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As above, tell us how long you’ve been pussy free so we can celebrate - and then give advice and help to those in need or need encouragement to take part in the pussy-free lifestyle.

10 years here and it’s flown by

3 years in less than a month!

Wouldn’t change a thing…. it’s been awesome!!!!

Fantastic stuff!!

Five years and one month since I was last in my wife's pussy. She, on the otherhand sees a friend (that she doesn't know that I know about) every few weeks for sex.

Over 15 years pussy free and love it.

RR - that’s a great effort, congrats. Any plan to make the cuck side official?? Have you gone over to getting any cock like a lot of us have??

SD - amazing!! If I remember rightly, you just get a lot of cock these days?? You should be very happy/ proud of putting up 15 years. Amazing stuff .

ohtobecucked wrote: ↑

Tue Aug 13, 2024 4:20 am

RR - that’s a great effort, congrats. Any plan to make the cuck side official?? Have you gone over to getting any cock like a lot of us have??

Hi ohtobecucked
I have considered confronting her, but I don't want to spoil her fun.
As for me, yes I do like to suck on a nice hard cock, or submit to a good fucking.

Fair enough, I get it.

I only sucked my first dick a month or so ago, but I get what everyone here is saying when they say it’s extremely addictive. Even thought of getting more cum now is so hot. Love it!

I’ve been pussy free for over 4 years. Wife will only give me handjobs while reserving her pussy for her sex toys.

BD - fantastic! Hope you’re both happy!

It's been 15 years for us. My wife said she wanted to reserve penetrative sex for men who could satsify her.

15! Fantastic, love it. Sat here trying not to get hard so the cage doesn’t kill me love it.

Amazing x

Been pussy-free since April 3, 1993 so that puts me at a little over 31 years and 4 months. Lisa has fucked lots of guys who were born after the last time I had pussy lol

I was pussy free for just over a year but Lynn let me inside of her during our anniversary trip on May 3rd so the countdown starts again!

ohtobecucked wrote: ↑

Fri Aug 16, 2024 5:36 am

Fair enough, I get it.

I only sucked my first dick a month or so ago, but I get what everyone here is saying when they say it’s extremely addictive. Even thought of getting more cum now is so hot. Love it!

I have seen it as an Aplha BF with couples. Once a cuckold becomes caged and pussy free, their attraction to sucking cock grows and it quickly becomes addictive !!

Just sayin….

Brad

I also should say Congratulations to all that have reached their goals !!!

So many have goals that are far out in front of them yet.. and unfortunately, some will only reach their goals in their dreams… what a shame.

Keep listing your milestones so others can celebrate with you and give hope to the ones just beginning their journey.

Brad

I’m a guys guy who never thought I’d be a Cuckold much less now a cocksucer who truly enjoys everything about sucking a mans sexy cock. I’ve been pussy free at various times. Longes I’ve only had cock was 6 months and 11 days.

1,166 days and counting!

Caged in September2017 at which time my Wife declared me permanently pussy free (penetration, licking required). She has been completely true to Her declaration. She, of course, has as much penetrative sex as She desires. A great turn on is Her absolute guilt free attitude towards my chastity and lack of orgasms. She loves to say: “you’re the one in chastity not me.” Cuckolding and chastity was my idea initially, but She took to it after some persuasion on my part like a duck to water. Can never imagine any other way to live.

Over 7 years for me. My wife made it clear that my tiny penis belongs in a cage and not in her.

2 years as of October 12th. Which has become our new anniversary. We have both decided this is what we want and no going back.

For me I have been pussy free is 1999, so I am coming up on 26 years now. I will be 84 in a month as I write this. I have been married in the past and a cuckold while married. I have also sucked cock off and on over the years beginning at a rather young age with a friend, but being totally pussy free has been just since 1999. I suck cock only and still love giving head to other men.

I just hit one year

I'm brand new to being pussyfree but it will be permanent for as long as our relationship lasts. I'm so envious of some of you going years and years. I hope to join you!

TL;DR - Once in the past five years. Last PIV: 2 years, 3 months ago

We evolved into a PF relationship slowly. I think having kids and the subsequent kids-in-school/sports/activities/etc. period of our lives eventually contributed to the lack of PIV for us. Our lives revolved so much around family stuff that we lost sight of ourselves as a sexual couple. Eventually, my wife acknowledged that she was having vaginal dryness issues. We are very, very affectionate, but my wife's vaginal dryness has been a challenge for us. She very much loves my touch, but PIV has been off the table for quite some time. Our penultimate PIV experience was over five years ago. Our last PIV experience was two years, three months ago. At that time, neither one of us could believe it had been that long. It was a good experience for both of us, but she continues to suffer from vaginal dryness, so now it's been once in over five years. I guess we're officially a PF couple.

I started leaning into this PF lifestyle when I started getting interested in chastity play. I harbored fantasies about my wife controlling me sexually for a few years, and then right around the start of COVID (coincidental time marker), I purchased a cage off Amazon and tried it out. I wore it for about two to three weeks during the day when I was WFH to see if it was all it was cracked up to be. At the end of this trial period, I let my wife discover that I was wearing it (probably not the best approach, but it did work out well for us), and she was very curious about it, asking all kinds of questions. When I said I would like for her to be my KH, she was game, but it has taken time for her to feel comfortable with this new authority.

I also, at the same time, acknowledged that I wanted to make sure she always is fully sexually satisfied, even if that meant she took lovers outside our relationship. At first, she was unsurprisingly suspicious that I was trying to line up my own lovers, especially given our defacto PF relationship. I assured her I did not want that and, in fact, would be turned on by her enjoying herself sexually with other men. She has grown to understand that she has a permanent hall pass, and what I get out of it is the turn-on of knowing she's been satisfied better than I have been satisfying her. We've always had good sex, when we have it, but as I have said, that rarely happens these days. But I figured that having outside partners could help her reconnect sexually and be a win-win for both of us.

I still want to have sex with her, including PIV. But if she only reserved PIV for her partners, I would be good with that as long as she was fully sexually satisfied and if she shared her experiences with me, either directly or indirectly. To date, she has not exercised her hall pass. We are open and transparent with each other, and I know she would tell me and want to include me (discussions, helping her get ready, possible reclaiming, etc.) if she found a partner. I also know she wants to restart our sexual connections, but for now, that includes her occasionally telling me to lock up so she can tease me.