Our Hotwives

Hoping only people in the lifestyle or who have experience answer the poll

I would say this is closest:

"The hotwife treats her cuckold as a complete beta and sees him more as her best friend / companion than anything else. Her emotions for him are not very intense, and she rarely has sex with him, if at all."

BUT - I would modify that in so far as Dottie does have strong emotions for me. Yes she sees me as a beta. Yes I am far more a companion and best friend than a lover. Yes, she does not have sex with me. However, I am closely involved in her sex life and her emotional attachment to me is stronger that her emotional attachment to any of her bulls. Her bulls give her hot sex. I give her love and companionship.

Loserpaul wrote: ↑

Wed Jan 11, 2023 12:22 am

I would say this is closest:

"The hotwife treats her cuckold as a complete beta and sees him more as her best friend / companion than anything else. Her emotions for him are not very intense, and she rarely has sex with him, if at all."

BUT - I would modify that in so far as Dottie does have strong emotions for me. Yes she sees me as a beta. Yes I am far more a companion and best friend than a lover. Yes, she does not have sex with me. However, I am closely involved in her sex life and her emotional attachment to me is stronger that her emotional attachment to any of her bulls. Her bulls give her hot sex. I give her love and companionship.

This is exactly the same type of relationship my wife and I have. She loves fucking other guys and she rarely let's me have intercourse with her and I am strictly forbidden the privilege of cumming inside her. Only her lovers get to do that. She says that her lovers are there to give her great sex but I am her best friend and her rock, even though I am her submissive cuckold. She has no interest in having anything emotional between her and her lovers and if she thinks one is getting feelings for her she breaks it of. She assures me all the time that I am the only one she loves.

desertsub wrote: ↑

Tue Jan 17, 2023 12:36 pm

Loserpaul wrote: ↑

Wed Jan 11, 2023 12:22 am

I would say this is closest:


BUT - I would modify that ...... Yes I am far more a companion and best friend than a lover. .... However, I am closely involved in her sex life and her emotional attachment to me is stronger that her emotional attachment to any of her bulls. Her bulls give her hot sex. I give her love and companionship.

This is exactly the same type of relationship my wife and I have. She loves fucking other guys and she rarely let's me have intercourse with her. Only her lovers get to do that. She says that her lovers are there to give her great sex but I am her best friend and her rock, even though I am her submissive cuckold. She has no interest in having anything emotional between her and her lovers and if she thinks one is getting feelings for her she breaks it of. She assures me all the time that I am the only one she loves.

I checked the second option in the Poll, but believe I am a hybrid of the second and third option, and I have quotes parts of LoserPaul and Desertsub, My wife and I are always together except when I am hunting but she is back at the camp waiting for me. When we became a Hotwife and Cuckold couple in 2003 (married 11 years prior) she stopped cheating on me and the deal was I would always be with her whenever she fucked someone else.

When we go anywhere and one of us walks in the door first people look over our shoulder to see how far the other one is behind them, usually just feet away. In the last five years other then two blow jobs and a handful of hand jobs, as for PIV sex she has had many more lovers in that time frame then I have had PIV sex. To her PIV sex with me is "not worth it" "it's extremely disappointing" and "she doesn't want to see me that way" as a bad lover. Sex with my wife for me has come down to just being her fluffer and pussy cleaner and an occasional hand job while she tells me how great her lovers made her feel. For everything else in her life I am her soulmate, the lover of her soul, her everything, her Mcgiver I can fix or build anything, and her security.

I chose the first of those options. Each of us considers our marriage to be on a solid foundation - and even better now that she has other men to date for recreational sex.

But there is a caveat. We have learned that the sex for her is better with most other men to who she isn't married. We're reasonably sure that's true with all wives who have sex outside their marriage. My wife has a couple of running jokes: "If it wasn't hotter with someone else, there would be no point to doing it at all." And another, "I do it for both of us ... but mainly for me." I still laugh when I hear that but also recognize the obvious truth in that.

~ Des

My wife and I never have any type of sex, when I asked her FWB to become the man her life and he accepted I was told to move into the extra bedroom as the master bedroom was for her and him. The last time I had sex with her was my birthday January 2019.

Pauline

This was the same time I decided I wanted to be feminine and I started wearing women’s panties everyday. In addition I started using estrogen.

Me and my wife never have sex mainly because I have suck a small cock. It's only about 2" when erect which is why she keeps it in chastity. I do sleep in the same bed with my wife because I am there to satisfy her orally when her BF isn't around. Of course when her BF comes over the bedroom becomes hers and her boy friends and I sleep in the guest room.

I took the second option, with the caveat to alter the line below:
"Emotionally she loves him just as much and her emotions towards her cuckold haven't changed."

Well she would actually love them more. That is, she loved me; but she was "in love" with them. We both liked it that way.

Troilus

submissivedanny wrote: ↑

Thu Jan 19, 2023 1:15 am

Me and my wife never have sex mainly because I have suck a small cock. It's only about 2" when erect which is why she keeps it in chastity. I do sleep in the same bed with my wife because I am there to satisfy her orally when her BF isn't around. Of course when her BF comes over the bedroom becomes hers and her boy friends and I sleep in the guest room.

You're pretty much fucked with that small a dick, so I understand your feelings about other men banging your wife. Like you, I also sleep in the guest room when her guys are staying overnight at our place. We have learned that sex is better for her and most of her men if I'm not in the same room.

Glad you can satisfy her orally. Keep it up, guy. I would rate you as a very good husband.

I think the question is loaded with the assumption that hotwives feels a particular emotion towards her cuckold and asking us to guess which feeling is that. I suppose feeling vary. Different hotwives have different feelings. Also, I wont be surprised if feelings change through time.

I responded based on my feelings, no4.