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Last night while KK and I were playing around, she decided that she wanted to watch me cum, vs. letting me penetrate her. Of course I humored her...

How many of you masturbate while your wife watches? Does she provide stimulation for the session, showing, maybe masturbating too? Or is masturbation either a private thing, or forbidden?

Personally, I love being watched. It makes the stroking session so much hotter to have an audience, especially an enthusiastic woman who knows what she likes to see, and is confident enough to talk about it.

For last night's session, KK fed me 20mg of generic Cialis, and had me strap up my cock and balls before the show. I also had my Lovenese Hush plug in place, under her control. She had me naked, seated on a towel, then handed me the bottle of coconut oil to get lubed up. I managed to slowly stroke for KK, jacking my oiled cock, fondling my slick balls, until she told me to cum for her. She stayed fully clothed the entire time, commanding the action. It was very hot...

The poll is pretty self explanatory - share your masturbation thoughts and experiences...

My wife doesn't allow me to masturbate myself at all and aside from hygiene purposes she really doesn't like me touching myself. She says that my dick is her property and I need to leave it alone. She once caught me masturbating to internet porn and slapped me several times, then locked me in chastity for two months straight. She says I have to ask her permission if I want to play with myself but when I do ask she usually says no. I have found that she will usually let me masturbate if I am on top of her riding her strap on though. She says she loves watching me make my little dick squirt on her belly when her cock is deep in my ass. Of course, I have to lick it up afterwards.

Great, great topic, jw_kk! For couples looking to explore their sexual boundaries, this is a fun way to start. This is sharing a very private act. Masturbating in front of your spouse makes you feel very vulnerable.

For your survey, I checked all but two (i.e., repulsed, self-conscious). It really depends on whatever phase we're going through. Our sexual dynamic shifts over time, depending on how we're playing or with whom. Not sure which is cause and which is effect, but it does change. So depending on when you ask us, we'd have different answers.

Sometimes I'm expressly forbidden from masturbating. If that's the understanding at the time then it would be a real violation of her trust if I jacked off behind her back. We don't compartmentalize our kinks to the bedroom, so if I'm not supposed to masturbate then that's part of our marriage.

Our normal dynamic (LOL at "normal") is that I ask permission to masturbate to completion. I don't request it that often, and she consents maybe half the time. She doesn't mind if I edge myself (in fact, she prefers that I keep myself edged when possible), but if I accidentally spurt then I confess immediately. If I orgasmed and didn't tell her then I might as well be having an affair. That's a bit of overstatement, but not by much.

When I travel for work we'll set expectations about whether I can masturbate or not. Usually not, and especially (ironically) if she has a date planned. Though sometimes she likes for me to finish while she tells me about it over the phone. That also helps me not to be a 10 second man when I get home (but no guarantees!). More often than not she'll tell me a few things about her date while I edge, but then demand, "And don't you dare cum before you get home. I'll know!" Then we'll trade I love you's and good-byes and I'll have a restless night's sleep.

We've had stretches of time when she was getting a lot more action than she was able to give me. Denial is part of our marriage, but it can get out of hand if she's trying to balance her libido with her other time commitments. When that happens she loosens her masturbation prohibition, but only in front of her. Her general guideline is once per week, but she also bends that rule when she's getting laid significantly more often than she's able to play with me.

She works from home so I've literally scheduled masturbation sessions on her email calendar. The CHPS means Cuckold Hubby Pity Session. The first time I scheduled it she asked why it said "Chips" like the old TV show. At the appointed time I'll knock on her office to see if it's still a good time. Then I'll walk in and stand in front of her desk, pull down my pants, and jack myself as quickly as I can to completion. Let me be clear, this is not so that she can entertain me or we can have sexy time. This a maintenance routine, like I'm brushing my teeth. There have been times when she hasn't even looked up from her computer. If she's not too busy she'll let me come around and stand beside her so that she can cup my balls or run her fingers across my ass or just put an arm around me while she works. Same deal. I finish as quickly as I can, thank her, and leave.

I'll point out that "masturbation" can mean that she slaps my balls until I cum, no touching myself. If she's in that sort of mood then it's that or nothing. Since I don't always know if that's going to happen I only ask permission to masturbate if I really need to orgasm. If I'm just kinda horny then ball slapping is more punishment than reward, and doesn't necessarily end in an orgasm. Lesson learned.

These days when she gets home from a date she lets me eat her creampie and have her sloppy seconds. But she's often been too tired or too sore, especially after marathon sessions with new guys. As much as she loves me to eat her out as a way to reconnect, she also finds it comforting when I masturbate. She says that it's reassuring. She'll get home and climb into bed and cuddle up against me, usually throwing her leg across mine to use me as her body pillow. Maybe she'll tell me a little about her night as I pull my boxers down and stroke myself. Usually I'll hear her softly snoring before I can finish on my stomach. My beautiful wife lying next to me and peacefully sleeping, another man's semen still leaking into her panties. In the quiet darkness I'm stroking myself wondering about all of the things I'll never know. That feeling is sublime.

My answer to all except the last one is "sometimes".

It's much hotter for me if my wife is watching.
Come to think of it, it's hotter if anyone is watching!

She knows I do solo, and that I also generally fantasize about her as the primary focus.

We often do it together, when needing a "quickie" that has us both achieving climax together, for a result that does not require any real cleanup effort.

My masturbation has been controlled by her since January 2018, as I am locked in a Chastity cage. On occasion she will let me out of my cage for a week at a time. If so I am only allowed to jerk off to photos or videos of her. If I jerk off to something else I am immediately locked back up. There have been times she will remove my cage and talk about past lovers while watching me jerk off. Then she will tell me to go wash up and put my cage back.

I have had the need to cum everyday since I was a teenager whether it is fucking or masturbating. With my EX wife of 36 years she almost always watched or helped, we had all kinds of ways for me to masturbate and get off. I think my favorite was when she had the sex toy parties with 6 or more women to demonstrate and sell sex toys. Lots of the times she would have me at the party as her naked assistant. I would show how the men's toys worked by actually using them in front of the crowd. Best was being the entertainment during the break where I got to masturbate in front of all of them. Those nights I usually would cum 3 or more times. We also were swingers, I loved watching her being fucked and would rather masturbate watching than fuck, when I did she would watch me jerking off while someone had their cock in her. With my new wife of 3 years we started our marriage with her as a Hot-wife with after the wedding we had sex then went out, while out she was talking with a guy that jokingly said it would be fun to have sex with a bride, I told him I agreed and asked him if he wanted to fuck mine while I watched and masturbated. My bride watched me jerking off the whole time the guy was fucking her. After that she watches me masturbating all the time and she has sex with guys so I can watch and jerk off fairly often.

We found out recently that my wife gets really turned on by watching me play with myself. To be fair it really turns me on watching her play with herself, so that’s kinda become part of sex for us. In fact, we’re planning a “no touching each other” night where we just please ourselves to the sight of each other.

It's been three years since I've fucked my wife, as she became more and more involved as a hotwife our sex life changed. First the amount of times per week decreased to once, to once a month, to a blowjob a month to a HJ a month. I JO when I clean her of her lovers cum which I LOVE.
If I JO in bed she'll play with my nipples and tell me how she's missing her lovers BIG cock, I cum quickly.

I'm almost always jerking off when other men are fucking my wife. On the occasions she and the other man don't mind me being in the same room, both have seen me excitingly masturbating.

At times, I have felt some embarrassment that I couldn't resist masturbating, but neither my wife nor the other man has ever demeaned me for doing that. Watching another man's cock inside my wife is overwhelming for me, so it's difficult for me to not masturbate at those times. She and most guys prefer I not be in the same room, so my watching is mostly confined to peering around our bedroom door from our darkened hallway. We have surveillance cams in our bedroom that allow me to spy on their sexual unions, but I don't use those as often as I once did.

ny wife just goes about her business while I jerk off, sometimes she reminds me of how tiny and useless my dick is

More often than not, when my wife gets home after a date, I’ll lick her and then masturbate while she watches. It’s actually incredible to lay in bed pleasuring myself while my wife fills me on on her date, occasionally reaching over to tickle my balls. Frankly, I’m usually so worked up by this time that if I wasn’t in control of stroking my dick, I’d never get through my wife’s description of she and her date’s first drink without blowing my load and so it allows me to draw out the moment.

Most every morning we have a mutual session while having coffee. Yesterday morning she said "you can cum", so I opened my robe a bit more so it would stay somewhat clean. After I had cum, she started laughing and said "that really helped"! It had been my turn to wear the eye mask and when I shot off I covered my robe with my mess and did not see it until I had removed the mask. This morning she had the mask on, and after cumming she told me "you will have to wait today". I asked her what was on her mind when she came and her reply was, "the morning news talked about South Dakota and it made me think of our bike trips to Sturgis". Life is good

I don't masturbate often anymore, since my wife usually takes care of me if I am horny.
She doesn't forbid me from masturbating, and sometimes if she goes to bed early, and something turns me on, I take care of myself, since it is hard to fall asleep with a throbbing erection.
I have done it a few times in front of my wife too. She likes to watch me spurt cum on myself. She says it is hot.

I don't masturbate while she is out on dates. Having sex with her right after she has been with someone else feels amazing, and is way better than jerking it solo, so I wait for her to come home.

She doesn't really watch, but she is often present.

At the moment I usually get sex on the 5th, 15th and 25th.

All other times Im on my own. I usually masturbate once or twice between every sex session.Usually happens just before bed... I kneel by the bedside and wank into my 'wanky hanky', sometimes sniffing a pair of her panties I find in the laundry. Occasionally she will let me masturbate in front of her while looking up her dress.

Yes, she liked to watch.
She knew also that I masturbated when aroused by watching and working on the pictures I made of her and her black lover.
Once she said it was waste and ordered me to let drop the cum in a very little glass as evidence.
What happened? Every day, when she brought my medicines, she would take the glass and emptied into her mouth to swallow.
The first time she said: "I want to taste your enjoyment you have by watching your wife on these photographs."

I masturbate a lot when I’m alone. Sometimes I do it when we’re in bed together. She usually doesn’t participate, but will sometimes get in a mood to talk to me while I’m doing it or let me look at her body. That’s pretty fun for me.

I jack off furiously while she gets pounded. She looks right at me. She loves how weak I look with my tightey whiteys pulled down stroking it while her muscular white bull pleasures her with his throbbing meat stick.

What we do is that my tells me about the sexual activities she enjoyed with her lover and I tell her that I will masturbate while thinking about it. It feels great to admit that to her.

Based on frequency, masturbation, either alone or with the involvement of my wife, is my major sexual activity. We do not have intercourse, but when she sleeps with me, I will regularly wake up with morning wood and be horny. I'll get my body next to hers and start to jack off. She may keep sleeping beside me, but more often she'll join in by playing with my balls or pinching my nipples. If she is really into it, she might tell me a dirty story that she knows will drive me to quick orgasm as I stroke.

However, sometimes we three will use my orgasm in a very cuckold way. Sometimes, Aaron or Sarah will tell me, "I want to watch you masturbate." That's a very different feeling. They are usually clothed and they want me undressed as they watch. It's like masturbating in front of an audience. It's sort of embarrassing and certainly "sub." Still, that doesn't stop me from shooting my load, although it sometimes takes longer because they are watching. It's also a way that Aaron can control my dick. Aaron knows that after I cum, he will take her off to bed to fuck her and I will have trouble getting an erection again while I listen to them.

At times, my wife masturbates me as she narrates her encounters with other guys. I love that. She often laughs at times I ejaculate and expresses her appreciation that I get so much enjoyment from other men fucking her. Fortunately, I'm more often up to fucking her when she is telling me her adventures - but if I cannot get it up, she jerks me off.