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My question is in thinking about my erotica. I tend to write with a lover/bull being well-hung because I desire to see my own wife with a well-hung man.

But I'm wondering about real-world experiences from some of our amazing, expierienced hotwifves. Does size matter with a bull?

I'd love some examples of if/when it did or did not make a difference. Is size the primary factor in finding a lover/bull, or is there an x factor that is more important?

My wife wants size and stamina, I’m a one and done 30 second beta male. When she found there were better she went after this with no looking back.

Pauline

My wife prefers huge cock but has also had the experience of being very well fucked by men with average size cocks.

A bull needs to be able to get it up, KEEP it up, and have some stamina.

I'll take 5 inches that stays hard over 8 that can't stay hard ANY. DAY.

Hubby is the one who likes to watch me with a big one

My wife would say you don't need to be, although it certainly helps. Same answer for do you need a full head of hair. Or nice teeth. Or rich. Etc. etc.

I think that all the emphasis on a wife really needing a huge cock is not true. I believe that cuckold hubbies like the image of their wives being filled to max and stretched by her lover's 8" or god forbid 9" ultra thick dick, but for many women, my lovely wife included, a dick can be too big for her pleasure. Too big can be painful and too long and she can't cum all the way down on it to be able to grind her clit on him with him in her fully.

Her very best lover of almost ten years had a cock smaller than mine! But his loving enthusiasm and desire to please her did the trick. A nice romance developed and she spent some weekends away alone with him. But dick size had absolutely nothing to do with it.

As close as they got, it never threatened our marriage. Her lover was always respectful toward me and grateful that I allowed their affair. I will say that I experienced cuckold angst when she went to see him without me. It was more that I felt left out and wanted to be a part of it as was normally the case. Also I felt bad that I was unable to please her as easily as he could. He could give her beautiful orgasms orally, with his fingers, or with his dick in her. But he did not have a big dick at all!

Now she has a bull, not a lover, who fucks her about once a month. His cock is long and thick. Much bigger than mine. She used to get good orgasms riding his cock, but she is older now and feels some pain when he enters her. The size of his cock has now become a negative for us.


Also I think that reports of these really monster cocks are dubious. I guess such a thing exists, but quite rare. So when I start reading a cuckold account and the dick is represented as unbelievable, I move on because I prefer to believe the story. And for most wives, not the perfect cock for great fucking!

Just my POV. Any feedback from other cucks or wives. Inquiring minds you know!

nnjcpl2002 wrote: ↑

Sun Apr 10, 2022 11:57 am

I think that all the emphasis on a wife really needing a huge cock is not true. I believe that cuckold hubbies like the image of their wives being filled to max and stretched by her lover's 8" or god forbid 9" ultra thick dick, but for many women, my lovely wife included, a dick can be too big for her pleasure. Too big can be painful and too long and she can't cum all the way down on it to be able to grind her clit on him with him in her fully...Also I think that reports of these really monster cocks are dubious. I guess such a thing exists, but quite rare...And for most wives, not the perfect cock for great fucking!

Just my POV. Any feedback from other cucks or wives. Inquiring minds you know!

My wife would agree. She says that I am as much as she can handle, if I were any bigger she wouldn't let me near her. I'm only on the better end of 'average' and she says that I am the biggest she's ever seen (outside of a porn video). It's hot to think about her taking on a 'monster' cock, but it probably isn't going to happen, the closest she'll get is the big, realistic dildo. It's a good bit bigger than I am and it won't go all the way in, but it's hot to see her accommodating the girth of it.

Women are all built differently and want different things from sex. My wife has her best time when a very large cock is hitting something deep inside of her.

I'm care more about our mental connection and chemistry than I do about cock size. I want someone who is fun and playful when it comes to sex, and who respects me as a person. After that, there is a whole lot that can happen with a small cock, a large cock, even no cock at all (if he's good with his hands and tongue).

No

My wife says no. She is small to start with, only 5' tall, and says a guy with a big cock can hurt her if he gets too aggressive. She said she prefers girth over length any day, but endurance is very important. She once had a friend who was smaller than me, but she really liked fucking him because, as she put it, he went like a jackrabbit and would cum several times but never go soft.

Bulls are very long and thin, it helps them in entering the cow and in depositing their sperm into her.

If we're talking men, then No, they don't have to be hung. What is between their ears is much more important than what's between their legs.

DarrenZ wrote: ↑

Sat Apr 02, 2022 8:48 am

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Stay away from the livestock barns. Those things have huge sharp horns that will gore you.

While most of my wife’s bulls are smaller than me, she definitely isn’t interested in “small” regardless of how good they are with their hands and mouth. It’s just not a turn on for her. So above average to big for her 7-9.5”. And for me, if I’m watching, it isn’t very erotic to see her play with a bull with a small penis. I would rather watch football.

I'm gonna say physically size doesn't matter much as long as a pussy gets a good grip on a penis. But size does matter a lot psychologically, women get wet when they see a large manly cock.

MrGirthy wrote: ↑

Wed Apr 13, 2022 9:57 am

I'm gonna say physically size doesn't matter much as long as a pussy gets a good grip on a penis. But size does matter a lot psychologically, women get wet when they see a large manly cock.

More so, most men!! I wouldn't have thought so until I joined this site. And, you help make my point, another man fixated on dick size, trying to pass it off on women .
It would be so much nicer if men just admitted they are drawn to big dicks and leave it to us women to decide what we like. Oh, Oh, Oh!!! I forgot, we NEED men to explain to us what we like .
Even those of us that prefer size, don't need men to explain it to us . Shit, I need more of this! If it weren't so fuckin' silly it would be funnier.

Hope I didn't blow up too many men's fantasies.

BTW, the question was directed to ladies. Three VHWs answered with, NO.

Farmgirl… I think it’s you that fixated with this ! You seem obsessed in conveying your opinion constantly. Have you ever considered that husband and wife talk ?

Farmgirl wrote: ↑

Wed Apr 13, 2022 6:30 pm

MrGirthy wrote: ↑

Wed Apr 13, 2022 9:57 am

I'm gonna say physically size doesn't matter much as long as a pussy gets a good grip on a penis. But size does matter a lot psychologically, women get wet when they see a large manly cock.

More so, most men!! I wouldn't have thought so until I joined this site. And, you help make my point, another man fixated on dick size, trying to pass it off on women .
It would be so much nicer if men just admitted they are drawn to big dicks and leave it to us women to decide what we like. Oh, Oh, Oh!!! I forgot, we NEED men to explain to us what we like .
Even those of us that prefer size, don't need men to explain it to us . Shit, I need more of this! If it weren't so fuckin' silly it would be funnier.

Hope I didn't blow up too many men's fantasies.

BTW, the question was directed to ladies. Three VHWs answered with, NO.

Hey.. I didn't mean to hurt anyone's feelings! Happy Easter.

MrGirthy wrote: ↑

Wed Apr 13, 2022 11:56 pm

Hey.. I didn't mean to hurt anyone's feelings! Happy Easter.

Oh, you didn't hurt my feelings . And what I said wasn't directed at you personally (completely at least) . What you said just sparked a wonderful teaching moment.

I hope you and yours have a very joyful Easter!

NOVO7779 wrote: ↑

Wed Apr 13, 2022 8:50 pm

Farmgirl… I think it’s you that fixated with this ! You seem obsessed in conveying your opinion constantly. Have you ever considered that husband and wife talk ?

I hope you two talk, but from reading this forum, there is very little discussion between couples .

You are completely right about me conveying my opinion, it's what the forum is for. The OP asked what "ladies" thought about his question and yet you are upset because I gave my opinion.

All of the above are true. Some women like bigger cocks, some don’t care. This lifestyle is about fun and fantasy. It’s probably out of bounds to suggest that only men who are closeted gays think this way and “why not just admit it”. I’m not sure what a scientific study would reveal but there is no doubt that plenty of women enjoy riding a big one. And plenty of straight guys enjoy watching too!

I just asked my wife and she said no he doesn't have to be "hung" But, he needs to at least have an average to above avg size cock for her to be interested.

DarrenZ wrote: ↑

Sat Apr 02, 2022 8:48 am

My question is in thinking about my erotica. I tend to write with a lover/bull being well-hung because I desire to see my own wife with a well-hung man.

But I'm wondering about real-world experiences from some of our amazing, expierienced hotwifves. Does size matter with a bull?

I'd love some examples of if/when it did or did not make a difference. Is size the primary factor in finding a lover/bull, or is there an x factor that is more important?

When you write you are painting a picture. A play date isn't a picture it is an experience.

I have never once chosen a man based on his dick size. In fact I have never requested a dick pic and would prefer not to get any before meeting in person. I'm not choosing a dick, I'm choosing a man to play with.

It is much more important that he not be a one and done or need a long recovery time in between rounds. That his stamina and energy levels match mine. None of that has anything to do with size!!

I always say "know how to use what you've got" meaning learn what positions work best for your body combined with other people's bodies. Don't be a one trick pony and expect the same exact routine to work with every partner you have.

Oops got off on a tangent, sorry

My wife prefers men who are well-hung and who can reach her g-spot. She also likes men who have plenty of stamina and can bring her to orgasm multiple times before ejaculating.

The question is asked in a silly way with no details as " Well hunged" Is a very subjective thing.

Though of course, most hotwives dont care as long as the guy is in the average enough to feel subtantial.

But if the guy is too small/thin to be felt ( like really under average 3"-4") and limiting a lot what they can do, I would say most women would prefer an average guy down there over someone they barely feel. At least mine does or does not see the purpose to take a lover to have unsatisfying sex with him , as nice as the guy is, he is not there to be a boyfriend in priority, the sex part is most of their relationship so if its not good...

So yes, size matters, to an extent, no reason to go around this.
It's most women opinion ( it's funny actually because she was talking to a friend of her recently who had some kind of thing with a guy she accepted in her bed dressed, and when this guy rubbed against her, she told my wife that she pushed him away because she felt what seemed to be small dick )