What does he mean with 'breaking' her?

[TeunJ9207]

My wife recently did a few 'powerfucking' sessions with multiple bulls on their request. Some were okay and others were challenging for her but she always completed the session to satisfy her bull.

Now he announced that next time they do powerfucking they are gonna 'break' her. Do any of you know what this means?

The bull says she will be fine but this word sounds rather concerning, right?

[coastalkid]

My guess is that he means they will "break down" her will to resist anything they ask of her.

[The Owl]

Fuck her harder and longer? Train her to be their submissive.

Perhaps fuck her so hard - body to body - that her breast implants break (assuming she has any).

Doesn't sound favorable.

[CuckedbyNikki]

They're gonne push their limits next time. Can be longer & intense sessions where they don't listen to her, or fucking her that much she breaks out of her character & becomes submissive to the bull any possibilty can be there but one thing is sure - her limits will be pushed.

[BritishCuckCpl]

I think he just means push her to the point that anything holding her back from fully embracing the experience will be broken and she will embrace the experience more fully, making it something extra special. That or just idle banter, trying to make it more excited or nervous, sort of like foreplay before the big night but in reality it won't be much different to what was before.

[Cdncuck]

I think it means you and your wife need to make some other friends. If she was having physical difficulty and pain the session should have stopped. A good dominant doesn't break their toys. This guy sounds like he doesn't care if she is seriously hurt and he's bad news.

[Luigical1931]

My understanding is that he’s planning to fuck her so hard that she will be too sore to be fucked again (at least for a while). He’s really going to push her limits.

Important that you’ve discussed with her safe words and he respects that.

Can be a really hot session for her, but could also actually end up being rape if it becomes something she no longer wants and he doesn’t listen.

[milehinbi]

Now he announced that next time they do powerfucking they are gonna 'break' her. Do any of you know what this means?

How many dudes are involved during these powerfucking sessions?

[trecital]

It means "I am a bull on a power trip".

Watch out!

[wifelver]

In the BDSM world the term is usually applied to breaking a submissive to the point where he or she is broken of any pride and self-respect. The Dominant is in full control and the submissive is often degraded and humiliated to the point that they will do anything they’re told. When this becomes their prevailing dynamic, it approximates some forms of the Master/slave relationship. In other words, the submissive loses all control as the Dominant uses and abuses its prey in any manner they want.

I would be very careful and wary around anyone who uses this term. It is not to be taken lightly.

[Gearup]

my guess - fuck every hole mercilessly. pound the fuck out of her & wear her out

[TeunJ9207]

How many dudes are involved during these powerfucking sessions?

3 or 4 usually

[TeunJ9207]

Thanks, a lot of different answers. Most of them are not that concerning so I assume she will be able handle it.

[stubbyhubby]

He means fuck her until she can't take it anymore and wants it to end, then keep fucking her until she "breaks" and is willing to submit to anything he wants.

Had a guy do that to Lisa about 10 years ago. Tied her up with her legs spread wide and fucked the hell out of her for 2.5 hours. By my count she had 17 orgasms. After a little over an hour she told him to cum in her and he said no because he wasn't through with her yet. By the 2nd hour she was willing to say or do anything he wanted. He had her calling herself a fuckhole and saying her only value in the world was to be fucked and came in. By the end he made her beg for his cum and told her if she didn't convince him how bad she wanted his cum he would leave without giving it to her because she hasn't earned it.

[raoulduke]

He means fuck her until she can't take it anymore and wants it to end, then keep fucking her until she "breaks" and is willing to submit to anything he wants.

Had a guy do that to Lisa about 10 years ago. Tied her up with her legs spread wide and fucked the hell out of her for 2.5 hours. By my count she had 17 orgasms. After a little over an hour she told him to cum in her and he said no because he wasn't through with her yet. By the 2nd hour she was willing to say or do anything he wanted. He had her calling herself a fuckhole and saying her only value in the world was to be fucked and came in. By the end he made her beg for his cum and told her if she didn't convince him how bad she wanted his cum he would leave without giving it to her because she hasn't earned it.

So many questions...

Did that affect her afterwards? Any change in behavior? Did she consider it enjoyable?

[sandy691196]

My understanding is that he’s planning to fuck her so hard that she will be too sore to be fucked again (at least for a while). He’s really going to push her limits.

Important that you’ve discussed with her safe words and he respects that.

Can be a really hot session for her, but could also actually end up being rape if it becomes something she no longer wants and he doesn’t listen.

"She no longer wants and he doesnt listen" sounds simple in theory and as a concept. But going by the narratives of some posters here, in BDSM , Dom-Sub type play, the lines appear to be blurred and amorphous. The sub first says ' "enough" and the Dom goes on doing it till the sub likes it and is willing to take more.

So by who and how and when are these decisions made? Obviously not in the moment. Because in that case, the entire Dom - Sub play collapses at the very beginning and it becomes a normal sexual encounter between overtly (expressly) consenting adults.

To me it sounds like Russian Roulette. The sub gets "broken in" and is ok with it and it goes on.. Or stays as a one time pleasurable adventure.
OR the character and nature of the sub is such that irrespective of the orgasms in the moment, she later feels shitty and degraded and violated and dehumanised. In such a disturbing situation, Married ladies may just disengage from the LS and keep it under warps because they dont want her LS play to become public knowledge..

But still, some day, there may be a fearful stink..

[stonemtncouple]

I think it means you and your wife need to make some other friends. If she was having physical difficulty and pain the session should have stopped. A good dominant doesn't break their toys. This guy sounds like he doesn't care if she is seriously hurt and he's bad news.

Yes I agree.

[routesman]

Now he announced that next time they do powerfucking they are gonna 'break' her. Do any of you know what this means?

Breaking can mean a lot of different things. However, going within the context provided, I think he's going to try to "powerfuck" her so hard/much that she has to ask him to stop. And he's probably not going to do it, sadly.

The bull says she will be fine but this word sounds rather concerning, right?

Has he negotiated this idea with her or both of you? If the answer is no, its concerning. Consent is key to all forms of sexual activity. Even CNC is nothing more than people roleplaying the event within the confines of consent.

And it doesn't sound like this person is worried about that. Sounds like he's a power-tripping fool who is likely going to hurt someone. And even if he doesn't hurt her physically, the damage to her emotionally can affect your relationship with her. And it sure as the sun rises will affect her opinion on bulls and cuckolding.

Talk to your wife, express your concerns. And be willing to tell her: I don't think this person (I refuse to call him a bull or a man) is good for either of you. Take care of yourself... and each other.

[stubbyhubby]

He means fuck her until she can't take it anymore and wants it to end, then keep fucking her until she "breaks" and is willing to submit to anything he wants.

Had a guy do that to Lisa about 10 years ago. Tied her up with her legs spread wide and fucked the hell out of her for 2.5 hours. By my count she had 17 orgasms. After a little over an hour she told him to cum in her and he said no because he wasn't through with her yet. By the 2nd hour she was willing to say or do anything he wanted. He had her calling herself a fuckhole and saying her only value in the world was to be fucked and came in. By the end he made her beg for his cum and told her if she didn't convince him how bad she wanted his cum he would leave without giving it to her because she hasn't earned it.

So many questions...

Did that affect her afterwards? Any change in behavior? Did she consider it enjoyable?

She was exhausted afterwards and even the next day, but she absolutely loved it.

It did change her behavior in the sense it made her more willing to submit to whatever a guy wants. She was already submissive, but she became more compliant to do whatever the guy said to do. She also wanted to be tied up a lot more after that and still does.

[TeunJ9207]

He means fuck her until she can't take it anymore and wants it to end, then keep fucking her until she "breaks" and is willing to submit to anything he wants.

Thanks all! Than I think this will probably be what he means. As long as she is not worried than I guess I shouldn't worry.

This time he specifically said I could not come over to watch, he wants to have a date only with her and a few others bulls. It will be fine, I will hear her story afterwards.

[TeunJ9207]

It's going to happen this weekend. Any other feedback is still much appreciated!

[out_of_ideas]

Can't wait to read about it.

[TeunJ9207]

It turns out most of you were right. She went over to his place, I was not allowed to watch because he would than not be able to break her, he said.

She has told me some things but not all of it. He started fucking her really hard and intense. After a while, a 2nd and 3rd bull (all BBCs) came in and they all took turns.
After a while, she said she wanted a break, but they told her 'no breaks today' and simply continued. Each time she asked to stop or ease up, they fucked her even harder. They told her to relax and just take their big dicks. She even begged them to cum but they denied and intensified the fucking. Also when she orgasmed, they just ignored it and kept going. Some moments later she said she felt a very short moment emotional 'breakdown' but felt like she couldn't get them to stop. And al of a sudden she changed her mindset and was open to submit to anything the bulls wanted. They seemed happy they got her in that modus. She hasn't yet told me what exactly the bulls had her do in the final part but I hope to hear more from this.

She is happy with what happened and feels like she reached a whole new level by withstanding the first few struggles. They now want to do this more often.

[coastalkid]

I would guess that your wife is not the first woman this group has done this with. I would further guess that they enjoy using a newly "broken" woman until the thrill of her submission loses its appeal and they search out another woman to "break". If she didn't really want it she could have stopped it. You should ask your wife to find out how any other women they've done this with? Now that they've successfully "broken" her will you get to watch the next time?

[Ready2StartAgain]

It turns out most of you were right. She went over to his place, I was not allowed to watch because he would than not be able to break her, he said.

She has told me some things but not all of it. He started fucking her really hard and intense. After a while, a 2nd and 3rd bull (all BBCs) came in and they all took turns.
After a while, she said she wanted a break, but they told her 'no breaks today' and simply continued. Each time she asked to stop or ease up, they fucked her even harder. They told her to relax and just take their big dicks. She even begged them to cum but they denied and intensified the fucking. Also when she orgasmed, they just ignored it and kept going. Some moments later she said she felt a very short moment emotional 'breakdown' but felt like she couldn't get them to stop. And al of a sudden she changed her mindset and was open to submit to anything the bulls wanted. They seemed happy they got her in that modus. She hasn't yet told me what exactly the bulls had her do in the final part but I hope to hear more from this.

She is happy with what happened and feels like she reached a whole new level by withstanding the first few struggles. They now want to do this more often.

Soundslike you enjoyed hearing it and she liked getting there! I'm sure you want to watch next time! Or maybe next time, it'll be you the break in some way!?