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I am wondering about being outed or wanting to be outed to mother-in- law, sister-in-,law, or one's own mom and sister.
If you indicate that they know the reason why, full us in on why the wife steps out

Christmas 2020 my wife was helping her mother with decorations and notice she was not wearing her wedding rings but just a gold band. In addition my wife had changed her appearance, hair makeup clothes. My wife told her mother she has a lover because I do not sexually do anything for her and addition I had decided to be feminine and wear women’s panties.

My wife told me her mother wanted to talk in private when we went for Christmas dinner. I decided to wear a pair of sheer panties with lace. When we got to my MIL’s home she gave me a head nod to follow her. We went into my wife’s former bedroom. My MIL asked me how long had this been going and I told her several years. She told me not asking to drop my slacks to show her my panties. When she saw my little pee pee all she said, now I know my daughter has a lover as I have seen small dicks before.

She started to fondle me and I climaxed in her hand. She laughed and said, I thought that would happen. She wiped her hand on my panties and I sat there at Christmas dinner with cum soaked panties.

There’s more of this story.

Pauline

There were a lot of people that knew my wife had a lover. There was her mother, sister, my sister, our neighbor and several of her friends. They all knew she spanked me too. Then there were several family members who knew she spanked me because on occasion for family functions if I did something wrong my wife would take me to the bedroom and spank me. She always stuffed her panties in my mouth so they couldn't hear me but what we didn't know was everyone could hear the crack of the paddle and her scolding me through the heat vents. We found out a couple years later when my wife's sister told us.

jagman1957 wrote: ↑

Fri Feb 04, 2022 7:15 pm

I am wondering about being outed or wanting to be outed to mother-in- law, sister-in-,law, or one's own mom and sister.
If you indicate that they know the reason why, full us in on why the wife steps out

You might get a better response if you changed the subject to something that matches what is actually in the poll -- something like "Female Relatives in the Know". Click on the "pencil" in the upper right of the original post.

My ex made sure her family knew what went on here, especially the femdom BDSM.

storiespix wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 5:15 am

that matches what is actually in the poll -- something like "Female Relatives in the Know".

Why just female relatives, or in-laws?

Here's a relative revelation:

viewtopic.php?p=1273115#p1273115

My sister-in-law (wife’s brother’s wife) knows, including the reasons/rationale as to “why” KK fucks other men. It is the consequence of something fairly twisted.

In summary, the result of accidental circumstances, both me and my sister-in-law accidentally “outed” one another. At the time of the outing, I was engaged in an affair with a woman who fetishized black men, specifically group sex/gang-bangs with black men. We were attending an event piggy-backed with what’s known as a “White Party.” The associated, “underground” component is known as a “Snow-bunny Round-up.”

My sister-in-law was attending the same event - we ran into each other in the hotel ballroom lobby, heading for the respective suites where the partying was in full force.

There was no denying why either of us were at that venue, or what was going on. It led to what I call our “Mutual Assured Destruction” pact - my sister-in-law’s idea. Barb (my SIL) demanded that we have sex, as a sort of strange guarantee I’d never out her to another family member, and vice-versa.

Threaded through this twisted mess, I’ve confessed many details of our lives to Barb. She’s aware of KK’s penchant for cheating, some of her affairs, and our hot wife lifestyle.

KK’s family background includes an extreme fundamentalist evangelical religious upbringing. KK’s older brother, Barb’s husband is most afflicted by that legacy - suffers under the mentality that sex is only for procreation. In part, Barb’s adulterous behavior is a reaction to her nearly sexless marriage. She’s completely fascinated with, and exploitive of the irony involved, given KK’s behavior, her husbands attitude, and knowledge of KK’s intimate involvement with her younger brother.

Her daughter knows.

So do her friends and many people in her small town.

Wisher wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 6:04 am

storiespix wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 5:15 am

that matches what is actually in the poll -- something like "Female Relatives in the Know".

Why just female relatives, or in-laws?

Because the poll itself had only female relatives mentioned. No male in-laws, and not just female in-laws. You know, "female relatives".

Both my mother and my SIL found out years ago.

My wife’s sister and her husband know they were informed January 2020. Neither of them have an issue with our lifestyle as we really don’t associate with them during the year.

Pauline

I confess I am quite curious as to why anyone's sex life is the business of any of their family members, or their friends or neighbors....I mean, I"m not meaning to be critical/judgmental....I just find it ....IDK??

LawyerWouldbeCuckold wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 1:48 pm

I confess I am quite curious as to why anyone's sex life is the business of any of their family members, or their friends or neighbors....I mean, I"m not meaning to be critical/judgmental....I just find it ....IDK??

In some cases it's not their business, they just find out.

Farmgirl wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 6:10 pm

LawyerWouldbeCuckold wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 1:48 pm

I confess I am quite curious as to why anyone's sex life is the business of any of their family members, or their friends or neighbors....I mean, I"m not meaning to be critical/judgmental....I just find it ....IDK??

In some cases it's not their business, they just find out.

Ah, okay........

LawyerWouldbeCuckold wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 6:27 pm

Farmgirl wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 6:10 pm

LawyerWouldbeCuckold wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 1:48 pm

I confess I am quite curious as to why anyone's sex life is the business of any of their family members, or their friends or neighbors....I mean, I"m not meaning to be critical/judgmental....I just find it ....IDK??

In some cases it's not their business, they just find out.

Ah, okay........

In our case, his mother found out through rumor around town. She asked my Number1 about us, and he assured her that he was fine. I dare say that is how most inlaws find out things. Why would you lie to them when they are concerned?

It’s not lying to choose to keep your private life private. We have those who suspect but don’t know. Nobody in our family has asked but a neice recently commented that it seems like Sue has two husbands.

Farmgirl wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 6:34 pm

LawyerWouldbeCuckold wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 6:27 pm

Farmgirl wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 6:10 pm

LawyerWouldbeCuckold wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 1:48 pm

I confess I am quite curious as to why anyone's sex life is the business of any of their family members, or their friends or neighbors....I mean, I"m not meaning to be critical/judgmental....I just find it ....IDK??

In some cases it's not their business, they just find out.

Ah, okay........

In our case, his mother found out through rumor around town. She asked my Number1 about us, and he assured her that he was fine. I dare say that is how most inlaws find out things. Why would you lie to them when they are concerned?

Hmmm....I don't know if I would lie, per se.....If I was in this lifestyle, and there was a rumor, and someone asked me about what they had heard, my response would be (with a smile) "I don't discuss details of my personal life, other than the fact that I'm married to Sheila."

My wife’s sister and mother both know that Ann has boyfriends with my approval. Ann told her sister that it turns me on, but just told her mum I don’t mind, although I’m sure she’s guessed I get something out of it.

Her sister found out when she stayed with us for a few days and overheard Ann’s side of what was an obvious intimate phone conversation with her boyfriend. He’d phoned to ask her out, but Ann told him she couldn’t make it as her sister was there. Her sister naturally wanted to know what was going on and Ann basically told her and her sister encouraged her to see him. Ann actually called her boyfriend back to say she could make it after all.

I’ve always got on well with her sister and she can be flirty and sexy so after a few awkward moments as soon as Ann left we had an enjoyable sexy chat about what we were doing and why. She was almost as eager to hear all about Ann’s date as I was when she got home.

Their mum found out when her sister inadvertently mentioned Ann’s boyfriend and made it worse by trying to get out of it before telling her Ann had a boyfriend with my approval. Her sister phoned Ann to apologise and explain what she’d done and we had a nervous few days waiting for their mum to call. We couldn’t stand the suspense so Ann phoned her and was pleasantly surprised that her mum wasn’t in the least critical, her only worry was what would happen if Ann got pregnant. Ann told her that was unlikely (she was on the pill), but it wouldn’t be a problem if it did.

Her mum said it was our business as long as we were happy and also something like “we were all young once” which made us wonder if they were swingers in their day.

We’re not very close to my family so I doubt if they have any idea, and if they do they’ve not said anything to us.

My wife’s mother lives overseas and they talk weekly on FaceTime. She has always been close to her mother. MIL knows that wife has boyfriends but doesn’t know that I am aware.

My wife's (male) cousin knows but, as far as we know, has never revealed that to other family members. Judging from a one-time conversation, her mother may suspect she fucks other men, but my wife has never confessed it.

~ Des

LawyerWouldbeCuckold wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 1:48 pm

I confess I am quite curious as to why anyone's sex life is the business of any of their family members, or their friends or neighbors....I mean, I"m not meaning to be critical/judgmental....I just find it ....IDK??

Is ANYTHING their business? Noooo, they just need gossip material!

My dear MIL gave birth to 8 kids from 4 different fathers while all the time married to the same man. So the apple didnt fall far from the tree.

My wife travels back to her hometown to visit and if Im not with her, its usually a lover she dragged a long just to piss her family off! Her mom doesnt say anything. The brothers rip their tunics in horror and disgust.

My wife's sister knows, for same reason as above. She doesnt condem. She envies my wife. She doesnt understand her need to have affairs if she is married to a successful and loyal man (me). She, on the other hand is divorced and can only fish losers.

My Daughter in law and her mom also know. When I am not at home, my wife always makes a point of inviting lovers over to a Sunday BBQ and makes sure DIL and her mother are present.

LawyerWouldbeCuckold wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 7:57 pm

Farmgirl wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 6:34 pm

LawyerWouldbeCuckold wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 6:27 pm

Farmgirl wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 05, 2022 6:10 pm

In some cases it's not their business, they just find out.

Ah, okay........

In our case, his mother found out through rumor around town. She asked my Number1 about us, and he assured her that he was fine. I dare say that is how most inlaws find out things. Why would you lie to them when they are concerned?

Hmmm....I don't know if I would lie, per se.....If I was in this lifestyle, and there was a rumor, and someone asked me about what they had heard, my response would be (with a smile) "I don't discuss details of my personal life, other than the fact that I'm married to Sheila."

We all have our ways of dealing with such things, I guess. I've never found it offputting for anyone to ask an honest question when they have a real need to know.

My wife's mother happened to see her one night when she was out on a date. My wife did see her mom. They talked about it next day. Despite being religious MIL was fine with it which surprised the hell out of me. Considering how much religion had been pounded into her growing up, my wife was even more surprised than I was. Mother in law had never been terribly warm towards me. Although she never said a word to me about it, my mother in law was much friendlier towards me after she found out.

My mother in law also has become far more warmer to me since she found out I’m a cuckold who wears women’s panties. Lately when we visit she and I have a one on one where she tells me to show her my panties. She told me the first time when I showed her, she said now she understands why her daughter has a boyfriend.

She has invited the them for the weekend several times and had no issue with them sleeping together in my wife’s former bedroom.

Pauline