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Are there any cuckolds here who became cuckolds against their will? They were forced to become cuckolds. I never wanted to become a cuckold but my wife used masturbation to calm and distract me from what she was doing with other men. Over time I submitted to her wants.

Not me, but I love to chat with cucks who resisted but were turned by their dominant wife and her alpha lover to the point where the cuck resists initially but is broken and has become a total pussyfree cock slut now.

I did a poll last year that revealed how common a few different variations of this are:
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=71072

In my experience, it's easier than you'd think to manipulate a guy into being a willing cuck.

Unfortunately, I was the one who convinced my first gf to sleep around but give her credit for silently and smoothly turning me into a cuck.

Now as a current wannabe cuck, I am sort of craving to experience what many of the men here experienced. Specifically the ones who were given no other option other than accept/walk away. My masochist side wants to have no other choice but to accept a situation that pushes my boundaries. Nothing disrespectful or man on man action though.

I don't think anyone is turned against their will. What you describe is a latent desire to be a cuckold.

Not me (us). We fantasized about it together for years before she took the plunge. And when she finally did, we realized that this has always been who/what we were meant to be. She likes getting laid; I enjoy knowing/watching. It’s very simple.

It supercharged our marriage, and we’re quite happy with our arrangements.

Cuckoldguy21 wrote: ↑

Tue May 28, 2024 10:49 am

Are there any cuckolds here who became cuckolds against their will? They were forced to become cuckolds. I never wanted to become a cuckold but my wife used masturbation to calm and distract me from what she was doing with other men. Over time I submitted to her wants.

Sounds like a Dominant Female twisting Her hubby into accepting that She gets to decide?
I think it is fairly common!

Sincerely
elina

Not us, but many years ago a married friend of Ann’s had a boyfriend because she “needed” (her own words) much more sex than her husband gave her.
She told Ann that her husband didn’t like it and at first tried to pretend it wasn’t happening, but accepted it as long as they were discreet because he didn’t want to lose her. He didn’t want to know anything about her boyfriend or their dates, but she was sure he knew when they had sex and she thinks it even turned him on sometimes .

I think a lot of these situations arise from the wife cheating and the cuckold finds out. Through guile, gentle teasing and eroticism of the situation the wife can easily turn her husband into a willing cuckold if he is so inclined and she plays her cards right.

Not by my wife, no - it was my idea originally and we’ve been coconspirators ever since, albeit with unexpected changes and a few hills and valleys, but I have never protested it; quite the opposite.

That said, in my early 20s before I had even heard the word cuckold, I had a relationship which 9 months into it I discovered infidelity. I was not happy about it, in fact I was angry.

However we did stay together - and I also continued to catch her cheating. Not once in that time did I enjoy it.

Three months before graduation we came to the realization that we’d be breaking up due to geography - we were both going on to other cities. At this point, because we knew the relationship would end, at this point my girlfriend dropped all pretenses. Not only did she stop hiding the fact she was fucking other guys (which I knew anyway) but she’d tell me about dates she’d planned.

The first time she went out, having told me she was going on a date, I jacked off furiously although I hated myself for it.

Once we’d broken up I was left with these memories and found myself jacking off to thinking about them all the time. Thanks to google I soon began to read about cuckolding and right away I realized that it not only described my past relationship but I knew it was what I wanted to be.

Crazy the twists and turns life takes.

She brought up the idea, and I was willing after she gave me time to think about it. That being said, she's definitely fucked men I didn't like. I do have 'veto' power, but have never used it.

I was kind of an unwilling cuck. I consented to her having sex with another man, it didn't bother me, and turned me on. But I did it thinking we were entering an open relationship. When I had a chance to be with another woman, she said no and it caused a huge fight. At that point, I switched from being a swinger to an involuntary cuckold. After that, I had to think about changing the rules of our relationship to monogamous, or keep with enjoying the hot sex she was having, and decided to be a voluntary cuckold.

I do not think that anyone can be forced to be a cuckold as there is no leagal way to force someone to do anything, but I think the decription might fit us.

When we started our relationship we did so as a FLR right from the beginning and it worked out really well. Some years into the relationship though she asked if it would be ok for her to practice certain kinks (which I did not care to take part in) with some other guy.
Tough question that was not that easy so answer especially as I am more of an protective guy. Given some time (months) we decided to give it a shot. There have been a lot of rules to make it as save an experiene for everyone and it worked out fine. I certainly was no an o it some other wifesharer here at the board, but it was ok with me.It's rather like "you want to go jogging ? / you want to beat up someones ass ? - have fun ".
Given some time again /2-3 years) some rules changed or evolved and everything untill she asked if it would be ok for me if she had intercourse with her playpartner as well. My first reaction: "NO - not ok at all !". Sinve we met for the first time our sexlife changed quite a bot and we had intercourse less often compared to the beginning of our relationshio. But when we had it is was even more intimate and precious to us ... and she wanted to have that with another guy ???
That took some time to sink in as well and after almost another year we gave it a shot and it turn out I am ok with it.At times I get a lightly humiliating feeling out of it that puts me into a submissive mood, but not much more. I certainly do not look forward to my wife having sex with some other guy, but it's ok.

So to cut it short the description fits quite well: I never looked forward to beeing cuckolded, I do not get much out of it, but I am fine with it.

Texas Jack wrote: ↑

Tue May 28, 2024 7:54 pm

I don't think anyone is turned against their will. What you describe is a latent desire to be a cuckold.

Texas Jack,

I totally agree with the “latent desire to be a cuckold” being the determining factor in the progression of this lifestyle. Whether it is a cheating wife, or encouraged from a wife’s, or even a husband’s, desires… if a husband feels so much as a “twitch” in his dickie from the thought of his wife with another man, he is igniting that latent desire. Once that desire is ignited, it is a fire within that continues to heat up and is almost impossible to put out !!

You cannot force this on an unwilling person, but it is surprising how even the toughest, macho, men feel that “twitch” .. and feelings and desires come out from deep inside they never knew were there.

I’m sure most everyone in this forum remembers that first “twitch” !! After all, it is what ultimately led you here !!

Just sayin…….

Brad

I agree. I first felt the twitch when my best friend came over for a visit and he playfully pushed my young wife onto the bed after she kissed him hello and began dry humping her. We all giggled— and then I realized that I was rubbing my crotch. I knew then that I wanted to be a cuckold and that never changed.

I always wonder if all guys have a "latent desire to be a cuckold" and a "latent desire to cuck other guys" that can go either way but lays dormant until/unless triggered by life experiences.
For me, it was never something I considered either way until it happened. Each experience made it a hotter and hotter concept to me.
I understand that it works similarly from the opposite perspective too.
I imagine it's more like a slippery slope to being a cuckold though, it makes you want to jerk off to the idea and you make yourself want it more and more but it's probably more difficult to go the other way, requiring good self-confidence and positive experiences with other guys' wives/girlfriends.
I've heard of a fair few guys that used to be bulls becoming cuckolds but not many going the other way.

I like the concept that wulfenus introduced me to of it being a "gotcha"; one guy making a move on another guy's wife/girlfriend and him getting turned on by it like he's been betrayed by his own dick and getting self-humiliated.
I've only ever experienced giving these "gotchas" but I like to consider that every guy is vulnerable to them.

Gotcha certainly was my case, it wasn’t so much that I had an erection watching my best friend dry humping my wife as much as my disappointment that they didn’t keep going.

As Shakespeare wrote, the husband "doth protest too much, methinks."

hubudig2 wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 16, 2024 10:25 am

I always wonder if all guys have a "latent desire to be a cuckold" and a "latent desire to cuck other guys" that can go either way but lays dormant until/unless triggered by life experiences.
For me, it was never something I considered either way until it happened. Each experience made it a hotter and hotter concept to me.
I understand that it works similarly from the opposite perspective too.
I imagine it's more like a slippery slope to being a cuckold though, it makes you want to jerk off to the idea and you make yourself want it more and more but it's probably more difficult to go the other way, requiring good self-confidence and positive experiences with other guys' wives/girlfriends.
I've heard of a fair few guys that used to be bulls becoming cuckolds but not many going the other way.

I like the concept that wulfenus introduced me to of it being a "gotcha"; one guy making a move on another guy's wife/girlfriend and him getting turned on by it like he's been betrayed by his own dick and getting self-humiliated.
I've only ever experienced giving these "gotchas" but I like to consider that every guy is vulnerable to them.

I agree with hubudig2 and believe there is a latent desire deep within us all to one extent or another.. mostly developed as teenagers growing up and the massive emotions and sexual energy in our younger years. and the way we handled that sexual energy. It remains hidden deep within us and becomes the latent desire that can be awaken by experiencing similar situations later in life.. as simple as someone flirting with your wife and feeling yourself becoming hard.. relating it to the boy who took your girlfriend in high school and how hard you got when you heard he had sex with her. These emotions come from that latent desire waking up. It is what makes you reach down and rub yourself !! There is a great thread in the forum I just replied to.. viewtopic.php?f=5&t=72725 that offers insight to the origin of these latent desires.

A cuckold can only protest until he feels himself get hard. Once he touches himself and masturbates to the thought of his wife having sex with someone else, his protests are useless !! He can continually protest, but at that point he has awoken his latent desires and they cannot be put back to sleep. It is now “who he is” !! He cannot change that.. EVER. That is why every post that begins with “Protesting Cuckolds” ends up with the word “but…” that overrides his protest !!

My latent desires as a Dominant Alpha male have been awakened as a BF to hot wife/cuckold couples.. much the same as I grew up taking other’s girlfriends and then handing them back after I had sex with them. It was what sexually excited me then and continues to sexually excite me today. Those latent desires are always burning inside me and awaken each time I have sex with a hot wife and cuckold her husband. It is “who I am” !!

What latent desires lay deep inside you that have awaken ??

Brad

My wife had never had a big cock before. She's trim with 36C breasts, tiny ass and flat stomach, cute as a button. I encouraged her to be shared with a wellhung guy. We'd play with big dildo's but she didn't like the plastic feel although she'd suck on it as she rode my cock and we'd both cum hard.
Got her to watch cuckold porn the real amateur stuff, hard to find but very erotic when u find it. Bought her books on cuckolding etc.
FINALLY after a year she agreed with a few stipulations. She got to pick him, she'd play bare and she wanted me to watch and eat her cum filled pussy which I eagerly agreed to.
Long story short we found David via a post we made on CL, 26 yo with a monster cock, she was 43 at the time.
Well needless to say he ROCKED her world he fucked her twice that first time and twice the next morning and yes I cleaned all four loads which I LOVED. I"ve been her cum eating cuck for over 7 years now currently has David and two other younger VERY well hung lovers that drive her WILD.

Cuckoldguy21 wrote: ↑

Tue May 28, 2024 10:49 am

Are there any cuckolds here who became cuckolds against their will? They were forced to become cuckolds. I never wanted to become a cuckold but my wife used masturbation to calm and distract me from what she was doing with other men. Over time I submitted to her wants.

It wasn't really against my will. I didn't anticipate it happening, but I created the situation for myself.
I had a beautiful girlfriend but I wanted to play the field. I told her that we should see other people.

She didn't want to, and was a little hurt, but she ended up dating and sleeping with a guy within a week. I got a few dates, but nobody interested in sleeping with me.
I begged her to go back to being steady with me, but now she didn't want to. She would grant me pity sex now and then, when her boyfriend was busy, but she put him first, whenever he wanted to see her.

Whenever I begged her to come back to me and be exclusive, she would remind me that I was the one who wanted to open up our relationship to see other people. She said that she was hurt at first, but that she ended up liking it this way.

MartasBoy wrote: ↑

Tue Jun 18, 2024 12:37 pm

I begged her to go back to being steady with me, but now she didn't want to.

So you started off with tolerating her being with other guys so that you could be with other girls?
How did you move on from there?

hubudig2 wrote: ↑

Tue Jun 18, 2024 1:48 pm

MartasBoy wrote: ↑

Tue Jun 18, 2024 12:37 pm

I begged her to go back to being steady with me, but now she didn't want to.

So you started off with tolerating her being with other guys so that you could be with other girls?
How did you move on from there?

I begged her to come back as my study girlfriend but she didn't want to give up the other guy. She eventually just quit sleeping with me, in favor of him. She married the next guy she got involved with after him. Then it was a while before I got with another girl.

For me it's always been a desire but I couldn't handle it in real life. I would dirty talk her about fucking other guys so she decided that we had an open relationship and she would fuck other guys and not tell me. I would know it was going on but didn't say or do anything mostly. I find it a turn on now seeing how she changes and dresses for them.

bradisalpha wrote: ↑

Tue Jun 18, 2024 4:04 am

My latent desires as a Dominant Alpha male have been awakened as a BF to hot wife/cuckold couples.. much the same as I grew up taking other’s girlfriends and then handing them back after I had sex with them. It was what sexually excited me then and continues to sexually excite me today. Those latent desires are always burning inside me and awaken each time I have sex with a hot wife and cuckold her husband. It is “who I am” !!

What latent desires lay deep inside you that have awaken ??

Brad

About a month into our initial dating as sophomores in college, my girlfriend (later wife) told me she didn't want to ever be in a monogamous relationship, including marriage. We talked it through and she just felt that she wasn't meant for monogamy and couldn't commit to it. I was pretty devastated because I was thinking we were getting into the girlfriend/boyfriend stage and I was really crazy about her. However, the more we talked, she convinced me that she felt the same way about me and that it was possible to love a person and still want to have sex with others.

After our initial discussion, she told me she had a FWB that she had been having sex with for a year and she wanted to continue. I met him a few times and I thought he was a jerk. I'm convinced he was in love with Sarah and wanted to get more serious with her. She, on the other hand, chose me and only wanted him for the sex. When Brad says, " I grew up taking other’s girlfriends and then handing them back after I had sex with them," this comment really hit "home" with me. This guy was doing just that, fucking Sarah and then sending her back to me, like rubbing my nose in it, bragging to me about his sexual prowess and getting back to me in the way he knew best. The funny thing is, the thing that completely blindsided me, was that I did get an erection the first time that happened. I had stopped by her apartment without any notice. She had apparently just had sex with this guy because when we stared messing around and I put my finger in her pussy, it came out wet with semen. She said, sorry, let me go shower first. I said, no, don't shower.

To finish the story, she saw him for another few months, but eventually stopped. That didn't stop her from finding another guy (or two or three) to fuck on the side, however. By that time, I had fully accepted it and it became who we are. I married her after senior year and we've stayed in the lifestyle in one manner or another for over 20 years.