Girlfriends first date

[DeAd so7]

It's OK for me. But, I can't lie and say that I didn't want to cuddle up with her when she got back. I'll be talking with her about it if she's in the mood here soon. So, if you or anybody else has any other questions, shoot. And I'll try to answer them here later this evening if I can.

I hope she’s back in your arms by now, and you two had a wonderful “reunion”!

When she’s visiting James on her own, how often does she communicate with you? As in, when she’s with him, is she focused on _him_, or does she keep you in the loop as to what’s going on with them? (Not just sexually, but in general.)

Hey. Thank you very much, and to answer your questions. Yes, in general she does try to keep me in the loop. We trust James, but. It is better to be safe rather than sorry. And I don't mean from just James or anything. But, in case there happens to be an accident that they get caught up in somewhere or what not. Alex does in general keep me aware of her and James's situation. And to clarify. I do mean that not just sexually. But, there have been times as of recent that our communication of course wasn't 100% there. And that's fine. I want Alex to have fun, not feel like she's running an errand or a chore and that she HAS to keep me in the loop. So, again. Alex does keep me in the loop of things generally. Both sexually, and just where she is physically. So, if you happen to have any other questions. Shoot.

[Scias]

Hi DeAd so7

I read earlier that James and her have already made love in your bed. But have you two decided on him having an overnight stay at your home? Where he sleeps in your bed with your wife and you have to sleep in the guest/other room?

[The Owl]

Hi DeAd So7... Just finished reading this thread. Interesting, erotic and different than many relationships on Ourhotwives. I found the slow dating at the beginning fascinating. They engaged in courtship behavior rather than getting naked immediately. That deepens the desire, the trust, the bond. The two of them have developed an intense bond - glued together by raw animal sexual chemistry.

I have done exactly what you described... (i.e., watching my partner enjoy an intense fuck with a man who was dominant, powerful, and an accomplished cocksman). Watching the moment a larger cock starts sliding inside your partner is the razor's edge of eroticism. Then, watching her climb the wall to and through orgasm is even more intense. And, I found watching him experience his intense orgasm inside her unexpectedly arousing. His muscles in his back tensed up, he snorted like a bull, and grunted like a great ape... while cumming inside her. She was in a post-orgasm delerium, unaware of my presence as her pussy held his squirting cock inside her. And there I sat, arounsed... and occupying what I some refer to as subspace. Once the sex began, there was nothing I could have done to stop it. The only choice you have at that moment is whether to enjoy the view or to gnash your teeth and let anxiety and fear overwhelm you. I enjoyed the view and savored a unique feeling deep in my gut... subspace... Admittedly, there was an intense sexual pressure as well. My cock was fully erect with a clear tear of sticky lube emerging from the tip. The arousing scent of sex was in my nostrils, and a large cock was giving intense pleasure to my partner. She wanted it... and he was giving it to her... two animals in rut... with no awareness of me once the fuck was underway. Powerful moment.

So... since she is on birth control and he is not with any other women, I'm guessing it is a matter of time before you all decide James can have her without a condom. Then, you'll get the pleasure of silky seconds... pushing your cock inside her cum filled and satisfied pussy. She'll like and you'll like it more than you can imagine. It's natural. The head of the human cock is built like a pump. It is designed to pull another man's semen out of the vagina and then replace it with his own. In nature, may the best sperm win!!! Read "Sex at Dawn" if you want to understand the biology in greater detail.

I'm also wondering when James and Alex are going to try anal sex. That's a boundary that typically requires very high levels of trust and a willingness to explore the nuances of eroticism. Alex would be submissively gifting her most private orifice to James. Perhaps you could be present and support them. She could instruct you to use your fingers to apply anal lube to her anus to prepare it for James. If she's not experienced with anal, it would be important for James to be gentle and to proceed carefully. But it may be an even more intense push of the boundaries than you have already experienced.

[Mkliny442015]

I agree with taking it to the next level when all three of you are ready. From personal experience when my wife’s Ex Boyfriend started coming in her a few years ago I noticed a slow but sensual change. They start sperm bonding and you can sense it on a subconscious level, it drives your arousal through the roof like a dozen viagra. You will notice a change in her wanting him more frequently, a man’s sperm has an addictive feature to the female making her crave more . It will boost her serotonin levels. You may also want to decide to only allowing him to cum inside of her and you either use a condom or pull out. The slight denial factor made me crave her even more and made me want to compete with him on a subconscious level, you want what you can’t have.

[DeAd so7]

Hi DeAd so7

I read earlier that James and her have already made love in your bed. But have you two decided on him having an overnight stay at your home? Where he sleeps in your bed with your wife and you have to sleep in the guest/other room?

Um, I don't think I am personally comfortable with that. Just not at this moment. Alex on the other hand. Idk, but still. I wouldn't be comfortable doing that rn.

[DeAd so7]

Hi DeAd So7... Just finished reading this thread. Interesting, erotic and different than many relationships on Ourhotwives. I found the slow dating at the beginning fascinating. They engaged in courtship behavior rather than getting naked immediately. That deepens the desire, the trust, the bond. The two of them have developed an intense bond - glued together by raw animal sexual chemistry.

I have done exactly what you described... (i.e., watching my partner enjoy an intense fuck with a man who was dominant, powerful, and an accomplished cocksman). Watching the moment a larger cock starts sliding inside your partner is the razor's edge of eroticism. Then, watching her climb the wall to and through orgasm is even more intense. And, I found watching him experience his intense orgasm inside her unexpectedly arousing. His muscles in his back tensed up, he snorted like a bull, and grunted like a great ape... while cumming inside her. She was in a post-orgasm delerium, unaware of my presence as her pussy held his squirting cock inside her. And there I sat, arounsed... and occupying what I some refer to as subspace. Once the sex began, there was nothing I could have done to stop it. The only choice you have at that moment is whether to enjoy the view or to gnash your teeth and let anxiety and fear overwhelm you. I enjoyed the view and savored a unique feeling deep in my gut... subspace... Admittedly, there was an intense sexual pressure as well. My cock was fully erect with a clear tear of sticky lube emerging from the tip. The arousing scent of sex was in my nostrils, and a large cock was giving intense pleasure to my partner. She wanted it... and he was giving it to her... two animals in rut... with no awareness of me once the fuck was underway. Powerful moment.

So... since she is on birth control and he is not with any other women, I'm guessing it is a matter of time before you all decide James can have her without a condom. Then, you'll get the pleasure of silky seconds... pushing your cock inside her cum filled and satisfied pussy. She'll like and you'll like it more than you can imagine. It's natural. The head of the human cock is built like a pump. It is designed to pull another man's semen out of the vagina and then replace it with his own. In nature, may the best sperm win!!! Read "Sex at Dawn" if you want to understand the biology in greater detail.

I'm also wondering when James and Alex are going to try anal sex. That's a boundary that typically requires very high levels of trust and a willingness to explore the nuances of eroticism. Alex would be submissively gifting her most private orifice to James. Perhaps you could be present and support them. She could instruct you to use your fingers to apply anal lube to her anus to prepare it for James. If she's not experienced with anal, it would be important for James to be gentle and to proceed carefully. But it may be an even more intense push of the boundaries than you have already experienced.

Hey, I appreciate you sharing your story. As well as all the advice and information you talked about. Tbh, going to answer one of them. I'm not comfortable with anal, and idk if Alex is either. But, I'll keep what you said in mind. If you happen to have any questions for me. Shoot, and to state to you and everyone else. I'm going to go ahead and work up the will if I can tonight to talk about what happened last weekend. Haha, until then. I'll talk to you all later.

[Rogueuser1]

I'm not comfortable with anal, and idk if Alex is either. But, I'll keep what you said in mind.

Just curious if you mean you are not comfortable doing it with her yourself or if you are not comfortable with her doing it with him? Or both?

If you just aren't interested in having anal sex with her but you don't care if she does have anal with him then you are probably fine. But if you are not comfortable with her having anal sex with him then hopefully you have already had a conversation and communicated that boundary to her. Remember that she can only respect the boundaries that she knows exist!

That said, thanks for sharing this great thread and the many updates!!

One question: since you have now seen them have sex multiple times - have you changed or adapted anything in your love making style with her based on what you saw the two of them doing together?

[DeAd so7]

I'm not comfortable with anal, and idk if Alex is either. But, I'll keep what you said in mind.

Just curious if you mean you are not comfortable doing it with her yourself or if you are not comfortable with her doing it with him? Or both?

If you just aren't interested in having anal sex with her but you don't care if she does have anal with him then you are probably fine. But if you are not comfortable with her having anal sex with him then hopefully you have already had a conversation and communicated that boundary to her. Remember that she can only respect the boundaries that she knows exist!

That said, thanks for sharing this great thread and the many updates!!

One question: since you have now seen them have sex multiple times - have you changed or adapted anything in your love making style with her based on what you saw the two of them doing together?

I am not comfortable with anal personally. And tbh, I don't think Alex is either. But idk really. We've never talked about it, I've never brought it up. And neither has she, except in the form of raunchy jokes from the both of us. So, yeah. As for your last question. Tbh, I've only watched them have sex twice. And with that in mind. No, neither have I ever had the thought to perhaps as you said adapt my style or anything. I'm a guy who follows the motions of the ocean. So, tbh. I've never really given it much thought that kind of idea except at the beginning of our relationship when I was trying my best to make her excited. If you happen to have any other questions. Shoot, and I'll try to answer them as soon as I can.

[WarrenOldcuck]

Hi DeAd So7, just wondered if you managed to find out what happened last weekend and why Alex didn't come home as planned?

[DeAd so7]

Hi DeAd So7, just wondered if you managed to find out what happened last weekend and why Alex didn't come home as planned?

Yeah. I did, tbh, I was writing it out last night finally. But, it was late. And I kind of want to go over it and maybe omit somethings. But, I'll hopefully have the update typed out soon when I have the time. Sorry for keeping you waiting.

[WarrenOldcuck]

Hey, no need to apologize, grateful you're sharing your story.