Getting cheated on.

[majestic17]

Hello to anyone reading this question. Does anyone get aroused by the idea of getting cheated on by there significant other?

Where wife or gf wants to cheat as it is a taboo and husband want to feel the rush of it.

Ps: can getting cheated on be a kink or am i the only one who has it.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum majestic17.

[dek]

I definitely have this kink and my girlfriend does too. We've talked about ways to include "cheating" in our relationship that is still healthy and honest and positive for our relationship. I think we came up with a good plan that I wrote about in my other thread.

[TeunJ9207]

What do you call cheating?

[majestic17]

By cheating i mean like her having casual sex without my knowledge and telling about it after a month or so or maybe her having a longtime lover who i have no idea about like who he is or his name i would just know that wife has a lover with whom sometimes she would go for long vacation or have dates and spend time overnight.

[majestic17]

I definitely have this kink and my girlfriend does too. We've talked about ways to include "cheating" in our relationship that is still healthy and honest and positive for our relationship. I think we came up with a good plan that I wrote about in my other thread.

Can you tell me about it?

[namitha157]

Anything not allowed in the relationship would be cheating right. Depends on your limits. If most ppl here are pretty open then it may not be cheating unless it goes beyond it.

[namitha157]

I guess what I am doing (or trying to do) would be cheating as my partner doesn't know I've done something, or that i intend on attempting something he wouldn't approve.

[sharemygirl-uk]

It's right up there as one of my biggest turn-ons, for the wheels of cheating to be in motion and being helpless to stop it because of a lack of knowledge or ability.

Finding evidence like cummy panties, cologne smells on her skin or in our bed, used condoms, hickeys, overhearing conversations etc. Or the ultimate: going down on her and noticing something different there.

Yes, I think about this one a lot!

[majestic17]

It's right up there as one of my biggest turn-ons, for the wheels of cheating to be in motion and being helpless to stop it because of a lack of knowledge or ability.

Finding evidence like cummy panties, cologne smells on her skin or in our bed, used condoms, hickeys, overhearing conversations etc. Or the ultimate: going down on her and noticing something different there.

Yes, I think about this one a lot!

me too. i think getting cheated on getting to know is a ultimate cuck Fantasy for me

[majestic17]

I guess what I am doing (or trying to do) would be cheating as my partner doesn't know I've done something, or that i intend on attempting something he wouldn't approve.

have you cheated on him a lot?

[LongTermHubby]

My wife has made a point of telling me before it happens or if that is not possible soon thereafter.

[inivisibletwin]

define "being cheated on" ...I think every relationship defines it differently, and I think "cheating" is crossing a line, but what exactly counts as "cheating" should be defined be you and your partner.

for example, my wife is free and encouraged to have sex with anyone she wants. and she does! ...but I don't consider that cheating.

I am fully aware of her sexcepades, and I support it. If I were not okay with it and she did it anyway, or she did it behind my back without me knowing, or lied to me about it, I would define that as cheating, and that would hurt.

my wife has a boyfriend, their relationship is separate from her marriage to me. he is the only guy whom she doesnt have to share details with me... anyone else she fucks she has to tell me about, even if after the fact. and i trust her to do so.

lies and secrets are where i draw the "cheating" line, not sex with others. in my opinion, thats really where respect is shown.

and although i am very much a cuckold, and i have no say in what my wife does with her pussy, she still respects me enough to tell me everything

[dek]

I definitely have this kink and my girlfriend does too. We've talked about ways to include "cheating" in our relationship that is still healthy and honest and positive for our relationship. I think we came up with a good plan that I wrote about in my other thread.

Can you tell me about it?

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=74396&p=1520781#p1520586

[sharemygirl-uk]

For me, cheating is when I don't know about it, haven't approved or is pushing the boundaries she knows I'm OK with - and it really turns me on. I know that's not a popular fetish among some of the relationship police here, but can't help my turn-ons!

[PlzFuckMyHotwife]

By cheating i mean like her having casual sex without my knowledge and telling about it after a month or so or maybe her having a longtime lover who i have no idea about like who he is or his name i would just know that wife has a lover with whom sometimes she would go for long vacation or have dates and spend time overnight.

That... is not cheating IMHO. If you both agreed to this dynamic and put rules around it... it's not cheating.

My hot cutie with a booty and I have an agreement where she's allowed to do whatever she wants with whomever she wants without telling me anything in advance on the condition she'll provide full details within 30 days. So she can have sex without worrying about disclosure as long as she'll tell me everything within a month. This rule was made at my request. For her part... she can't wait to tell me all about it. So waiting even a few days proves challenging, she's just too excited to share it all with me.

The same rule doesn't apply to me though. I can still have sex with whomever I want whenever I want, but I need to give her a heads-up or provide full disclosure as soon as realistically possible (for example, if I'm travelling for business and am in a different time zone, I won't wake her up just to tell her I've fucked someone... I'll wait until the next day).

[majestic17]

I definitely have this kink and my girlfriend does too. We've talked about ways to include "cheating" in our relationship that is still healthy and honest and positive for our relationship. I think we came up with a good plan that I wrote about in my other thread.

Can you tell me about it?

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=74396&p=1520781#p1520586

that is so hot. feeling of unknowning what my wife is doing and with whom is so hot to me. Cheating is something i feel is fun to incorporate in a cuckold relationship in my opinion a little lie, a little cheat does spice up the marriage.

[namitha157]

I guess what I am doing (or trying to do) would be cheating as my partner doesn't know I've done something, or that i intend on attempting something he wouldn't approve.

have you cheated on him a lot?

A few times. I've kissed another guy. When I'm out with some guy friends he doesn't know its guys sometimes. Some would consider it cheating. The dinner i went to last week, was pretty much a date. My partner knows I went out for dinner, but thinks it was just a normal friend.

[majestic17]

define "being cheated on" ...I think every relationship defines it differently, and I think "cheating" is crossing a line, but what exactly counts as "cheating" should be defined be you and your partner.

for example, my wife is free and encouraged to have sex with anyone she wants. and she does! ...but I don't consider that cheating.

I am fully aware of her sexcepades, and I support it. If I were not okay with it and she did it anyway, or she did it behind my back without me knowing, or lied to me about it, I would define that as cheating, and that would hurt.

my wife has a boyfriend, their relationship is separate from her marriage to me. he is the only guy whom she doesnt have to share details with me... anyone else she fucks she has to tell me about, even if after the fact. and i trust her to do so.

lies and secrets are where i draw the "cheating" line, not sex with others. in my opinion, thats really where respect is shown.

and although i am very much a cuckold, and i have no say in what my wife does with her pussy, she still respects me enough to tell me everything

i understand what you are saying but little bit of lie, little bit of unknowing i feel for me is very arousing. Like she going out while i am at office, having sex with strangers or lovers while i have no idea what is happening and getting to know about it later on is too hot to me. She dont need my consent to have sex with whoever she want, she can do it without even telling me. Another thing that arouses me is not telling everything like if she had slept with multiple men i only get to know about few and later on maybe on special occasions like aniversary or birthday she tells me about her sexcapades.

[majestic17]

I guess what I am doing (or trying to do) would be cheating as my partner doesn't know I've done something, or that i intend on attempting something he wouldn't approve.

have you cheated on him a lot?

A few times. I've kissed another guy. When I'm out with some guy friends he doesn't know its guys sometimes. Some would consider it cheating. The dinner i went to last week, was pretty much a date. My partner knows I went out for dinner, but thinks it was just a normal friend.

Are you enjoying cheating on him? and how do you fell when you do something you are not suppose to do?

[namitha157]

I went out clubbing today with some girlfriends. Danced with a random guy when my friends left. He was grinding up pretty hard against me. Had me up against the wall at one point and lifted my leg over his hip. I couldnt help but push back against him to the music. Not much more happened. I left soon after. Kinda wish we kissed.

It makes me feel really sexy and desired. Its empowering knowing men want me and I have this control over them. But I also feel guilty about it.

[parklife]

my wife has a boyfriend, their relationship is separate from her marriage to me. he is the only guy whom she doesnt have to share details with me... anyone else she fucks she has to tell me about, even if after the fact. and i trust her to do so.

My wife had a similar type of relationship that she kept to herself. She didn’t keep it all to herself and I would hear about it and knew when they were going on a date and even if they had sex, but any other details were hers to tell if she wanted.

She often carried a sense of guilt (completely unwarranted but it was her inner self that provided it) so she often told me a lot. But, the rule was that I could ask questions about her other FWBs, but not this one. This one was hers, for her… not for my kink, not for my pleasure but for her own. To tell me all of it would cheapen it.

I think that’s the closest we get to ‘cheating’ but if it’s allowed in the marriage, I guess it’s not really ‘cheating’ at all.

[ricinatl]

I'm not in the scene, but I do see the fun in the fantasy of the wife telling her husband she is going to a guys house to get fucked. He would have no idea of who and where. Then she comes home and acts like nothing happened.

[Colliercuck]

My wife cheated, LOVED it!!!
God, I wish he never moved away!!!!!!

[readerofthings]

I've posted about it before but I had a gf in my 20's who unexpectedly sucked and then fucked my roommate with me in the apartment after we both got drunk. I was shocked at the time but it would go on to become a defining moment in my life. I still fantasize about it to this day. In fact I've fantasized about every gf I've had since then cheating on me.

My wife cheated on me years ago when we started living together and I saw her in action after coming home from work early. She has cheated on me more than a few times since. We love each other and have a very healthy relationship but sexually she has a very high drive and I am well aware that she does not belong to me.