How often should I humiliate/degrade him and keep it fresh and not “contrived”? if that makes sense. I am not currently dating anyone but I am looking - the problem is that we moved to a large retirement community (not really by choice, long story) which has resulted in a demographic that is mostly not what I am seeking. Its a no-brainer to continuously humiliate and degrade hubby when I’m dating someone, but its much harder to do that when you AREN’T seeing someone.
I want to also admit that I find it very difficult to maintain consistency humiliating him. For example, a few weekends ago he tried a pair of my panties on, liked them, we talked a little, and I ended up giving him several pairs of panties and suggested he try them full-time. The did that for about a week, but I probably mistakenly did not say a lot about it, so after a week, he went back to wearing regular underwear since I wasn’t saying anything. I don’t know what to say or how often to say it, without it sounding “fake” or “fantasy” like, if that makes sense.
If you are familiar with us (we both have profiles on here), you will know he has an extremely tiny penis and thoroughly enjoys being a cuckold. While he is a natural at being a cuck, I am feeling like being a true “hotwife” is not as natural for me, but thats not to say Im against it and want to do better.
Thanks for any recommendations and will be happy to clarify if I’ve been too ambiguous with anything.
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