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I'm thinking of getting a dildo for my butt.
Any advice on dildo selection?
Never had sex before vaginal or anal. But considering having anal, but may go with the dildo first.

One of my boyfriends asked me about sex and we had a talk about sex, anal, virginity before marriage ect.
There was a bit of anal talk going on, I said it may be a possibility, but not yet.
I know a few of my friends who have gone down the anal route for sex with their partners and kept their virgin vaginas.

All in consideration.
I might just use the dildo and not let a penis inside me till I'm married. Or I might not use the dildo either.

I've been told most girls have a dildo.
But this is from my guy friends. My girl friends don't talk about it. Maybe it just my crowd. I have seen some dildos at one of my friends house before.
I have a massage vibe I use sometimes for clitoris.

Make sure it's glass or silicone, and from a reputable seller. I've always tried to stay away from the cheap ones on Amaz or the discount shippers. Pay a little extra to a quality company for a safe dildo made of non-toxic materials.

Definitely definitely definitely get something with a flared base. You don't want to risk losing something up there. Granted, what goes in should eventually come out but save yourself the embarrassment and stress if you lose your grip on it.

Lastly, I would STRONGLY suggest you find something narrow and thin, especially for your first time. Try to find something around 1" - 1.25" thickness to start - anything larger than 1.5" in thickness will be painful to even begin to insert, and even a thin dildo will be a challenge in the beginning.

anal can be a great experience but don't rush into it. Take it slow and use LOTS OF LUBE. Maybe start with your finger in your ass to get used to the feeling. then when ready add another finger and another. Stretch your anus slowly and enjoy the feeling so you become used to having you ass stretched open. A little stimulation of your clit at the same time also helps things go well. Did I say USE LOTS OF LUBE?

You may also want to read up on anal - the internet is full of information. Educate your self so you know what to expect as opposed to feeling pain and giving up before it gets good - and it will get good.

and finally, invest in some good toys. butt plugs come in different sizes and materials - start small and get bigger ones as you become comfortable. as for dildos the advice above is a good start.

Have fun!

Thanks for the advice. I haven't got one yet. I might go out to the store today and see. Its a good point about the size. I wanted something realistic initially, but I think these points are more important now.

I have fingered by butt before while masturbating. Two fingers. t did feel good.

one day you too can have and enjoy the giant BBC type dildo or other wild toys like tentacles or horse cocks that you sometimes see in videos and on line porn chatrooms. but for now, start slow and work your way up to the realistic dildo you ultimately want - you will be riding and enjoying it soon enough.

Build your way up… no point in getting something that you won’t be able to use

I didn't end up going the other day.
I will have a look during the weekend and get something snug for my little butt hole.

looking forward to hearing all about the fun with your little butt hole. Let us know if you need any help with it

So I visited Sexyland today.

Got a slim dildo with the suction base and a butt plug.
Wearing the plug now. Feels great in my ass.

Haven't tried the dildo in my butt yet. In two minds. I kind of want to be penetrated by a penis the first time. Itl be the first sex for me.

I did suck on it a bit. I still don't see what the big thing about sacking penis is and why girls like to do it. I jerked it off too lol.

Ah the ole Poophole Loophole!

I 'dated' a few Conservative and Orthodox Jewish women. I say dated, but it was really just a hookup situation because they would never admit to anyone that it was going on. But this was their thing. BJ's yes. Anal yes. Oral for them, yes. PIV? saved for their wedding.

Even went to one of the womens weddings. She's got like 6 kids, keeps a Kosher house, the whole deal.

I actually thought it was just to keep guys happy. Then I fingered my butt one day and it felt good.

The no sex before marriage can make difficult for girls with certain traditions. We still want to have a good relationship and feel good. Personally I wouldn't do oral on a guy either, but that's my preference.

I still haven't tried the dildo yet. But the plug in my ass feels good.