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Cucks and SPH
Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2022 7:39 am
by subguy80
I know many cucks enjoy small penis humiliation, but I'm curious about how extensive it is. I personally have an average sized penis when I'm erect, but I'm often pretty tiny when I'm soft. I'm pretty sure the chastity cage that I've been wearing off and on for 5 years has contributed to that. For some reason, I find that I'm getting more and more turned on by SPH. My wife's lover and co-husband (we're poly) is very well endowed and he never misses an opportunity to tease/humiliate me about the size difference. With him, it's real. He gets a big ego boost. My wife, on the other hand, used say she felt silly playing along, but that has all recently changed. We're increasingly incorporating SPH into our sex play.
She surprised me recently by telling me she told a co-worker that my penis was too small to satisfy her and that she had to find a lover. This colleague, who has met me, was present when Aaron picked Sarah up at work and Sarah introduced him as her partner. I haven't seen this woman since then, but the idea of seeing her and knowing what she "knows" is a huge turn on to me. Do others have a similar kink? Any opinions on why some of us enjoy SPH?
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2022 7:47 am
by PANTIES
You know it’s small when you’re MIL sees your little friend and says to you, “I’ve never seen one this small.”
Pauline
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2022 8:30 am
by trecital
This topic is very relevant to me. My wife, with my full consent, has started 'outing me' to an old female work colleague. Without going in to detail, there is some animosity between me and this woman. Nothing major, but I know that she would love to 'score a point or two....or three' against me.
My wife has told her about her boyfriend of over 30 years, and some basics of what they do, and that I know about it, and encourage it.
My wife has already shown her friend a photo of me in panties

, that make me look quite small. I'm actually about average, or just below.
And, just today, my wife has shown me an old photo of me, naked on a beach, my dick shrunken after a dip in the cold water. She has 'photoshopped' the image to make me look even smaller, and says she will show her friend this one.
There was a couple of options in the poll that I didn't select, as they weren't quite appropriate. Number 3, I would say that I actually enjoy it most. And number 4....she doesn't have to tell me.... she's known that for ever. And she's more or less told her friend that too! V embarrassing.
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2022 9:12 am
by Cdncuck
Humiliation in general is a huge part of our relationship and SPH fits nicely into that. She's told several of her women friends about my little dick and even had me show some of them. Her boyfriends aren't involved in any of the verbal humiliation. I do suck them off and some of them fuck me if they want.
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2022 4:51 pm
by Alimpy4K
I'm really into it. And she has grown to love it too.
I really get off on knowing that some of her friends, her sister and her mother all know how sexually inadequate I am.
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Mon Sep 12, 2022 3:59 am
by LongTermHubby
My wife has told me I never satisfied her and has told others as well.
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Mon Sep 12, 2022 4:49 am
by subguy80
trecital wrote: ↑Sun Sep 11, 2022 8:30 am
And, just today, my wife has shown me an old photo of me, naked on a beach, my dick shrunken after a dip in the cold water. She has 'photoshopped' the image to make me look even smaller, and says she will show her friend this one.
That's very funny. We have some photos like that. Last year, when we were in Greece, I forced myself to get in the Aegean. The sea is so blue and enticing, but way too cold for this Florida boy. My dick had the same reaction and my wife took a photo of me as I got out of the water, shivering. She didn't have to photoshop the picture!! I'll have to ask her if she's shown those photos to anyone other than Aaron!
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Mon Sep 12, 2022 5:08 am
by Bent_n_Twisted
I'm on the better end of 'average' so I'm not particularly small, though as a 'grower' it can *appear* to be very small at times. I never thought that I was 'well-endowed' since all I had to compare against was porn stars, I was never in situations of seeing other guys' dicks in real life, but I never had any complaints.
Since I've certainly seen my share of porn with big dicks fucking, I have occasionally entertained the fantasy of seeing my wife fucked with an above-average dick, but she says that she can't handle anything bigger than I am. She says I'm the biggest she's ever had, and sometimes it hurts her if I go too hard and I'm not careful. She also says that if I were any bigger she wouldn't let me fuck her at all, so seeing her on a pornstar cock is probably right out.
I do experience some arousal at SPH even though I know I'm not really all that small, especially if she calls it 'Little Willy' when it's locked up and *can't* get big.
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Mon Sep 12, 2022 6:29 am
by hornedhubby
My dick is above average length and girth, but I still have this fetish. I believe it's better described as smaller penis humiliation, rather than small penis humiliation.
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Mon Sep 12, 2022 7:09 am
by Long Lurker 34
trecital wrote: ↑Sun Sep 11, 2022 8:30 am
This topic is very relevant to me. My wife, with my full consent, has started 'outing me' to an old female work colleague. Without going in to detail, there is some animosity between me and this woman. Nothing major, but I know that she would love to 'score a point or two....or three' against me.
My wife has told her about her boyfriend of over 30 years, and some basics of what they do, and that I know about it, and encourage it.
My wife has already shown her friend a photo of me in panties

, that make me look quite small. I'm actually about average, or just below.
And, just today, my wife has shown me an old photo of me, naked on a beach, my dick shrunken after a dip in the cold water. She has 'photoshopped' the image to make me look even smaller, and says she will show her friend this one.
There was a couple of options in the poll that I didn't select, as they weren't quite appropriate. Number 3, I would say that I actually enjoy it most. And number 4....she doesn't have to tell me.... she's known that for ever. And she's more or less told her friend that too! V embarrassing.
T - Ah yes, "my dick shrunken after a dip", the 'George' affect!

Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Mon Sep 12, 2022 11:41 am
by desertsub
When you have the smallest penis in the locker room all through high school there's never any doubt that you're small, even when your wife tells you different. Mine is thick, it will barely fit into a toilet paper roll when erect, but it will never stick out the other end. For years my wife said it was perfect for her. Shortly after we got married she made me start cleaning her pussy after cumming in it and she always had at least one really good orgasm and sometimes several before I finished licking her. I later figured out that she wanted me down there cleaning her because she needed more than she was getting from me from fucking. When she first started cuckolding me she would leave me tied to our bed naked and blindfolded while she went out with her girlfriends. She brought a couple of them home with her and showed them how she left me while she was out fucking other guys. Both times her friends made comments about how small I was but my wife never directly told me I was small.
After our kids all left home she decided to start cuckolding me again and she tracked down an ex boyfriend who was hung like a horse according to her. After she fucked him I started talking with her about my size, telling her I knew I was small and that I was actually turned on by SPH. She then admitted that sex with me was good but it wasn't great and she was always afraid of hurting my feelings.
She tried SPH with me but wasn't comfortable with it until she fucked a much younger guy who told us he had been a bull ever since high school. He had no problem making fun of my little dick while he fucked my wife. Afterwards my wife asked if I was okay with that and I told her that I was totally turned on by it. She then admitted that she had been very turned on too.
That was the turning point for her. After that she started to get into SPH, eventually telling me that I could no longer 'dirty' her pussy with my little dick and that only guys with a real cock would get to cum in her. She now has no problem telling me that my dick doesn't do it for her and she loves it when she is with a guy who makes fun of my dick and she encourages it. She has also told a couple of her best friends that I am small and has shown them a picture of my caged dick that she keeps on her cellphone.
She said she still likes to experience the intimacy of having me inside her and let's me put my dick in her occasionally (absolutely no cumming though) but that is happening less and less often. It is maybe once every 6 months or so. Last week she had me fuck her with her strap on that she pegs me with and said that she thinks that will be the only way I get to fuck her from now on. I'll see where this goes, but I may be pussy free from now on.
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Mon Sep 12, 2022 12:52 pm
by sherulestherooster
I’m slightly below average and my ex Hotwife told me that 5/6 men she had sex with were “about your size”. I saw a few of their cock photos so no real reason to doubt her. She had one bull that was MUCH bigger than me or her other partners. She pulled no punches, he was HUGE, I’m using all caps cause she actually really emphasized how big he was.
As a cuck, I for sure wanted her to experience different types of men and of course larger than what I can offer. It turned me on quite a bit knowing she experienced a bigger cock, and if he was a repeat partner, I would have enjoyed some mild teasing: “hey Paul, I’m in the mood for something a little bigger today, so I have a date with Jose tonight”. However she only had one date with him so it is possible he was too big for her. She didn’t give me a ton of details on that date, and it was her decision who to play with. She told me she was “too sore” for reclaim sex.
So it sorta did turn me on knowing she was with a very well hung man, but it wasn’t a big part of our dynamic.
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Mon Sep 12, 2022 3:28 pm
by vmb69
My wife on a girls night out after a few drinks told her friends. She told me they were all complaining about their husbands and how they thought I was the perfect husband. So she told them I was perfect except for my small dick, and told them how small. After the restaurant they all came home to finish the night, and they all said how they understood why my wife needed to find sex on the side and that they all approved now knowing how small I was.
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Mon Sep 12, 2022 7:16 pm
by defer2her
hornedhubby wrote: ↑Mon Sep 12, 2022 6:29 am
I believe it's better described as
smaller penis humiliation, rather than
small penis humiliation.
I like this and I totally agree. “Small” is a relative term based on perspective and experience.
My wife tells me I’m small and really gets a kick out of it when it’s shriveled. But, it’s just long enough, thick enough, and curved enough to get her off.
Nevertheless, she doesn’t fuck guys smaller than me. Even though she fucks me and teases my penis with her mouth, she likes to remind me of what my “pee pee” is too small to deserve. That includes cumming in or on her (or any woman) and fucking bareback. She also enjoys giving me CBT as punishment for my smaller size.
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2022 2:28 am
by trecital
subguy80 wrote: ↑Mon Sep 12, 2022 4:49 am
That's very funny. We have some photos like that. Last year, when we were in Greece, I forced myself to get in the Aegean. The sea is so blue and enticing, but way too cold for this Florida boy. My dick had the same reaction and my wife took a photo of me as I got out of the water, shivering. She didn't have to photoshop the picture!! I'll have to ask her if she's shown those photos to anyone other than Aaron!
Ha, glad you had the same 'problem'. Any chance that Sarah will show that photo to her female co worker?
The photo my wife has of me on the beach is embarrassing for two reasons. The first is that I'm naked (nudist beach) and playing in the sand....come on, you all like to do that, don't you? So I'm already looking like some 'big kid'.
Secondly, if you cropped my torso out of the pic you'd swear it was of a 10 year old or younger, pre puberty. I'm shaved 'down there'. And when shaved your ball sac shrinks too, especially when cold. Wife says I definitely look like a 10 year old, playing in the sand, oblivious to his little immature willy and balls.
God knows what her female friend will make of it when/if she sees it.

Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2022 4:57 am
by popcucky
My cock is average size but quite small when cold or relaxed. My wife has just renamed it the acorn. She has told some friends about my acorn and I`m pretty sure she showed a very good friend of hers a quick live shot of me in my cage. I`d not long had a shower and was in the living room naked. My wife was face timing her friend in the UK, we live in Spain. I noticed the I-pad was being held up a bit to high and aimed at me. I know you can flip the screen. Later I asked my wife if she had been talking about me being a cuckold and had show her friend Karen my caged acorn. She denied it and promised me she had not. I said I did not mind at all, and don`t forget you told me all about you and her talking about her husband having a little dick.
So I told her I rather liked the idea of her knowing I was a cuckold and you have had lovers. My wife still denied it. But now knows she can spill the beans if she has not already.
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2022 10:45 am
by desertsub
vmb69 wrote: ↑Mon Sep 12, 2022 3:28 pm
My wife on a girls night out after a few drinks told her friends. She told me they were all complaining about their husbands and how they thought I was the perfect husband. So she told them I was perfect except for my small dick, and told them how small. After the restaurant they all came home to finish the night, and they all said how they understood why my wife needed to find sex on the side and that they all approved now knowing how small I was.
My wife did something very similar. She started going out with her girlfriends and fucking other guys. She told them that I had a small dick, and that I knew she was fucking other guys and I was tied to our bed at home while she was out with them. On two different nights she brought two different friends home from the bar with her to show them. I always got hard as soon as I heard her come in the house, so both times her friends got to see me tied naked and blindfolded with my little hard as a rock erection. They both agreed that I was small and talked about how lucky she was that I was okay with her fucking other guys.

Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2022 11:35 pm
by Littlewilly1970
My ex wife was very open about my small cock, I’m only 3in fully hard and just under an inch soft and it’s very skinny too.
All her friends and most of her colleagues both male and female knew as did my mother in law who had seen how tiny I was and supported her daughter cuckolded me because of this reason. A few of my ex wife’s friends would tease me about my size and that my ex needed satisfying by others.
SPH was a massive part of our cuckolding as my ex loved to have her bulls compare with me and humilite me too.
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2022 1:57 pm
by humiliation
I used to be a proud 6.5 and pretty thick until diabetes slowly rendered me impotent. I had a really nicely shaped hard cock that could last for almost an hour and cum multiple times a night. Now, when I can get 3/4 hard, for just a short time, I'm maybe 5-5.5 and not thick at all.
So, we can save money on cages! My wife has mentioned my shortcomings to one of her bulls during a session while I was videotaping it and he ran with it asking her if she needed a real man and getting her to admit that he was bigger and harder than me.
That's the ultimate humiliation as far as I'm concerned, having the bull beam with pride knowing that he's the real man in the room.
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2022 2:05 pm
by Alimpy4K
I remember the first time (To my knowledge) that anyone knew anything about our sex life. Friends were over for drinks and she said in front of me and everyone else that I could only get her off with my tongue.
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2022 2:20 pm
by cukgrl69
I'm into sort of a version of SPH. I have an almost 8" cock, but I love that my wife tells me its too small for her. We both get off talking about how she's too stretched out for me to be able to satisfy her and also for her pussy to be able to make me cum. I also enjoy SPH porn, but I also like fisting and large dildo porn.
Something we haven't done yet, but I would really like to when we are in the sex club, is have men with small penises masturbate while watching her with a BBC. I would actually even like to have someone with a small penis try to fuck her after a BBC has finished with her and for both of us to talk to him about how he would never be able to satisfy a woman like her and then for her to tell him to take it out because its useless.
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2022 2:54 pm
by vmb69
Seems my wife had a discussion with her OB on how small I am. She told me this morning after her appointment
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2022 12:02 pm
by brightfun22
My wife doesn’t exactly do direct sph but she will very casually talk about how small I am to people. I have heard her make comments about it to her friends and even to her sisters and her mom.
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2022 5:13 am
by subguy80
desertsub wrote: ↑Tue Sep 13, 2022 10:45 am
On two different nights she brought two different friends home from the bar with her to show them. I always got hard as soon as I heard her come in the house, so both times her friends got to see me tied naked and blindfolded with my little hard as a rock erection. They both agreed that I was small and talked about how lucky she was that I was okay with her fucking other guys. :oops:
What I find especially erotic about this experience is that you had an erection! There is something so hot envisioning you tied to your bed, blind-folded and your penis and nakedness exposed for all to see. There's something so erotic about just "putting it out there" and saying, "this is me, I'm small and it turns me on to show you!" The hotness is only made better by the fact these gals knew you let your wife get satisfaction with other men. That is a great example of the attractiveness of this kink. So much of it is mental!
Re: Cucks and SPH
Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2022 5:43 am
by armyguyot1
Welcome to the forum brightfun22.