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How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Sat Aug 17, 2024 6:26 am
by ohtobecucked
Hi,
This is for the PE here, whether for enjoyment of otherwise…
When did you learn (and how!) to shoot early to make it better for your partner / mistress etc?
And those who have always had it? Any other suggestions??
Thanks
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Sat Aug 17, 2024 8:02 am
by Cdncuck
For me it just came naturally. The more she fucked other men, the faster I came.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Sat Aug 17, 2024 10:31 am
by kevinkevin800
I am glad this question has been asked. My bride and I are looking for ways that I can become a prejac. I'll be following for suggestions.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Sat Aug 17, 2024 8:26 pm
by petej55
Cdncuck wrote: ↑Sat Aug 17, 2024 8:02 am
For me it just came naturally. The more she fucked other men, the faster I came.
The same thing happened to me. Amazing how that happens!
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2024 4:50 am
by Bent_n_Twisted
Having my cock locked in a chastity cage for months practically guarantees that it will blast off almost immediately when it gets let out and gets a couple of seconds in pussy or mouth.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Tue Aug 20, 2024 5:08 am
by Parsifal
ohtobecucked wrote: ↑Sat Aug 17, 2024 6:26 am
Hi,
This is for the PE here, whether for enjoyment of otherwise…
When did you learn (and how!) to shoot early to make it better for your partner / mistress etc?
And those who have always had it? Any other suggestions??
Thanks
Okay, I'm curious. Please help me understand this twist.
In what way is PE "better" for her? I've always thought it's better all around for a man to have at least a modicum of stamina.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Tue Aug 20, 2024 7:33 pm
by sana9889
I find it flattering when guys shoot early. Esp with hj or bj. Its a real complement.
But you know what... most guys cant last long without a condom.
Especially anal (3 or 4 strokes,) Pussy is a bit more- but only a handful with pornstar potential.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Wed Aug 21, 2024 8:51 am
by AZPainter
I have to agree with some of the others here than cumming quickly evolved knowing and/or watching and helping other men with my wife. It is interesting how that happens. Before I lasted a pretty long time and could pretty much recover within an hour for a second round. But I lost the staying power knowing my wife was enjoying another man who was maybe larger than me in the equipment or whatever he brought to bed that I didn't. After maybe 6 months, when I had sex with her, I noticed my orgasms were happening quicker until it was only a few strokes in her and my interest in the hot things about what other men did for her that I would unload.So I would say it was pretty natural.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Wed Aug 21, 2024 9:20 am
by stevens4fun
My wife has always loved it when a guy lost control and came quickly, either in her vagina, her mouth or on her somewhere. She's even had little orgasms when this has happened when she's blowing a guy. She tries to have enough time with her "dates" for the guy to get hard again, which they almost always do. And if that doesn't work, she can rely on me if I'm home or nearby. Anal is a bit different. She loves anal, but it takes a bit more preparation, and a guy needs to be a bit more skilled to bring it to a successful conclusion in her. Ultimately, she'd love for any man lucky enough to find himself in bed with her - finish in her anus.
sana9889 wrote: ↑Tue Aug 20, 2024 7:33 pm
I find it flattering when guys shoot early. Esp with hj or bj. Its a real complement.
But you know what... most guys cant last long without a condom.
Especially anal (3 or 4 strokes,) Pussy is a bit more- but only a handful with pornstar potential.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Thu Aug 22, 2024 8:16 am
by lockedhappyhubby
Years ago I could last quite a long time, albeit I'm pretty small and could never make my sweetie orgasm other than giving her oral. It wasn't long, a few months after she decided I should be kept in a steel chastity cage and started living a cuckold marriage I became a one to two minute guy occasionally cumming in under five seconds!
She ran with it humiliating me not only on my small size but a pathetic quick cummer.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Thu Aug 22, 2024 2:19 pm
by hando
My wife has always wanted men to orgasm as fast as possible which means to her she excited them so much that they couldn't hold back. She told me not to hold back my orgasms, but to cum as fast as I could. I got to where I would be past the point of no return at only halfway in on the first stroke. If I lasted a long time, it would be 10 seconds and 4 or 5 strokes. Obviously, I was eating a lot of my own cum to make her get her own orgasm.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2024 8:35 am
by stevens4fun
I have heard those same words. From time to time my wife has given herself to a man who would never, ever be able to score on his own. She makes it easy for him, and will sometimes see him more than once. They always promise to do better next time.....
******
My wife has always wanted men to orgasm as fast as possible which means to her she excited them so much that they couldn't hold back.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Sat Aug 24, 2024 9:20 am
by BBCfan
I always prided myself in my ability to last pretty long.
The 1st time my wife starting telling me about her favorite biggest black dicks and how they fucked her so good I almost came instantaneously and had to stop any movement for a few minutes to recover.
It's still the case when she brings it up during sex.
I often wonder if I witnessed her taking her fave BBC again if I would nut spontaneously.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Thu Aug 29, 2024 9:45 am
by Drakebelg
I've always been fast but this method has made me what seems to be permanently fast. I also use prejac or beta training videos on hypnotube. They seem to help a lot.
https://www.reddit.com/u/sweetdangerous ... IvdARl4voW
With my wife the moment the thrusting starts I'm lucky if I last 30 seconds but quite often in the 10 to 15 seconds. Jerking off I can go from soft to cumming also in about 30 seconds.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Sat Aug 31, 2024 7:34 pm
by troilusand
I've ALWAYS had PE. From my first fuck to my last (which was a decade ago...). What has made me such a pathetic performer has from the start been my selfish focus on MY pleasure, not the woman's.
If you really want to become a PEer, concentrate hard on what is making you so excited while fucking. Remember: it's all about YOU, not her! And once you fall into this, you'll never be able to come back! I've tried to be a better lover...no such luck! I am what I am and can't change.
This gave my wife (who was ALWAYS a slut -- even before I met her) the perfect excuse to cheat on me early in our marriage because I was so worthless in bed.
But I can see why you and (probably MORE SO) your wife want this. Once completely into the cuckold LS, it's quite natural for the cuckold to be the worst fuck in the wife's life. She can take pleasure humiliating you for being the worst...and you can revel in knowing ALL the men she fucks are better than you.
Good luck in your endeavors.
Troilus
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Sun Sep 01, 2024 1:57 am
by Mustang1
I can take a viagra pill and last a long time. I don’t always need one but it’s fun to take one. She cums a lot. I make her put her wet pussy in my face a get her cum. It’s delicious and intoxicating. Then after several cums she will grip my cock in a way to hit her G Spot and she cums so hard she has to stop. If I came at the same time she is even more happy. I’d love her to tie me up, make me cum in her and then she would slide up and make me clean her up…
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Sun Sep 01, 2024 2:14 am
by LongTermHubby
I could never last long enough to satisfy my wife (i.e. give her intense orgasms). That led to her making me her cuckold.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Sun Sep 01, 2024 4:52 am
by Bent_n_Twisted
Parsifal wrote: ↑Tue Aug 20, 2024 5:08 am
Okay, I'm curious. Please help me understand this twist.
In what way is PE "better" for her? I've always thought it's better all around for a man to have at least a modicum of stamina.
I think it depends on a couple's 'style'. While under 'normal' conditions everyone wants the guy to last for a while, with cuckolding (as opposed to just 'hotwife') there is sometimes an element of the husband being 'not good enough' which is used as an excuse for why the wife is fucking around, to the embarrassment of the husband.
In my case, when my wife is in 'naughty mode', she likes to keep my cock caged for months at a time. When I am really horny she likes to tie me down, then sit on my cock and tell me that if I cum in her she is going to sit on my face and make me eat her out. It can take as little as one to three strokes before I unload. For her, the sooner the better- she doesn't want me lasting long enough for her to orgasm, or very long at all, the goal is *only* to get her pussy full of cum so that she can make me lick it out of her.
She gets fantastic screaming orgasms from sitting on my face and making me lick her cum-filled pussy, and *that* is what she is after. How much pleasure *I* get is not relevant, my cock serves only to fill her pussy so that she can get what she wants, *her* pleasure is the only thing that matters. And the fact that she gets off on doing this is a massive turn-on for me as well.
It's just another kink that some of us enjoy.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Sun Sep 01, 2024 10:09 am
by Parsifal
Bent_n_Twisted wrote: ↑Sun Sep 01, 2024 4:52 am
Parsifal wrote: ↑Tue Aug 20, 2024 5:08 am
Okay, I'm curious. Please help me understand this twist.
In what way is PE "better" for her? I've always thought it's better all around for a man to have at least a modicum of stamina.
I think it depends on a couple's 'style'. While under 'normal' conditions everyone wants the guy to last for a while, with cuckolding (as opposed to just 'hotwife') there is sometimes an element of the husband being 'not good enough' which is used as an excuse for why the wife is fucking around, to the embarrassment of the husband.
In my case, when my wife is in 'naughty mode', she likes to keep my cock caged for months at a time. When I am really horny she likes to tie me down, then sit on my cock and tell me that if I cum in her she is going to sit on my face and make me eat her out. It can take as little as one to three strokes before I unload. For her, the sooner the better- she doesn't want me lasting long enough for her to orgasm, or very long at all, the goal is *only* to get her pussy full of cum so that she can make me lick it out of her.
She gets fantastic screaming orgasms from sitting on my face and making me lick her cum-filled pussy, and *that* is what she is after. How much pleasure *I* get is not relevant, my cock serves only to fill her pussy so that she can get what she wants, *her* pleasure is the only thing that matters. And the fact that she gets off on doing this is a massive turn-on for me as well.
It's just another kink that some of us enjoy.
Thank you. I really appreciate your perspective.
Can you help me understand your wife's dynamic? This question really is as much a question about the broader cuckholding dynamic generally. How is the husband's inadequacy such a turn on for her? I've wondered about how a wife stays married to a man she wants to relate to her in that way. I'm not asking this to confirm any prejudices of my own but to understand how it works. I can understand the attractiveness of married women who are dissatisfied sexually by their spouses and so need sex from other men. But I'm reaching to understand the value women in those kinds of marital relationships place on their marriages, putting aside what I assume is part of the benefit of any partnership such as friendship or financial security.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Mon Sep 02, 2024 7:30 am
by Bent_n_Twisted
Parsifal wrote: ↑Sun Sep 01, 2024 10:09 am
Can you help me understand your wife's dynamic? This question really is as much a question about the broader cuckholding dynamic generally. How is the husband's inadequacy such a turn on for her? I've wondered about how a wife stays married to a man she wants to relate to her in that way. I'm not asking this to confirm any prejudices of my own but to understand how it works.
I can't answer for anyone else, but we started with chastity and denial. She discovered that it turned her on to keep me locked and controlled while she got all of the orgasms she wanted. We were barely into it when she started with the cum-filled pussy face-sitting. I still don't know how she came up with the idea, it was certainly nothing I had ever mentioned, but it turned out that she really, really enjoyed it.
The point was to keep me locked, teased and denied, my getting an orgasm was unimportant except for using my desire for one as motivation to ensure that she got all of the pleasures she wanted, as well as some other benefits that she found desirable (less argumentative, more willing to do things for her that weren't specifically sexual, etc.). It didn't matter how long I could 'last' because I was getting one that often anyway. When I *did* get to cum, it *still* didn't matter how long I could last because it was irrelevant- I got what I wanted, an orgasm, and it didn't matter to her if it only took a couple of seconds to get there, and she got what *she* really wanted, which was having her pussy full of cum so that she could sit on my face and make me lick it. My lasting a long time wasn't the goal, getting the cum in her pussy was, because she had better orgasms that way...if it only took a very short time to get it, too bad (for me).
The idea of her fucking other guys (cuckolding) actually didn't come up until more than 10 years later. If other guys last longer, that's a plus for her and how long I last still doesn't matter. In fact, she can get more of what she wants- getting her pussy filled so that she can make me lick it, without having to let me cum (often), and the added bonus of making me watch other guys getting what I'm not, which also seems to really, really turn her on.
I know it all seems a little twisted (hence my alias) but it's what turns us on. In 'normal' life, I'm the guy that takes charge, tells other people what to do and makes them do what I want, fights for her and wins (whether in a courtroom or otherwise), but behind the scene I find it erotic to be the opposite, with the woman in control. She, like the horse-girl riding a stallion, gets to control what she knows is a powerful force and gets off on it.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Mon Sep 02, 2024 9:36 am
by Parsifal
Bent_n_Twisted wrote: ↑Mon Sep 02, 2024 7:30 am
I know it all seems a little twisted (hence my alias) but it's what turns us on. In 'normal' life, I'm the guy that takes charge, tells other people what to do and makes them do what I want, fights for her and wins (whether in a courtroom or otherwise), but behind the scene I find it erotic to be the opposite, with the woman in control. She, like the horse-girl riding a stallion, gets to control what she knows is a powerful force and gets off on it.
Thanks. I don't view any of what you've well described as twisted in a pejorative sense. My compersive receptivity to it is what's piqued my curiosity. It's particularly the counterintuitiveness of situation I find interesting, such as why some women get aroused by their husbands being in that kind of role vis a vis the other men who have sex with them. Your dymamic differs from mine in degree, but not completely in kind, so I do value your insights since they aid in my understanding of some of my own wife's tendencies.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2024 9:10 pm
by olive2a
Parsifal wrote: ↑Tue Aug 20, 2024 5:08 am
ohtobecucked wrote: ↑Sat Aug 17, 2024 6:26 am
Hi,
This is for the PE here, whether for enjoyment of otherwise…
When did you learn (and how!) to shoot early to make it better for your partner / mistress etc?
And those who have always had it? Any other suggestions??
Thanks
Okay, I'm curious. Please help me understand this twist.
In what way is PE "better" for her? I've always thought it's better all around for a man to have at least a modicum of stamina.
Hi.
It’s mostly psychological. it is the fantasy of uselessness which justifies that the wife would go looking for other men.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2024 9:24 pm
by olive2a
hando wrote: ↑Thu Aug 22, 2024 2:19 pm
My wife has always wanted men to orgasm as fast as possible which means to her she excited them so much that they couldn't hold back. She told me not to hold back my orgasms, but to cum as fast as I could. I got to where I would be past the point of no return at only halfway in on the first stroke. If I lasted a long time, it would be 10 seconds and 4 or 5 strokes. Obviously, I was eating a lot of my own cum to make her get her own orgasm.
wow, the dream.
if your wife likes it then you are a lucky man.
how was the first time you ate your cum in her pussy?
What was your wife's reaction?
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2024 9:32 pm
by olive2a
Bent_n_Twisted wrote: ↑Mon Sep 02, 2024 7:30 am
Parsifal wrote: ↑Sun Sep 01, 2024 10:09 am
Can you help me understand your wife's dynamic? This question really is as much a question about the broader cuckholding dynamic generally. How is the husband's inadequacy such a turn on for her? I've wondered about how a wife stays married to a man she wants to relate to her in that way. I'm not asking this to confirm any prejudices of my own but to understand how it works.
I can't answer for anyone else, but we started with chastity and denial. She discovered that it turned her on to keep me locked and controlled while she got all of the orgasms she wanted. We were barely into it when she started with the cum-filled pussy face-sitting. I still don't know how she came up with the idea, it was certainly nothing I had ever mentioned, but it turned out that she really, really enjoyed it.
The point was to keep me locked, teased and denied, my getting an orgasm was unimportant except for using my desire for one as motivation to ensure that she got all of the pleasures she wanted, as well as some other benefits that she found desirable (less argumentative, more willing to do things for her that weren't specifically sexual, etc.). It didn't matter how long I could 'last' because I was getting one that often anyway. When I *did* get to cum, it *still* didn't matter how long I could last because it was irrelevant- I got what I wanted, an orgasm, and it didn't matter to her if it only took a couple of seconds to get there, and she got what *she* really wanted, which was having her pussy full of cum so that she could sit on my face and make me lick it. My lasting a long time wasn't the goal, getting the cum in her pussy was, because she had better orgasms that way...if it only took a very short time to get it, too bad (for me).
The idea of her fucking other guys (cuckolding) actually didn't come up until more than 10 years later. If other guys last longer, that's a plus for her and how long I last still doesn't matter. In fact, she can get more of what she wants- getting her pussy filled so that she can make me lick it, without having to let me cum (often), and the added bonus of making me watch other guys getting what I'm not, which also seems to really, really turn her on.
I know it all seems a little twisted (hence my alias) but it's what turns us on. In 'normal' life, I'm the guy that takes charge, tells other people what to do and makes them do what I want, fights for her and wins (whether in a courtroom or otherwise), but behind the scene I find it erotic to be the opposite, with the woman in control. She, like the horse-girl riding a stallion, gets to control what she knows is a powerful force and gets off on it.
it's so exciting.
It’s certain that you must have traveled a long way to get there.
Re: How did you learn / start to shoot early / fast
Posted: Fri Oct 04, 2024 3:05 am
by Drakebelg
I've experience in actually training for this. It's amazing and my wife joined in. I was always fast but now with some training I am very consistently under a minute (sex and masturbation). We are in the looking for a first bull phase with one of the big reasons being my low stamina. Her opinion is because my stamina is so low anyway that it's better if can cum in seconds so we can focus on her pleasure and she loves the idea that I wouldn't have an affair because of cumming in seconds. Until we find a bull, strapons, cocksleeves and fisting are how she gets satisfied.
There is of course a subreddit for this and there are 3 to 4 techniques in the fixed post wiki. This is my preferred one:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Prematurefetis ... ter_coach/
So to summarize what I did. I timed myself while watching censored porn and was at about 2minutes. This is the baseline. Then you reduce your target by 20% so 96seconds. You wait 2 days (no masturbation or sex) and then aim for the 90s. If you don't cum stop immediately and wait 2 days to try again. If you cum withing the target reduce again by 20%. Don't watch porn in the off the days.
My wife started joining in and after she would orgasm from a strapon, sleeve, fisting, oral she would tell me to go for my target. After just a few months I was down to 15 seconds consistently. That was 6 months ago. I don't train anymore but I am consistently under a minute.
This type of video really helps:
https://hypnotube.com/video/premature-e ... 57220.html