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Long-time wannabe cuck with the BBC and Interracial fetish. Sometimes when you have a specific fetish or fantasy it can seem like you have blinders on and are pretty oblivious to other niches in the lifestyle. It seems there is a high demand for Black men and BBC in this lifestyle, but just curious if there are couples looking for White guys who aren't necessarily well hung. I'm sure most couples want a fit Bull, but just wondering if some couples invite and play with average White bulls. Does it seem single Black men are more in demand as Bulls compared to White men? (Note: I'm not looking to play a Bull because I'm not one. lol)

My wife has had long-term relationships with both white and black "bulls" - we didn't think of them as "bulls" (we didn't use the term) - but more as lovers for her. Seems like the whole porn industry is built around black men and white females these days! My wife has enjoyed many ethnic types as long as the man is attractive, personable and nicely equipped. Clean and well-groomed is assumed. By nicely equipped, I don't mean "huge," as it gets uncomfortable for her beyond 8" or so. We don't measure them, but she estimates her sweet spot to be between 5" and 8" tops. Aside from being a skilled lover, it's equally important to her that her lover be someone she can go out with, travel with, or who can be comfortable in our marital bed at home with me in the house. Someone who can be around family if family unexpectedly shows up and not F things up for us.

Yes. The race fantasy remains a fantasy for most. The giant cock fantasy remains a fantasy for most. Someone mentioned sweet spot above and I'd agree that's probably correct population-wise but I'd probably narrow it to 5.5" to 7.5".

In the 17 years we’ve been at this (since 2007), my wife has had two boyfriends. I can expound upon the differences between a “boyfriend” and a “lover” at some other point, but for now, understand that she rather enjoys the courtship…”the chase”, “the conquest”…as much as, and maybe even more than, the sizes of their dicks.

The first, BF#1, is/was an average-sized, European-blooded, white fellow who is/was 14 years older than her; 10 years older than me. She’s sort of winding down with him. Practically no sex with him anymore. (That’s why I’m referring to him as “is/was”. She loves him as a friend, but no longer as her lover. She feels “the chase” has run its course COMPLETELY.)

The second, BF#2, is a smaller-than-me-AND-her-first-boyfriend, light-skinned El Salvadoran fellow who is four years younger than her; eight years younger than me. They’re pretty hot and heavy these days.

She’s really having a good time with BF#2 because he “chases” her in ways that BF#1 and I haven’t done for a long time, admittedly. The spontaneity of back-seat sex, of getting fingered under the table at some restaurant with hanging table-cloths, of outdoor sex. The willingness to try new things, etc.

He’s a shorter fellow, about 5’5” tall, so naturally his junk is going to be proportionally smaller than me (I’m told I’m slightly thicker than normal, but average in length) or BF#1 (who is, we think, average in every way based on what we see when we watch amateur porn together).

Sidenote: She and BF#1 used to want me to watch and jerk off in their presence often. It’s a kink for my wife to watch me jerk off while she’s getting laid. BF#1 learned to enjoy cucking me, too. BF#2, however, is much more self-conscious about his (perceived) lack of size, so he is not comfortable with me being within eyeshot. She is slowly getting him to feel comfortable with himself so that I may eventually be able to watch again. While it is a thrill for me to watch her get laid, I’m just pleased knowing that she’s happy, really.

She SWEARS the sex with BF#2 is the best sex she’s had in her life. His size is “adequate,” she says. What he lacks in size compared to us (or those Black guys we see on PornHub), she says, he makes up for in ambition and energy. Apparently, he can go at FULL SPEED (like a Nigerian sprinter in the Boston Marathon) for looooooong periods of time that her pussy just loves. He gives her a good pounding, and she LOVES his stamina. He just doesn’t stop or slow down. Fucks her pussy silly at three, sometimes four strokes per second, she says! (Think about that pace….for ten or fifteen straight minutes. Holy shit!) She often comes home completely destroyed and tired, with cum-soaked panties that she rubs in my face (on occasion before sitting on my face).

And perhaps I should have mentioned this first: He has that superpower that we all wish we had. He can cum, stay hard, keep pounding her, and cum once or twice more….full loads each time. Gives her a real creampie, frothing his cum in a frenzied mess. “It’s messy, but oh-my-god, it’s fucking awesome to just feel him go and go without stopping…full speed the whole time.” (What the fuck! HOW?!?)

His size may not be on par with me or her previous BF#1, but he definitely has some compensation strategies that most men can’t match.

(I can’t wait to watch. Based on her testimony, he already has my full respect and admiration. He would have absolutely nothing to feel self-conscious about if he can perform at these levels! ANY cuck would be proud to watch a one-man train being run on his wife!)

And as you mention, so much of the cuck world seems to revolve around what a well-endowed Black man can do to the wife.

Yes. Not gonna deny for a moment that watching her get stretched and split in half by a BBC would be one fun aspect of her cucking me, but sometimes I feel like the community-at-large forgets that cucking takes on so many different forms.

My wife was never interested in the size of her boyfriends. She had about 5 or 6 that were bigger than my 16cm and some that had a bigger girth but that wasn't what attracted them to her.
She was happy going with anyone that was confident enough to come on to her and that was presumed knowledgeable enough to please her in bed.
Some of her best sex was with average or smaller sized men because she felt that they made more of an effort to please her.

My wife plays with all men size of the penis don't come into play in her choices, over the years the biggest she had was a white guy and the smallest was a black guy, however that doesn't mean much if you asked her she would say that black men generally have bigger dicks. He best lovers were not the biggest penis size.

I think perception gets distorted on these sites and in porn. There are plenty of ladies out there that only sleep with black men and most have there ideal man whatever that maybe. My wife likes men that are confident and that approach her and chase her make her feel sexy and like a lady and wanted. She has had all races. All that said in the last 5 years looking at my records my wife has only had one white lover the rest were black. This is not because she is not open to white men it just happens to be the men that have come on to her the last 5 years. If you asked me I would say right now she has a preference for black men sexually, she would say that is not true. Either way we are open to other men for sure it just depends on the person and a lot more then their dick size.

Nicely stated, Wifesharing!

My wife’s boyfriend is white, and previous men she’s dated have also all been white. We’re middle-class folks from a smallish and not at all diverse city. There just aren’t so many black people here that she’d naturally meet any, and she’s never had any interest in specifically seeking out black men. Neither of us has ever gotten the race fetish thing, but to each their own.

In terms of penis size, I’m average and her boyfriend is average too. She’s dated larger and smaller men, but reports no preference at all for size.

There are a lot of things we both do not like about the terms "bull" as well as "bbc".

1. If you read a lot on boards and contact people referring to themselfs as bulls you wonder who actually would want to have anything to do with "bulls". Firstof the stereotype certainly would not be a good fit for every couple looking für a play partner and more important for ourself only two guys we found online who referred to themself as "bulls" had been a good contact. With one of the two it did not fit for certain reasons, nevertheless he was a good guy. All the rest have been complete idiots with a pretty bad attitude for the most part. And this is in relation to people you find online where you do not have big expectations to begin with.

Considering those problems you of course would rather look for a good fit with whome you feel comfortable with than some idiot who might take liberties. That said those things are way more important than 1/2 inch more or less unless you might want to take the size matter to the extreme.

2. While we lived abroad for most part of our life we are originally from germany. That was less than a month ago the reason for a discussion with friends about something that common everywhere in the US, but illegal in germany: asking for ones race. While it is no taboo per se to talk about ones origin, it would be illegal to ask for ones race when creating an account on a website, applying for a job or even asked about it during census. That is where you come from beeing german when you hear the team "big black dick" - asking yourself why they have to but a certain race in that term and why they limit those people to the size of their genitals...
I do not know how those terms are generally seen in the US, but I know at least two black people from there who deem it discriminating. To me it is on one level as if you have some black people calling each other "n****r. If you want to put yourself on such a level that is fine, but in that case I would not want to have anything to do with you.

Yes. The majority of the men we hooked up with were exactly that. Average white guys.

I'd say that it depends greatly on the couple regarding their preferences and fetishes. My ex was a hot girlfriend for 7+ years when we were in our late teens to 20s and I can tell you that her 17 lovers were of all flavors and sizes.

If he had a dick, she was hopping on it lol. She had everything from Pacific Islanders to Caribbeans, a few Jewish, European and White guys, a variety of Central Americans, couple of South Americans, and one Black guy.

I personally did not care as long as she was getting pounded and cumming with these guys.

My current girlfriend finds black men attractive and has dated some in the past. As a result of that's I feel that my mind becomes more and more attracted to the idea of watching my GF date black men. I'd love to watch her be some black guy's slut at a club but realistically, I don't care as long as she is happy riding and cumming with another man.

Me and my wife are an interracial couple. I’m black and she’s Latina. I talked her into being a HW when she told me she was curious about white guys. Not bragging, but we knew there was a small chance she would be with a guy that had bigger dick than mine.

Over a two year period my choosy wife dated three white guys. All three of them, for various reasons, were fucking terrible. My wife had almost given up on her BWC fetish. And, my ego was thru the roof LOL. A few months later and out of the blue a young white guy asked her out. The night ended with him fucking the hell out of my little wife. The guy had a short thick cock that drove her crazy. They made a little video of them having sex. The guy fucked my wife so good she initially refused letting me see the video. She thought it would ruin our marriage if I saw it. It definitely was a big blow to my ego but I love watching the video.

My wofe has moved on from exclusively dating white guys. Color and dick size don’t matter to her now. Shes had great mind blowing sex with guys with average cock and terrible sex with big dick guys. By the way, A few years later my wife was with a white guy that had a skinny cock that was longer than mine.

She definitely spends more time with average white guys than any other group

My ex (I've written about her elsewhere on here) is Asian and only considers white guys. When I've asked her why, she shrugs and just says "preference."

Long ago I was the "medium large" (their words, not mine) and otherwise average long-term white bull for a few couples. They each had their kinks but in both cases the hubby loved listening or watching if she let him and being "forced" to clean up, while the wife liked that I was sane, intelligent, could go for hours and treated her with respect... And I have exceptional personal hygiene lol

When hubbies were around the wives would talk about preferring big cock but when they weren't around, both wives said size mattered, but not as much as they played it up.

Well I can only speak for myself, but as an East Asian male, I've had the honour & pleasure of railing a white hotwife over the last 18 mo. who happens to have a Fijian husband...& I'm actually larger than he is (I'm 6" long & 6" around, he's 4" & 4").

I'm seeing them this Friday night, going to see if I can get a comparison pic of her holding each of us in her hands & post in the "Post your dick without all the rules" thread.

Will keep you posted.