Wife's lover demoting your family position

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Wife's lover demoting your family position

Unread post by emca753 » Fri Oct 27, 2023 1:47 pm

Any fellow cucks out there that have been , over time, subtly demoted in family status

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Re: Wife's lover demoting your family position

Unread post by emca753 » Fri Oct 27, 2023 1:55 pm

Looking for fellow cuckolds who started this as a marriage lark and ended up bleeding into family dynamics and husband/ father status

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Re: Wife's lover demoting your family position

Unread post by snoogaloo82 » Sat Oct 28, 2023 9:22 am

emca753 wrote:
Fri Oct 27, 2023 1:55 pm
Looking for fellow cuckolds who started this as a marriage lark and ended up bleeding into family dynamics and husband/ father status
mine ended up in divorce as she wanted to leave me for they guy she hooked up with who happened to be my best guy friend and co-worker

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Re: Wife's lover demoting your family position

Unread post by emca753 » Sat Oct 28, 2023 9:33 am

snoogaloo82 wrote:
Sat Oct 28, 2023 9:22 am
emca753 wrote:
Fri Oct 27, 2023 1:55 pm
Looking for fellow cuckolds who started this as a marriage lark and ended up bleeding into family dynamics and husband/ father status
mine ended up in divorce as she wanted to leave me for they guy she hooked up with who happened to be my best guy friend and co-worker
I am sorry it ended that way

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Re: Wife's lover demoting your family position

Unread post by snoogaloo82 » Sat Oct 28, 2023 9:37 am

emca753 wrote:
Sat Oct 28, 2023 9:33 am
snoogaloo82 wrote:
Sat Oct 28, 2023 9:22 am
emca753 wrote:
Fri Oct 27, 2023 1:55 pm
Looking for fellow cuckolds who started this as a marriage lark and ended up bleeding into family dynamics and husband/ father status
mine ended up in divorce as she wanted to leave me for they guy she hooked up with who happened to be my best guy friend and co-worker
I am sorry it ended that way
I was hopeful but she just fell head over heals in love with the guy. There was nothing I could do. I even said to her that she could keep having sex with him as long as we stayed married, and she didn't want to do that either.

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Re: Wife's lover demoting your family position

Unread post by emca753 » Sat Oct 28, 2023 9:42 am

I went through the same thing although there were other reasons why Sonja and I didnt survive as a couple

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Re: Wife's lover demoting your family position

Unread post by Cdncuck » Sat Oct 28, 2023 9:53 am

Nope. The other men my wife gets involved with are there to enhance our sex lives and relationship. They aren't there to start giving orders or making rules.

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Re: Wife's lover demoting your family position

Unread post by snoogaloo82 » Sat Oct 28, 2023 9:56 am

emca753 wrote:
Sat Oct 28, 2023 9:42 am
I went through the same thing although there were other reasons why Sonja and I didnt survive as a couple
What were some of the other reasons?

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Re: Wife's lover demoting your family position

Unread post by snoogaloo82 » Sat Oct 28, 2023 9:57 am

Cdncuck wrote:
Sat Oct 28, 2023 9:53 am
Nope. The other men my wife gets involved with are there to enhance our sex lives and relationship. They aren't there to start giving orders or making rules.
That's the kind of relationship that I have to find for my sweetie

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Re: Wife's lover demoting your family position

Unread post by luvymayfly2 » Sat Oct 28, 2023 10:02 am

I think it is your wife's place to dom you. I don't think it is something for her bull.

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Re: Wife's lover demoting your family position

Unread post by emca753 » Sat Oct 28, 2023 10:08 am

snoogaloo82 wrote:
Sat Oct 28, 2023 9:56 am
emca753 wrote:
Sat Oct 28, 2023 9:42 am
I went through the same thing although there were other reasons why Sonja and I didnt survive as a couple
What were some of the other reasons?
Financial, and she and Kevin were vanilla and loved each other and felt I was an unwelcome intrusion , as well as the standard.....we grew apart

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Re: Wife's lover demoting your family position

Unread post by snoogaloo82 » Sat Oct 28, 2023 10:13 am

emca753 wrote:
Sat Oct 28, 2023 10:08 am
snoogaloo82 wrote:
Sat Oct 28, 2023 9:56 am
emca753 wrote:
Sat Oct 28, 2023 9:42 am
I went through the same thing although there were other reasons why Sonja and I didnt survive as a couple
What were some of the other reasons?
Financial, and she and Kevin were vanilla and loved each other and felt I was an unwelcome intrusion , as well as the standard.....we grew apart
I'm sorry to hear that. How have your relationships been since that time?

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Re: Wife's lover demoting your family position

Unread post by emca753 » Sat Oct 28, 2023 10:16 am

Oddly enough went through the same with my 2014 gf. she was 47 and he was a 19 year old university student, my current is exclusive to us and life is great again

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Re: Wife's lover demoting your family position

Unread post by snoogaloo82 » Sat Oct 28, 2023 2:30 pm

emca753 wrote:
Sat Oct 28, 2023 10:16 am
Oddly enough went through the same with my 2014 gf. she was 47 and he was a 19 year old university student, my current is exclusive to us and life is great again
wonderful to hear that everything is going good again!

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Re: Wife's lover demoting your family position

Unread post by emca753 » Sat Oct 28, 2023 2:33 pm

snoogaloo82 wrote:
Sat Oct 28, 2023 2:30 pm
emca753 wrote:
Sat Oct 28, 2023 10:16 am
Oddly enough went through the same with my 2014 gf. she was 47 and he was a 19 year old university student, my current is exclusive to us and life is great again
wonderful to hear that everything is going good again!
thanks and my previous experiences were pretty good....hope all is well with you carl

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Re: Wife's lover demoting your family position

Unread post by snoogaloo82 » Sat Oct 28, 2023 2:38 pm

awesome to hear! could i hear some details about it?
all is well...now all we need to do is to do the deed! lol

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Re: Wife's lover demoting your family position

Unread post by best_friend » Sat Dec 30, 2023 5:56 am

Me being the third in some relationships i would never want to interfere in the family situation. I see and saw myself as the extramarital providerer of some sex and sometimes as a escape from the family.
But i understand the nature of the problem. Some wives may see that there is something else, outside of there narrow fences of their marriage and they might like that. We, the bulls (although i don´t like that word) play on a field without much trouble and wives might missunderstand that as the
real world without the daily dosis of reality. We, the bulls, are often an element to escape the boring world of marriage and parenthood. That may be tempting.
I don´t know if this, what i wrote, is what you mean with your question.

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