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Hello,

I was asking myself this question and wondered how it would be for others: people that do live the lifestyle and wannabes as myself. For me I would never want to go too far as I am more in hotwife or stag/vixen mindset. But I think, although with pain that I would probably regret later on, I would forgo bareback at most.

I understand that those levels may not make as much sense for you I tried to grade it somehow. I also wanted to imply that of course other men would get those to some extent instead of you.

I think this poll makes more sense for husbands, I do wonder however how would it play out separately for wives.

As a man i would never have agreed to a set of rules, life evolves and practicing this LS by two people does too.... together.

When i started this journey never did i ever consider where it would take us both or how.

Now had my young wife who iniciated all this, started saying i want this, this and this she would have got one answer: goodbye.

tractorman2 wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 05, 2023 12:46 am

As a man i would never have agreed to a set of rules, life evolves and practicing this LS by two people does too.... together.

When i started this journey never did i ever consider where it would take us both or how.

Now had my young wife who iniciated all this, started saying i want this, this and this she would have got one answer: goodbye.

Treat it as a game not a legal contract. It is a question of your current limits as you perceive them. I am sure there are lots of men that started with thinking they would never go without pussy and afterwards it did change and the opposite must also be true.

I’d be willing to go without completely as long as my wife is having fun with a bull.

We started with device-enforced chastity and orgasm restriction. The subject of her fucking others didn't come up until maybe ten years later. Getting to/being required to play with her tits and pleasure her orally while she leaves my cock locked in the cage is super hot for me. Being completely denied would take all the fun out of it.

I am denied kissing, fucking, oral as this are for my wife’s lovers.
I get to be stroked as I wank and she tells me how real men fuck her.
Sublime.

Started the lifestyle at 19 as a stag hot girlfriend arrangement... never did I expect that in two years she would take that gorgeous pussy away and make me accept it was only for her boyfriend.

Few months of that and I got the privilege back, 3 years later she got a boyfriend and cut me off even longer, 8 months. It was an agonizing but incredibly erotic and it changed me forever. That is why I voted for no pussy penetration and all of the above.

My current girlfriend is on the verge of becoming a hot girlfriend right now and is actively dating and talking to many men. If she decided to cut me off, I would likely oppose and resist a bit but I know that in no time she'd be on her way to get her pleasure and orgasms from her other man or men. I just wouldn't want It to be permanent. I can do a few months at time.

With us there is no denial of anything except not doing the things together, we do what we want at the time. I and my wife share it all, it is fun for us. Everything we do is our choice. She can fuck anyone she wants as long as I can watch and jerk off. I don't fuck other women because it is my choice, I fuck my wife a lot though, I love sloppy seconds.

Some years ago I never thought I'd have picked "replacement fantasy", but...when Cressida was still active with her last man, Diomedes, I weaned myself from her pussy (she didn't notice -- she was getting it so good from him), I did it so they could bond closer. So it wasn't a fantasy, but reality. He's gone now and I STILL don't get any pussy.

But I'd agree to ANYTHING if Cressida would JUST DATE other men...PLATONICALLY even! Alas, no.

But that's okay; she's my best friend.

Troilus

as long as i knew my wife was having sex i would let the guy full on replace me. like theres not really a limit to how much id be willing to be denied as long as 1, she is having sex with other guy(s), so someone is getting what im being denied... and 2, i dont actually lose her entirely.

theres also no real limit to how far i would put myself out to get her laid! i've dropped her off at a hotel room that i paid for and waited in the car for hours, while she was having sex.

im addicted to her having sex, especially when im not there, so theres no real limit to what i would do, or let myself be denied, as long as i know shes having sex.

Going without everything up through playing with her tits would be hard for me but would be an amazing turn on. No nudity would be hard to implement, but we could do it. No kissing and no touching would be too far.

Tough question, as I'm still trying to enter the lifestyle but in my head i think I will be fine till I'm allowed to satisfy my wife orally and see her getting pleasure with other men. Also, probably will be tough to let go off of a chance to serve the bull with my mouth and to be penetrated anally by him or by wife's strap-on. In such circumstances my hand will be enough for to cum and to be happy