Small chastity cage for a ‘bigger’ guy - help!

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Small chastity cage for a ‘bigger’ guy - help!

Unread post by ohtobecucked » Wed Sep 04, 2024 12:55 am

Hi all,

So, I try and be caged these days when possible but I’m interested in going as small as possible. My issue (nice one to have 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ I dunno, still don’t get to use it) is that my dick is just over 8” long when hard, so around 5” when soft.

So, I don’t mind buying a few to try (mine is like the CB1000 or whatever it’s called) but I really wanna try SMALL!

For those who do use them, is my size going to make this an issue?? I can see it being really uncomfortable to go too small, but I don’t know how else to judge it without buying loads of them…

Halp, cucks!

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Re: Small chastity cage for a ‘bigger’ guy - help!

Unread post by submissivedanny » Wed Sep 04, 2024 1:23 am

You can only go so small with a 5" dick when soft. There is an old saying "you can't squeeze 10 pounds of shit in a 5 pound bag.
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Re: Small chastity cage for a ‘bigger’ guy - help!

Unread post by ohtobecucked » Wed Sep 04, 2024 1:40 am

I get ya 😂😂😂 I figured as much, I guess we just try and drop a size each time. Thanks!

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Unread post by subguy80 » Wed Sep 04, 2024 3:52 am

I would look at it this way. Can you take the head of your flaccid penis with your thumb and first finger and "push it in" toward your body? Does it shrink more than the normal 5" soft length? You should be able to push it in about 2 more inches, I would think. That would mean you could get a cage that is 3 inches long. Your penis would also be quite "fat" at this point, so you'll need a cage that can accommodate your cock. This constricted condition is how your penis should fit into your cage, regardless of how large your dick is. I think the most common mistake men make who buy a cage is go get a cage that is too big. The size of the ring at the base of your dick, behind your balls is also very important. It needs to be small enough to not let your balls slip out. I hope this helps.

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Re: Small chastity cage for a ‘bigger’ guy - help!

Unread post by sana9889 » Wed Sep 04, 2024 4:28 am

i think you should be putting your dick in pussy no in chastity.
Chastity is for clicks not dicks.

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Re: Small chastity cage for a ‘bigger’ guy - help!

Unread post by cpeater » Wed Sep 04, 2024 9:11 pm

I have experimented with many different cages and in general, smaller/shorter is better. You definitely don't want to be flopping around inside the tube. You can get measuring instructions from several web sites; these come to mind and all make fantastic devices (delete the extra spaces)
evotionchastity .com/collections
rigidchastity. com/index.php?route=product/product&path=65&product_id=63
www .steelworxx.de
Fit is extremely important especially if you intend long term wear. I tend to go for 2-3 months, but I do switch devices and take it off to clean. A PA piercing is also great for chastity use, and also just super cool. These makers typically recommend measuring and then taking a bit off. Unfortunately it's pretty expensive to experiment. Message me if you want to chat.

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Re: Small chastity cage for a ‘bigger’ guy - help!

Unread post by ohtobecucked » Thu Sep 05, 2024 5:14 am

sana9889 wrote:
Wed Sep 04, 2024 4:28 am
i think you should be putting your dick in pussy no in chastity.
Chastity is for clicks not dicks.
Ha, thanks! For ‘us’, this is a two-way street: we both like the denial aspects of this type of relationship AND it’s precisely my size that had such a big (haha!) influence on us getting to this point. Simply put, my wife just finds me too big. I can please her in all sorts of ways but penetration was never fun for us - well, I enjoyed it but I could tell that ultimately she didn’t and I didn’t like that.

Her ‘ideal’ cock just wouldn’t be as big as mine (it’s a running joke that almost any other woman would likely be quite happy to come home to 8” every day 😅) so it’s the same basic theory but at the other end of the scale, as it were!

So we do what we do and we enjoy ourselves. I love my wife so I’m not one for saying ‘no pussy, I’m gone’ ya know?? And we’ve had great fun with this and I love pleasing her over pleasing myself, too. I’m a giver, not a receiver in that sense.

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Re: Small chastity cage for a ‘bigger’ guy - help!

Unread post by Veryaware » Thu Sep 05, 2024 5:17 am

Another thing to consider is the design of the cage. If you are thick, and the cage has rings that are connected at the bottom but are spaced apart at the top, your penis will swell and skin can and will get pinched when the swelling goes down.
The penis will naturally go back inside your body when it's cold. Stand in the shower, pour ice water on your penis, and watch it shrink and withdraw into your body. Having a short cage forces more of your penis into your body.
The type of cage, to prevent pinching is more important than length.

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Re: Small chastity cage for a ‘bigger’ guy - help!

Unread post by Bent_n_Twisted » Thu Sep 05, 2024 8:55 am

ohtobecucked wrote:
Thu Sep 05, 2024 5:14 am
...Simply put, my wife just finds me too big. I can please her in all sorts of ways but penetration was never fun for us - well, I enjoyed it but I could tell that ultimately she didn’t and I didn’t like that.

Her ‘ideal’ cock just wouldn’t be as big as mine (it’s a running joke that almost any other woman would likely be quite happy to come home to 8” every day 😅) so it’s the same basic theory but at the other end of the scale, as it were!
My wife is the same way, 'I touch bottom' with my 'average' cock (just a smidge over 6"). She has told me that if I were any bigger she wouldn't let me fuck her at all. (There goes the idea of seeing her on a bigger one.)

Anyway, to your question- there is a guy I talk to on another site (dedicated to chastity). He has an 8" dick but his wife gets him into very small devices, even one that looks almost completely flat. You should be able to go as small as you want, if that's what you want to do.
"And then I 'punished' you by making you lick my pussy after I let my other 'boy' fuck me." --Mrs. Bent_n_Twisted

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Re: Small chastity cage for a ‘bigger’ guy - help!

Unread post by ohtobecucked » Thu Sep 05, 2024 11:19 am

Thanks for the advice, gents 👍.

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Unread post by sana9889 » Thu Sep 05, 2024 9:58 pm

Would you be into making him smaller?
A few months on hormones would do it i think.

You sound quite impressive. Its rare dick to waste.
But i love clicks too.. Men with clicks make the best girlfriends.

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Unread post by Barti » Fri Sep 06, 2024 5:04 am

I had a good Dick (7,5 inch when hard). But after a year caged by my Hotwife (she has fucked +300 times with other guys this year) it fits in a small cage. I wear the feminizer v4, small. Sometimes even the extra small...

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Unread post by Barti » Fri Sep 06, 2024 7:46 am

Why can I not post?
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Re: Small chastity cage for a ‘bigger’ guy - help!

Unread post by armyguyot1 » Fri Sep 06, 2024 9:49 am

Looks like you can. Welcome to the forum Barti.

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Re: Small chastity cage for a ‘bigger’ guy - help!

Unread post by Carrienlarry » Fri Sep 06, 2024 10:36 am

Our problem is hubbys balls are too big for the ring. His cock fits fine. But we had to have someone make a larger ring

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Unread post by ohtobecucked » Tue Sep 10, 2024 9:30 am

sana9889 wrote:
Thu Sep 05, 2024 9:58 pm
Would you be into making him smaller?
A few months on hormones would do it i think.

You sound quite impressive. Its rare dick to waste.
But i love clicks too.. Men with clicks make the best girlfriends.
Haha, thanks - maybe I’ll swap roles with the wife and I’ll be the bull whilst she gets to ponder from home 😉 she gets to sit at dreaming

Seems a shame to completely waste a cock of my size - even if I say it myself.

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Unread post by Bent_n_Twisted » Tue Sep 10, 2024 9:47 am

Carrienlarry wrote:
Fri Sep 06, 2024 10:36 am
Our problem is hubbys balls are too big for the ring. His cock fits fine. But we had to have someone make a larger ring
I have a solid ring about 40mm diameter. It is almost 'escape proof', but not quite, however it is the smallest solid ring that works because my balls simply won't fit through anything smaller. A multi-part or hinged ring would solve the problem, but I haven't gone there yet.
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Unread post by ohtobecucked » Tue Sep 10, 2024 11:17 am

sana9889 wrote:
Thu Sep 05, 2024 9:58 pm
Would you be into making him smaller?
A few months on hormones would do it i think.

You sound quite impressive. Its rare dick to waste.
But i love clicks too.. Men with clicks make the best girlfriends.
Can send a picture if you’re interested in seeing my dick. Not sure if there’s a way to do it from the forum, but I can try another way if not…

Happy to send to anyone, just post here or message 👍

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Unread post by sana9889 » Tue Sep 10, 2024 3:04 pm

ohtobecucked wrote:
Tue Sep 10, 2024 11:17 am
sana9889 wrote:
Thu Sep 05, 2024 9:58 pm
Would you be into making him smaller?
A few months on hormones would do it i think.

You sound quite impressive. Its rare dick to waste.
But i love clicks too.. Men with clicks make the best girlfriends.
Can send a picture if you’re interested in seeing my dick. Not sure if there’s a way to do it from the forum, but I can try another way if not…

Happy to send to anyone, just post here or message 👍
Id love to see it if u dont mind sharing

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Unread post by ohtobecucked » Tue Sep 10, 2024 10:29 pm

sana9889 wrote:
Tue Sep 10, 2024 3:04 pm
ohtobecucked wrote:
Tue Sep 10, 2024 11:17 am
sana9889 wrote:
Thu Sep 05, 2024 9:58 pm
Would you be into making him smaller?
A few months on hormones would do it i think.

You sound quite impressive. Its rare dick to waste.
But i love clicks too.. Men with clicks make the best girlfriends.
Can send a picture if you’re interested in seeing my dick. Not sure if there’s a way to do it from the forum, but I can try another way if not…

Happy to send to anyone, just post here or message 👍
Id love to see it if u dont mind sharing
Will message you today 👍

Or message ME with a valid email address. Will do my best to get them sent ASAP once received.

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Unread post by ohtobecucked » Wed Sep 11, 2024 8:10 am

sana9889 wrote:
Tue Sep 10, 2024 3:04 pm
ohtobecucked wrote:
Tue Sep 10, 2024 11:17 am
sana9889 wrote:
Thu Sep 05, 2024 9:58 pm
Would you be into making him smaller?
A few months on hormones would do it i think.

You sound quite impressive. Its rare dick to waste.
But i love clicks too.. Men with clicks make the best girlfriends.
Can send a picture if you’re interested in seeing my dick. Not sure if there’s a way to do it from the forum, but I can try another way if not…

Happy to send to anyone, just post here or message 👍
Id love to see it if u dont mind sharing
Send me an email address and I’ll forward them on 👍

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Re: Small chastity cage for a ‘bigger’ guy - help!

Unread post by Carrienlarry » Fri Jan 17, 2025 4:43 pm

Always turns me on seeing hubby or any mans cock in cage

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Unread post by MartasBoy » Fri Jan 17, 2025 11:07 pm

Carrienlarry wrote:
Fri Jan 17, 2025 4:43 pm
Always turns me on seeing hubby or any mans cock in cage
I've always wondered what her Bulls think of seeing me in my chastity device. I've often wondered if they thought much about it, or were indifferent to it. Most have not said much about it. I have noticed some smile a bit.
I'm curious to know what exactly about it turns you on?
I'm curious to know what exactly turns you on about seeing the husband of your play partner stuck in that kind of predicament.

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Unread post by OldChap » Sat Jan 18, 2025 2:16 am

Admittedly, I have no experience with any of this, but transgender girls can tuck all of their junk up inside of themselves. So I would think you could go as small as you want, it just wouldn't be very comfortable.

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Unread post by D+D » Sat Jan 18, 2025 12:07 pm

Carrienlarry wrote:
Fri Sep 06, 2024 10:36 am
Our problem is hubbys balls are too big for the ring. His cock fits fine. But we had to have someone make a larger ring
My experience is if it’s too easy to get the balls in one at a time they will slip out. If it’s a ring that you won’t slip out of it won’t be easy to get on.
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