest...

[hornyballs39]

This one is a bit akward but we are discreet in how we do this but her mother kept interfering and on a couple of occasions she was going to a guys house around the corner from her mothers house she began to notice after her daughter kept turning up to her door a bit drunk late at night,

i kept saying i wasn't aware but i was fully aware of what was happening i tried to hide the fact however

i messed up i called her mother by mistake while she was up being fucked by her new BF and my words were, Have you had a good time did he fuck you good are you coming back to me at? in which her mother replied (its me not your wife) i went silent for a moment then made out i was confused but she knew in my voice what i meant she then proceeded to ask where my wife was i told her out she quickly worked out that she was round at his having a good time

The mother then further told her brother who is gay and he completely understood and told her to mind her own business and told his mother he Enjoyed gangbangs and 3 sums and said get with the times

But her mother just does not understand i love her she loves me she comes back to me we make love and that's that, but no one els is aware,

[psdt1969]

I am in an unusual situation, I have a gf but I am a TS transwoman, kind of like Kristys post above. I live FT as a woman, changed my name legally, dress as a woman, am on hormones and I have small slowly developing breasts, vrry little to no body hair, we met as I am and she accepted me anf thinks of me as a woman, so our relationship is more like a lesbian relationship, I guess. We both like men, she a 'typical' straight white woman and has only been with men sexually, I am bi, we are both submissive. Our families dont know that we are kinky is the way I would put it but we dont hide anything, but I bet everyone is confused. Whats cool about our relationship is that we both can both be either dom or sub. Sometimes I will be dom in the traditional male role sexually, other times she will be dom and she has learned she likes to peg me. Our relationship is cool cuz its fluid, no one is assigned a role. We also want to go further, first into swinging, then into this kind of cuck relationship, but she is new to all this, so we are going slowly. What I love about our relationship is that I dont have to act like Im a guy, I can be fem, or present as fem, which I feel is more who I am and she loves me and supports me. Its incredibly validating to have a real cis woman be in a relationship with in public, and we are very physically affectionate and loving and kiss in public. For me, that was the one thing I realized, wether its being a TS transwoman, or this kind of lifestyle, I cant hide, for me there is nothing worse than that feeling of having to hide.

[downhill70]

My wife's sister knows because she has always been in to black men and my wife is now black only so they go out together on the pull. Often I will drop them off and pick them up with a couple of guys and bring them home for them to play.

My wife's best friend knows and another friend who was very wild when they worked together abroad in a party town and both of them would be with different men every night. We have been with them plenty of times when they openly talk about my wife fucking other men and in particularly what I like about watching black guys "queuing up" to fuck her, how do I feel that Jade has to fuck other men because I'm not able to do it properly, etc. etc.

Also her female cousin who knows absolutely everything about us including how my wife sometimes locks my cock up, that I'm unable to satisfy my wife sexually and how much I love to go down on her and clean up after another man has cum inside her.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum downhill70. We will be anxious to hear some of your adventures. Sounds like you get a lot of enjoyment out of her being gangbang and then coming home for more.

[eater]

would love to hear more of your story downhill

[downhill70]

My wife's sister knows because she has always been in to black men and my wife is now black only so they go out together on the pull. Often I will drop them off and pick them up with a couple of guys and bring them home for them to play.

My wife's best friend knows and another friend who was very wild when they worked together abroad in a party town and both of them would be with different men every night. We have been with them plenty of times when they openly talk about my wife fucking other men and in particularly what I like about watching black guys "queuing up" to fuck her, how do I feel that Jade has to fuck other men because I'm not able to do it properly, etc. etc.

Also her female cousin who knows absolutely everything about us including how my wife sometimes locks my cock up, that I'm unable to satisfy my wife sexually and how much I love to go down on her and clean up after another man has cum inside her.

I forgot, our neighbours also know. We live on a small development of 5 houses and they see lots of different black men coming and going, some spending the night and others here for only an hour, sometimes a few black guys come at the same time. Jade is friendly with one of the them and apparently it's common knowledge amongst them.

[downhill70]

would love to hear more of your story downhill

Hi, I've just posted a new topic about how and why I'm a cuck and why my wife is a black only cuckoldress. Hope you enjoy.

[sml_peterBR]

I’ve agreed that my wife could tell about our lifestyle to her best friend and to her sister.
The reason was because she wanted to talk about her experiences with other women and because they were going on a trip together, she knew she possibly would get laid by other men as it indeed hapenned.
After that, I always feel a mix of excitement and humiliation when I'm with them. They're open minded people but we've never talked about it.

[Anax81]

My wife's best friend knows that my wife is in a relationship for 7 years (as long as we are married) but she doesn't know that I know.

[gorch100]

Really a sad story. It would be better to give this woman her freedom so she could be with someone worthy of her.

[Kayscuck89]

My wife’s pretty open about our whole situation. Her friends and co-workers know pretty much everything. My family knows we swing but maybe don’t realize that 99.9% is solo male play. Very few of my friends know but I’m also less forward with this info then my wife is.

[mrdnrm]

Before my wife my previous girlfriend cucked me, a few of her Girlfriends knew and they encouraged her to see other men on the side. One night she came home late from a party and the guy who drove her home fucked her on the back seat of his car right outside our bedroom window. I didn't think anything of it until he started the car back up and that's when I looked out the window and seen her get out of the car. He kissed her goodnight and when she walked in I confronted her. Long story short I ended up going down on her and got the creampie. I was so pissed. What made it worst was I found that next MOnday at work who the guy was. He work in the same building as me and he was tell a few others there. Everyone talk about me and my girlfriend and how she says I can't satisfy her.

Then I met my wife, in about year five of our marriage, My wife's girlfriends talked her into an all girls trip to New York. Yup she fucked two guys there and so those 3 other guys new from then on. I didn't know this until one of the girls actually worked with my mother. It was my mother who told me and gave me a lecture about being a better husband and making sure my wife was satisfied. Totally awkward freaking conversation or should I say lecture. My mother didn't use the word cuckold but said it in may other ways.

Many years later my oldest son found out, that my wife was Cuckolding me, another awkward conversation. In short my mother who has now passed knew I was a cuckold. Several of my wife's girlfriends. my oldest son, now my neighbor knows and a over 6000 followers on flickr https://www.flickr.com/photos/mrdnrm12/