Our Hotwives

My wife and I are in a committed FLR Hotwife/Cuckold dynamic. The interesting thing about our dynamic is that it seems to be considered a “little too kinky” even for places like FetLife. One of the last taboos!!

We are searching for other couples for community. It’s hard to find others in our dynamic to chat with, celebrate adventures with, and maybe even work through challenges with. Ideally, the Hotwives could even hunt together, but even that’s just an option. We are really just looking for another couple who gets it and would enjoy occasional meals and chats with another similar couple. We have had this before, and found it exceptionally uplifting. Only they moved to Europe. We still chat, and we even visited, but a local couple would be fantastic.

We are looking for couples like us. We’re in a one-way open relationship. My wife has complete freedom and discretion over her sex life. I am fully monogamous to her. This cuts out more traditional lifestyle circuits as the men there are rarely, if ever, monogamous. This part is so key to us.

Otherwise we are average folks. Both have jobs that require discretion and we live rather normal lives. We just know that being able to compare notes and have community with others who live this way just enhances the experience for everyone.

If you’re interested in chatting about this, send a DM and we can connect. We live in the Pacific Northwest. Local couples are easier to spend time with, but virtual friendships have value too.

We have an FLR relationship. Been on Fetlife for years. Chatted with many like minded couples. FLR doesn't seem to be taboo there for us.

Like you, we are also in a Female Led Relationship (FLR) where she gets freedom to play while I remain loyally committed to her, alone. (She currently has a LTR/boyfriend. They’re vibing well together, so we’re sticking with what works.)

I have always wanted face-to-face friends who are like us and understand our lifestyle and where we won’t feel judged, even if only for the occasional burger/beer or whatnot.

It’s difficult to find others like us, though.

We would absolutely love this too. We are in western North Carolina and would love to have “couple” friends like us to just shoot the breeze, hang out, swap stories etc.

We are in just need everyone to move close to us!

a very interesting topic, sounds great, we are in St Louis Missouri, would like to talk to others, by PM, first Bob,

We are far away from you, but we were able to establish close connection with two other families with similar interests over swinging house parties. Later we were able to organise a long weekend fun with invited bulls. I will not go in details as it was involving some mm actions also.