Young married guy here

[dadah]

trumpets, not trumps!! to hell with trumps !

[Jujube]

Hello? This is a Hotwife site, and you’re in the Cuckold Forum. I’m not sure why you’re here or if you read the whole thread, but it seems that all three of them are getting what they all want. Meanwhile the mute button can be useful.

[ColoCuck75]

Hello? This is a Hotwife site, and you’re in the Cuckold Forum. I’m not sure why you’re here or if you read the whole thread, but it seems that all three of them are getting what they all want. Meanwhile the mute button can be useful.

Jujube, agreed!!!! Why some people are mad Danny is getting what he wanted last year is odd.

[wemightjust]

Danny you mentioned that before Lauren went to NYC that she and Adam were alone for one night. Can you tell us what happened. Did they fuck in your bed? Did they fuck downstairs, or on the couch, as they had the house to themselves??

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

trumpets, not trumps!! to hell with trumps !

Dude...how many double posts are you going to make today? This is like the third one I've seen. Hit submit....and walk away for 5 minutes. I've tried it. It works.

[Luigical1931]

Thanks for the detailed update Danny.

Absolutely crazy that they’ve not tried many positions considering the frequency of the sex they have.

Maybe Adam didn’t want to do doggystyle not because he would lose control and cum early, but more he thought he would lose control and get very dominant (eg. Choke and pound her)? Perhaps he’s thought she’s stretched out enough and used to him now and ready to take him properly? I presume they now no longer use lube, you mentioned they didn’t use it on one of your last detailed updates.

I have some questions, some that have been asked already and others maybe not. Feel free to ignore, but my mind is intrigued.

1.) have they fucked in your marital bed? They had a night completely alone while you was away, that was in Adam’s bed?

2.) what would your thoughts be if they did fuck in your bed?

3.) earlier on she tried to give him a blowjob and failed. You described her during this as really competitive. Has she gone back and tried this again since? Just wondering whether this is something they still need to explore, or whether it’s a challenge that she has now conquered? He seems to give her great oral, so it seems only fair she learns to give him amazing oral too? What are your thoughts?

4.) they’ve been fucking for quite a while now. Have you heard of any talk of anything more kinky happening (not that what’s happening isn’t)? Eg. Has he exclusively came inside her since they began not using protection, or has he pulled out and came on her? What would be your thoughts if he gave her a facial? Not something you wouldn’t enjoy? What do you think she would think?

5.) creampies - obviously you mentioned about attempting to go down on her after he came inside her before. Are you still not into the idea or is that slowly coming round as time passes? Just wondering as you mentioned you’ve gone down on her a lot, but not had much sex. She’s clearly had a lot of sex with Adam, and by the sounds of it he’s pumping more than one load into her daily. So yeah, just wondering where you stand on this now?

I’ve been really busy of late, so sorry for compiling all my thoughts into one very forward post!

[FLR_fan]

Danny, do you think you can thread this very fine needle? I totally think you can do so.

[Dream Weaver]

Apparently Lauren likes doggy if it is not too rough.

You've never fucked Lauren doggy?

Sounds like she likes the hair pulling and choking too. Adam is taking her places sexually that she's never been. Can you imagine what he's going to do to her when they are in Florida... just the two of them and all kinds of time on their hands?

No no you have it all wrong. Adam is taken doggy style by Lauren.

[wannabecUKold]

Dude...how many double posts are you going to make today? This is like the third one I've seen. Hit submit....and walk away for 5 minutes. I've tried it. It works.

We’ve all been there.

[wannabecUKold]

Dude...how many double posts are you going to make today? This is like the third one I've seen. Hit submit....and walk away for 5 minutes. I've tried it. It works.

We’ve all been there.

[newUK]

To all those predicting the worst, you clearly don’t understand the mindset of a cuck. You don’t understand the bond it takes between the husband and wife to live the lifestyle. Yes of course it has its risks but it’s part of the thrill for the cuck.

When my wife L was seeing a guy last year she totally fell for him, she was seeing him almost every night, they got as far as telling each other they loved each other.

I know my wife totally loves me more though. If I tried to pull the plug on them she would have resented me and would never have engaged in any HotWifing ever again. I’m sure Dan is in the same boat. I’m sure he has some concerns about the trip away, but I bet he is also keen to allow them the complete freedom to enjoy each other and reap the rewards when they return.

Please keep the posts positive!!

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

Dude...how many double posts are you going to make today? This is like the third one I've seen. Hit submit....and walk away for 5 minutes. I've tried it. It works.

We’ve all been there.

Lol

[dadah]

be nice!! it's free, as in it doesn't cost anything!!

[3532734dreamer]

Hi Danny.

Huge fan of your story. I've been following them for quite a while now. And while I was tempted to write several times before, I would log in only to read that events had changed your situation completely. So here's hoping your situation has a few less surprises for a while.

First I have a few questions I wanted to ask, but they aren't that important. Then I had a few thoughts that might be worth discussing. Questions:

Is Lauren having sex with Adam everyday / almost every day now? And spending the night with him once or twice a week? Has she gotten completely used to his size now?

When are you finding the time to go down on Lauren? And how often are you having sex or masterbaiting together (Or how are the two of you intimate now?)?

Also when Lauren and Adam are having sex you have listened to Lauren moaning. What kind of moaning is it now? Is it different now then before? Does she just moan uncontrollably? Is she vocal in other ways? Like saying "Yes! Yes! Yes!", commenting on his size / performance, announcing she's going to cum, encouraging him to come, etc..?

How much about the sex does Lauren's friend Kelly know now? Does Lauren think she will talk more about her and Adam with Kelly? Does she want to have someone to share things with (besides you)?

Now the thoughts for discussion by both you and those who follow this thread.
Firstly, when Lauren spends the night with Adam she is, in a way, kind of his during that time. And then you get the details after. Going on this trip to Florida together, she will be HIS during that time too. And they have been know to be careless.
Is that something you and Lauren have considered? Is that something you are ok with? How much contact / communication are you expecting from Lauren? If she has to focus too much on your needs while they are away, Lauren might not be able to enjoy herself properly.
On the other hand, not enough communication from her might leave you feeling left out, anxious, etc.. and lead to a negative experience for you. Have you already considered these points, or others?
It might be beneficial to have those discussions beforehand so that expectations are kept realistic and can be met.

The second thought revolves around feelings. I just want to preface this by saying feelings are not necessarily a bad thing and are completely natural. And their discussion should not be avoided, as that can lead to repression of feelings that are there until they get to a point of no return or in other instances can mutate into feelings of resentment towards a partner. Both those things are detrimental to a relationship.
You and Lauren seem pretty good at communicating your feelings to each other. So I will start there. What are Lauren's feelings towards Adam? I think she has a pretty good grasp that Adam is not a long term partner (not husband material) like you are. But the line between fantastic, orgasmic sex and real feelings (lust vs affection/love) can be pretty blurry. So what are her feelings? She spends nights with Adam. They seem have great sex regularly. They go to the gym together regularly. They have occasionally done other social activities together (ie. with A's kids). She has stated before that she wants to continue having sex with Adam. She said she wanted to go to Florida with him. I think there might be a bit more than just lust at play. Maybe not love (yet), but some feelings of affection.
Then we also need to take into account Adam. He doesn't strike me as someone who is good at handling and communicating feelings. Which could be a problem here. Because we don't really know what his feelings are. He is already very uneasy with the current setup of having sex with Lauren and that you are aware of it. If he is now also harbouring feelings for Lauren he would probably play that very close to his chest. Look at everything he has already done in order to keep having sex with her - drinking less, better behaved, monogamous (as far as we know), and generally more stable as a person. A big improvement for him, but not necessarily easy either.
I don't think he wants Lauren spending nights just for the sex. I think he has feelings for her (probably stronger than Lauren's). And being alone with Lauren in Florida might make it a lot easier for him to express those feelings.
So what happens if Lauren is in a situation where Adam is expressing these feelings, far away from you? Does she shut him down? Reciprocate with her feelings? How would Adam or Lauren react? How would you react? What might the expectations be when they get back? Nothing changes?
Some discussion with Lauren about these possibilities might make things go a lot smoother for all three of you.

I'm sure the community has plenty of thoughts and comments to add. Maybe things I haven't considered here.

[Jujube]

I’ll chime in- when two people are having sex regularly (which Lauren and Adam undoubtedly are), and he’s giving her mind-blowing orgasms and cumming in her every time, it’s inevitable that feelings will develop. I believe there is such a thing as being “sexually in love”, where the intimacy takes over the psyche. However I do believe that Lauren considers Adam as a lunkhead who REALLY delivers the goods. I think her interest in Reddit’s Cuckold Psychology is telling. She’s interested in giving Danny what he wants while she’s getting hers. I’m very interested in how this develops-it’s looking to progress to a poly relationship where Adam is the sexual captain to Lauren and Danny is along for the erotic ride of his life!

[Jujube]

Also, I think it’s only a matter of time until everybody finds out about this little arrangement. The kids know, Lauren’s friend, I bet some of Adams buddies know something is going on. The trip to Florida might be the big reveal. I’m just wondering what will happen when Danny and Adams dad finds out!

[Mature_Roselands2555]

Also, I think it’s only a matter of time until everybody finds out about this little arrangement. The kids know, Lauren’s friend, I bet some of Adams buddies know something is going on. The trip to Florida might be the big reveal. I’m just wondering what will happen when Danny and Adams dad finds out!

Some interesting times ahead for sure

[Dream Weaver]

Also, I think it’s only a matter of time until everybody finds out about this little arrangement. The kids know, Lauren’s friend, I bet some of Adams buddies know something is going on. The trip to Florida might be the big reveal. I’m just wondering what will happen when Danny and Adams dad finds out!

Some interesting times ahead for sure

A few months ago it was a trip to Venice with Danny. Now it's the beautiful hot gator/python swamp in Florida. From Gondola to Airboat, Invasion USA style.

[joel68]

I think the Florida trip was beyond anything Danny expected. Now what? Lauren wants to go with Adam and get her brains fucked out. Is Danny excited for her to go now?

I still wonder what it’s like for all three of them at home day to day. Danny never spoke of this. Like eating dinner together, etc.

I look forward to his next post in light of recent developments.

[Gearup]

Hopefully more than one post. There are a long list of questions from activities over the past several weeks that have not been addressed by Dan as well as current events, Florida, etc.

It would also be great to have Dan do one of those deep dive interviews of Lauren ( like he did in the past) to get her take on all the events of recent times

[RunDannyRun]

Folks,

There has been a setback in the whole dynamic. I tried to talk to Adam and express some displeasure about him not consulting me before springing the Florida trip on Lauren. I also mentioned that he gets to have stay in my house, have sex with my wife and I don’t even get to watch. He called me a fag**t and said he doesn’t want to stay in our house anymore if the only reason I am letting him stay is to fuck Lauren. He packed a duffel and left.

Lauren got pissed about what happed between Adam and me, but she really got angry when I suggested that we can find another third. She said that she is not my whore to pimp around. She reminded me again that she is the one who is supposed to take decisions in this whole cuckolding business. She said she is very disappointed in me and she went to her parents house. This happened on Tuesday evening.

I also feel like this whole thread became less about sex and more about navigating various metaphorical minefields and emotions in our triad. I am not sure what is going to happen in future. I wanted to give an update so that people have some kind of closure and have a sense of where things are now.

Lauren definitely has feelings for Adam but FWIW, they have not met each other yet in person since leaving my house.

[joel68]

The only thing I can say is, WOW! What a development.

[venus-can99]

Danny - hope things work out between Lauren and you and Adam and you. You cant make decisions on Lauren's behalf without talking to her - she is part of your life. Getting fucked by Adam is just a side bonus

[Midnight Joker]

Folks,

There has been a setback in the whole dynamic. I tried to talk to Adam and express some displeasure about him not consulting me before springing the Florida trip on Lauren. I also mentioned that he gets to have stay in my house, have sex with my wife and I don’t even get to watch. He called me a fag**t and said he doesn’t want to stay in our house anymore if the only reason I am letting him stay is to fuck Lauren. He packed a duffel and left.

Lauren got pissed about what happed between Adam and me, but she really got angry when I suggested that we can find another third. She said that she is not my whore to pimp around. She reminded me again that she is the one who is supposed to take decisions in this whole cuckolding business. She said she is very disappointed in me and she went to her parents house. This happened on Tuesday evening.

I also feel like this whole thread became less about sex and more about navigating various metaphorical minefields and emotions in our triad. I am not sure what is going to happen in future. I wanted to give an update so that people have some kind of closure and have a sense of where things are now.

Lauren definitely has feelings for Adam but FWIW, they have not met each other yet in person since leaving my house.

Well, you didn't ask him to leave, nor make any decisions for her concerning cuckolding. You communicated your displeasure at the situation and his not respecting you. The reaction from both goes beyond cuckolding now, you're being pushed out and you admitted that Lauren has feelings for him now. Her reaction is anger at pushing her lover out of her life, even if that was on him, not you.

Glad you noted that they haven't seen each other in-person since both left (you read my mind) but, how do you know and how long before they do?

Cuckolding and this entire site is about the sex acts and the dynamics behind the situation. Unfortunately, we get vested emotionally in your story so opinions are inevitable.

I hope your "closure" statement doesn't mean that you won't post an update on this situation and how everything settles out in the long run. Right now, it is far from closed from my perspective. I think the good news is that you stood up for yourself and your marriage. As pissed as she is, that will count for some points I think.

[Gearup]

Wow. Apparently they have feelings for each other stronger than just fuck buddies. Odd that they have not talked. I know you can see Lauren’s texts but have you checked her phone call log to see that have not talked directly? And have you been in contact with Lauren? Has she cooled down or is she still pissed with you?