My girlfriend and her interest in other men

[Tolliver]

Good morning. My name is Mark and I live in the US. I have been living with my gf in a third floor luxury apartment for about 6 months and not long ago she cheated on me with our next door neighbor.

I met Rie in '22 at a bar a few miles from where I live. We're both 28 although I'm about 7 months older than her. You could say she pursued me, initiating the convo. I'm not super assertive, a little shy, but I have dated more than a few women and have been sexually active for close to 10 years. I'm tall, white, short brown hair. She is 5'7", long black hair, busty thick figure. She's fairly normal personality but when she drinks she gets very bubbly and outgoing.

We dated for about a year before she moved in with me. Things went normal for about 6 months and then things started happening with her and other men. One of our fav things to do is go to concerts. The first time she stepped out on me we were at a club downtown at a rock show. We were both drinking but she gets tipsy and then drunk fairly easily. She excused herself to go to the bathroom and when a few songs passed, I became concerned and started looking for her. I checked the hallway to the bathroom and all over the standing room floor (place holds a few hundred ppl). Didn't find her, but I did discover a door to an outside enclosed smoking area and when I entered it I saw her making out with another guy. They were in a deep passionate embrace and his hands were about as all over her as they could be without raising an objection from other concert goers.

I turned around and went back to the show. A few more songs later she returned and I asked her where she was. She said she got lost and couldn't find me (an unusual excuse due to how small the venue is, but had I not seen her I would have probably believed it due to her drunk state).

I was jealous and hurt by her infidelity but still able to function and even enjoy the show somewhat. When the show was over we walked to my car and I confronted her about it. "I saw you with that guy out in the smoking area." I was upset at this point and hands were shaking a little. She smiled calmly, very relaxed, and told me he struck up a convo with her and they hit it off. "It didn't look like a convo to me. He was all over you", I answered, trying not to seem too angry. She de-escalated the accusation, and I wanted to accuse her again of doing heavy petting 10 minutes into the relationship, but decided not to. We went home and had sex, and things were more comfortable after that. I should add that I'm not always great in bed and she doesn't always finish with a happy ending. I've bought her dildos and vibrators but she says she's not too into them. She'd rather be naked with a guy than use toys.

The next day she asked in a very relaxed and curious manner, what exactly I saw. I told her how passionate things looked and her response was that she likes to make friends. It was a little concerning and looking back I should have seen the red flag. From that point on I have realized she was more or less grooming me to be a cuck.

Next part to come a bit later as I have to leave the house soon.

[BallSpanking]

Your mild reaction to her stepping out on you gave her the green light she wanted to proceed down that road, and it seems, deep down, you approve.

[4incheslong]

Yea you are at a cross road right now. Get jealous and angry and she will cheat on you. Or, next time you have sex, tell her how turned on you were.

[venus-can99]

A very nice intro tolliver. Looking forward to hearing how this has progressed/evolved

[Tolliver]

The next show we went to was Dave Matthews. No issues there and we had a good time with the two of us hitting it off, cuddling during the show and holding hands.

A few months later we went back to the small venue and again, she met another guy during the show. This time he was with some friends standing next to us, and to my dismay she started talking to them, one guy in particular, for an extended period of time. She mentioned me a few times and I interacted, but for the most part I was not a big participant in the convo. The two of them kind of edged away from both his friends and also me, and were clearly engrossed in getting to know each other. I was worried that she might repeat the previous performance but also comforted by the fact that she was right next to me and probably wouldn't do anything too crazy. I was wrong. I looked over and saw him hugging her and again got very jealous. Not long after they were making out and although I was a bit desensitized from the first time around, it was very awkward and embarrassing. I tried at times to pretend I didn't see them, but I found I couldn't just completely ignore her either. A few times I looked over and he was cupping her breasts and once his hand was between her legs. He was a tough guy looking type, and he literally asked her between songs when everyone around including me could hear, if she wanted to come to his hotel after the show. Her answer of "we'll see" indeed did not leaving me feeling great. She was basically his girl for the remainder of the show. Kissing, petting, and several times her hand dipped to his crotch as well. When we walked out, she walked with him and I followed behind. It turned out we were in different parking lots and we stopped on the road. He kissed her right in front of me with cars now driving by, and asked again if she wanted to come with him to the hotel. "I should probably go home with my boyfriend", she answered with a smile. He offered to drive her home after. She didn't answer right away, at which point he indicated he could introduce her to his friends as well if she was interested, and she said thanks but no thanks, and we left. It occurred to me later that I may have only avoided her hooking up with him due to him extending the offer of a gangbang.

[ShyBiGuy954]

Good morning. My name is Mark and I live in the US. I have been living with my gf in a third floor luxury apartment for about 6 months and not long ago she cheated on me with our next door neighbor.

............. From that point on I have realized she was more or less grooming me to be a cuck.

Well, she's still living with you, so I guess you're OK with that.

[Pecannut]

Wow! So hot! Does this turn you on?

[elina]

Thanks for sharing,

Please continue.
Did your last post bring you up to where you are today or is there more to come?

It seems to me that you have found a lovely girl who is a natural cuckoldress and very conscious about how to keep you while pursuing Her needs to fuck other males? Maybe you are getting to like this?

Sincerely
elina
(submissive male)

[Freemans892]

My take is that your girlfriend has a strong promiscuous background and the two guys she has made out with at the concerts are fine for short flings but wouldn’t last long as boyfriends. I’m guessing that the super assertive guys couldn’t handle her over friendly nature with other guys and her promiscuous nature when she’s drunk. This probably why she pursued you the night you met her because your less assertive nature may end being a natural fit for her. The fact that you not always great in bed leads her to wanting some good old hard fucking from an assertive guy once in a blue moon. She does sound like a natural cuckoldress. The question is are you happy to a girlfriend/partner who is a natural cuckoldress?

[Tolliver]

Sorry have been busy this week. Yes there is more history to post b4 being caught up.

[Tolliver]

After that second show I was quiet for a while on the way home, and she asked if I was okay. I told her I wasn't sure what to say due to how out of hand things got. And that I couldn't believe how flirty she was with her new friend directly in front of me. As flustered as I was I still felt like I was the bad guy for gently calling her out. All she really said, that I can recall, was something like "you know me, I like to flirt" and then something about how we'd talk about it in the morning, which we did.

After breakfast the next day, she told me she felt like I was enjoying watching her with her new friend, and that she thought it was hot. I told her I was more flustered than anything else, and she shot back that any guy who would allow his girl to get frisky like that with another guy in front of him, was probably into it on some level, or at least could be. My heart started racing at this point and I became a bit nervous, both for being called out like that and also wondering myself if maybe I was turned on to some extent. The conversation didn't proceed much after that, as I just wanted it to end. Although I made a note to myself to try not taking her to that small concert venue again any time soon.

It was over the next few months that she met Mark, our next door neighbor that moved in maybe 6 months ago. He's a 20-year old student, good looking and the outgoing and popular type. We would meet him in the hall (he lives alone) and talk for a bit, and sometimes when I was home and she was either coming or going, I would hear her chatting and laughing with him. We got to be pretty good friends although she spent more time with him and my interaction was more limited to when she and I were together. He drove her around a few times when I was at work and her car was being fixed. We would invite each other over for dinner about once a month, and after a while the two of them began hugging any time we'd get together. Not long after that they would flirt verbally in front of me, regularly making jokes about sex.

Rie and I have always looked at porn together on the web. It started out with pics, and then movies. It was about this time in the relationship that she would send me first wife swap content, then hotwifing, then outright cuckolding. I'll never forget the first picture of a wife giving head to a guy with her husband watching. I was unexpectedly and extremely aroused, and she apparently noticed because she smiled with a twinkle in her eyes and told me she thought I might enjoy that. Again I was extremely flustered and she told me it was okay, she thought it was hot too. Looking back I should have put my foot down and told her I didn’t want her doing anything sexual with him, but they were already close friends at that point and I didn’t want to overstep my boundaries and make her feel like I was controlling her.

[elina]

Thanks Tolliver,

Your story is getting ever more interesting.
From what I understand, everything you have described so far is still in the past.
Looking forward to additional updates whenever you have the time to go on.

Sincerely
elina

[Lucky Dog]

Tolliver, it seems that your wife knew what she was doing and she sensed she could make you enjoy becoming her cuckold. So far, this is a story of your wife seducing you into becoming her cuckold and you're beginning to enjoy it. You're lucky to have such a lovely wife and I am also looking forward to see how this developed.

[ucaneffher]

Many of us cucks would kill for our women to outright take charge and be the ones conditioning us ever so smoothly but firmly into accepting their transition into promiscuity in front of us.

I would love it if I was going through exactly what you have posted thus far and would just let it be and go with the flow. Unless you genuinely are not turned on and into it then then I'd comply and be supportive. The times that my girlfriend has made new "friends" and connected with other men, I have been beyond supportive and accommodating by complimenting her in how good she looked in her outfit and not blaming the guy for being so interested, as well as continuing to make plans to take her out more and keep the ball rolling. Then again, It has been my dream to have share my girlfriend.

If you are indeed enjoying it, then do not discourage her but instead communicate and tell her that you like it but want her to go slow to and gradually warm you up into it before going to speed. If you enjoy it and want it but are too shy to discuss it right away, then you can show her with actions. Ideas of how you can demonstrate to her that you are open to it can include buying her a sexy outfit and plan an outing for her. You can give her space when you're out together, perhaps tell her that you need to step out for some fresh air but she can make a friend and enjoy the show in the meantime (if she hasnt already made a new friend), lastly you can always make plans for outings and have her meet you at a venue but get there a little late to give her a chance to mingle.

Again, communication is key. She doesnt seem to have been 100% honest from the start but once caught, has been definitely hinting of what she wants and where she wants to take the relationship so you have a choice to go along with it or walk away if you don't like it and this can all be settled over an honest and direct conversation. Ask her directly what she wants, tell her what you want, and how you two are willing to compromise and meet halfway.

[Tolliver]

So basically to make a long story a little shorter Rie and Mark became close enough friends that she started having sex with him. The first time it happened he invited her over to his place (next door) for a movie. I was a little hurt and surprised at first that I wasn’t invited but gave her my blessing to go.

She came back several hours after leaving. I didn’t really expect she would have had sex with him but when I asked how the movie was, she told me they didn’t actually finish it and that it turned out he liked her a lot more than she thought. I asked her what happened and she told me he made a move on her and she couldn’t help herself. I was upset but given what had already transpired I found I wasn’t able to be too angry. Still, I’d never been cheated on before (except for her other two kissing/petting dalliances of course) and was hurt by what she had told me.

I went to the bedroom to be alone and she joined me soon after, saying we should talk about it. She told me she had always loved sex and simply had a hard time saying no in certain instances. Then to my surprise she asked me if I wanted to hear the details of what happened and began giving them to me. After kissing and petting she gave him a blowjob on the sofa after which he took her to his bedroom and had sex with her. By this time she was seducing me with her hand on my manhood. When she told me he came inside of her she slipped me into her mouth and started licking and sucking. I’ll never forget that. I was helpless to so much as protest even a little.

From that point forward things were out in the open that she would be having sex with both of us. Every Saturday night she would go over to his place and they would make love. A few times she stayed the night but I asked her not to and she respected that, always returning when they were done.

Still more to come before the story is caught up to present.

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[elina]

Thanks Tolliver

To me, the really interesting part of this is that Rie is clearly highly conscious about wanting to develop Her relationship to you, it appears She wants you as the fixed-point male in Her life, and at the same time versy systematically developing you into a loyal cuckold accepting your place in the relationship.

.......

Still more to come before the story is caught up to present.

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I for one is realy lookinf forward to the rest of your story so far, and hopefully to the follow you and Rie as you go on in life.

Sincerely
elina

[Tolliver]

Thanks Elina. Also thanks to Ucan and others for the advice. Part of me is turned on by having a girl that hooks up with another guy, but part of me is frightened by this arrangement as well. A few weeks ago my sister visited. Our dinner went long and Rie had to excuse herself. Said she was going to see a friend. She literally went next door to see you know who. Sis gave me a funny look and I told her a friend was teaching her some computer things for her job. It’s a luxury apartment with concrete in the walls but I was still scared we’d be able to hear her carrying on over there. I realized I had been sort of low level turned on when she’d leave me to go see him, but with sis there I felt more humiliated and betrayed.

Anyway back to the story. Rie went over to his place every Saturday night for several months, then one day after work during the week he came to our place for a movie. When it was over they started making out on the sofa. Before the credits were finished she started giving him a blowjob, first from her seat on the sofa (I was sitting on the other side) then she got down on her knees on the floor and finished him off. I was horrified rather than turned on. Even with the lights out I could see he was bigger than me, and when he was done she swallowed his load, while for me she has not done that.

A few weeks later we did the same thing, movie night at our place, and as he was leaving afterwards, she stopped him and dropped to her knees by the door, telling him she was available if he wanted a repeat of last time, which he did.

This was maybe 6 weeks ago. Since then we’ve been in a schedule where she goes to his place Saturday nights and he comes here for movie night and a bj every other week.

He is very comfortable coming to my apartment and getting serviced by my girl in front of me. The second time by the door the light was on and I got a good look at how eager she was to pleasure and service him.

Since then she jokingly calls him “big Mark” and me “little Mark”, which stings a bit but I can still laugh at it.

And that’s where we stand currently. She has asked me several times about how I feel about them having sex in our bed, and both times I said I’m not sure.

[ShyBiGuy954]

Rie and I have always looked at porn together on the web. It started out with pics, and then movies. It was about this time in the relationship that she would send me first wife swap content, then hotwifing, then outright cuckolding. I'll never forget the first picture of a wife giving head to a guy with her husband watching. I was unexpectedly and extremely aroused, and she apparently noticed because she smiled with a twinkle in her eyes and told me she thought I might enjoy that. Again I was extremely flustered and she told me it was okay, she thought it was hot too.

Before the credits were finished she started giving him a blowjob, first from her seat on the sofa (I was sitting on the other side) then she got down on her knees on the floor and finished him off. I was horrified rather than turned on. Even with the lights out I could see he was bigger than me, and when he was done she swallowed his load, while for me she has not done that.

..... he comes here for movie night and a bj every other week.

And now that's exactly what she's doing to you, giving blowjobs to another guy while you watch.
.

[ucaneffher]

Sounds like she is doing a fantastic job slowly but surely getting you to accept her desires. You are officially watching your girl getting physical with another man and you aren't even throwing punches or swearing.

How does it make you feel to see her moving forward like this and having sex with other men?

[Frenchie]

Very interesting story of the making of a cuckold.
Your gf takes charge in a very good way.
I guess you enjoy it even it's a hard path.
You must be emotionly wrecked sometimes but keep the good part : you have a sex godess at home, who loves you and hide nothing to you. The Dream of many men here.

[Frenchie]

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[ucaneffher]

Very interesting story of the making of a cuckold.
Your gf takes charge in a very good way.
I guess you enjoy it even it's a hard path.
You must be emotionly wrecked sometimes but keep the good part : you have a sex godess at home, who loves you and hide nothing to you. The Dream of many men here.

My thoughts exactly. I know if give my left nut for my girlfriend to be training me exactly the way that Tollivers girlfriend is training him. She's doing all the heavy lifting that most cuckolds do. Some women will never consider the lifestyle, some require some convincing, and then there's those that are born for the lifestyle and will make a man a cuck or being the inner cuck out of him.

[realcucklife]

Does she like cuck porn with more clean up, humiliation, chastity cages?
Which direction do you think she will guide you?

[Tolliver]

Yes she definitely enjoys sucking him in front of me. She's confessed it gets her hot and she has mentioned for her birthday she might like to try having sex with him in our apartment rather than just a bj. I'm getting a little more comfortable with it but tbh still very flustered when she goes down on him and starts doing her thing. She gets very into it and I've seen some very well lit views of them together. It messes with my head. She recently sent me a picture of her in his apartment, sitting on his sofa with arms crossed in a photogenic position and a sweet smile, with him standing next to her, approximately at blowjob height, which I feel was intentionally suggestive. I have been wanting to just ask her if he's her boyfriend or if I am, but so far haven't gotten up the nerve.

[joel68]

So, she may want to fuck him at your place on her birthday. When is her birthday, soon?

And if so, do they want you to watch them fuck?