Cuckold impetus vis-à-vis her fertile moments

[belvedere]

Disclaimer: This post is not based on robust analysis (statistical or any scientific method), but for a long time I have noticed a certain pattern in my cuckold impetus. If this is a repeated post, please delete it, the search tool seems to be not working properly.

I have noticed that at times when my wife is in her most fertile period of the month to get pregnant (defined by counting days after her period, which may not be accurate) my impetus to see/encourage her having sex with others increases greatly. In addition, I feel more compelled to encourage by sending gifs of men having sex with women vigorously (something I cannot do), gifs of big dicks, and gifs of husbands cleaning them afterwards with other men's cum. I feel even more willing to go to bed with her...

On the other hand, when she is on her period, I notice a great decrease in interest in sex in both hers and mine, leaving my cuckold instinct at ease.

Has anyone else felt something similar? Does it make any sense?

Thank you : )

[ucaneffher]

I never kept track now even understood how it worked when my then gf and I were in the lifestyle, ages 19 to 26 to be exact. I do know that at 23 when she cut me off piv and went exclusive with her boyfriend, she would always tell me when he was outside waiting in the car and she was just walking out the door. "I'm ovulating and I'm super horny so I might come later or stay the night at his place if we finish too late"

Something about those words just made me make myself go raw while she was with him. Ironically she said that she also got really horny knowing that she was ovulating and he was the only man getting her and finishing inside her. She explained that the thought of knowing with certainty that the odds were 100% for him and 0% for her boyfriend made her very horny.

Not relevant but worth sharing, she liked that going full exclusive with him made it more intense for her because it removed any possible confusion should she ever get pregnant. I didn't like it or even understand it back then but she always said that she liked that if she ever got pregnant, she would know 100% that he was the father.

[belvedere]

I never kept track now even understood how it worked when my then gf and I were in the lifestyle, ages 19 to 26 to be exact. I do know that at 23 when she cut me off piv and went exclusive with her boyfriend, she would always tell me when he was outside waiting in the car and she was just walking out the door. "I'm ovulating and I'm super horny so I might come later or stay the night at his place if we finish too late"

Something about those words just made me make myself go raw while she was with him. Ironically she said that she also got really horny knowing that she was ovulating and he was the only man getting her and finishing inside her. She explained that the thought of knowing with certainty that the odds were 100% for him and 0% for her boyfriend made her very horny.

Not relevant but worth sharing, she liked that going full exclusive with him made it more intense for her because it removed any possible confusion should she ever get pregnant. I didn't like it or even understand it back then but she always said that she liked that if she ever got pregnant, she would know 100% that he was the father.

Very interesting, thanks for sharing.

If I may ask, why did you stop having PIV with her? Did you continue performing oral sex on her?

[sana9889]

This was also the time i wanted sex with my bf more. (unfortunately id gotten the timings wrong thinking this was the safe time...)

[ajoh]

definitely

Around ovulation my ex-wife would say "I'm a bit horny, do you mind if I go and see J?"

There is so much beauty in the nonchalantness and oblivious disregard that I could do anything to fix her problem. Like her best friend she confides these very personal issues in, I was there for all the hard work, to nurse her through and look after through the non-ovulation times, whilst her lover just got her wet pussy.

[ucaneffher]

I never kept track now even understood how it worked when my then gf and I were in the lifestyle, ages 19 to 26 to be exact. I do know that at 23 when she cut me off piv and went exclusive with her boyfriend, she would always tell me when he was outside waiting in the car and she was just walking out the door. "I'm ovulating and I'm super horny so I might come later or stay the night at his place if we finish too late"

Something about those words just made me make myself go raw while she was with him. Ironically she said that she also got really horny knowing that she was ovulating and he was the only man getting her and finishing inside her. She explained that the thought of knowing with certainty that the odds were 100% for him and 0% for her boyfriend made her very horny.

Not relevant but worth sharing, she liked that going full exclusive with him made it more intense for her because it removed any possible confusion should she ever get pregnant. I didn't like it or even understand it back then but she always said that she liked that if she ever got pregnant, she would know 100% that he was the father.

Very interesting, thanks for sharing.

If I may ask, why did you stop having PIV with her? Did you continue performing oral sex on her?

She cut me off without notice one night when I tried to initiate sex after she came home at night after spending 8 hours with her boyfriend. She told me that she wanted to feel more his as well as well as keep me on edge as she not only went exclusive with him but increased the intensity by turning up the frequency.

At the peek of the lifestyle, during my 8 months of no PIV my girlfriend was with him every single day. She literally literally came home from work in the evenings, took a shower and got ready and he was like clockwork outside in the car picking my girlfriend up. She usually came home in the vicinity of 12am-2am when I was already in bed. It was so sexy being in the dark half asleep and seeing her taking her clothes off and jumping in bed smelling like his cologne and on a couple of occasions I could smell semen on her when I kissed her goodnight.

One night in bed she started leaking while I was asleep and she jumped out of bed to try to get to the bathroom to push it out and clean herself. It startled me and it led to me discovering her pool of cum in our bed and it was a reality check for me. A reminder that my 23 year old girlfriend was very much active and was indeed letting her boyfriend finish inside her. I pretended to be asleep when she got back in bed. I had never experienced that but it was so sexy that I jerked off to that very vivid form of physical evidence that she truly was having sex and not holding back with him.

I do recall still giving her oral although not as much as when I was still getting sex. My main source of sex while she was exclusive to him was masturbating to her getting ready for him every night or masturbating with her after the fact when she came home although not as much because I worked early and was in bed when she got back.

Initially she told me a lot of details of her encounters with him but as she started feeling more like she was his woman, she told me that she felt like she was cheating on him by telling me the specifics so she told me to just jerk to her going out attire with him and jerk to knowing with 100% certainty that he was definitely having his way with her even if she didn't tell me the details of it.

So that was my life for 8 months, jerking while watching her trying on countless sexy outfits, trying different lingerie and wearing it under her clothes sometimes, meticulously doing her hair and make up in front of the mirror, trying on 9 different pairs of high heels, and finally seeing the final product kiss me goodnight and tell me "I'll be home late" or "don't wait up"

[Cdncuck]

On the other hand, when she is on her period, I notice a great decrease in interest in sex in both hers and mine, leaving my cuckold instinct at ease.

Has anyone else felt something similar? Does it make any sense?

Thank you : )

Actually, my experience was the opposite. Her appetite for sex greatly increased when she was a few days before her period and during.

[sana9889]

On the other hand, when she is on her period, I notice a great decrease in interest in sex in both hers and mine, leaving my cuckold instinct at ease.

Has anyone else felt something similar? Does it make any sense?

Thank you : )

Actually, my experience was the opposite. Her appetite for sex greatly increased when she was a few days before her period and during.

Everyone is different. But I need more sex during my period. And more dominating sex too as opposed to sensual.

[ccklvr]

I think you should be very happy about this extremely unadulterated perception of readiness to conceive. Normally, the perception of pheromones is no longer so distinct due to artificially ingested hormones and other environmental influences.

[little sissy Benita]

My mommy (former wife) has a Persona contraceptive monitor - but you can use it to determine exactly when the fertile days are

little Benita

[belvedere]

I think you should be very happy about this extremely unadulterated perception of readiness to conceive. Normally, the perception of pheromones is no longer so distinct due to artificially ingested hormones and other environmental influences.

You're right, during these times I go crazy for her to have sex with someone else. I love the feeling.