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The same. Many times a cuckold will start saying things to his wife like “move down a little” or “open your legs wider” or “fuck him harder” and also to me “take her bra off” or “she likes when you eat her first” and all these little comments or instructions as they get over rambunctious and excited. I love seizing those opportunistic times to say things to him like “whoa.. who is fucking her.. you or me ??” Which backs him off. Or to say “one more word from you and I am done” or saying to the wife “you are going to have to tell him to be quiet or we will have to meet again somewhere else” or “why don’t you tell him to leave the room until we are done”.respectabullinma wrote: ↑Thu Apr 29, 2021 6:47 amI have more than a few times, when confronted with a husband who was a little too demanding of how the playdate was going, turned the tables on him by stopping the fucking and going to a tease/no release plan with the wife. He didn't have the backbone to stand up to his wife when she demanded he shut up because she wanted to be fucked. Doing this... the mental part... is a great way I have found to engage the wife in embracing her inner cuckoldress... to put the resumption of play on her to verbalize her needs, to put hubby into his place a bit. Granted, understanding the couple dynamic is important before doing this, as if you aren't confident you understand the husband's wants/needs you can quickly put an end to things.
I never try to orchestrate what goes on between my wife and her lovers! I feel that I am fortunate to even be allowed to watch, I definitely don't feel that I have the right to interfere!bradisalpha wrote: ↑Wed May 05, 2021 12:58 amThe same. Many times a cuckold will start saying things to his wife like “move down a little” or “open your legs wider” or “fuck him harder” and also to me “take her bra off” or “she likes when you eat her first” and all these little comments or instructions as they get over rambunctious and excited. I love seizing those opportunistic times to say things to him like “whoa.. who is fucking her.. you or me ??” Which backs him off. Or to say “one more word from you and I am done” or saying to the wife “you are going to have to tell him to be quiet or we will have to meet again somewhere else” or “why don’t you tell him to leave the room until we are done”.respectabullinma wrote: ↑Thu Apr 29, 2021 6:47 amI have more than a few times, when confronted with a husband who was a little too demanding of how the playdate was going, turned the tables on him by stopping the fucking and going to a tease/no release plan with the wife. He didn't have the backbone to stand up to his wife when she demanded he shut up because she wanted to be fucked. Doing this... the mental part... is a great way I have found to engage the wife in embracing her inner cuckoldress... to put the resumption of play on her to verbalize her needs, to put hubby into his place a bit. Granted, understanding the couple dynamic is important before doing this, as if you aren't confident you understand the husband's wants/needs you can quickly put an end to things.
All of these comments bring replies from his wife to him such as “why don’t you just shut up” or “just leave us alone” or “he is doing just fine” or “leave.. just leave”.
I love watching this interaction with her controlling him with my suggestive urging !! After we are done I might say “damn, he can’t keep his mouth shut” and she will say “he won’t be here next time”.. which leads to him saying he will be quiet and begging to be there the next time.
It is actually exciting for me to watch this interaction.. and exciting for the wife to feel the power she has over him when she is with me.. and exciting to the cuckold to be controlled and overruled by the both of us and embarrassed by his over anxious actions.
Just saying...
Brad
Well put, sir! It’s exciting for me to think about my wife and her lover putting me in my place like that.bradisalpha wrote: ↑Wed May 05, 2021 12:58 amThe same. Many times a cuckold will start saying things to his wife like “move down a little” or “open your legs wider” or “fuck him harder” and also to me “take her bra off” or “she likes when you eat her first” and all these little comments or instructions as they get over rambunctious and excited. I love seizing those opportunistic times to say things to him like “whoa.. who is fucking her.. you or me ??” Which backs him off. Or to say “one more word from you and I am done” or saying to the wife “you are going to have to tell him to be quiet or we will have to meet again somewhere else” or “why don’t you tell him to leave the room until we are done”.respectabullinma wrote: ↑Thu Apr 29, 2021 6:47 amI have more than a few times, when confronted with a husband who was a little too demanding of how the playdate was going, turned the tables on him by stopping the fucking and going to a tease/no release plan with the wife. He didn't have the backbone to stand up to his wife when she demanded he shut up because she wanted to be fucked. Doing this... the mental part... is a great way I have found to engage the wife in embracing her inner cuckoldress... to put the resumption of play on her to verbalize her needs, to put hubby into his place a bit. Granted, understanding the couple dynamic is important before doing this, as if you aren't confident you understand the husband's wants/needs you can quickly put an end to things.
All of these comments bring replies from his wife to him such as “why don’t you just shut up” or “just leave us alone” or “he is doing just fine” or “leave.. just leave”.
I love watching this interaction with her controlling him with my suggestive urging !! After we are done I might say “damn, he can’t keep his mouth shut” and she will say “he won’t be here next time”.. which leads to him saying he will be quiet and begging to be there the next time.
It is actually exciting for me to watch this interaction.. and exciting for the wife to feel the power she has over him when she is with me.. and exciting to the cuckold to be controlled and overruled by the both of us and embarrassed by his over anxious actions.
Just saying...
Brad
if my wife's lover told me that, the fun would be over and he would have to leavebradisalpha wrote: ↑Wed May 05, 2021 12:58 amThe same. Many times a cuckold will start saying things to his wife like “move down a little” or “open your legs wider” or “fuck him harder” and also to me “take her bra off” or “she likes when you eat her first” and all these little comments or instructions as they get over rambunctious and excited. I love seizing those opportunistic times to say things to him like “whoa.. who is fucking her.. you or me ??” Which backs him off. Or to say “one more word from you and I am done” or saying to the wife “you are going to have to tell him to be quiet or we will have to meet again somewhere else” or “why don’t you tell him to leave the room until we are done”.respectabullinma wrote: ↑Thu Apr 29, 2021 6:47 amI have more than a few times, when confronted with a husband who was a little too demanding of how the playdate was going, turned the tables on him by stopping the fucking and going to a tease/no release plan with the wife. He didn't have the backbone to stand up to his wife when she demanded he shut up because she wanted to be fucked. Doing this... the mental part... is a great way I have found to engage the wife in embracing her inner cuckoldress... to put the resumption of play on her to verbalize her needs, to put hubby into his place a bit. Granted, understanding the couple dynamic is important before doing this, as if you aren't confident you understand the husband's wants/needs you can quickly put an end to things.
All of these comments bring replies from his wife to him such as “why don’t you just shut up” or “just leave us alone” or “he is doing just fine” or “leave.. just leave”.
I love watching this interaction with her controlling him with my suggestive urging !! After we are done I might say “damn, he can’t keep his mouth shut” and she will say “he won’t be here next time”.. which leads to him saying he will be quiet and begging to be there the next time.
It is actually exciting for me to watch this interaction.. and exciting for the wife to feel the power she has over him when she is with me.. and exciting to the cuckold to be controlled and overruled by the both of us and embarrassed by his over anxious actions.
Just saying...
Brad
That is the beauty of this forum. “To each his own” !!Tomaszkk wrote: ↑Thu May 06, 2021 1:34 amif my wife's lover told me that, the fun would be over and he would have to leavebradisalpha wrote: ↑Wed May 05, 2021 12:58 amThe same. Many times a cuckold will start saying things to his wife like “move down a little” or “open your legs wider” or “fuck him harder” and also to me “take her bra off” or “she likes when you eat her first” and all these little comments or instructions as they get over rambunctious and excited. I love seizing those opportunistic times to say things to him like “whoa.. who is fucking her.. you or me ??” Which backs him off. Or to say “one more word from you and I am done” or saying to the wife “you are going to have to tell him to be quiet or we will have to meet again somewhere else” or “why don’t you tell him to leave the room until we are done”.respectabullinma wrote: ↑Thu Apr 29, 2021 6:47 amI have more than a few times, when confronted with a husband who was a little too demanding of how the playdate was going, turned the tables on him by stopping the fucking and going to a tease/no release plan with the wife. He didn't have the backbone to stand up to his wife when she demanded he shut up because she wanted to be fucked. Doing this... the mental part... is a great way I have found to engage the wife in embracing her inner cuckoldress... to put the resumption of play on her to verbalize her needs, to put hubby into his place a bit. Granted, understanding the couple dynamic is important before doing this, as if you aren't confident you understand the husband's wants/needs you can quickly put an end to things.
All of these comments bring replies from his wife to him such as “why don’t you just shut up” or “just leave us alone” or “he is doing just fine” or “leave.. just leave”.
I love watching this interaction with her controlling him with my suggestive urging !! After we are done I might say “damn, he can’t keep his mouth shut” and she will say “he won’t be here next time”.. which leads to him saying he will be quiet and begging to be there the next time.
It is actually exciting for me to watch this interaction.. and exciting for the wife to feel the power she has over him when she is with me.. and exciting to the cuckold to be controlled and overruled by the both of us and embarrassed by his over anxious actions.
Just saying...
Brad
I cannot recall an instance in which I begged a guy to fuck my wife, but there have been times when watching another man's dick inside her that I was in such high excitation and whimpered for him to fuck her good. I still get weak and am jerking off furiously when another hot guy is fucking her brains out and she is wailing and sobbing in lust.knight4princess wrote: ↑Tue Apr 27, 2021 5:24 pmI figure if a guy isn't hot for my wife enough to want to fuck her, then my begging won't change that. Also, I think it would be very disrespectful to my wife. Knowing my wife, that would probably prompt an end to our Hotwife adventures -- and I'd be lucky to ever get much more of her pussy afterward.
As JW-KK pointed noted above, HER begging to be fucked is another thing entirely. ;-)