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It sounds like she is turned on by it and would love to try it if she had the nerve. She is trying to get over apprehension of your true reaction and her true reaction. She would like it but doesn't want to fuck up your relationship. Takes time and maybe going somewhere that makes her feel adventurous would help. Something like Vegas where everything stays in Vegas.

If a one night stand isn't what she wants, you could talk about finding a regular guy for her to get to know and enjoy over a period of time. Tell her how much you'd enjoy her being pleased in that way, without being busy. She might be hesitant because she wants the pleasure of knowing someone better over time.