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As me and wife go into about 4 1/2 years with our current bull, I got to wondering. Whats the shelf life of a Bull?

We originally bounced from bull to bull for multiple reasons. Bad performance, Bull decided to exit lifestyle, bull moves away, etc.

So from other cucks. How long do you think you should keep a bull around?

Have a look on the bottom of his feet, or somewhere like that. You will normally find a "Use by xx.xx.xxxx" date, or maybe a "Best before xx.xx.xxxx" date.
If he's gone past the "Use by date" then kick him out.
But, if he's not yet reached the "Best before..." then you can use him with no ill effects. You could go past the "Best before....", without any ill effects, but just bear in mind that his performance might be sub optimal.

I'm talking about UK labelling standards. It might vary in your country.

trecital wrote: ↑

Thu Aug 22, 2024 8:11 am

Have a look on the bottom of his feet, or somewhere like that. You will normally find a "Use by xx.xx.xxxx" date, or maybe a "Best before xx.xx.xxxx" date.
If he's gone past the "Use by date" then kick him out.
But, if he's not yet reached the "Best before..." then you can use him with no ill effects. You could go past the "Best before....", without any ill effects, but just bear in mind that his performance might be sub optimal.

I'm talking about UK labelling standards. It might vary in your country.

Excellent info - every time we've been in the store, we never knew where to look!

trecital wrote: ↑

Thu Aug 22, 2024 8:11 am

Have a look on the bottom of his feet, or somewhere like that. You will normally find a "Use by xx.xx.xxxx" date, or maybe a "Best before xx.xx.xxxx" date.
If he's gone past the "Use by date" then kick him out.
But, if he's not yet reached the "Best before..." then you can use him with no ill effects. You could go past the "Best before....", without any ill effects, but just bear in mind that his performance might be sub optimal.

I'm talking about UK labelling standards. It might vary in your country.

Haha maybe the term “shelf life” was wrong.

Joking aside I am curious on how long people stay with one bull? We’re just wondering if staying with one guy for so long will cause problems or if it’s more common in this lifestyle to switch partner s more frequently

My wife decides. When he starts to get boring, possessive or clingy, he's gone. Some are a one and done and some have been around for 25 years. There isn't an official time limit or anything. It's all about how long she wants it to last.

We don't use the term bull for Jason as they have been together for so long and we don't see any end in sight. He is her boyfriend or her "Sexy Lover" as she calls him. When he calls she always answers the phone "Hi Sexy". I get nervous that one of these times it will be his wife digging into his phone but he says not to worry about it.
David

We have never used the term “bull.” He went from FWB to the man in her life. That was March 2019 when I asked him to become her man. He replied absolutely. My wife just had his baby earlier this month. They plan on a second baby just as soon as she’s capable of getting pregnant a second time.

There’s no shelve time in this arrangement.

sissy pauline

...and then, of course, one might also wonder just how long a hotwife couple is able to stay in a relationship with a FB without stepping away for one reason or another....

trecital wrote: ↑

Thu Aug 22, 2024 8:11 am

Have a look on the bottom of his feet, or somewhere like that. You will normally find a "Use by xx.xx.xxxx" date, or maybe a "Best before xx.xx.xxxx" date.
If he's gone past the "Use by date" then kick him out.
But, if he's not yet reached the "Best before..." then you can use him with no ill effects. You could go past the "Best before....", without any ill effects, but just bear in mind that his performance might be sub optimal.

I'm talking about UK labelling standards. It might vary in your country.

Yes, we had a UK bull and it was best by 11.01.17 but we were in the US and we kicked him to the curb 10 months past expiration by accident. He also said he was 16 stone, but I said what you smoke on your time is your business, Buster.

Kayscuck89 wrote: ↑

Thu Aug 22, 2024 6:22 am

As me and wife go into about 4 1/2 years with our current bull, I got to wondering. Whats the shelf life of a Bull?

We originally bounced from bull to bull for multiple reasons. Bad performance, Bull decided to exit lifestyle, bull moves away, etc.

So from other cucks. How long do you think you should keep a bull around?

As long as he works out for you. The moment he doesn't work out then it's probably time to part. For instance we had just one guy and the instant he choked my sweetie and wouldn't let go that was it. No more.

No easy question - i think it depends

I think it depends on the individual case

If everything is OK and everyone feels comfortable, you don't necessarily have to change anything

In the beginning, a lot is new and the wife enjoys getting to know real men and having fun - some wives prefer a steady lover (or 2 or 3) a little later.

In all cases the woman should decide, because it is about her - her cuckold must support her in all decisions

It depends on both parties really and what they both want.

How much availability does the HW have to keep an exclusive lover satisfied? If she doesn't have much availability is he is seeing other people then it could go longer but non exclusively.

How long is the BF will stay single and committed to the HW. Does he eventually want to get married or have kids etc.

I think it's probably quite rare for it to last for years. In most cases I think the relationship will always have an expiration date that is soon than later. From the bulls POV, it can get very exhausting after awhile. Alot of effort and energy to put in for something to that actually has very little payback, especially knowing that you're expendable at anytime.

Adding to my comments:
If your chosen man/bull/bf/lover is a single man and you want an exclusive long term relationship you're going to have to offer more than just sex and her availability is going to have more be more than just a couple of times a month. I'd say minimum of once a week and she will have to be available for other dating activities too, like movies, concerts, BBQs, weekend trips and vacations. As a prime single man why would he want to spend most of his time alone and only getting sex once or twice a month? Sex with a married woman can be a fantastic experience, but occasional sex alone is not enough to keep a quality man on the hook forever. If you find that quality man, remember he is a person too and deserves to be treated common decency and humanity just like anyone else does. So be respectful of his time and energy, his schedule and demands of real life, etc.

If you're not willing or able to offer that then most likely you will have alot of turnover. Short of that the only thing that might work long term without the other dating activities is a married man in an open relationship. Such a man has a family and other life to fill the social spaces in his life and will just enjoy your wife for the sex.

For Bri its mostly Use & throw and a major chunk of that is consume within 72 hours.

Some of the early ones didn't last more than a year or two. One lasted 9.5 years and would still be her bull if we didn't move. Her current bull is at 8 years and 2 months and will be going a lot longer since we don't plan on moving anytime soon and neither does he.

trecital wrote: ↑

Thu Aug 22, 2024 8:11 am

Have a look on the bottom of his feet, or somewhere like that. You will normally find a "Use by xx.xx.xxxx" date, or maybe a "Best before xx.xx.xxxx" date.
If he's gone past the "Use by date" then kick him out.
But, if he's not yet reached the "Best before..." then you can use him with no ill effects. You could go past the "Best before....", without any ill effects, but just bear in mind that his performance might be sub optimal.

I'm talking about UK labelling standards. It might vary in your country.

Farmgirl has 14 bulls currently. We keep them 3-4 years on avg. so, we buy 2 to three a year.

Do you slaughter them or just release them when FG were done?