Cuckold's having to use condoms with their wife
Cuckold's having to use condoms with their wife
I made a thread about this before but it seems to have disappeared(was the forum purged of old topics?), so I'd like to start up a new thread about this particular form of denial and humiliation. How many of you fellow cucks agreed to or are forced to use condoms with their wives while her lover(s) go bare and are able to cum inside of her? I find this to be extremely hot in particular, this combined with nudity denial for a period of time would drive me crazy!
For those that do this, how did the conversation go? What's the ritual like? Does she tease you about it? Was it you or her that made the decision to use condoms? Even though obviously most of us would miss feeling her bare but I think it's a natural conclusion for a cuckold, along with piv denial for periods of time(I'm not into permanent denial)
Imagine the humiliation of walking into a store with your wife and you go buy a pack or two of condoms, and she teases you all the way through that her lover/bf doesn't have to wear these and it's for you, the cuck hubby. The most pussy action you'll ever get is with a condom and maybe the real thing for special occasions like birthdays/anniversaries etc
Share your stories and experiences!
For those that do this, how did the conversation go? What's the ritual like? Does she tease you about it? Was it you or her that made the decision to use condoms? Even though obviously most of us would miss feeling her bare but I think it's a natural conclusion for a cuckold, along with piv denial for periods of time(I'm not into permanent denial)
Imagine the humiliation of walking into a store with your wife and you go buy a pack or two of condoms, and she teases you all the way through that her lover/bf doesn't have to wear these and it's for you, the cuck hubby. The most pussy action you'll ever get is with a condom and maybe the real thing for special occasions like birthdays/anniversaries etc
Share your stories and experiences!
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Re: Cuckold's having to use condoms with their wife
I never have to wear a condom with my wife because my little dick is not allowed in her at all.
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The wife may require husband to wear condoms every time for stamina.
Use delay spray then roll on two condoms and he may actually last for a good two to three minutes. Ha Ha
Use delay spray then roll on two condoms and he may actually last for a good two to three minutes. Ha Ha
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Re: Cuckold's having to use condoms with their wife
My wife always has me wear a condom for penetration. In fact she makes me wear a condom whenever we engage in any activity or when she has me jerk off in front of her. She told me to wear a condom if I ever wanted to be allowed to cum because it ensured it was never as good an orgasm as it could be. I am not allowed to cum in her even with a condom. She only lets me have penetration sex post her seeing a lover and makes it clear it is for her and not for me. If she allows me to cum I have to pull out of her and finish in the condom.
She only has a couple of lovers who she sees rarely who go bare back and yes, she tells me how much she loves feeling their cum in her. Her other more casual meets all wear condoms. She does tell me how she loves to taste cum and swallow for other guys and when she sucks me with a condom will tell me how much she likes their taste and always swallows.
As a submissive I enjoy the denial. Different thread but she recently brought home a used condom from her date. This isn't unusual as she likes to taunt me with the amount of cum another guy had for her but as she uncaged me, this time, she told me to put the condom on if I wanted to fuck her. I didn't hesitate but was definitely a first for me.
She only has a couple of lovers who she sees rarely who go bare back and yes, she tells me how much she loves feeling their cum in her. Her other more casual meets all wear condoms. She does tell me how she loves to taste cum and swallow for other guys and when she sucks me with a condom will tell me how much she likes their taste and always swallows.
As a submissive I enjoy the denial. Different thread but she recently brought home a used condom from her date. This isn't unusual as she likes to taunt me with the amount of cum another guy had for her but as she uncaged me, this time, she told me to put the condom on if I wanted to fuck her. I didn't hesitate but was definitely a first for me.
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For me it started when my then girlfriend and I were both about 22 or 23 years old and she was well on her way to letting her friend who then became regular lover for years become boyfriend. She hinted for a while that they both wanted to be a couple and not hide their relationship anymore.
Anyhow, she continued her normal routine of no sex with me before her outings with him just like she had for years with every other man but she continued adding days. Eventually she started telling me that she wanted to see what it felt like to be more his sexualy and while still going bareback with her I was pulling out and reserving her pussy only for him to cum inside. She would tease me about it and in no time she began telling me how she liked the dynamic but wanted her pussy to feel more his and told me that she wanted me to begin using condoms.
This is where things got crazy. I refused to wear condoms with my girlfriend and she told me that I had the choice to wrap it up or completely give it up. So i had to go and buy condoms, probably a 12 pack or something like that and carried on wearing condoms after never wearing on in over 7 years.
One night she went out on a date with him looking very very sexy and when she came home at night,v even with a condom I naturally wanted a piece of her. I waited in bed as she started settling in and taking off her clothes just anxiously waiting to reclaim her with tons of foreplay and give her my wrapped up dick.
We kissed and kissed and I played with her nipples, clit, had her dripping wet (probably his also semen now that i think about it but she was definitely horny either way) I reached over the night stand to grab a condom once I saw she was nice and horny.
I had that condom out and ready on my cock before she could even realize it and that is when I got the shocking news. That night was the night that she told me that officially her pussy belonged to her man and that I would no longer be going inside of her. Everything for me except penetration. She told me he was getting 100% of her. Bareback, finishing inside of her, whenever he wants wherever he wants. She told me that the last time we had sex was officially my last time going inside her and hoped that i enjoyed it because she did not know when I would be getting her again.
We didn't even get to finish the box of condoms. She cut me off for 8 entire months while she would go to his house every single night for 6-7 hours after work, literally every single day. I set my mind to slipping myself in and getting some but you know what? No matter how much foreplay, no matter how much I teased her and got her all worked up dry humping me... I never succeeded in entering her. She literally fought me off to not fuck her and insisted her pussy fully belonged to her boyfriend and that i had to accept that and stop trying to go inside. I never gave up and still tried during the entire months but didn't get an ounce of pussy.
Hottest and most agonizing time of my life. As much as i hated it, I loved it!
Anyhow, she continued her normal routine of no sex with me before her outings with him just like she had for years with every other man but she continued adding days. Eventually she started telling me that she wanted to see what it felt like to be more his sexualy and while still going bareback with her I was pulling out and reserving her pussy only for him to cum inside. She would tease me about it and in no time she began telling me how she liked the dynamic but wanted her pussy to feel more his and told me that she wanted me to begin using condoms.
This is where things got crazy. I refused to wear condoms with my girlfriend and she told me that I had the choice to wrap it up or completely give it up. So i had to go and buy condoms, probably a 12 pack or something like that and carried on wearing condoms after never wearing on in over 7 years.
One night she went out on a date with him looking very very sexy and when she came home at night,v even with a condom I naturally wanted a piece of her. I waited in bed as she started settling in and taking off her clothes just anxiously waiting to reclaim her with tons of foreplay and give her my wrapped up dick.
We kissed and kissed and I played with her nipples, clit, had her dripping wet (probably his also semen now that i think about it but she was definitely horny either way) I reached over the night stand to grab a condom once I saw she was nice and horny.
I had that condom out and ready on my cock before she could even realize it and that is when I got the shocking news. That night was the night that she told me that officially her pussy belonged to her man and that I would no longer be going inside of her. Everything for me except penetration. She told me he was getting 100% of her. Bareback, finishing inside of her, whenever he wants wherever he wants. She told me that the last time we had sex was officially my last time going inside her and hoped that i enjoyed it because she did not know when I would be getting her again.
We didn't even get to finish the box of condoms. She cut me off for 8 entire months while she would go to his house every single night for 6-7 hours after work, literally every single day. I set my mind to slipping myself in and getting some but you know what? No matter how much foreplay, no matter how much I teased her and got her all worked up dry humping me... I never succeeded in entering her. She literally fought me off to not fuck her and insisted her pussy fully belonged to her boyfriend and that i had to accept that and stop trying to go inside. I never gave up and still tried during the entire months but didn't get an ounce of pussy.
Hottest and most agonizing time of my life. As much as i hated it, I loved it!
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When I asked my wife one night since we have been married who have you meet you would let them in your panties. When she told me who, I told her to go for it. It took her 3 months. we discussed having a baby as I wanted a boy and she wanted a girl. We discussed this with her lover and he was completely on board with impregnated her.
So it was decided she would stop using BC pills and when we would have sex I would use a condom. So for two years I used condoms while he had her bareback. After two years it ended and she when back on BC pills. My wife was in love with the first lover and really wanted his babies. It was not a fantasy this is what the three of want d.
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So it was decided she would stop using BC pills and when we would have sex I would use a condom. So for two years I used condoms while he had her bareback. After two years it ended and she when back on BC pills. My wife was in love with the first lover and really wanted his babies. It was not a fantasy this is what the three of want d.
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Early in our relationship with our former Bull he demanded I use condoms all the time. Yes, we could have lied and told him that I was wearing them when he wasn't there. But my wife and I have no interest in playing make believe. The way we looked at it, if we were going to submit ourselves to him then it would only be exciting if we did it for real. He was very serious about it. He wanted exclusive rights to unprotected sex with her. She and I talked about it for days, then met him for dinner, held hands, and committed to it. At the time we expected our relationship to be permanent, and we thought we were agreeing to give up bareback sex with each other forever.
I will say that every single time I opened a condom wrapper it was hot as fuck. It became our new normal. Eating her sloppy creampie, then wrapping my dick in a condom to fuck her myself. Even when we weren't being kinky, like making love after a nice family event or an early Saturday morning quickie, I took out a condom and put it on my dick before going inside. The denial was intense, and deepened our love and lust for each other. There were times that the condom was so frustrating that after eating her to orgasm (always) I asked to jack myself to completion next to her pussy or to place my fleshlight under her asscrack so that I could fuck the fleshlight bareback.
My wife likes bareback sex as much as I do, and quite possibly more than I do. So wearing a condom made her more anxious to see our Bull again, even if she had just fucked him. Every time we'd have protected sex she'd be desperate to go back and see him again.
I will say that every single time I opened a condom wrapper it was hot as fuck. It became our new normal. Eating her sloppy creampie, then wrapping my dick in a condom to fuck her myself. Even when we weren't being kinky, like making love after a nice family event or an early Saturday morning quickie, I took out a condom and put it on my dick before going inside. The denial was intense, and deepened our love and lust for each other. There were times that the condom was so frustrating that after eating her to orgasm (always) I asked to jack myself to completion next to her pussy or to place my fleshlight under her asscrack so that I could fuck the fleshlight bareback.
My wife likes bareback sex as much as I do, and quite possibly more than I do. So wearing a condom made her more anxious to see our Bull again, even if she had just fucked him. Every time we'd have protected sex she'd be desperate to go back and see him again.
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Re: Cuckold's having to use condoms with their wife
Wow, your arrangement is a huge turn on for me! You're living the dream my friend, it's extremely hot when couples do this and they still use condoms even outside of kink or seeing a bull. Are you two currently without a bull? I think the only thing that would it even more hot is if she denied letting you see her nude until she sees her bull haha.iloanmywife wrote: ↑Tue Jun 27, 2023 3:10 pmEarly in our relationship with our former Bull he de condoms. Yes, we could have lied and told him that I was wearing them when he wasn't there. But my wife and I have no interest in playing make believe. The way we looked at it, if we were going to submit ourselves to him then it would only be exciting if we did it for real. He was very serious about it. He wanted exclusive rights to unprotected sex with her. She and I talked about it for days, then met him for dinner, held hands, and committed to it. At the time we expected our relationship to be permanent, and we thought we were agreeing to give up bareback sex with each other forever.
I will say that every single time I opened a condom wrapper it was hot as fuck. It became our new normal. Eating her sloppy creampie, then wrapping my dick in a condom to fuck her myself. Even when we weren't being kinky, like making love after a nice family event or an early Saturday morning quickie, I took out a condom and put it on my dick before going inside. The denial was intense, and deepened our love and lust for each other. There were times that the condom was so frustrating that after eating her to orgasm (always) I asked to jack myself to completion next to her pussy or to place my fleshlight under her asscrack so that I could fuck the fleshlight bareback.
My wife likes bareback sex as much as I do, and quite possibly more than I do. So wearing a condom made her more anxious to see our Bull again, even if she had just fucked him. Every time we'd have protected sex she'd be desperate to go back and see him again.
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My wife currently has a steady boyfriend. There are two other men in the extended rotation. One guy is more of a friend who has casual sex with my wife, the other is a Bull we've known for years but who has since married and we only see infrequently.Scias wrote: ↑Tue Jun 27, 2023 7:55 pmWow, your arrangement is a huge turn on for me! You're living the dream my friend, it's extremely hot when couples do this and they still use condoms even outside of kink or seeing a bull. Are you two currently without a bull? I think the only thing that would it even more hot is if she denied letting you see her nude until she sees her bull haha.
When I started wearing a condoms I forgot to buy any from the store since I was so out of practice. Fortunately we had an assorted mix of various brands that were leftovers from previous dates with other men. The first brand I tried felt loose on me and when I told her she seemed surprised and a little embarrassed for me. That unintentional small penis humiliation made my masochistic little dick hard. The next time we had sex I used a different brand that felt perfectly fine, but I still complained that it felt loose and I was struggling to keep it from slipping off. I was planting the seed in her mind that I was too small for regular condoms.
Most of the men she's fucked have worn regular condoms (not every guy is a Magnum
I began purchasing boxes of Mini brand condoms and MySize custom fit condoms in the smallest sizes. When they arrived in the mail I dismissed them as "custom fit," careful not to sound like I was fishing for small penis humiliation play. I definitely was, but I wanted it to be organic. In truth, these were a much tighter fit than ideal, but I could still get them on. I chose kink over comfort. I wanted my wife to be reminded every time we had sex, every time she saw the box, every time she saw a discarded wrapper on the floor. "My husband wears mini condoms and my Bull has an enormous cock."
I loved that the MySize condoms showed the product size range on the box so that my wife could see where I fell in the range. When she first opened the box we actually ended up in a non-sexual discussion about the normal distribution of cock size. Holding the MySize box, "So this is 99% of all men in the world, and you're here?" pointing to the far left end. This led to some hot small penis humiliation during sex, but the most intense humiliation was that she stopped mentioning it at all. If we'd get a new box in the mail or when she'd hand me one in bed she'd do so without comment. We might be kissing or engaging in some other fantasy, but she didn't make any SPH comments. It was understood.
When he was coming over I'd leave a box or a few loose condoms on my nightstand. The very first time I did so I hid an audio recorder behind the nightstand because I wanted to hear his reaction. The audio quality was garbage but decent enough when they were right by the nightstand. He found the condoms and was asking if they were real and a few other questions. I still occasionally masturbate to their epic back-and-forth:
Him: Mini?
Her: Regular ones are too big for him.
Him: No! Serious?
Her: They fall off him. It's fucking pathetic.
Him: I've never even seen these before.
Her: He buys them online. I'm sure he doesn't want to have to buy them in person. Poor [Iloanmywife].
<laughing>
Him: More like poor you.
Her: More like lucky me. I get to have this.
Him: More like lucky me.
Him: Does he always wear them? You can tell me. Hmmmm. Be honest.
Her: Every time.
Him: You swear? You both promised me. Swear it.
Her: <sharp inhale> Owwoh! [Did he grab her hair? Throat? Breasts?]
Her: I swear to you. I swear. Bareback is only for you.
<kissing>
Her: Only for you.
Him: <inaudible>
Her: I wouldn't let him.
Him: <inaudible>
Her: It's your pussy.
Him: Yes, it is. I fucking own you.
Her: I'm your slut.
Him: You need this. Show me how much you need it.
[The next few minutes was her sucking him off. At some point he opened a condom and they jokingly and unsuccessfully attempted to put it on him.]
Him: <laughing> Fits two fingers.
Her: He's not that big. You need to fuck me!
Him: Tell me you need my bare cock.
Her: I need your huge bare cock inside me now!
Him: Get on your hands and knees, slut.
We had reconnection (protected) sex that night and she described the date in detail as I asked questions. I asked if he had commented about the box of mini's but she said he hadn't even noticed. A few days later I got around to downloading to the recording, then enhancing the audio to remove hum and background noise to hear the conversation better. Oh my fuck.
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The having to wear condoms is pretty hot.
For all the cuckolds who are denied entry without a condom, I was thinking awhile ago how much more humiliating it would be if you are also not allowed to buy those condoms. ie: Each birthday the Bull buys you a 12 pack of condoms. Each wrapper has a different month and year written on it with his signature. You are only allowed to use the condom in the month it's for and if you don't, you have to (under supervision) dispose of it in the rubbish. And to actually be able to use a condom, you have to send a picture of the unopened condom to the Bull asking for permission to be able to use it, and why you feel that you deserve to use it. The use then needs to be approved by the Bull within 10 minutes otherwise you have to dispose of it. Him not seeing the text and not responding in time is also deemed a denial of use.
Not actually being in an active cuckold/hotwife relationship gives me far too much time to think about these things
For all the cuckolds who are denied entry without a condom, I was thinking awhile ago how much more humiliating it would be if you are also not allowed to buy those condoms. ie: Each birthday the Bull buys you a 12 pack of condoms. Each wrapper has a different month and year written on it with his signature. You are only allowed to use the condom in the month it's for and if you don't, you have to (under supervision) dispose of it in the rubbish. And to actually be able to use a condom, you have to send a picture of the unopened condom to the Bull asking for permission to be able to use it, and why you feel that you deserve to use it. The use then needs to be approved by the Bull within 10 minutes otherwise you have to dispose of it. Him not seeing the text and not responding in time is also deemed a denial of use.
Not actually being in an active cuckold/hotwife relationship gives me far too much time to think about these things
- In the cuckold/hotwife fantasy stage right now. My wife isn't that open to any of this (yet) so I am keeping my thoughts and desires mainly to myself.
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Oh my god, that's so fucking hot. Would you...by chance be willing to share this audio? Totally understand if not, I just really want to hear it and I want to see and hear real cuckold couplesiloanmywife wrote: ↑Wed Jun 28, 2023 12:47 pmMy wife currently has a steady boyfriend. There are two other men in the extended rotation. One guy is more of a friend who has casual sex with my wife, the other is a Bull we've known for years but who has since married and we only see infrequently.Scias wrote: ↑Tue Jun 27, 2023 7:55 pmWow, your arrangement is a huge turn on for me! You're living the dream my friend, it's extremely hot when couples do this and they still use condoms even outside of kink or seeing a bull. Are you two currently without a bull? I think the only thing that would it even more hot is if she denied letting you see her nude until she sees her bull haha.
When I started wearing a condoms I forgot to buy any from the store since I was so out of practice. Fortunately we had an assorted mix of various brands that were leftovers from previous dates with other men. The first brand I tried felt loose on me and when I told her she seemed surprised and a little embarrassed for me. That unintentional small penis humiliation made my masochistic little dick hard. The next time we had sex I used a different brand that felt perfectly fine, but I still complained that it felt loose and I was struggling to keep it from slipping off. I was planting the seed in her mind that I was too small for regular condoms.
Most of the men she's fucked have worn regular condoms (not every guy is a Magnum). I asked her during sex if other guys ever complained about loose condoms. She gave me a curt "No" and nothing more, which was the most humiliating thing she could have said in that moment. That gave me an idea...
I began purchasing boxes of Mini brand condoms and MySize custom fit condoms in the smallest sizes. When they arrived in the mail I dismissed them as "custom fit," careful not to sound like I was fishing for small penis humiliation play. I definitely was, but I wanted it to be organic. In truth, these were a much tighter fit than ideal, but I could still get them on. I chose kink over comfort. I wanted my wife to be reminded every time we had sex, every time she saw the box, every time she saw a discarded wrapper on the floor. "My husband wears mini condoms and my Bull has an enormous cock."
I loved that the MySize condoms showed the product size range on the box so that my wife could see where I fell in the range. When she first opened the box we actually ended up in a non-sexual discussion about the normal distribution of cock size. Holding the MySize box, "So this is 99% of all men in the world, and you're here?" pointing to the far left end. This led to some hot small penis humiliation during sex, but the most intense humiliation was that she stopped mentioning it at all. If we'd get a new box in the mail or when she'd hand me one in bed she'd do so without comment. We might be kissing or engaging in some other fantasy, but she didn't make any SPH comments. It was understood.
When he was coming over I'd leave a box or a few loose condoms on my nightstand. The very first time I did so I hid an audio recorder behind the nightstand because I wanted to hear his reaction. The audio quality was garbage but decent enough when they were right by the nightstand. He found the condoms and was asking if they were real and a few other questions. I still occasionally masturbate to their epic back-and-forth:
Him: Mini?
Her: Regular ones are too big for him.
Him: No! Serious?
Her: They fall off him. It's fucking pathetic.
Him: I've never even seen these before.
Her: He buys them online. I'm sure he doesn't want to have to buy them in person. Poor [Iloanmywife].
<laughing>
Him: More like poor you.
Her: More like lucky me. I get to have this.
Him: More like lucky me.
Him: Does he always wear them? You can tell me. Hmmmm. Be honest.
Her: Every time.
Him: You swear? You both promised me. Swear it.
Her: <sharp inhale> Owwoh! [Did he grab her hair? Throat? Breasts?]
Her: I swear to you. I swear. Bareback is only for you.
<kissing>
Her: Only for you.
Him: <inaudible>
Her: I wouldn't let him.
Him: <inaudible>
Her: It's your pussy.
Him: Yes, it is. I fucking own you.
Her: I'm your slut.
Him: You need this. Show me how much you need it.
[The next few minutes was her sucking him off. At some point he opened a condom and they jokingly and unsuccessfully attempted to put it on him.]
Him: <laughing> Fits two fingers.
Her: He's not that big. You need to fuck me!
Him: Tell me you need my bare cock.
Her: I need your huge bare cock inside me now!
Him: Get on your hands and knees, slut.
We had reconnection (protected) sex that night and she described the date in detail as I asked questions. I asked if he had commented about the box of mini's but she said he hadn't even noticed. A few days later I got around to downloading to the recording, then enhancing the audio to remove hum and background noise to hear the conversation better. Oh my fuck.![]()
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Thanks, Scias! I have a private library of our original content, but I haven't posted anything online since Tumblr went to shit. I've considered creating a Hotties thread here, at least for our pictures. For other media (vids, audio) I'd need to create a sharing folder on Dropbox or elsewhere. That's the only way to remove all doubt that yes, it's all true, which enhances the thrill of reading my posts. So maybe.
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I used to wear condoms for about six months while my wife and her boyfriend were trying for a baby.
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I really hope you do it all! Make a hotties thread and maybe link a dropbox with some audio and video. At the very least, I'm dying to hear how these kind of conversations around and how authentic and real they are.iloanmywife wrote: ↑Thu Jun 29, 2023 3:31 pmThanks, Scias! I have a private library of our original content, but I haven't posted anything online since Tumblr went to shit. I've considered creating a Hotties thread here, at least for our pictures. For other media (vids, audio) I'd need to create a sharing folder on Dropbox or elsewhere. That's the only way to remove all doubt that yes, it's all true, which enhances the thrill of reading my posts. So maybe.
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Check your private messages.
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Send to me too please.
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That is so hot! i would love to hear that conversation!iloanmywife wrote: ↑Wed Jun 28, 2023 12:47 pmMy wife currently has a steady boyfriend. There are two other men in the extended rotation. One guy is more of a friend who has casual sex with my wife, the other is a Bull we've known for years but who has since married and we only see infrequently.Scias wrote: ↑Tue Jun 27, 2023 7:55 pmWow, your arrangement is a huge turn on for me! You're living the dream my friend, it's extremely hot when couples do this and they still use condoms even outside of kink or seeing a bull. Are you two currently without a bull? I think the only thing that would it even more hot is if she denied letting you see her nude until she sees her bull haha.
When I started wearing a condoms I forgot to buy any from the store since I was so out of practice. Fortunately we had an assorted mix of various brands that were leftovers from previous dates with other men. The first brand I tried felt loose on me and when I told her she seemed surprised and a little embarrassed for me. That unintentional small penis humiliation made my masochistic little dick hard. The next time we had sex I used a different brand that felt perfectly fine, but I still complained that it felt loose and I was struggling to keep it from slipping off. I was planting the seed in her mind that I was too small for regular condoms.
Most of the men she's fucked have worn regular condoms (not every guy is a Magnum). I asked her during sex if other guys ever complained about loose condoms. She gave me a curt "No" and nothing more, which was the most humiliating thing she could have said in that moment. That gave me an idea...
I began purchasing boxes of Mini brand condoms and MySize custom fit condoms in the smallest sizes. When they arrived in the mail I dismissed them as "custom fit," careful not to sound like I was fishing for small penis humiliation play. I definitely was, but I wanted it to be organic. In truth, these were a much tighter fit than ideal, but I could still get them on. I chose kink over comfort. I wanted my wife to be reminded every time we had sex, every time she saw the box, every time she saw a discarded wrapper on the floor. "My husband wears mini condoms and my Bull has an enormous cock."
I loved that the MySize condoms showed the product size range on the box so that my wife could see where I fell in the range. When she first opened the box we actually ended up in a non-sexual discussion about the normal distribution of cock size. Holding the MySize box, "So this is 99% of all men in the world, and you're here?" pointing to the far left end. This led to some hot small penis humiliation during sex, but the most intense humiliation was that she stopped mentioning it at all. If we'd get a new box in the mail or when she'd hand me one in bed she'd do so without comment. We might be kissing or engaging in some other fantasy, but she didn't make any SPH comments. It was understood.
When he was coming over I'd leave a box or a few loose condoms on my nightstand. The very first time I did so I hid an audio recorder behind the nightstand because I wanted to hear his reaction. The audio quality was garbage but decent enough when they were right by the nightstand. He found the condoms and was asking if they were real and a few other questions. I still occasionally masturbate to their epic back-and-forth:
Him: Mini?
Her: Regular ones are too big for him.
Him: No! Serious?
Her: They fall off him. It's fucking pathetic.
Him: I've never even seen these before.
Her: He buys them online. I'm sure he doesn't want to have to buy them in person. Poor [Iloanmywife].
<laughing>
Him: More like poor you.
Her: More like lucky me. I get to have this.
Him: More like lucky me.
Him: Does he always wear them? You can tell me. Hmmmm. Be honest.
Her: Every time.
Him: You swear? You both promised me. Swear it.
Her: <sharp inhale> Owwoh! [Did he grab her hair? Throat? Breasts?]
Her: I swear to you. I swear. Bareback is only for you.
<kissing>
Her: Only for you.
Him: <inaudible>
Her: I wouldn't let him.
Him: <inaudible>
Her: It's your pussy.
Him: Yes, it is. I fucking own you.
Her: I'm your slut.
Him: You need this. Show me how much you need it.
[The next few minutes was her sucking him off. At some point he opened a condom and they jokingly and unsuccessfully attempted to put it on him.]
Him: <laughing> Fits two fingers.
Her: He's not that big. You need to fuck me!
Him: Tell me you need my bare cock.
Her: I need your huge bare cock inside me now!
Him: Get on your hands and knees, slut.
We had reconnection (protected) sex that night and she described the date in detail as I asked questions. I asked if he had commented about the box of mini's but she said he hadn't even noticed. A few days later I got around to downloading to the recording, then enhancing the audio to remove hum and background noise to hear the conversation better. Oh my fuck.![]()
Re: Cuckold's having to use condoms with their wife
If you make a dropbox with audio or video I would love to see and hear them

Re: Cuckold's having to use condoms with their wife
I think the cuck should also have to ask his wife if he can use the condom. Very hot to hear her refuse it's use.hinkynero wrote: ↑Wed Jun 28, 2023 2:19 pmto actually be able to use a condom, you have to send a picture of the unopened condom to the Bull asking for permission to be able to use it, and why you feel that you deserve to use it. The use then needs to be approved by the Bull within 10 minutes otherwise you have to dispose of it.
Re: Cuckold's having to use condoms with their wife
We’ve incorporated various forms of condom play into our fetish menagerie over the years.
Far back in time, when we were still just dating, I found out KK had a mild latex allergy. She also had negative side-effects from birth control pills. In the intervals where we used condoms for birth control, KK “forced” me to cum as fast as possible, when wearing a condom, so as to minimize latex contact. That was kind of a weird beginning to things.
It became a form of teasing and denial, ruined orgasm play, with KK leaving me to dribble cum into a condom, focused on “finishing me” as quickly as possible.
Fortunately advances in materials science have provided a non-latex alternative.
Later in life, KK went through a period we now call “cock crazy times” - it was a while after starting the hot wife thing, but before we had the best handle on it all. It started as a result of a string of bareback encounters, risky sex. At a point, KK ‘lost’ that roll of the dice, and caught chlamydia from a college stud.
I didn’t want to lose momentum during the treatment period, and I wanted her to get used to the idea of condoms only with untested partners. I used the opportunity to continue fucking her, testing non-latex condoms in the process.
We found Skyn brand products in that experience.
These days, condom play can involved orgasm control, orgasm denial, or ruined orgasm play. Another kink is being required to wear a used condom, filled with another man’s cum. Most often, KK’s intent is to use the condom to reduce, or deny normal sensation as a form of sexual torment. Role play of others allowed to bareback her, fill her with cum, while I’m allowed contact only if I’m wearing a condom are also part of the repertoire.
Far back in time, when we were still just dating, I found out KK had a mild latex allergy. She also had negative side-effects from birth control pills. In the intervals where we used condoms for birth control, KK “forced” me to cum as fast as possible, when wearing a condom, so as to minimize latex contact. That was kind of a weird beginning to things.
It became a form of teasing and denial, ruined orgasm play, with KK leaving me to dribble cum into a condom, focused on “finishing me” as quickly as possible.
Fortunately advances in materials science have provided a non-latex alternative.
Later in life, KK went through a period we now call “cock crazy times” - it was a while after starting the hot wife thing, but before we had the best handle on it all. It started as a result of a string of bareback encounters, risky sex. At a point, KK ‘lost’ that roll of the dice, and caught chlamydia from a college stud.
I didn’t want to lose momentum during the treatment period, and I wanted her to get used to the idea of condoms only with untested partners. I used the opportunity to continue fucking her, testing non-latex condoms in the process.
We found Skyn brand products in that experience.
These days, condom play can involved orgasm control, orgasm denial, or ruined orgasm play. Another kink is being required to wear a used condom, filled with another man’s cum. Most often, KK’s intent is to use the condom to reduce, or deny normal sensation as a form of sexual torment. Role play of others allowed to bareback her, fill her with cum, while I’m allowed contact only if I’m wearing a condom are also part of the repertoire.
Re: Cuckold's having to use condoms with their wife
Yes, completely agree. Both should have to give approval.trecital wrote: ↑Sun Jul 02, 2023 3:07 amI think the cuck should also have to ask his wife if he can use the condom. Very hot to hear her refuse it's use.hinkynero wrote: ↑Wed Jun 28, 2023 2:19 pmto actually be able to use a condom, you have to send a picture of the unopened condom to the Bull asking for permission to be able to use it, and why you feel that you deserve to use it. The use then needs to be approved by the Bull within 10 minutes otherwise you have to dispose of it.
- In the cuckold/hotwife fantasy stage right now. My wife isn't that open to any of this (yet) so I am keeping my thoughts and desires mainly to myself.
Re: Cuckold's having to use condoms with their wife
I'm a little late seeing this, but here's another vote for that. I remember your Tumblr very well, and it was amazing. Your wife is amazingly hot, and you're good with a camera. It was one of my favorite Tumblrs, and I'd love to see more.iloanmywife wrote: ↑Thu Jun 29, 2023 3:31 pmThanks, Scias! I have a private library of our original content, but I haven't posted anything online since Tumblr went to shit. I've considered creating a Hotties thread here, at least for our pictures. For other media (vids, audio) I'd need to create a sharing folder on Dropbox or elsewhere.
Re: Cuckold's having to use condoms with their wife
Am I the only one seeing the problem here?iloanmywife wrote: ↑Wed Jun 28, 2023 12:47 pmMy wife currently has a steady boyfriend. There are two other men in the extended rotation. One guy is more of a friend who has casual sex with my wife, the other is a Bull we've known for years but who has since married and we only see infrequently.Scias wrote: ↑Tue Jun 27, 2023 7:55 pmWow, your arrangement is a huge turn on for me! You're living the dream my friend, it's extremely hot when couples do this and they still use condoms even outside of kink or seeing a bull. Are you two currently without a bull? I think the only thing that would it even more hot is if she denied letting you see her nude until she sees her bull haha.
When I started wearing a condoms I forgot to buy any from the store since I was so out of practice. Fortunately we had an assorted mix of various brands that were leftovers from previous dates with other men. The first brand I tried felt loose on me and when I told her she seemed surprised and a little embarrassed for me. That unintentional small penis humiliation made my masochistic little dick hard. The next time we had sex I used a different brand that felt perfectly fine, but I still complained that it felt loose and I was struggling to keep it from slipping off. I was planting the seed in her mind that I was too small for regular condoms.
Most of the men she's fucked have worn regular condoms (not every guy is a Magnum). I asked her during sex if other guys ever complained about loose condoms. She gave me a curt "No" and nothing more, which was the most humiliating thing she could have said in that moment. That gave me an idea...
I began purchasing boxes of Mini brand condoms and MySize custom fit condoms in the smallest sizes. When they arrived in the mail I dismissed them as "custom fit," careful not to sound like I was fishing for small penis humiliation play. I definitely was, but I wanted it to be organic. In truth, these were a much tighter fit than ideal, but I could still get them on. I chose kink over comfort. I wanted my wife to be reminded every time we had sex, every time she saw the box, every time she saw a discarded wrapper on the floor. "My husband wears mini condoms and my Bull has an enormous cock."
I loved that the MySize condoms showed the product size range on the box so that my wife could see where I fell in the range. When she first opened the box we actually ended up in a non-sexual discussion about the normal distribution of cock size. Holding the MySize box, "So this is 99% of all men in the world, and you're here?" pointing to the far left end. This led to some hot small penis humiliation during sex, but the most intense humiliation was that she stopped mentioning it at all. If we'd get a new box in the mail or when she'd hand me one in bed she'd do so without comment. We might be kissing or engaging in some other fantasy, but she didn't make any SPH comments. It was understood.
When he was coming over I'd leave a box or a few loose condoms on my nightstand. The very first time I did so I hid an audio recorder behind the nightstand because I wanted to hear his reaction. The audio quality was garbage but decent enough when they were right by the nightstand. He found the condoms and was asking if they were real and a few other questions. I still occasionally masturbate to their epic back-and-forth:
Him: Mini?
Her: Regular ones are too big for him.
Him: No! Serious?
Her: They fall off him. It's fucking pathetic.
Him: I've never even seen these before.
Her: He buys them online. I'm sure he doesn't want to have to buy them in person. Poor [Iloanmywife].
<laughing>
Him: More like poor you.
Her: More like lucky me. I get to have this.
Him: More like lucky me.
Him: Does he always wear them? You can tell me. Hmmmm. Be honest.
Her: Every time.
Him: You swear? You both promised me. Swear it.
Her: <sharp inhale> Owwoh! [Did he grab her hair? Throat? Breasts?]
Her: I swear to you. I swear. Bareback is only for you.
<kissing>
Her: Only for you.
Him: <inaudible>
Her: I wouldn't let him.
Him: <inaudible>
Her: It's your pussy.
Him: Yes, it is. I fucking own you.
Her: I'm your slut.
Him: You need this. Show me how much you need it.
[The next few minutes was her sucking him off. At some point he opened a condom and they jokingly and unsuccessfully attempted to put it on him.]
Him: <laughing> Fits two fingers.
Her: He's not that big. You need to fuck me!
Him: Tell me you need my bare cock.
Her: I need your huge bare cock inside me now!
Him: Get on your hands and knees, slut.
We had reconnection (protected) sex that night and she described the date in detail as I asked questions. I asked if he had commented about the box of mini's but she said he hadn't even noticed. A few days later I got around to downloading to the recording, then enhancing the audio to remove hum and background noise to hear the conversation better. Oh my fuck.![]()
This is what you wrote in your previous reply :
Early in our relationship with our former Bull he demanded I use condoms all the time. Yes, we could have lied and told him that I was wearing them when he wasn't there. But my wife and I have no interest in playing make believe.
So, to me this implies you two did not want to lie to the bull. To be more precise, your wife did not want to lie to the bull.
Well, this is actually a good thing. Because in relation, specially in cuckold relations, it is all about communication, honesty and trust.
Well, then came this part :
I asked if he had commented about the box of mini's but she said he hadn't even noticed. A few days later I got around to downloading to the recording, then enhancing the audio to remove hum and background noise to hear the conversation better.
Oh my. She lied to you. So she thinks it is wrong to lie to the bull, but it is okay to lie to her husband.
On an other front, she knows you like SPH, she had the chance to humiliate you with this, but she did not.
So to me it looks like she does not care about your needs or your fixes. To me it looks like you are not doing this together anymore.
Of course you will see this all differently, but no one can deny the fact she lied to you, no one can deny she did not take the opportunity to get you your fix, like a loving cuckoldress would do.
Take care.
MrbigBull.
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Re: Cuckold's having to use condoms with their wife
It's true that we didn't want to lie to him, but that was ultimately to satisfy our own prurient desires. It's not so much that she or I felt morally obligated to tell him the truth; it's that we wanted our sexual adventure to be real. I've described it elsewhere, but if we were just sort of playing along with a fantasy while we were having sex then the fantasy talk would hold no interest for us. The adrenaline rush came from living it.Mrbigbull wrote: ↑Sun Jul 09, 2023 11:18 amAm I the only one seeing the problem here?
This is what you wrote in your previous reply :
Early in our relationship with our former Bull he demanded I use condoms all the time. Yes, we could have lied and told him that I was wearing them when he wasn't there. But my wife and I have no interest in playing make believe.
So, to me this implies you two did not want to lie to the bull. To be more precise, your wife did not want to lie to the bull.
Well, this is actually a good thing. Because in relation, specially in cuckold relations, it is all about communication, honesty and trust.
Well, then came this part :
I asked if he had commented about the box of mini's but she said he hadn't even noticed. A few days later I got around to downloading to the recording, then enhancing the audio to remove hum and background noise to hear the conversation better.
Oh my. She lied to you. So she thinks it is wrong to lie to the bull, but it is okay to lie to her husband.
On an other front, she knows you like SPH, she had the chance to humiliate you with this, but she did not.
So to me it looks like she does not care about your needs or your fixes. To me it looks like you are not doing this together anymore.
Of course you will see this all differently, but no one can deny the fact she lied to you, no one can deny she did not take the opportunity to get you your fix, like a loving cuckoldress would do.
Take care.
MrbigBull.
I'll never begrudge my wife for her private conversations with other men. Early on there was a guy who thought she was having an affair with him. He would talk shit about me, but not necessarily in a staged kinky way, and it enraged me to think my wife was still fucking him in our bed. But it also thrilled me to no end. Did she join in his ridicule, to humor him or play out the "cheating wife" angle? Maybe. Probably.
I'd like to think she talks about me a lot more, but in practice I'm seldom the object of conversation when she's alone with someone else. I've asked her to mock me while with other men -- including with our Bull -- so that she could tell me later what she said and his reaction. Somewhere along the way she got off on it herself. She'll denigrate me for her own benefit, not mine. She's told me about this, if not always specifically what she said. I enthusiastically approve, though I'd always prefer to know exactly what was said. I've asked her to humiliate me for my benefit, and she has. I'm not going to object if she also gets off on it.
Case in point. I found out she calls me a "perv" when she's with her current boyfriend. She often calls me a pervert when we're in bed together, to emphasize the fact that she has "normal" sex with other guys and that I get off on licking her creampie afterward or just jacking off while hearing about it. I didn't know she was also calling me that with him, but it came out after I picked her up the other week.
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When I pulled into her driveway they were still having sex. After I cut the engine I thought I heard them so I walked up the driveway to stand under his first floor bedroom window, and I was able to hear the last minute or so of them fucking and my wife's final, screaming orgasm. I tried to put my phone over the window sill to take a picture but there was a screen that kept me from seeing anything, and I was afraid that if I kept trying that they'd see my phone. After I heard them finish I went back to our car and waited another 15 minutes until my wife came out.iloanmywife wrote: ↑Wed Jun 28, 2023 2:28 pmI'm heading out to the store to pick up some things for our summer vacation, and to run a few more errands. On the way I'll drop off my wife at her boyfriend's house. On the way home I'll come to the door to pick her up. If she's not ready then I'm to wait in the driveway until she is. When we get home I'll get to eat my reward.
Later that night she was giving me the play-by-play. I had texted her that I was on my way back to his place and she thought she heard me pull in. When she told me about it she let it slip that she had said "her perv husband is pulling up" and they needed to finish soon. Then she admitted that she's been calling me that when she's with him, and asked if I liked it. I did, very much. Then I described how I had stood in his driveway listening to them fucking. She asked if I liked it and I admitted that I loved it, that I felt humiliated and defeated standing outside another man's house while my wife orgasmed on the other side of the wall. As I blew my own load she chided, "You fucking pervert."
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