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hello everyone.

I have been a cuck to my fiancée for a little over 2 years, and we have started practicing chastity for a year now. All this while, I was allowed to have sex with her occasionally. However, a few days back, she suggested the idea of no vaginal sex for me whatsoever moving forward and asked whether I'd be open to give it a shot. I would love to explore it, but I aint sure of potential consequences - positive or negative - of a long-term pussy free relationship. She also wants to create a dynamic where I get rare cage releases and wouldnt clean her up or see pussy as often as I do now.

I would appreciate an advice from those who have been practicing it.
cheers!

caged_cuck12 wrote: ↑

Wed Dec 04, 2024 5:41 am

I would love to explore it, but I aint sure of potential consequences - positive or negative - of a long-term pussy free relationship.

Only one way to find out.....try it.

Hello,yes it can work.
I have been pussy free for years now.
I dont clean up as i am not allowed to be near any pussy ever.
I am locked 24/7 and my wife has said i will never touch a pussy again.
I have not been allowed to cum for the same time now.

I have been pussy free for over 15 years now. For me pussy free is no vaginal sex with my wife. My wife has kept me caged for the 15 plus years we have been together. I am allowed to clean her after sex with her boy friend or when he's not available she will have me pleasure her orally but my little cock is never allowed inside her.

Frequency adjustments on when the cage comes off, I can see. But I think a couple requires a certain amount of intimacy. That's different for everyone. Like above mentioned, being good with cleaning her up after she's with her boyfriend. See what works for you but make sure you openly communicate it with your girl.

I think it's doable, times when my wife is engaging with other men she just simply doesn't want or desire my cock (why would she, when she is getting better from another) so for those sometimes long periods I'm pussy free, but she sill enjoys me giving her oral sex especially in the hours and days after an encounter, whilst she will pleasure me, but restricts it to a hand job often making sure my cum doesn't touch her.

caged_cuck12 wrote: ↑

Wed Dec 04, 2024 5:41 am

hello everyone.

I have been a cuck to my fiancée for a little over 2 years, and we have started practicing chastity for a year now. All this while, I was allowed to have sex with her occasionally. However, a few days back, she suggested the idea of no vaginal sex for me whatsoever moving forward and asked whether I'd be open to give it a shot. I would love to explore it, but I aint sure of potential consequences - positive or negative - of a long-term pussy free relationship. She also wants to create a dynamic where I get rare cage releases and wouldnt clean her up or see pussy as often as I do now.

I would appreciate an advice from those who have been practicing it.
cheers!

Every couple is different and everyone has different kinks but I am a believer that if there is a benefit or at least the slightest arousal because of it, then it can be done long-term.

For example, in the beginning the ex girlfriend and I got into the hotwife lifestyle and not the cuckold lifestyle. The plan was her dating but letting me watch, participate, reclaim etc... but in a matter of less than two years in the lifestyle and after her having great success meeting and dating many men, she gave me the notice that I would no longer have access to sex with her. No prior discussion, no warning, no nothing other than just telling me that I no longer get pussy.

The first time that she cut me off was for 4 months while she dated one guy. It was difficult and I hated not getting laid but she was getting dicked down non-stop by him as a result of eliminating me as a sexual partner. She was super horny knowing that she had her boyfriend on hold, obediently putting up with no sex while her lover was devouring her. In turn, despite being extremely jealous of him and hating not getting to have sex with her, it turned me on to see her to turned on by being in charge.

After they split, I resumed normal sex with her until she found lover number two and this time she also gave me an abrupt notice without notice and cut me off for 8 months, making it a total of 12 cumulative months without pussy for me. I hated it and loved it at the same time.

I don't think that I could handle being fully cut off permanently but do know that I would be more than willing to accept only getting laid on my birthday and our anniversary if it meant that my girlfriend having a full time boyfriend. In fact, one of my fantasies/desires would be for her to cuck me by getting another man as her primary boyfriend, have him move in and live with us, take over my role as her main man in our home, and make me watch as they have their own bedroom together where they sleep together most nights, and makes me watch her become sexually exclusive to him with the exception of our anniversary and my birthday.

Sexual arousal will make us do a lot of crazy risky things that we never thought possible that we would never consider or expect to like. I grew to like it the two times we did it simply because my desire was for her to screw other men and that is exactly what she was doing as a result of not screwing me.

There are folks in this group who have gone decades without being inside their wife and likely never will for as long as they are alive and guess what? they are perfectly happy with that arrangement. My advice is to try it incrementally to see how you both like it. You two can agree on an amount of time without sex to see how you like it.

If you want to make it more interesting, you can perhaps cut a few pieces of paper and in each one write a number of weeks or months and put it in a bag- grab bag. You can do something like 2 week increments to start with so in each piece of paper: 2 weeks no sex, 4 weeks no sex, 6 weeks no sex, 8 week no sex, 12 weeks no sex. You can go as far as you want but if you have sex frequently, then I'd recommend keeping it at 12 or less lol. crumble those papers up and throw them inside a bag and select your destiny! You can also approach it a different way, write down how many times per month or year you'll have sex. Such as, sex 12 times a year, sex 10 times a year, sex 8 times a year, sex 6 times a year, sex 4 times a year, and so forth. Since the beginning of the new year is around the corner, you two can discuss something reasonable to start with. If you wanna have fun with it, you can also incorporate some rules... if she wants to keep you denied, then she needs to have sex with others at least (x) amount of times per week and if she does not then you get to have her that week. Be created and have fun!

I think a cuckold should be kept completely chaste - maybe with a cage - so that the wife is not tempted, the boyfriend should have the key.

At the beginning we still had sex, but very quickly we realized that it was best if she only had sex with real men and I was completely pussyfree and chaste - I was proud to wear a cage and especially when the cage was constantly replaced by smaller ones.

It became really clear that it was very good when she later fell in love with her African boyfriend and he later moved in - because that way I could show that I accepted that they were now a married couple and of course only her husband has the right to penetration and impregnation.

I am very grateful to have been brought into a strict regression into babyhood by the female members of his African family and also that I agreed to chemically castration - now my willie is no longer visible and my balls are also tiny - no erection and no more sperm production. I am very happy and grateful for this and I obey much better now - so great that I am now a well behaved little sissy baby daughter and my panty diapers (Pampers Baby Diaper size 8) fits also much better.So great that it is also not allowed to see her naked for me - also not to kiss her on her mouth - like a little baby daughter i kiss her only on her cheek only

little Benita

The secret is you both have to agree, and she keeps you excited by saying or doing stuff. If you are ignored it will lead to bad feelings. Look up sex free marriage. Men have to feel loved somehow from their wife. My wife calls me her "BOY" and treats me like a boy and reminds me boys jerk off only. They get no pussy. Her pussy is for a real man. My wife learned keeping a man's balls full you can control him. So, this keeps me happy.

surry wrote: ↑

Sat Dec 07, 2024 1:07 am

My wife learned keeping a man's balls full you can control him.

Not too full, I hope. They need emptying now and again, even if it's only by your own hand.

Frequency adjustments on when the cage comes off, I can see. But I think a couple requires a certain amount of intimacy for a good relationship. That's different for everyone though. Like someone above mentioned, being good with just cleaning her up after she's with her boyfriend. See what works for you but make sure you openly communicate it with your girl.

So you don't mind as long as there is still intimacy?

caged_cuck12 wrote: ↑

Wed Dec 04, 2024 5:41 am

....a few days back, she suggested the idea of no vaginal sex for me whatsoever moving forward and asked whether I'd be open to give it a shot. I would love to explore it, but I aint sure of potential consequences - positive or negative - of a long-term pussy free relationship. She also wants to create a dynamic where I get rare cage releases and wouldnt clean her up or see pussy as often as I do now.

Any progress?

namitha157 wrote: ↑

Mon Dec 09, 2024 4:18 pm

So you don't mind as long as there is still intimacy?

I'd still like pussy sometimes but I think intimacy is essential for a healthy relationship.

At begin i was longtime pussyfree and chaste - also with a cage.
After she want to be sure to get only black babies - i became chemically castrated - this was not bad for me, because i was not really in sexual activitis - i was more asexuel - also i obey much better and became a good behaved baby girl (sissy).
So great too that the genitals shrinks very much - always limp and size is not more measurable (balls also very tiny now)

little Benita

little sissy Benita wrote: ↑

Tue Dec 10, 2024 2:05 am

At begin i was longtime pussyfree and chaste - also with a cage.
After she want to be sure to get only black babies - i became chemically castrated - this was not bad for me, because i was not really in sexual activitis - i was more asexuel - also i obey much better and became a good behaved baby girl (sissy).
So great too that the genitals shrinks very much - always limp and size is not more measurable (balls also very tiny now)

little Benita

Oh wow.
So you don't have a penis anymore? And you are ok with it?

Yes, that's ok for me - and i am also happy/grateful for it. I was all the time not a real man and cuckolding open my eyes to regnorize it.
I was asexual and girlish and also babyrish
To be in regression into babyhood and to be a little girl/daugther was best for me. She have now a real african man as husband and i love that both are a married couple now.

Chemical castration is not as fast as some people think - at first I had a slight fever, was a bit run down and slept a lot - I noticed that I was becoming less and less aroused and that my genitals were shrinking more and more - then my willie was 0.31 inches - and recently we were no longer able to take any measurements - the balls are also shrinking a lot and are now useless

Finally i feel as a little girl and a baby - finally nothing dangles back and forth in the panty diaper and during diapering - also i obey much better

little Benita

I am 56 years old, impotent, and I have not penetrated my wife for over 2 years. She has a lover and sometimes they ask me to clean them with blowjobs.
I also perform oral sex on her and help her with sex toys when she asks me to. I have a cage but voluntarily.
I am fine like this, I have no interest in penetrating her, and she feels very sexually satisfied with her lover.

Not for most people. If you can handle it fine, some can. But there are many voyeurs here that will wreck their marriage by reading online fantasy talk and believing it’s all true.

I would say depends on person, for us it was more of a medical thing. At this point it's been over 2 years since we had any PIV from me and it really made things better for us. The frustration from not being able to have erection or if I did it just would not last, and on top of that being rather small. All and all it has been better. I also tried all the possible drugs, with multiple trips to ER as a result.

I haven't been in my wife's pussy for at least 10 years. This week she let me inside her. It felt so good. But at first I would go soft when I entered her. Then it remembered this was my wife and got hard. I asked afterward why she let me fuck her. She said she wanted to let me know she still loves me.

Our normal routine, I would jerk off next to her. She would be naked and I get to explore her body. This could happen when her friend was in the room, or she came home from her friends home or it was just us. I start out thanking her for keeping her pussy from me. When I explored her body, as soon as I touched her pussy, my wife would ask, "Is that your pussy?"
Me, "No."
She, "Whose pussy is it?"
Me, "Mr. Sanchez owns your pussy."
She, "Did you get permission."
No, "No."
She. "Then move your hand."
My wife would then tell me "Boys" fuck there hands only. Boy's do not get pussy."
This makes me cum.

Like pretty much every question asked on this board, the answer is, "It depends." If you're someone who would hate life without penetrative sex, then, no, it won't work long-term. If you're someone who isn't that attached to fucking, your chances are far better of it working for you. For us, it's no problem at all, but that's because I'm perfectly content just masturbating. YMMV.

an update:

we read all the responses. we have decided to give pussy-free dynamic a shot for six months and then discuss pros and cons. she will restrict my releases for hygiene needs (our bull wants that too!) and greatly limit my access to see her pussy as she feels exclusive to our current bull. No concrete figures, but I will undoubtedly see her pussy less frequently.

we have also decided to use a vibrator till I experience an orgasm with my cage on .. we want to normalize such orgasms.

I hope our plans work!

caged_cuck12 wrote: ↑

Thu Dec 12, 2024 2:19 pm

an update:

we read all the responses. we have decided to give pussy-free dynamic a shot for six months and then discuss pros and cons. she will restrict my releases for hygiene needs (our bull wants that too!) and greatly limit my access to see her pussy as she feels exclusive to our current bull. No concrete figures, but I will undoubtedly see her pussy less frequently.

we have also decided to use a vibrator till I experience an orgasm with my cage on .. we want to normalize such orgasms.

I hope our plans work!

CC12
- Have you and your wife considered 'milking' at all?

We are 1,192 days pf, bjf and hjf! We are still as close and love each other as much as the days we were making love daily!