Wife fell in love

[Timewarner]

So my wife and I have been doing this for alittle bit. We took it real slow with her first time because my ex wife and I went too far. I struggled with always wanting my ex wife to have a new partner. But my current wife I was too afraid of losing. She had a boyfriend where they would make out and do oral but never sex for months. Finally they couldn't control it and they made love. I've perked off to that video thousands of times. Watching him guide into her slowly with his fat cock. Later she admitted it wasn't just a fuck. I could tell that.
Anyone else had their wife fall for her boyfriend?

[Thebestdays1]

My ex always developed feelings for her long term boyfriends and girlfriends, whether they were married or single and sometimes they'd fall in love with her too. I have to admit, watching her kiss some of them with real passion was very exciting so I never minded.
One of her ex's, a married work colleague, found it hard to accept it when she broke things off with him and his behaviour created problems within his marriage and this gave his wife the courage to tell him she was leaving him for someone else. My wife didn't tell me just how uncomfortable he made her feel at work or that one of her colleagues was looking out for her. Eventually, the first man was sacked and by this time she'd fallen in love with the second man, who was also married. She did admit to sucking him off a couple of times but hid the fact that they were having sex from me, which broke the promise we'd made to each other to be honest about our relationships.
Eventually, I noticed that she was falling out of love with me and when I told her I thought we should have a trial separation, she admitted her feelings for her colleague. His wife found out about them a few months later and so he moved in with my wife and they became a couple for a few years.

[surry]

That is one thing to worry about. My wife has fallen for some of her men over the years This year she moved in with her black boss. She still text me and we do talk. They send me sex pictures and sometimes she will stop by for me to clean her as a favor to me. She still loves me but really attached to him. She says she will come back because he may grow tired of her. So the threat of getting divorced is real.

[Johnann2227]

We always had the rule that if serious feelings from either party formed then the relationship had to stop. We both lived successfully by that rule for over 20 years. But then Ann met James. I get tell that he was different to all of Ann's previous boyfriends and lovers. There was always a glow about her. If it was possible, she was radiating more sexuality and confidence than ever before. Soon she was staying overnight at her and they were texting each other dozens of times a day.

I met James and liked him straight away. Really friendly, intelligent, respectful and handsome. The first time we invited him to our house I could see why Ann was hooked. We live nude and James stipped off when he arrived. 6 ft 2 and fit. Muscular but not overly. A hint of a six pack. Hairless from the next down. And a beautiful cut cock. Even I enjoyed looking at his body. James soon became erect and Ann couldn't keep her hands off his cock. It was a bit over 8 inches and thick. He has large balls which compliment his big cock.
We had a threesome in our hot tub that day ad I saw hiw well James fucked Ann. I knew that this relationship would be serious and long term.

James now lives permanently with us and shares our bed. Our adult kids, who still live live with us, get on well with James and support our relationship. He has given Ann a wedding ring which she wears on her right hand and they refer to each other as husband and wife.
I can't see this relatiinship ever ending.

[little sissy Benita]

For some years ago she fall in love in her bf and started to living as married couple with him in the house.

I love to hear when he calls her my wife and she call him my husband

little Benita

[OrlandoCPL]

Yes. I told my (our) story on here as it played out.

Shorter version: After years of saying she wasn't interested, and older man seduced my wife. I encouraged it. They ended up in a relationship. Eventually, that bond got to be so much that she left me for him.

There's a lot more to it than that, but that's the very simplified version.

[coastalkid]

Yes. I told my (our) story on here as it played out.

Shorter version: After years of saying she wasn't interested, and older man seduced my wife. I encouraged it. They ended up in a relationship. Eventually, that bond got to be so much that she left me for him.

There's a lot more to it than that, but that's the very simplified version.

I've read your entire thread. It was a cautionary tale for certain. You've been through a lot! Most people don't stick around after the stuff you've been through. I have a lot of respect for your posts.

[sandy691196]

Yes. I told my (our) story on here as it played out.

Shorter version: After years of saying she wasn't interested, and older man seduced my wife. I encouraged it. They ended up in a relationship. Eventually, that bond got to be so much that she left me for him.

There's a lot more to it than that, but that's the very simplified version.

It was tough amidst all the low integrity stuff being pulled on you by both of them. But now you have a lovely replacement of "substance" and beauty!

But that was a dirty trick that got pulled on you for sure! Is that thread up to date now?

All the best!

[submissivedanny]

My first wife fell in love with her boy friend and eventually she got pregnant and I convinced my wife it would be better for the baby to be raised by the biological father and we got divorced and they married.

My current wife is in love with her boy friend also but it's different. My wife won't just have sex with anyone, she has to have feelings for them. My wife loves her boy friend. They make love at our home and at his home. They also go away for weekends and go on vacation together. My wife also tells me she loves me very much and doesn't ever want that to change. She told me that she would break it off with her boy friend if I was uncomfortable with her seeing him. I like her boy friends and he likes me and we even do things together at times.

I am not able to satisfy my wife in bed because I have such a tiny dick. That's why I told my wife she could sleep with other men to get what she needs sexually. She told me she had to have feelings for a man before she would sleep wit him. She did find a man and he's very good to he and treats her good and gives her the best sex she ever had and that makes me happy.

[windymiller]

My cuckoldress has for many, many years had a string of long term lovers, there has been an emotional connection between them all. This starts with kissing something she loves and finds such a turn on, to the emotional connection of spends hours with them socialising and in bed enjoying intense sex.

She fell in love with her second lover, decided she wanted his baby, tried over a few years to become impreganted then decided that she wouldnt live with him as he was a serial womaniser, she was sure she could convince me to accept her, my wife having his baby. He told me this later.( I had been snipped.)

Then she lied to me about him, dispite me giving my blessing to her having sex with him and i told her to stop seeing him, which she did.

The second was much more damaging to her, he was another long term lover and i knew that what they shared was very emotionally and physically intense, he even admitted to me that he loved her but said he would never leave his wife.

One night in a hotel after a night at the theatre she consumed a bottle of wine then mid play asked him to leave his wife, he refused, she insisted that he ring his wife and tell her, again he refused.

Words were said, quite what i dont know but she cameback the following morning very emotional into my arms and said she couldnt love two men and therefore she had finished with him.

He wanted it to continue, so did i, she refused to even discuss it.

It was he that later gave a brief summary of this disaster and after i had spoken to him that i realised she was right it calling her relationship off with him.

As the saying goes:

Its a dangerous game we play.....

[OrlandoCPL]

Yes. I told my (our) story on here as it played out.

Shorter version: After years of saying she wasn't interested, and older man seduced my wife. I encouraged it. They ended up in a relationship. Eventually, that bond got to be so much that she left me for him.

There's a lot more to it than that, but that's the very simplified version.

It was tough amidst all the low integrity stuff being pulled on you by both of them. But now you have a lovely replacement of "substance" and beauty!

But that was a dirty trick that got pulled on you for sure! Is that thread up to date now?

All the best!

More less. I haven't been posting as much, but I did an update somewhat recently.

[coastalkid]

Once again, much respect for you OrlandoCPL!

[OrlandoCPL]

Once again, much respect for you OrlandoCPL!

Thanks! Appreciate the support.

[dinoo]

Well, my wife and I have broached this subject more than once. I personally think it is a very human thing for someone to be attracted to another person. And to be very clear, can also fall in love with it. When my wife was still my GF, I noticed men falling for her. That remained very innocent but it was an observation nonetheless.

When I joined an university, I wanted to break up with her. I wanted to be free and also couldn't bring myself to hurt her by being unfaithful.
She understood (fortunately for me) that I wanted to be free but added that this was no reason to end our relationship.
Honesty was (and still is) the first thing I wanted to stick to and so couldn't resist telling her everything. This sometimes came very hard but in the end I turned out to love her the most. (Looking back, I think this was the basis for us always trusting each other).

After getting the degree in ‘medical care in a hospital’, she followed me to that university town where she started working in that university's hospital.
I could go on describing all that happened sexually afterwards but that would become too long a story.
However, I cannot refrain from recounting an event that considerably strengthened the basis of our mutual trust.
I was competing in the National Student Tennis Championships. My GF would arrive a day later to attend them. Why and how is always hard to explain, but I became very friendly with another student (medicine). And I asked him to pick up my GF at the railway station because I had to play a single at that time. When he arrived with my GF, all I saw was a violently in love couple who were not even afraid to tongue-kiss each other.
Needless to say, I lost my match.
That friend (and decades later still) visited us once. Some lovemaking on the sofa.
Then he: ‘That bra is in my way.’
My GF: ‘Then you should take it off’.
Result in the end is that my GF was completely naked between us and I watched him bring her to orgasm. It went no further.

I'm skipping about 40 now. Also how we decided to visit a sex club.
(A far too long story.)
After spending several evenings in that sex club, I noticed that a certain lover was often in her presence and that she (my wife) liked him very much. Indeed, their sex with each other was so free, so open, so beautiful, that it clearly attracted other onlookers too.
One night and moment, while she was on top of him, she asked me to come closer.
She told me that she had put his (unprotected) cock in her pussy. (That had happened more often with just his glans.)
She: "I couldn't stop it anymore and put his cock in my pussy. I am in love with him and he with me (he nodded affirmatively). Show me that you won't make a problem of it and kiss me."
As we kissed, she started fucking him. We held each other tightly as she did so.
And so it happened that she came in my arms while she looked straight into my eyes. So hot.
An unimaginably pleasant feeling came over me as we continued to kiss each other.

My wife became more open than ever. In bed, she told me in detail what and how she had had sex with him again. What her dreams were what to do with him, like anal sex. How much we loved each other now. How incredible she found it to have two men she could be in love with. How much she loved me because I was the man of her dreams who could really accept anything from her. Nay, who had even regularly put her lover's glans in her pussy too as a sign that he expected more.
"The thought that from now on he will always be able to fuck me unprotected is very exciting indeed. Even more exciting it will be when you witness it."

Notes:
1 That lover was married.
2 That lover had the biggest dick of all the men walking around that club.
She about his cock: "Is just a bonus, that wasn't my point. Everything else was much more important."
3 Sex with him only took place in that club.
Once he called to be nearby, but we had visitors.
I still regret not being able to take photos/videos of them. Because then I could have proved how beautifully they were able to surrender to each other as a fallen in love couple.

[surry]

My wife can have sex with others but most of the time they have to have a friend connection. She has fallen in love or lust a few times. A coworker of mine decades ago was a player and at the age of 21 got himself fixed so he would never have kids. He was smooth and tall. I would tell my wife all the conquest he was having with women even married women. He found my wife attractive and I told my wife this. As a surprise we visited his apartment and he kissed my wife. I surprised my wife and told her I would pick her up in the morning. She was to embarrassed to say in front of him she did not want to do this.. She said the next day, I should of not done this. He fucked the shit out of her and she's never cum so much. She and him became fuck buddies. My wife was a stand in, if a struck out and needed a fuck. She lusted after him and loved being on call.
Her first love was when we first got married. Our landlord was fucking her the day after our marriage. We were 17 and 18. He was in his 50's. We rented out his basement. My wife had a daddy complex, and us being virgins it was easy to for both of us to be seduced. He gave my wife her first organism and taught her how to service him and other men. She fell heavy for him. She moved upstairs and I stayed in the basement. I loved to watch them and clean both up then jerked off. We both serviced his friends during poker games. My wife was always the prize. Sometimes a gay man would win me for the night. My wife found it funny. This was in the 70's. My wife made fuck movies for him and his friends. Back then it was 8mm tape. My wife was very shy and a raised in a church. No boys ask her out in school except me. So when these "MEN" liked her she found it extremely exciting.
She called our Landlord "Daddy" and it was because she saw him as her daddy. She was deeply in love with him. He had her doing gangbangs, pretend breeding parties. He would have guys pay him to breed her. They thought they were getting a young girl pregnant but she was on birth control. My wife said it was exciting that these men would want to put a baby in her. I was in the Army and after two years we moved. My wife cried for weeks missing him.

[Timewarner]

[quote=surry post_id=1539937 time=1738509381
She called our Landlord "Daddy" and it was because she saw him as her daddy. She was deeply in love with him. He had her doing gangbangs, pretend breeding parties. He would have guys pay him to breed her. They thought they were getting a young girl pregnant but she was on birth control. My wife said it was exciting that these men would want to put a baby in her. I was in the Army and after two years we moved. My wife cried for weeks missing him.
[/quote]

That's so hot man. How long did she do those partys?

[stonemtncouple]

My Hotwife is out and spent the night with her boyfriend of 10 years. They say they Love each other, talk daily, share nearly everything.

He fortunately has other women he fucks and dates, my wife fucks me nearly every other day and has other men she enjoys fucking.

The big difference to our situation seems to be transparency, she and he share everything with me and we routinely spend time together all three of us and talk together so no secrets I hope?

The other big difference is no one except me, the Cuck is monogamous.

If either my wife or him said they were going to be monogamous with each other then that would be a deal breaker or spell end to our marriage. I believe my wife and him feel that too so they purposely have other lovers to keep their relationship in perspective.

[coastalkid]

My Hotwife is out and spent the night with her boyfriend of 10 years. They say they Love each other, talk daily, share nearly everything.

He fortunately has other women he fucks and dates, my wife fucks me nearly every other day and has other men she enjoys fucking.

The big difference to our situation seems to be transparency, she and he share everything with me and we routinely spend time together all three of us and talk together so no secrets I hope?

The other big difference is no one except me, the Cuck is monogamous.

If either my wife or him said they were going to be monogamous with each other then that would be a deal breaker or spell end to our marriage. I believe my wife and him feel that too so they purposely have other lovers to keep their relationship in perspective.

Ten years is a long time. I'm sure they have built quite a connection over that time. How often does your wife see someone besides this guy? Is she with him more than she sees other guys or less? How does your transparency work?

[stonemtncouple]

My Hotwife is out and spent the night with her boyfriend of 10 years. They say they Love each other, talk daily, share nearly everything.

He fortunately has other women he fucks and dates, my wife fucks me nearly every other day and has other men she enjoys fucking.

The big difference to our situation seems to be transparency, she and he share everything with me and we routinely spend time together all three of us and talk together so no secrets I hope?

The other big difference is no one except me, the Cuck is monogamous.

If either my wife or him said they were going to be monogamous with each other then that would be a deal breaker or spell end to our marriage. I believe my wife and him feel that too so they purposely have other lovers to keep their relationship in perspective.

Ten years is a long time. I'm sure they have built quite a connection over that time. How often does your wife see someone besides this guy? Is she with him more than she sees other guys or less? How does your transparency work?

She gets to be with her “Boyfriend” about once a quarter more or less, speaks to him on the phone everyday. She plays with other men every month or so, has sex with me her husband every other day.

Transparency:
She tells me about their phone conversations and that she’s talked with Brian.
She shows me their txts and audio or video records some of their playtimes for me .
I speak with Brian on the phone maybe once every two weeks, and when he visits us we all spend time together dinning, sight seeing etc.
Nothing sexual with the three of us they prefer to play just the two of them.
With other Bulls we have MFM playtime.

[JeffCA]

My Hotwife is out and spent the night with her boyfriend of 10 years. They say they Love each other, talk daily, share nearly everything.

He fortunately has other women he fucks and dates, my wife fucks me nearly every other day and has other men she enjoys fucking.

The big difference to our situation seems to be transparency, she and he share everything with me and we routinely spend time together all three of us and talk together so no secrets I hope?

The other big difference is no one except me, the Cuck is monogamous.

If either my wife or him said they were going to be monogamous with each other then that would be a deal breaker or spell end to our marriage. I believe my wife and him feel that too so they purposely have other lovers to keep their relationship in perspective.

stonemtncouple, I think it is really cool that your wife can love her boyfriend and still has a great marriage with you. Every couple is different, yet you show that love in the lifestyle can be done. Glad you and she are so open with each other and have such a strong connection.

[stonemtncouple]

My Hotwife is out and spent the night with her boyfriend of 10 years. They say they Love each other, talk daily, share nearly everything.

He fortunately has other women he fucks and dates, my wife fucks me nearly every other day and has other men she enjoys fucking.

The big difference to our situation seems to be transparency, she and he share everything with me and we routinely spend time together all three of us and talk together so no secrets I hope?

The other big difference is no one except me, the Cuck is monogamous.

If either my wife or him said they were going to be monogamous with each other then that would be a deal breaker or spell end to our marriage. I believe my wife and him feel that too so they purposely have other lovers to keep their relationship in perspective.

stonemtncouple, I think it is really cool that your wife can love her boyfriend and still has a great marriage with you. Every couple is different, yet you show that love in the lifestyle can be done. Glad you and she are so open with each other and have such a strong connection.

I think its that often discussed feeling behavior. “Compersion”
Compersion is the feeling of joy in another person's happiness. It's often described as the opposite of jealousy.

[coastalkid]

My Hotwife is out and spent the night with her boyfriend of 10 years. They say they Love each other, talk daily, share nearly everything.

He fortunately has other women he fucks and dates, my wife fucks me nearly every other day and has other men she enjoys fucking.

The big difference to our situation seems to be transparency, she and he share everything with me and we routinely spend time together all three of us and talk together so no secrets I hope?

The other big difference is no one except me, the Cuck is monogamous.

If either my wife or him said they were going to be monogamous with each other then that would be a deal breaker or spell end to our marriage. I believe my wife and him feel that too so they purposely have other lovers to keep their relationship in perspective.

stonemtncouple, I think it is really cool that your wife can love her boyfriend and still has a great marriage with you. Every couple is different, yet you show that love in the lifestyle can be done. Glad you and she are so open with each other and have such a strong connection.

I think its that often discussed feeling behavior. “Compersion”
Compersion is the feeling of joy in another person's happiness. It's often described as the opposite of jealousy.

Have you ever heard or read about wives having "compersion" for their husbands. I know of two instances.

[stonemtncouple]

My Hotwife is out and spent the night with her boyfriend of 10 years. They say they Love each other, talk daily, share nearly everything.

He fortunately has other women he fucks and dates, my wife fucks me nearly every other day and has other men she enjoys fucking.

The big difference to our situation seems to be transparency, she and he share everything with me and we routinely spend time together all three of us and talk together so no secrets I hope?

The other big difference is no one except me, the Cuck is monogamous.

If either my wife or him said they were going to be monogamous with each other then that would be a deal breaker or spell end to our marriage. I believe my wife and him feel that too so they purposely have other lovers to keep their relationship in perspective.

stonemtncouple, I think it is really cool that your wife can love her boyfriend and still has a great marriage with you. Every couple is different, yet you show that love in the lifestyle can be done. Glad you and she are so open with each other and have such a strong connection.

I think its that often discussed feeling behavior. “Compersion”
Compersion is the feeling of joy in another person's happiness. It's often described as the opposite of jealousy.

Have you ever heard or read about wives having "compersion" for their husbands. I know of two instances.

Yes, I know only one wife who enjoys watching her husband enjoy other women as much as her own pleasure. Her husband is very well endowed 10” coke can cock and I believe she enjoys watching other woman “struggle” to suck him and take him inside their pussys. When she does witness another woman really enjoying her husband she gets a wide grin and big smile on her face. I’ve seen real joy in her eyes watching her husband please other women.
Only wife I know who feels this way

[stonemtncouple]

My Hotwife is out and spent the night with her boyfriend of 10 years. They say they Love each other, talk daily, share nearly everything.

He fortunately has other women he fucks and dates, my wife fucks me nearly every other day and has other men she enjoys fucking.

The big difference to our situation seems to be transparency, she and he share everything with me and we routinely spend time together all three of us and talk together so no secrets I hope?

The other big difference is no one except me, the Cuck is monogamous.

If either my wife or him said they were going to be monogamous with each other then that would be a deal breaker or spell end to our marriage. I believe my wife and him feel that too so they purposely have other lovers to keep their relationship in perspective.

stonemtncouple, I think it is really cool that your wife can love her boyfriend and still has a great marriage with you. Every couple is different, yet you show that love in the lifestyle can be done. Glad you and she are so open with each other and have such a strong connection.

I think its that often discussed feeling behavior. “Compersion”
Compersion is the feeling of joy in another person's happiness. It's often described as the opposite of jealousy.

Have you ever heard or read about wives having "compersion" for their husbands. I know of two instances.

Yes, I know only one wife who enjoys watching her husband enjoy other women as much as her own pleasure. Her husband is very well endowed 10” coke can cock and I believe she enjoys watching other woman “struggle” to suck him and take him inside their pussys. When she does witness another woman really enjoying her husband she gets a wide grin and big smile on her face. I’ve seen real joy in her eyes watching her husband please other women.
Only wife I know who feels this way. Most Hotwives are jealous.

[coastalkid]

Yes, I know only one wife who enjoys watching her husband enjoy other women as much as her own pleasure. Her husband is very well endowed 10” coke can cock and I believe she enjoys watching other woman “struggle” to suck him and take him inside their pussys. When she does witness another woman really enjoying her husband she gets a wide grin and big smile on her face. I’ve seen real joy in her eyes watching her husband please other women.
Only wife I know who feels this way. Most Hotwives are jealous.

This has always been the most peculiar dichotomy to me and a huge mental struggle for me personally. I know it's completely true to say I don't understand because I'm not in the lifestyle. Just like I can't tell you anything about skydiving from anything other than a conceptual standpoint. That's why I have always sought out people to help me understand why "compersion" is a one way street and why it's expected and accepted that a wife should naturally be jealous.

Since I can only imagine this from my own set of experiences, like a child, I can only ask "why"? In my own marriage my wife and I have always put the other first. She's not the sexual animal I would like her to be. She herself has admitted she knows that. To her credit she has made a verifiable effort to change that. In every other way we always want the other to feel satisfied and happy and make a great effort to focus on that. I know I'm loved!

This is where my brain short circuits! If a couple has that kind of love for each other and a wife clearly knows she is getting more out of a situation than her husband where does the "compersion" go? If wife was having the absolute best sexual experience because of her husband why wouldn't the opposite naturally happen? Aren't the inherent risks the same? Why is it expected and accepted that only the husband should risk his wife "falling in love" with someone? Why wouldn't a grateful wife arrange a mind blowing sexual experience for her husband to express her love for him?

I get tired of reading about wives that torment and torture their husbands, even if it's asked for. I just find it unbelievable that wives can easily slip in and out of character and be uncaring, unrelenting and selfish, then turn around and be a loving devoted wife in the snap of fingers! Whether I'm "cut out" for being in this lifestyle is of no consequence. The fact remains that very few have been able to explain this.