Young married guy here

[Gearup]

Lots of great discussion and comments on this in the past few days. Love to see multiple perspectives. Now we just need Danny to fill us all in on what has gone on for the past week. Should be good.

[ColoCuck75]

Danny likely won't come back to share the aftermath info. If it's over having Adam living at the house. Even if Danny described this site and its members like feeding cocaine to a monkey. Guess we all wait to see. This whole adventure has been super hot!

[Wifesharing]

This is not the first time Lauren has checked out on Danny even before Adam she went not talking to Danny for some time even having an affair, even though it never led to full on sex. I think they are a bit in mature for this in their relationship. I hope I am wrong but I think they have done some severe damage to their marriage in the last year.

I agree Wifesharing (mostly)

I think they are both immature and maybe they are not in that space to be able to navigate this arrangement,.

However, I think it has been clear from the outset, that Lauren acts like an impudent child whenever things don't go her way (being fingered 1st time, emotional affair with past teacher, and finally, fucking Adam's huge cock till she comes over and over).

She goes straight to blaming Danny when things don't go her way, and now 'walking out on him' simply because he made a comment to her bull?

I know the cuck thing, what I'd give to see my little wife fucked to the edge of her fantasy!

But, this disrespect, I could never do that.. Maybe I ain't actually enough cuck?, .. I just wanna see my wife fucked good & hard, and yes, some emotional bonding would be very hot too..

But this disrespect?

Change the locks Danny, tell Lauren to come get her stuff, she can defo be replaced.

Either she will 'wake up and smell the coffee' or, ... she actually doesn't love you, and your resources are all she cares about?

Best of luck mate.

Please update us, I know you realise we love hearing all the 'hard fucking' stuff, but your emotional journey and how you both navigate it, is probably more important to most of us, and yes, we can learn from this.. Thanks for posting Danny, and hope you and Lauren can turn this around.

I agree I also think that is how she has acted from the start.

[Midnight Joker]

Danny likely won't come back to share the aftermath info. If it's over having Adam living at the house. Even if Danny described this site and its members like feeding cocaine to a monkey. Guess we all wait to see. This whole adventure has been super hot!

Hope not, but his last post mentioned "closure" which was anything but considering the situation.

[The Owl]

Intelligence = Resilience.
Adam's IQ is some where between room temperature and a sunny day in Fargo.
Not much resilience or flexibility there.
Bodes unfavorably for a positive outcome involving him.

[viking53]

Hi Dan

It's been a week since the meltdown. I hope Lauren is back home now and that you have both started repairing your relationship, without Adam.

[Coolcalm]

On the other hand, I don’t know if Adam is as stupid as he seems???? Well, yes, he is stupid but his street smarts and instinct may be what is driving him. I mean who knows what he and Lauren talk about in their cuddling sessions that Danny (stupidly) encourages? He and Lauren probably have talked about numerous scenarios where he knows Lauren (dumb selfish Lauren) will ALWys go to him. She’s probably told him that nothing will keep her from him, etc…
Speculation, of course, but since all three are fucked up, who knows???

[joel68]

It seems to be kind of a consensus here is that all three of them and their behavior have led to this recent blow-up.

I wholeheartedly agree.

Adam making a bold move to take Lauren to Florida. (It was never mentioned for how long.) But springing it on her and not even mentioning it to Danny directly.

Danny reacting negatively & then telling Adam he should get to watch them fuck was too over the top for Adam which resulted in the faggot comment.

Then Lauren overreacted to that and Adam moving out. When Danny suggested another guy, she came back with her not being Danny’s whore. To me, it’s kind of interpreting it as if she were fucking Adam for the only reason being to please Danny and get him off.

So I guess now we will wait until Danny returns & lets us know what happened. I hope it’s soon and also that their marriage can be salvaged.

[Jujube]

Now I think the real reason Lauren was pissed is that the exchange Adam and Danny had essentially blew up their Florida trip. The pimping me out comment just gave her the excuse to stomp out and punish Danny. She blames Danny for taking her candy away. She definitely has feelings for Adam. That kinda happens when you have great sex with someone all the time.

[Dream Weaver]

Danny - It must be frustrating trying to stand up for certain common sense ideas (especially with Adam), and having him roar off like the Manchild he is. Feel free to give us your thoughts and feelings.

[proudhusb217]

I'd change the locks and see an attorney!

[joel68]

Proud,

Legally you can’t keep a woman out of her domicile in most states.

[readyy2009]

She is not his whore to pimp around but let's not forget she also went behind Danny's back to be with her teacher friend a few months ago

[3532734dreamer]

Hi Danny.

Your inbox is probably full of PMs. Very sorry to read your update. I hope you are doing ok and that the situation is improving since then. To be honest, I think you probably prematurely triggered something that would have been bigger disaster later. Mostly because the THREE of you weren't on the same page, and the longer that continues the larger issues have time to become.

To add my voice into the discussion: I have gone back and read all of RunDannyRun's posts and a few things have stuck out for me.

In a post on the third page, Danny writes than Lauren wants/needs an emotional connection to the person she sleeps with. After the first attempt ends badly, Lauren retreats inward to deal with it. But she does come out of with in a better place, as long as she feels she has control. At some point she meats the older teacher and has a connection with him. She stops it before it goes very far and finally opens up about it to Danny.
At this point Lauren is not only interested in trying Danny's cuckolding fantasy, but she seems interested in it as well, overcoming her previous reservations and even able to overlook political views and age differences. When Adam moves back in with them and Danny suggests him to Lauren as a potential person she isn't opposed to the idea at all and in fact agrees. I would go so far as to say out loud that she probably thought about Adam already. Danny has also states the he is her "type" - big, musclar, manly. So for Lauren that connection was immediately there, if not emotional then definitely sexual. All the making out they did prior to have sex could also be considered in a context of emotional-relationship building.
I don't mean that Lauren was madly in love with Adam. In fact from Danny's posts, I got more the impression the she was pretty good at compartmentalising that relationship. Still being there for Danny when he needed it, pacing herself in the beginning - I think she showed she had control there, though eventually I think she was willing to lose some of that control to Adam as the sex got better and better - and then upping it once Danny was comfortable with it.
It is difficult to determine since Danny was a bit scarce on details in the last month or so. But it seemed that Lauren and Adam were having sex almost every day when they where both home, with a couple of nights a week that would be spent together. That's quite a lot, while amount of times Lauren's and Danny were intimate were considerably fewer.
Right before the "setback" I had posted some questions that I thought might shes some light onto how the sex Lauren and Adam was developing ot had changed. Without knowing more details about that it harder to speculate on Lauren's feelings for Adam. But I will optimistically say that while sheay have had feelings for Adam, I think they were still mostly sexual and there was really a risk of her leaving Danny. Her getting upset at Danny for fucking up a good situation for her is understandable. Her reaction to Danny saying they could find another third is also understandable. Besides the mind-blowing sex with and some feelings for Adam, that statement likely undermined her feeling of control over the situation - something very important for her when agreeing to the cuckolding arrangement. Lauren leaving to go stay with her parents could be showing two things; immaturity (we are talking about a 23/24 year old) and maybe and a sudden realisation that she has more feelings for Adam than she thought and was unable to process it there and then (like after her first experience but then also needing physical space).
Now Danny said in his post that he was pretty sure Lauren and Adam hadn't met up since. But he doesn't clarify if they had been communicating. I guess we are in the dark until Danny choses to update us. I hope he has been working to fix things with Lauren, even if that means putting his cuckolding fantasies on hold for the foreseeable future.

As for Adam, Danny didn't deserve what he said or how he treated him. The problem is that from the beginning Adam had been disrespectful. He was very ready to "cheat" with Lauren, despite feeling bad about it. And continuing to sleep with Lauren after Danny "found out" about them. In conversations between Danny and Adam, Adam (one of the conversations is on page 95 I think) even states that he has less react for Danny because of it.
He was never on board with cucking Danny. He was doing it for himself. He wasn't just not on the same page as Lauren and Adam, he wasn't even in the same book. He made it quite clear actually, to both Danny and Lauren. His expectations seem to have been very different to what Danny's were. That was not helped by the fact that Danny and Adam couldn't talk properly about the subject, or about anything really after the finding out. So we don't really know. And we don't really know if he was developing strong feelings for Lauren. He wanted to take Lauren to Florida, but when confronted he would rather leave. Maybe he respected that it was Danny's house and wouldn't continue like that under his roof.

To also add to the change in Danny and Adam's relationship, I would also note that since Adam was questioning Danny masculinity - which seemed to be important for Adam - and and the loss of respect that would probably carry, Danny confronting Adam was very unlikely to go well. Especially if pushing Adam on something he was clear about not being ok with by mentioning being able to watch them.
Danny, Lauren and Adam had never sat down together to find common ground. Even communication between Lauren and Adam didn't seem to be properly setting boundaries and expectations. And communication between Danny and Lauren was suboptimal at times. He should have been consulting her much more about the how he was feeling instead of confronting Adam directly. A better path may have been for them both to sit Adam down and let him know he had overstepped. Adam would listen to Lauren, with Danny next to her (but saying as little as possible) he would also understand that they are united on the subject.

I really hope things are going ok for Danny and Lauren. And Adam too, even though he was an asshole. But mostly Danny and Lauren.
I also hope Danny updates us, even if it isn't the best news. We are here for him.

[joel68]

dreamer,

I agree. They never were on the same page. And Danny never discussed their daily life. Like dinner, watching TV, etc. Possibly the elephant in the room type of thing.

No ground rules to speak of either.

So now we wait. But the longer it goes on like this it doesn’t bode well for Danny.

[jeffx]

I can't wait for the update that Lauren hasn't been staying full time with her parents... meaning she's been staying somewhere else and guess with who?

Last time Adam went home to this father, I don't think Lauren would be visiting him there, maybe at a motel.
I think last time Danny's step father called him and asked about Adam, I'd expect the same if Adam's gone back to him, if not, then that means one of three things:

1. He didn't feel the need this time, as it's the same old thing as last time.

2. Adam told him about what's going on and step-dad is embarrassed to call. This could also mean Lauren's "visited" too.

3. Adam went to a friend's house this time.

Either way, I'm sure Lauren and him have been together since all this happened. They didn't have the fight, so there's no hard feelings there.

If that's the case, the marriage is over.

[Coolcalm]

There seems to be no doubt that Lauren will go wherever Adam is and be with him and then blame Danny.
All three seem so so (trying to be politically correct) clueless.
Lauren-childish, selfish and self centered
Danny-completely clueless and unaware, seems to not even care…
Adam-loser who only has his dick and stamina going for him

[wemightjust]

They situation as it has been described by Danny (Lauren is 'at her moms') and not at home. Adam MIA. makes me think 2 things

1) they are still having sex.
2) Florida is still going ahead

Depending how far away the Florida trip is. Danny may have to wait for any contact with Lauren.

[ColoCuck75]

They situation as it has been described by Danny (Lauren is 'at her moms') and not at home. Adam MIA. makes me think 2 things

1) they are still having sex.
2) Florida is still going ahead

Depending how far away the Florida trip is. Danny may have to wait for any contact with Lauren.

It would be crazy naughty if they were still having sex together after they both left the house! Plus if Adam and Lauren still go to Florida, Danny really will have been cuckolded by his hot wife. I hope he comes back to keep letting everyone know what happens???

[Watchinu69]

There seems to be no doubt that Lauren will go wherever Adam is and be with him and then blame Danny.
All three seem so so (trying to be politically correct) clueless.
Lauren-childish, selfish and self centered
Danny-completely clueless and unaware, seems to not even care…
Adam-loser who only has his dick and stamina going for him

First guy to call this correctly & what it is- well done

[Ineluki01]

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[Ineluki01]

Wow, this blew up in an unexpected way

I think Adam is first and foremost angry at not being in control of the fucking, he has cheated before and i dont think he ever felt like he was the one being used for sex

Danny did the right thing in the wrong way, demanding anything from Adam hurt his feelings and left him feel used

This is where the real meaning of "fragile masculinity" comes from, it means being traditionally masculine requires accomplishments to obtain, but its very easy to destroy if you find yourself in a situation beyond your control, aka "its fragile"

Banging a younger hot married wife? Yes, traditionally manly

But the moment Danny demanded extras it stopped being about Adam banging Lauren, and it became about Danny allowing it

Had Lauren proposed it to Adam, it would have been easier for him to accept

Then, Danny suggesting Lauren can get another guy is perfectly reasonable, but done so fast let her no time to get used to the idea while triggering any feelings she has for Adam

But both cases are very secondary to Danny being directly disrespected and Lauren ignoring it, and refusing to discuss it to focus on her anger

Its clear both took Danny for granted while enjoying the benefits, there is a lot of apologizing to do, but Danny is the one most ignored by far

I said this was unexpected because i already expected Adam to feel used and emasculated at some point, but i assumed it would happen when Lauren would point how his lifestyle doesnt match his macho persona

[Gearup]

There seems to be no doubt that Lauren will go wherever Adam is and be with him and then blame Danny.
All three seem so so (trying to be politically correct) clueless.
Lauren-childish, selfish and self centered
Danny-completely clueless and unaware, seems to not even care…
Adam-loser who only has his dick and stamina going for him

First guy to call this correctly & what it is- well done

As a male, you have to appreciate how absolutely fucking lucky three times loser Adam is in this whole thing. Free room, board and hot nympho wife pussy with few strings attached. That’s why this has to be a fantasy - nobody is that lucky

[Coolcalm]

Thank you Watchin!

I think we need an update from Danny

[dadah]

there are many of us who advised danny that not only were taps playing in the distance for the life of his marriage, but that trumpets were blaring right here in the room with us............all to no avail., tho we tried to tell him.

in my experience in life people generally come in 2 basic categories - givers and takers. the happiest relationships involve giver plus giver, therefore no need for taking. givers should be found and kept, takers should be avoided at all costs.

in this fucked up mess of a life, it is clear to me that hot little lauren is nothing more than a consummate taker, so is her big dick lover adam. both should be ditched and avoided at all costs, and encouraged in life to go find happiness while they take from each other.

danny on the other hand is obviously a giver, tho clueless and wimpish to a fault, one who gives his wife to her preferred lover, keeps the house, cleans the laundry, cooks the dinners , etc. imo a man who enjoys the thought of having a hot wife who is encouraged to enjoy other dicks, does not mean the husband should become a cluelessass wimp. it is time to tell adam to grow the fuck up and get out of his house, and tell hot little whore lauren 'adios, hasta la vista baby, you are mad at the wrong man for the wrong reasons' !!!