Almost there, again, maybe..

[mattyg_2671]

Hi Rogue. He definitely will, she’s already told him she likes it. When she fucked him on Friday he wanted to fuck her ass, but even though she also wanted it, she was too sore. So I think it’s inevitable.

Her regular is coming to our house tomorrow (Tuesday) to stay overnight while I’m away. She had me cleaning and preparing, even pre-cooking 2 large Wagyu beef fillet steaks on the BBQ to reheat for their dinner. It’s a shame I can’t join them and watch, but that will happen again soon. He told me that he wants to give her the wedding night fucking that she never had, so she bought some wispy white lacy bridal lingerie for the occasion (she looks incredible in it) and he wants me to be there to “give her away” then stay and witness how it should have been done. She told us both that my dick is so small it’s not worthy of being called a cock. It’s like a completely different, inferior object to both of her boyfriends. Theirs are cocks, so they’re both calling mine a teeny weeny now.

He expects me to be caged most of the time when I’m not travelling, and the next time I’m permitted to jerk my “pathetic teeny weeny” he wants her to take a photo of me licking my “disgusting spunk” from the floor and her feet to amuse him.

[Watchinu69]

Ya lost me for good at pre cooking wagyu filets..... smh

[mattyg_2671]

Sorry for the delay, had some posting problems, so this is a couple of weeks old.

Haha Watchinu, I get that. But she doesn’t use our outdoor kitchen (it’s my space!), and it has a fantastic built in Napoleon BBQ which is excellent for steaks. The steaks were pretty thick and we’ve found that searing them to get the charred, caramelised # grill marks then finishing them in the oven is perfect (take them out of the oven at 48 deg c internal temp for rare). So I just really put the grill marks on them for her to finish last night. He said he enjoyed the steaks but having my wife for dessert was better. Anyway I digress…

They fucked a lot, but it’s the naughty stuff that really gets me. She begged to lick his asshole again, so he allowed her to do this for a long time with him on hands and knees on the bed, her tongue pushing inside him and licking all around his ass. She took great delight in describing this as she welcomed me home this evening with deep kisses before immediately locking me in the cage after my latest business trip.

My wife says she turns into a “dirty bitch” when she’s with him and will basically do anything he asks, she likes him to push her boundaries and treat her like a slut. She says he is “hot as fuck” and she’ll do anything he asks. She just loves sucking his cock. At one point last night he was stood over her with her sitting up slightly on the bed. He fucked her mouth so hard that her head was banging the headboard. She was so turned on at the sluttiness of it that she came heavily whilst playing with her clit.

After that she told him she needed to be fucked roughly, so he pinned her to the bed, spread her legs and pounded her while biting her shoulder, squeezing her nipples and holding her throat until she came again really hard.

She offered him the choice of where to shoot his load; mouth, pussy or ass. Of course he chose her ass. So late in the evening I received a text from him to say that he had just “cum really hard, deep inside your wife’s tight little ass”, accompanied by a photo of him wiping his huge cock on my pillow immediately afterwards (“did you see the size of it? I love his cock. I could suck it and lick it all day long. It just feels amazing inside me, I feel so full. You understand why your teenyweeny is totally inadequate when you see that, don’t you?”). She told me later that he put her legs over his shoulders and fucked her ass in missionary so they could see each other’s reaction which she finds it more intimate, plus he can stroke her tits, hold her throat and pinch her nipples hard when she is about to cum, the ass fucking caused her third orgasm of the night.

They fucked again this morning but he didn’t last long, cumming in her pussy quite quickly, so being still horny, she put on a show by masturbating for him as he caressed her body and sucked her nipples hard as she came with a shuddering orgasm. Although I’ve always wanted to watch her do this, she has never allowed me to, so that’s another thing she has never done with me!

After I was safely locked back in the cage this evening, we sat together on the sofa to catch up and I asked her when I could expect to be unlocked.

“You’ll have to ask him,” she said with a big teasing smile, “we talked about it last night and we decided that I’m too soft on you and I cave too easily when I feel sorry for you. So we agreed that he should be sole decision maker when it comes to your cage. He loved the idea of having you at his mercy, your problem is that he doesn’t have any mercy when it comes to you.” I must have looked a bit crestfallen because she laughed. “Don’t look at me like that, it’s not up to me anymore. He’s told me he doesn’t want you unlocked anytime soon. You can try begging him but I don’t think it will do any good, he’ll absolutely relish hearing you beg and then denying you. In fact he’s suggested you should be locked up until our next trip away in May.”

“That’s 2 months!!”

“Yep!” She said triumphantly, then paused, weighing her next words before looking me at me with a very amused smile. “Although I have to tell you, I feel like it should be much longer.” My traitorous dick was getting hard and pressing against the steel bars. “I’m thinking about asking him to consider extending it till Christmas. I feel like you should suffer more for the shit sex I endured with you for 25 years until he started fucking me properly, so really you should be grateful I’m only suggesting less than a year.” She knew this was messing with me, my head screaming “no” and my dick saying “yes please”. She knew my dilemma and she was enjoying watching me squirm.

“You know if I ask him to do that he’s going to agree. He really enjoys being dominant with you and once he decides, there’ll be no going back. He definitely won’t cave like I do and you know from experience that I’ll do as he says and I won’t disobey him. So what do you think, it’s only fair isn’t it and you want to make me happy?”

Of course, in the moment my dick won as I slid deeper into cuck headspace and I heard my hoarse voice say “Yes” meekly, making her giggle in delight. She jumped onto my lap and sat astride me in her little shorts and pulled me tight against her body. “I knew it! Poor Matty, you are your own worst enemy! You’re going to regret that, but too late now, decision made. I’m going to tell him tomorrow.” I groaned and thrust my hips against her as she laughed gleefully.

[elina]

Thanks for sharing Mattyg

My personal experience is that 2 months is challenging but doable.
When you get close to three months, it will become a lot worse.
Allthough I guess it all depends on how long you have been trained to stay chaste.....

This was a few weeks ago you said?
So what is the situation as of now? Are you still locked up and your Cuckoldress and Her Bull have not yet told you how you need to please them for Her Bull to consider giving you some relief?

Sincerely
elina

[hwlurker88]

So if I understand the time line correctly, she was on a break from around mid-November till after Christmas. Since she wasn't active with someone else during that time, did you finally get have PIV sex again during that time?

[mattyg_2671]

Hi Hwl. Yes that’s right, it was about 6 weeks. I certainly did not have any PIV sex, she doesn’t really see my dick as a viable option and still maintains that it’s never going inside her body again. The closest I got was when I’d asked if I could experience a little of what he got and since I’d been a good boy, she gave me a special treat. She dressed in lingerie and heels,lay back on the bed and allowed to kneel between her legs with my balls resting on her pussy lips and jerk off as she wrapped her thighs around me. Even then I had to a wear a condom so I didn’t spill any of my mess on her. While i was masturbating she was taunting me about being like a horny little dog, the size of my cock compared to his and all the dirty things she wants him to do to her. With all the thoughts whirling around my head and feeling the heat of her pussy on my balls I came inside about 2 minutes, which made her laugh. She made me kiss her feet and say thank you as she giggled about the comparison of him cumming bare “deep in her ass”, and me cumming in a condom with my hand.

Unfortunately they’ve decided to call off their relationship a couple of weeks ago, and as a result her libido has disappeared so all is quiet now. She’s really missing the his cock (not him though). She’s just about ready to go back onto AM and start looking for her next lover, maybe this week. She now knows she wants someone with a big cock, tall, dark, broad and handsome, possibly black or mixed race. She’s going to take her time and be very selective.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the update mattyG. Sorry to hear about her breaking off the relationship - perhaps its a good thing. While his cock may be good, the emotional component is as important. Hopefully she finds someone who checks all the boxes soon. I dont think she will have any trouble with that

[coastalkid]

Wow! How do you feel about "not being a viable option"? Does that mean forever? It has to be really difficult in light of her calling things off with the last bf and her libido disappearing. When her libido disappears does that mean that she doesn't feel like teasing or taunting you either? What happens to your sex life when her libido disappears? Is your libido affected by hers?

[mattyg_2671]

Hi. Back after a few weeks.

Coastal: She has no intention of my dick being inside her body at any time in future. She re-iterates this firmly whenever I ask, so I believe it is her intention for it to be permanent. “My mouth, pussy and ass are not for you, only for others.” Whenever she says this she knows it makes my cock twitch. Neither of us understand it but we’ve come to accept it and she delights in playing to it. How do I feel? Angsty, frustrated, very turned on! When I look at her body and imagine those legs wrapped around me, her hands pulling me tight against her body, those breasts squashed against my chest…OMG, but at the same time I’m also picturing her being fucked by a better lover. If we had sex I know very well that it will be beyond disappointing for her, and ultimately probably leave me feeling bad for failing to perform. So it’s not on the cards, but I always have hope it may happen sometime in the future.

Things were quiet for a while as she took a break after her last FB relationship ended in early March. She wanted to recover mentally but things seem to have ramped up again sharply in the last 14 days. The short version is:

She ordered me to buy a smaller cock cage. I showed her various designs and she loved the Kin3k Cobra in bright pink. As soon as she saw that it is designed for “long term wear” she decided that was the right one for me. Especially in pink. It arrived 10 days ago and I’ve been locked in it 24/7 except for being unlocked for behaving well enough to earn an “attempt” to cum with my own hand before her iPhone timer expired, it had been set for 40s. Of course I failed so she gleefully locked me up again, laughing at my frustration. Previously with chastity she was always weak-willed and she easily caved to my pleas for release. Not any more. She’d be perfectly happy for me to be locked permanently even if I never got to cum again. “But I need to cum occasionally for the health of my prostate” I said. “No, that’s not correct. I googled it and there’s no link between cumming and prostate health. So don’t worry, you’ll be fine. No need for either of us to worry about making that little thing of yours squirt at all. It’s probably best you forget about all that,” with an evil grin, a soothing stroke of my cheek and a very deep kiss. It floored me that she’d actually googled it and also sent a shiver down my spine with the realisation that she was clearly serious about “long term” and 24/7 chastity. But it also made my dick strain hard against the new cage.

Having said that, she has created a comprehensive list of written rules based around my behaviour for the chastity, possible rewards I may earn, punishments for poor behaviour. Some of the items in the list are very imaginative , I think she had fun writing it and has certainly had fun applying it. The punishments seem to be outnumbering the rewards (which seem to be difficult to earn!). Probably the best, most highly rated reward is a hand job from her or possibly fucking my fake pussy “fleshlight” whilst she holds it between her feet or thighs. I’ve hade neither of these yet of course. Blowjobs and sex are most certainly NOT on the reward list. Some of the punishments are incredibly creative, made me raise my eyebrows and wonder if she has even done research on the subject. They also betray her increasing delight in causing me humiliation and a certain amount of physical pain. Happy to give more details on her “rules” if any interest.

We’ve booked some tickets to attend one of the more exclusive high end swinger / sex clubs in our city later this month. It’s an evening dedicated to hot wives and cuckolds. We’re viewing it as an opportunity for a night out at an interesting club with no expectations. She has applied self-imposed limits for herself in case she meets any hot guys; kissing, touching, fingering, oral (either way) are all ok but no full sex. I am to be locked in the pink cage for the duration of the night. She expects me to expose it to anyone who asks to see it, or remove my clothes if everyone gets naked. When she saw that the club we are visiting has a well equipped dungeon. She raid that if it’s possIble she’d like someone to give her a demonstration how to cane my ass more effectively…!!

At the weekend we met a potential new partner. It’s the first time we’ve had an initial meet together. It was intense. I’ll tell more later. He ticks a LOT of boxes.

Finally, this week her ex FB got back in touch to invite her on an overseas trip next week for 3 nights. She was very undecided but eventually had me book plane tickets for her to go with him, on the basis that she’s in a good place mentally with him now, a number of weeks after they officially ended. In fact she’s more than a little smug that she’s such a good fuck that he’s come crawling back. My good little conservative vanilla wife has developed into a sex goddess with very few limits in the bedroom, which is apparently difficult to resist. So she’s bought new lingerie, a new dildo (so she can do simulation of DP and DVP with him), and she’s looking forward to having his cock in all her holes again next week for 3-4 days of good hard fucking which she has admitted she needs. I’ll be her airport chauffeur! (Which might earn me a good reward from the rules list!)

So it’s been quite a busy time.

[elina]

Dearest mattyg

Thank you so much for sharing.

It is wonderful to see how Your Stunning Cuckoldress is developing Her methods of controlling you and demonstrate Her complete control over you. So pleased to see that She is now both meeting potential new Lovers and re-connecting with Her previous BF.

I have been chaste for up to four months so have some experience with going without for prolonged periods of time. It is interesting to see that Your Superior Cuckoldress has identified the research which debunks the previously held belief that long term chastity or even celibacy is bad for the male. It must have been very liberating for Her to understand that this means that She can now keep you chaste for as long as it amuses or benefits Her. I admire your ability to fully submit and serve Her.

I for one would love to see more details about Her rules for you to be rewarded or punished.

Sincere regards
elina

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the updates with new developments MattyG.
Would love to see more of the rules list.
Looking forward to more details on the meet & greet with the new fwb/bf for your lovely wife and her meeting with the ex-bf

[mattyg_2671]

Hi Elina, the rewards and punishments are generally behaviour based. Being moody, arguing, disobedient, untidy etc. will earn a punishment, but one of the reasons is “just because I want to punish you for my amusement”. Good behaviours earn rewards include being extra kind/thoughtful, cooking or doing chores etc.

Basic rules of my chastity are that the cage comes off every 5 days for me to receive any rewards earned. However any punishments earned will reset the clock to day 1. So theoretically, should she decide to impose a punishment (including just because she wants to) the clock could keep resetting to day 1 indefinitely.

Punishments: spanking of various severities (belt, cane, riding crop) with number of strokes at her discretion and cumulative, standing naked in the corner with a butt plug or large dildo inserted in ass and finger on lips, something sharp poked into my cock including the tip or peehole, eating my food out of a dog bowl naked which my hands cuffed behind my back (she likens me to a horny little dog), drinking a shot of her piss, standing naked in the garden in the rain in just my pink cage for a specified time (if the weather is fine she’ll use the garden hose!), her using the sharp pinwheel hard on my cockhead and frenulum.

Treats include earning time to masturbate in 5s or 10s increments, cumulative to a maximum of 60s (against a timer) whilst kneeling at her feet on the bathroom floor. Enhancements can be earned such as her being naked, being allowed to hump her foot, her touching my balls or using the fleshlight to simulate fucking her (between her feet or thighs). Or, on rare occasions I have the opportunity to receive a hand job from her (she stressed this was a most unlikely scenario). If by some miracle I do manage to cum within the time limit I am required to lick up my mess. Irrespective of whether or not I cum, when the timer expires I am locked immediately afterwards and the clock resets to day 1.

Other rewards included being pegged, being peed on, wearing the face dildo so she can ride my face.

Plus “anything else she decides” can be added.

[thesvs_09]

It is intense. Really intense for my taste. A learning booster for me about femdom/FLR avenues with cuckolding. I wish you all the best for your adventures and hope that you will keep updating.

A few questions:
1. Do you incorporate safe words ? If no, how do you and your wife ensure safety ?
2. This one may be stupid question, but as we age most people have mood swings. For example, when I am tired, or when it is children duty/related issues, minor medical issues, or when my favorite team has lost a cricket match or something, I usually do not even get hard. And same for my wife. My point is sexual turn off issues can be random. So, what happens when your wife has decided a night/date with her lover, and suddenly you don't want that ? How does such communication happens, if it has happened ?

[mattyg_2671]

Hi svs, thanks for the reply. I should say that of course I’m only writing here about a small part of our lives which is relevant to this site. I’m not writing about the long walks we go on together every day, dining out 2-3 times a week etc. We spend a lot of time together being very affectionate and holding hands and obviously we talk about this subject a lot but it’s not the only thing in our lives!

1. No safe words. We’ve been together for over 25 years since she was a teenager so we have a lot of trust and we know each other extremely well. She can tell by my body language where my limits are and will often push past them to test me, but that relies on the trust we have. Her general demeanour is “I don’t care, I’m gonna do it anyway, you just have to deal with it.” Which is a turn-on in itself.
2. This has never happened to me, I’ve never wanted her to not have a date with her lover. Yes it gives me anxiety, jealousy and frustration, but it never fails to turn me on! It’s more likely that she will be tired or not in the mood before a date, but invariably when she’s on the date she perks up and her mood lifts. It’s always her decision whether she goes, I would never ask her to cancel a date. Again, sometimes it might be difficult for me, but I’d just be expected to deal with it.

I think the only caveat to all of this is where there may be deeper feelings developing between her and a FB to the point where it may damage our relationship. That’s when I will step in and voice concerns and we’ll discuss together. But that’s never happened yet.

[mattyg_2671]

Here an example from last night. We were watching TV. She was wearing short shorts, so naturally my gaze kept being drawn longingly to her newly painted toes and her bare legs stretched out on the sofa. I was feeling a bit down thinking about how much I’ll miss her when she’s away next week with her FB, she could see my mood asked me what was wrong, so I told her.

“It’s not fair. You’re going to be sucking his cock all week, he’s going to get to fuck you countless times, cum in your arse. My dick never gets any attention, except when I get to play with it myself for a few seconds with my own hand every few weeks and even then I normally don’t get to cum.”

She sat next to me and pulled my head to her chest, her arms holding me tight.

“Aww, Poor baby, are you feeling neglected?” she said, one hand stroking my head and the other slipping inside my pants to caress my balls with her nails. “You’re jealous that his big cock is going to get everything. That’s natural. I understand it’s hard for you, but it will be ok. Remember, that’s exactly the way it’s supposed to be. Your little one doesn’t deserve any attention, it’s far too small and needs to be locked away, doesn’t it?”. I nodded morosely. “I know it’s difficult for you sometimes but we both know it’s for the best. You’re right though, I’ve missed his big cock, I’ve not had it for almost 2 months and I can’t wait to lick it and feel it in my mouth, I’ve missed a good hard fuck and I really need it. I’m going to be very naughty next week. I’ll be his dirty slut!” She could feel my cock getting hard and pressing against the bars of the small cage. “It feels like that’s exactly what you want for me too.” She gave my balls a squeeze and giggled.

“Maybe 20 strokes of the crop will stop any more whining and fix your mood, don’t you think?”

I looked up at her and and eyes met, she could see the panic in mine, and hers were sparkling with amusement. “Yes, definitely, 20 strokes. Go and get ready now. What do you say?”

“Yes, thank you.”

“Good boy, now go” she said with a final big hug and stroke of my head.

So, clock reset to day 1.

[elina]

Thank you Mattyg

I suspect you did realize (or should have realized?) when you started sulking and then told Her what made you sulk that this would make Her punnish you and reset the clock?

And still something in you made you go down that route.
Did some part of you actually wish for the attention and maybe even receiving a painful punnishment so that your desire to be owned by your Wife and Cuckoldress could be confirmed?

How did you feel after the whipping?

Sincerely
elina

[mattyg_2671]

Maybe subconsciously. I don’t know. But at least I got some attention from her!

[venus-can99]

mattyG - was the sulking and whining more to get some attention than actual jealousy?

[mattyg_2671]

Hi Venus. Of course I’m jealous! He’s going to be able to use and abuse my wife sexually in any way he wants this week while I’m locked in my pink chastity cage. She doesn’t refuse him anything, so she said “I’m going to be his little slut all week.” So yes, of course I’m jealous, but she likes that I’m jealous and she would be upset if I wasn’t. It also means she can rub my nose in the fact that he gets everything and I get nothing!

Tomorrow I take her to the airport for 3 nights, 4 days of dirty, hard, rough sex with her FB. So tonight my task was to closely inspect her pussy and ass for any hairs. She bent totally naked over the end of the bed with her legs apart as I knelt behind her and took in the delicious sight from behind. Her little puckered rosebud just needing to be licked and her pussy open and inviting, both will be well used this week.

Her surprise for me this evening is that she’s intending to show him a pic of me in the tiny new pink cage and ask him to take over decision making about when I can be unlocked for rewards. “Are you serious?” I asked incredulously, “You know I am,” she replied. “B..b..but he’s never going to agree for me to be unlocked, EVER!!!” I stammered. “Yep!!” She agreed giggling and a little too gleefully for my comfort. “Shit, why is my dick getting hard?!” She laughed at my response “Poor baby, your own little dick is your own worst enemy. Don’t worry, it will be ok, we’ll punish him by locking him up for good, it seems we all agree it’s the best idea.”

I’m literally totally confused. I have no idea whether I want him to be the decision maker on my chastity, or whether I think it’s a really bad idea! I’m kind of intrigued to find out what will happen if he agrees though, and when I think about it, I have to admit that weirdly it is a big turn on.

[venus-can99]

mattyG - looks like your little head and big head don’t agree

[mattyg_2671]

Venus, that sums up exactly what it feels like to be a cuckold. You don’t want to want it, but actually you want it (crave it, yearn for it) more than anything! The little head ALWAYS wins.

[elina]

Venus, that sums up exactly what it feels like to be a cuckold. You don’t want to want it, but actually you want it (crave it, yearn for it) more than anything! The little head ALWAYS wins.

Yes, I know.

And it seems that your Superior Wife now fully realizes that the longer she keeps you from cumming,
the more control your little head will take over your other head which should now be used to think about how you can please Her.

And as you say, accepting that it is for your Wife to control your (lack of) orgasms, and accepting that She is entitled to outsorce these decisions to Her Bull-Lover is something you crave now.

I hope your Wife will have a wonderful week with Her Lover, and that you will focus on how happy this will make Her.
Please keep us posted.

Sincerely
elina

[mattyg_2671]

Just dropped her off at the airport hotel where he will join her tonight before their flight tomorrow. She wore very small shorts with no panties so was teasing me the whole journey with her bare pissy, freshly waxed and trimmed especially for him, and enjoying my jealous and frustrated reactions. We had an interesting chat about the jealousy aspect since she still doesn’t understand it. I tried to explain that the jealousy and frustration is all part of it for me, in fact neither of us would be happy if I didn’t care whatsoever, and I pointed out that she would certainly be upset if I wasn’t jealous of what he gets that I am missing!

She told me that she used an enema kit before she left home just in case he wanted to fuck her ass tonight. They’ve not seen each other for 8 weeks so she said she hopes he will use her (abuse her!) to unleash all his pent-up sexual energy and give it to her very rough and hard. She said that within minutes of him arriving she’ll be on her knees worshipping his cock with her mouth.

She took the keys to my chastity cage with her to avoid the risk I might find them and cheat, so no chance of that. Dammit. I told her I hoped she didn’t lose them. She just gave an evil laugh and suggested she might even give them to him to look after…

No doubt she is getting mercilessly fucked right at this moment.

[venus-can99]

Is she going to keep you uptodate mattyG by texting or sending videos once in a while over the week? Perhaps she can leave the phone on so you can listen your lovely wife enjoying what is being denied to you?

[elina]

Thanks Mattyg.

To me, Jealousy is first and foremost a set of emotions displaying our fear of losing someone we really care about.
Very natural and nobody should be ashamed from that kind of emotions. As you say, if people don't show some of this, would they be really human?

Take care and be a good boy while your Wife&Cuckoldress is off enjoying Herself.

Sincerely
elina