How many times in a day …

[Desiplayer]

Being in this lifestyle, how often in day…do you think about your wife with another man ..curious to find out the the extreme level of our needs….
For me I would say at least I would think about my wife with her lovers or any men I see hot in our day to day interactions…about 20-30 thoughts in day would come in my mind ….I find it’s increasing over time

Thoughts

[Cdncuck]

I used to think about all the time. If we knew she had a date on the weekend, I'd start running porn movies of her in my head about Wednesday

[readerofthings]

We're very far into the lifestyle so quite a bit. Most days it either comes up in conversation or she's directly interacting with her boyfriend or flirting with another guy while we're out somewhere.

[stubbyhubby]

Easily 30 times a day. If I know some big or special event like our anniversary trip or vacation is coming it consumes my thoughts for days ahead of it.

[jrobb]

Some days it seems like imagining her being shared is like seeing a horse on a carousel coming around again, and again. The trigger might be something like, "Oh, look at that bathing suit photo. I bet if she wore that she could easily get laid." Or, "She's shopping right now. I wonder if anyone has caught her eye?" The darn carousel never seems to stop! Not that that's a problem though!

JR

[LongTermHubby]

If I know she's away with a lover, I think about her being with him pretty much continuously.

[Her number1]

I've never tried to keep count.
I can say it's not constant, but very often.

[isinlarsa]

I think about it all the time; but I think about it on an entirely different level when I know she's with another man.

[Thebestdays1]

Like the others, the thought that my wife had been with other men during our marriage and she'd share the details with me would turn me on several times a day.
If she was with a boyfriend while I was at work then it would be very hard to concentrate on my job and I'd have to try really hard to push the thoughts out of my mind. Sometimes I'd just try to look forward to hearing the details when we were alone.
During her time at one job she was seeing a colleague and as they both had Monday's off, they'd spend the day together, after she'd dropped the kids off at school. The boyfriend was so keen to see her that he'd be waiting for her to get home, after coming back from the school and he'd be sitting on his motorbike. He would have been highly visible to the neighbours.
The thought of them naked together for nearly 7 hours and being in each other's arms used to drive me mad with lust and it was almost impossible for me to concentrate at work.
Luckily, I worked with another hotwife and we'd swap our shifts around to help each other. So on most Mondays I'd spend the day with a much older female colleague of my wife's, that my wife was also sleeping with. Normally, I'd try to hold off from cumming for a couple of days before my wife went with someone. However, on these Mondays I'd be too excited and this woman still had a very high sex drive so we'd have sex about three times during the morning then I'd hold off from cumming so I'd have a little bit left in the tank for that night. My wife would tell me what she'd done with the boyfriend then ask me about my time with her friend.
Just knowing what I'd have to look forward to on Monday nights at that point in time would occupy my thoughts constantly.