Our Hotwives

My hotwife is just starting out and I've listed some sexual acts below that she has said she will not do. I've put them in the order I think they are most likely to be broken. I did this on my main post so I can track it myself, but wanted to post this topic because I am interested in other's experiences with changing sexual limits.

1. Ass licking (him to her)
2. Raw Sex (No condom)
3. Anal Sex
4. Ass licking (her to him)
5. Me listening from outside the room
6. Me watching
7. Threesome (2 guys - might include me, but more likely to be another bull)
8. Spit-Roast
9. Double Penetration
10. BDSM
13.Threesome (another couple - a lot have reached out)

I'm thinking 1-6 will be broken within 4-6 months. Honestly if we don't get to me watching within 6 months I may pull the plug. 7 and beyond may never happen.

justlookin2day wrote: ↑

Tue Oct 29, 2024 6:51 am

Honestly if we don't get to me watching within 6 months I may pull the plug.

Without being too harsh, that's not the way it works cucky. Sounds like you're trying to top from the bottom.

Unless you're more of a Stag (and you don't sound like the alpha type), you don't really get to tell your wife you want her to fuck other men, agree to a set of rules, and then "pull the plug" because she doesn't break the rules you want her to break. This has to be a fantasy that she owns or it won't work anyway.

Numbers 5 and 6 are entirely within your control.
What I'm wondering is, if she never gets to number 4, does it mean you'll never get to listen from outside the door?

For someone "just starting out" she seems to have a very clear idea of how things are gonna go.
Are you sure this isn't just your list?

trecital wrote: ↑

Tue Oct 29, 2024 9:38 am

Numbers 5 and 6 are entirely within your control.
What I'm wondering is, if she never gets to number 4, does it mean you'll never get to listen from outside the door?

For someone "just starting out" she seems to have a very clear idea of how things are gonna go.
Are you sure this isn't just your list?

My wife would not agree to numbers 5 & 6 right off the bat. She said that to move forward at all she would need some privacy and solo meets at first. So my choice was either for her to proceed solo or not at all. For all I know they might be the first barriers to drop.

The other ones on the list are definitely off limits for now. In her first two meets she has already had to deny 1, 2 and 3 and 13 was also requested but she told me it held no interest for her.

It really is just a fun list for me. Based on her reaction to starting I feel like 1, 2 , 3 and 4 may drop off within a few months. Going raw would only happen with someone she repeats with, but I think her first bull was so good that he will get 1 - 4 out of the way pretty quickly. My wife told me last night that she is thinking of allowing 1 on the next meet.

I think most wives are against #6 at first. Probably has a little to do with shame or shyness, but once they realize how much their husband is enjoying it I think it usually changes.

When Lisa first started with my best friend she wouldn't let me watch. She knew I was listening because we had a little house (750 sq feet). One night she walked out and I was sitting on the couch jerking off while listening and she was surprised that I was that turned on by it. Maybe a week later they were heading to the bedroom and she smiled at me and asked "Are you coming with us?" I wasnt sure how to respond and she clarified and told me I could watch as long as I was quiet enough that she forgot I was in the room. I didn't make a sound, but I saw her peek at me a few times and a few days later she admitted that she liked seeing me watch them and jerk off.

I never really thought of my wife as that "kinky" but I guess maybe she is...she would be up for anything on the list.

mahan3035 wrote: ↑

Wed Oct 30, 2024 3:55 pm

I never really thought of my wife as that "kinky" but I guess maybe she is...she would be up for anything on the list.

As far as someone who is willing to have sex outside of their marriage goes, that's not exactly a very kinky list. Consider the audience. It might be difference if we were on the dead bedroom Reddit forum.

SpicySaltnPepper wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 31, 2024 6:42 am

mahan3035 wrote: ↑

Wed Oct 30, 2024 3:55 pm

I never really thought of my wife as that "kinky" but I guess maybe she is...she would be up for anything on the list.

As far as someone who is willing to have sex outside of their marriage goes, that's not exactly a very kinky list. Consider the audience. It might be difference if we were on the dead bedroom Reddit forum.

To be fair to my wife, she did have some wild experiences with me and previous boyfriends.

With me she has done: 1, 2 , 4 & 10. I also had sex with her early in our relationship at a sex club in SF in front of about a dozen people.

With others she has done: 1, 2, 3, 4, 7, 10 as well as a threesome with her boyfriend and a transgender female. She also had a bi stage but that no longer interests her.

And we definitely do not have a dead bedroom. We generally we have sex have sex about 3 times a week which I think is quite good considering we have young children and we both work. It is more often now that she became a hot-wife last Thursday.

SpicySaltnPepper wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 31, 2024 6:42 am

mahan3035 wrote: ↑

Wed Oct 30, 2024 3:55 pm

I never really thought of my wife as that "kinky" but I guess maybe she is...she would be up for anything on the list.

As far as someone who is willing to have sex outside of their marriage goes, that's not exactly a very kinky list. Consider the audience. It might be difference if we were on the dead bedroom Reddit forum.

Good point...I was thinking that list doesn't seem too far out of the "norm" but I guess our normal is a little skewed lol.

justlookin2day wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 31, 2024 8:24 am

SpicySaltnPepper wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 31, 2024 6:42 am

mahan3035 wrote: ↑

Wed Oct 30, 2024 3:55 pm

I never really thought of my wife as that "kinky" but I guess maybe she is...she would be up for anything on the list.

As far as someone who is willing to have sex outside of their marriage goes, that's not exactly a very kinky list. Consider the audience. It might be difference if we were on the dead bedroom Reddit forum.

To be fair to my wife, she did have some wild experiences with me and previous boyfriends.

With me she has done: 1, 2 , 4 & 10. I also had sex with her early in our relationship at a sex club in SF in front of about a dozen people.

With others she has done: 1, 2, 3, 4, 7, 10 as well as a threesome with her boyfriend and a transgender female. She also had a bi stage but that no longer interests her.

And we definitely do not have a dead bedroom. We generally we have sex have sex about 3 times a week which I think is quite good considering we have young children and we both work. It is more often now that she became a hot-wife last Thursday.

Well it sounds like you have all the ingredients to have some really hot times...if she's done a good portion of your list maybe she is just still figuring out what she likes and dislikes or a little shy about saying "I'd do this again" etc.

Saw this elsewhere: "Hey, it's me, Pandora. Welcome to my unboxing video."