Cheating boyfriends

[slayveone]

Just wondering what other people's take on this is.

My wife was almost going to hook up with a guy she knew from before we were married. She actually fucked him when we were engaged. He was single back then.

Now he is married and we both felt bad about his wife not knowing that he was wanting to cheat. So, we decided to call it off.

It would be different if she knew and was ok with it but we didn't want bad karma.

So, do y'all care about playing with cheaters? Let me know your take.

[ucaneffher]

We are so guilty of this one. My ex hot gf was quite the horny one and was not very ethical when it came to the men she slept with...

She had this one guy who had a girlfriend but here he was spending almost every night in my girlfriends apartment in bed with her always leaving his deposit in her. The thing is that he introduced his girlfriend (who was gorgeous btw) to my girlfriend and now they were friends. I felt so bad for the girl but often times I wondered if it was actually me who was the "poor boyfriend* because they 3 of them would hangout without me and there were many nights they spent the night at my GFs.

I remember Halloween one year, arriving at my GFs apartment and the girls walking around in their underwear quickly slipping into their slutty Halloween costumes and him also shirtless walking around my gfs place. I was the only one who came ready and saw the 3 if them partially undressed and getting ready. Hmmm now I'm curious and I'll never know....

On second thought, in the very beginning she did have an ongoing thing with a coworker who had a girlfriend...

Damn she was bad...

[Thebestdays1]

Most of my wife's short and long term lovers were in a relationship with someone else. Two of them even lost their wives when they found out, although one of the wives was also cheating.
She's cheated on her previous boyfriend with two of his friends, who were also in relationships and has also had a few girlfriends who were married.
She enjoyed the thrill of someone wanting her when they already had a partner.

[Cdncuck]

My wife prefers married partners. She says they don't get clingy, they aren't looking for a serious relationship, they don't talk and they know when to go home

[Johor]

My wife prefers married partners. She says they don't get clingy, they aren't looking for a serious relationship, they don't talk and they know when to go home

It is good to have something that assures a bit of emotional distance. Relationships, age differences & etc, can keep thing less complicated. Afterall the idea is to have fun.

[trecital]

This one comes up now and again, in slightly different variants.

There always seems to be about a 50:50 split, give or take.

I think it's down to your own moral viewpoint....or lack of it

[slayveone]

This one comes up now and again, in slightly different variants.

There always seems to be about a 50:50 split, give or take.

I think it's down to your own moral viewpoint....or lack of it

Yea, and all the reasons people are giving for why they prefer it actually makes sense. For us it really comes down to the karma factor. We are definitely not judging anyone who prefers to be with a cheater but at the same time it makes us feel bad to do it. Also, this guy in particular, has a lot of red flags to where he doesn't actually seem much safer in terms of being clean vs a single guy. So, the bad seemed to outweigh the good with this one.

[DavaoMike]

It’s not up to us to be the relationship police. My wife’s boyfriend has no one else (my wife is very jealous that way). But hypothetically, if he were married, in my opinion it wouldn’t be my or my wife’s business whether or not he was cheating on his wife.

[slayveone]

It’s not up to us to be the relationship police. My wife’s boyfriend has no one else (my wife is very jealous that way). But hypothetically, if he were married, in my opinion it wouldn’t be my or my wife’s business whether or not he was cheating on his wife.

That's true but that also doesn't mean we want to be complicit in another man's affair.

[stubbyhubby]

Three of Lisa's guyfriends are married. They have all said their wives don't want sex, so Lisa fills that need for them and doesn't feel guilt about it at all.

Her not fucking them wouldn't change anything. If they are going to cheat on their wives they are either going to do it with her or some other woman.

[Thebestdays1]

My wife prefers married partners. She says they don't get clingy, they aren't looking for a serious relationship, they don't talk and they know when to go home

This is what my ex used to think. However, one of her colleagues that she used to blow every morning after work and fucked on a Friday night, after telling his wife he was working overtime, fell in love with her.
He was obviously neglecting his wife because he didn't notice that she was cheating on him. He became quite clingy around my wife and in the end she tried to end their relationship. He became upset, which must have shown at home as then, his wife told him she'd found someone else and was leaving him. This made him pursue my wife all the more at work, which meant their boss had to give them a warning. She didn't tell me that things were that bad however, and another colleague started to protect her, which lead to them falling in love. He was also married and when his wife found out, she kicked him out.
We'd already started a trial separation so he moved in with my wife.

[warmnsalty]

Mrs Warm has fucked more cheating me than singles. We don’t care - she doesn’t date she just fucks. Everyone has their style of play - We sport fuck - just for fun - no emotions. Guys with wives and gfs have tended to be better fucks. They asre as excited to get some new pussy as Mrs is to get some new cock. And I get the pleasure of watching them have their fun.

[parklife]

My wife has been with cheaters (and they thought she was cheating as well) and also with a guy who had a girlfriend at the start but became single while they were FWB (not because of her). In the end, both single and cheating guys have their issues.

Cheaters may have some sense of safety from certain things but wound up being flaky with too many issues around meeeting up.

All things considered, I would prefer she be with single guys that are aware of our arrangement. Just seems all around more satisfying not to have to worry about sneaking around. Not sure she agrees with me though and ultimately, she drives the bus.

We’re also not into sport fucking and emotions/connnectons tend to play a part. That’s why all her extra play time has been with FWBs. She’s known them all outside the bedroom first and became physical later. We just don’t know enough single guys I guess..

[Cdncuck]

My wife prefers married partners. She says they don't get clingy, they aren't looking for a serious relationship, they don't talk and they know when to go home

This is what my ex used to think. However, one of her colleagues that she used to blow every morning after work and fucked on a Friday night, after telling his wife he was working overtime, fell in love with her.
He was obviously neglecting his wife because he didn't notice that she was cheating on him. He became quite clingy around my wife and in the end she tried to end their relationship. He became upset, which must have shown at home as then, his wife told him she'd found someone else and was leaving him. This made him pursue my wife all the more at work, which meant their boss had to give them a warning. She didn't tell me that things were that bad however, and another colleague started to protect her, which lead to them falling in love. He was also married and when his wife found out, she kicked him out.
We'd already started a trial separation so he moved in with my wife.

Sorry it went badly for you. We never experienced anything like that

[annsman]

My wife thinks the state of her boyfriend’s marriage or relationship is his business not hers, so has no problem with a cheating boyfriend. However, she draws a line she won’t cross with husbands or partners of her friend. No matter how much she fancies them or they try to seduce her.

[slayveone]

My wife prefers married partners. She says they don't get clingy, they aren't looking for a serious relationship, they don't talk and they know when to go home

This is what my ex used to think. However, one of her colleagues that she used to blow every morning after work and fucked on a Friday night, after telling his wife he was working overtime, fell in love with her.
He was obviously neglecting his wife because he didn't notice that she was cheating on him. He became quite clingy around my wife and in the end she tried to end their relationship. He became upset, which must have shown at home as then, his wife told him she'd found someone else and was leaving him. This made him pursue my wife all the more at work, which meant their boss had to give them a warning. She didn't tell me that things were that bad however, and another colleague started to protect her, which lead to them falling in love. He was also married and when his wife found out, she kicked him out.
We'd already started a trial separation so he moved in with my wife.

I wonder how typical it is for divorces to happen in cuckold/hot wife relationships.

Do you think you might have stayed together if not for the lifestyle?

[slayveone]

Mrs Warm has fucked more cheating me than singles. We don’t care - she doesn’t date she just fucks. Everyone has their style of play - We sport fuck - just for fun - no emotions. Guys with wives and gfs have tended to be better fucks. They asre as excited to get some new pussy as Mrs is to get some new cock. And I get the pleasure of watching them have their fun.

Yeah, that does make sense and I don't know why it makes us feel guilty. It probably shouldn't but I guess we both have been cheated on and know how it feels to be on the other side.

[slayveone]

My wife has been with cheaters (and they thought she was cheating as well) and also with a guy who had a girlfriend at the start but became single while they were FWB (not because of her). In the end, both single and cheating guys have their issues.

Cheaters may have some sense of safety from certain things but wound up being flaky with too many issues around meeeting up.

All things considered, I would prefer she be with single guys that are aware of our arrangement. Just seems all around more satisfying not to have to worry about sneaking around. Not sure she agrees with me though and ultimately, she drives the bus.

We’re also not into sport fucking and emotions/connnectons tend to play a part. That’s why all her extra play time has been with FWBs. She’s known them all outside the bedroom first and became physical later. We just don’t know enough single guys I guess..

This is where we kinda of lean too. Besides for feeling bad about the cheating side of things, I think she enjoys knowing the person and not just fucking random people. I'm turned on by the idea of her going on a date with another man.

Do you ever worry that the emotions might go too far on her and her FWB parts?

[slayveone]

My wife thinks the state of her boyfriend’s marriage or relationship is his business not hers, so has no problem with a cheating boyfriend. However, she draws a line she won’t cross with husbands or partners of her friend. No matter how much she fancies them or they try to seduce her.

She's not wrong, it's just such a weird gray area I suppose.

[easyalpha4fun]

My ex almost exclusively hooked up with married men.

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

I don't care if a man is cheating. People have their reasons. They all aren't bad men.