I would enjoy hearing from husbands whose wives' lovers moved out of state and the emotions that were experienced by both the wife and husband.
My wife Kris has been seeing Jake for a little over one year and they have developed a great sexual chemistry and a relationship too over that time. Last week Jake came over for a final fling with my beautiful wife and it was a very emotional evening for both of them, and for me as well. Kris led Jake right up to our bedroom and I gave them some time to get started before I went up to watch through the partially open door.
As always, their kisses were passionate, and he caressed her body as they began undressing. When she was down to bra and panties, Kris sat on the edge of the bed with Jake standing before her. She slid his jeans and underwear down to take out his semi-hard cock. She lovingly ran her tongue all over his prick and cupped his balls in her hand, weighing them as she moaned with lust. He whispered something and she reached back to undo her bra. He tossed it aside so he could reach down and fondle her tits while enjoying the way my wife was sucking his dick.
Jake had to back away from Kris after a few minutes so her amazing blowjob wouldn't bring him to climax, and he positioned my wife on her hands and knees at the side of the bed so he could penetrate her from behind. Moving into position, he simply slid her panties to the side and smoothly pushed his erection into her as they both moaned loudly. I quietly walked into the room to better enjoy the sights and sounds of the horny lovers fucking each other.
I had promised my wife that I would give her some time alone with Jake on their last night together, but I was having a great time watching him thrust in and out of her pussy as he held firmly onto her waist. After only a minute or so, Kris cried out that she was coming, and it caused Jake to announce that he was coming too, so I got to see them share a powerful climax together.
As promised, I quietly left the room so they could unwind and catch their breath. I went back up twenty minutes later and was thrilled to hear soft sucking sounds as my wife kissed, licked and sucked Jake to another hard-on. He was encouraging her by telling her how good it felt and how beautiful she is. This time Kris continued sucking him until he exploded in her mouth. shouting out his pleasure as he ejaculated several times.
Once again, I left to give them privacy, and when I went up later on I could hear my wife crying softly and telling Jake how much she was going to miss him. He comforted her by saying that he would visit her whenever possible and that he was going to miss her too. Jake soon got dressed and left, but not before shaking my hand and thanking me for all the times he spent with my wife and how lucky I am to have her.
Kris and I are wondering how to go forward with finding another lover for her and have even considered calling up some of her recent lovers to see if they are interested in meeting up with us some night.
Has anyone experienced a similar situation where your wife's lover/boyfriend moves away, and how did you fill the void?
Wife's lover moving away
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venus-can99
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Re: Wife's lover moving away
I am not in the LS but curious about how kris and jake got started? How long has Kris been a hotwife ?
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Re: Wife's lover moving away
I had to deal with the problem. My ex-wife and I got into cuckolding one summer and she worked at a summer camp. After the camp was over her main lover moved away to go to school. They saw each other on Christmas and usually once in the summer when he came home. After a few years, he got a serious girlfriend who made him choose her or my wife, and he broke the sad news to my wife. He tried to cheat on his gf next Christmas and my wife wouldn't let him do it.
It was hard on us as a couple. He has an elephant trunk looking penis, and my ex got weak in the knees whenever she found out he was coming home for a visit. Aside from the love I had of seeing her face light up, I got jealous, he filled her more than I did and it caused us to have jealous sex from me, and horny anticipation sex from her. After he visited her, she was horny for at least a month. We had a lot of physical chemistry before and after a visit, he lit the fire and I enjoyed the heat.
Honestly, we never did manage to fill the void. We went down memory lane with it a lot. She teased me about it a lot. We even told a few friends just to stroll down memory lane. He was a musician and so is she, and they really bonded over that too. She had other lovers, and enjoyed them all uniquely. But that combination of a spiritual connection through music, and the enormous penis that stimulated every part of her vagina, that sex was never duplicated.
The only thing that repaired her confidence was him trying to cheat on his gf and her turning him down. She got to be the one who said no. Bit of a sad story in the end. But damn, while it lasted, it was great.
It was hard on us as a couple. He has an elephant trunk looking penis, and my ex got weak in the knees whenever she found out he was coming home for a visit. Aside from the love I had of seeing her face light up, I got jealous, he filled her more than I did and it caused us to have jealous sex from me, and horny anticipation sex from her. After he visited her, she was horny for at least a month. We had a lot of physical chemistry before and after a visit, he lit the fire and I enjoyed the heat.
Honestly, we never did manage to fill the void. We went down memory lane with it a lot. She teased me about it a lot. We even told a few friends just to stroll down memory lane. He was a musician and so is she, and they really bonded over that too. She had other lovers, and enjoyed them all uniquely. But that combination of a spiritual connection through music, and the enormous penis that stimulated every part of her vagina, that sex was never duplicated.
The only thing that repaired her confidence was him trying to cheat on his gf and her turning him down. She got to be the one who said no. Bit of a sad story in the end. But damn, while it lasted, it was great.
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Re: Wife's lover moving away
My ex wife has had a few lovers move away and it seemed to affect her more, the more often it happened.
In the early years of our marriage she was in a relationship with a married couple in the apartment above us. She used to see the wife a couple of times a week and both of them roughly 3-4 times a month and grew very fond of them. When they moved away my wife seemed to feel lonely and slightly sad for maybe a couple of months but it didn't affect our sex lives.
We moved around quite a few times and so she'd have to say goodbye to some of her casual friends but that didn't seem to affect her for more than about a week.
Once we'd settled down properly, she had a relationship with a married colleague and they had both said that they loved each other. When we went away for a 3 week holiday she admitted she missed him and apparently, a female colleague of hers that my wife and I had both started seeing, noticed that he was looking sad whilst she was gone. She spoke to him and ended up giving him a blowjob. When my wife found out it was the first time I'd ever noticed her acting like she was jealous, saying that she thought he loved her. After they'd been together for just over a year he moved away to start a new job and my wife really seemed to miss him. This time it did affect our sex life. It was close to 18 months before she started dating her next boyfriend, another colleague who was single and had just moved back with his mum after her divorce. During this gap we hardly ever made love and she rarely went down on me or allowed me to go down on her. She'd wank me off a few weeks but that was all.
Then when she started dating this next lover our sex life improved greatly. She would go away with him for weekends and come back happy, well satisfied and willing to make love to me much more regularly. She loved that I sucked him off in my car a few times and initiated a few threesomes with us, partly so that she could watch me suck him again. They'd go to a naturist club that he and his family had been members of for many years and they'd have sex there most Sunday evenings. They'd also spend most mondays together, fucking at our place or sometimes they'd go to his place if his mum was out. They even had a couple of threesomes with his mum who had once walked in on them when they were partially dressed and making a drink in the kitchen. She felt completely comfortable spending time with him and his mum.
Then He told her that his dad was making his mum sell their house and that they would have to move away to a different part of the country. My wife was disappointed but the house sale took a few month to go through so they still acted like he wasn't leaving but eventually he did. Once again our sex life was affected and we rarely made love. She'd encourage me to see our friend if I needed relief and sometimes she'd do the same but rarely asked me to help her out. She seemed quite lonely at this point so I did whatever I could to cheer her up and although our sex life had suffered, she seemed very loving towards me.
She had started a new job just after her boyfriend had moved away and eventually, she had a new boyfriend and she became happy again and once again, our sex life improved.
In the early years of our marriage she was in a relationship with a married couple in the apartment above us. She used to see the wife a couple of times a week and both of them roughly 3-4 times a month and grew very fond of them. When they moved away my wife seemed to feel lonely and slightly sad for maybe a couple of months but it didn't affect our sex lives.
We moved around quite a few times and so she'd have to say goodbye to some of her casual friends but that didn't seem to affect her for more than about a week.
Once we'd settled down properly, she had a relationship with a married colleague and they had both said that they loved each other. When we went away for a 3 week holiday she admitted she missed him and apparently, a female colleague of hers that my wife and I had both started seeing, noticed that he was looking sad whilst she was gone. She spoke to him and ended up giving him a blowjob. When my wife found out it was the first time I'd ever noticed her acting like she was jealous, saying that she thought he loved her. After they'd been together for just over a year he moved away to start a new job and my wife really seemed to miss him. This time it did affect our sex life. It was close to 18 months before she started dating her next boyfriend, another colleague who was single and had just moved back with his mum after her divorce. During this gap we hardly ever made love and she rarely went down on me or allowed me to go down on her. She'd wank me off a few weeks but that was all.
Then when she started dating this next lover our sex life improved greatly. She would go away with him for weekends and come back happy, well satisfied and willing to make love to me much more regularly. She loved that I sucked him off in my car a few times and initiated a few threesomes with us, partly so that she could watch me suck him again. They'd go to a naturist club that he and his family had been members of for many years and they'd have sex there most Sunday evenings. They'd also spend most mondays together, fucking at our place or sometimes they'd go to his place if his mum was out. They even had a couple of threesomes with his mum who had once walked in on them when they were partially dressed and making a drink in the kitchen. She felt completely comfortable spending time with him and his mum.
Then He told her that his dad was making his mum sell their house and that they would have to move away to a different part of the country. My wife was disappointed but the house sale took a few month to go through so they still acted like he wasn't leaving but eventually he did. Once again our sex life was affected and we rarely made love. She'd encourage me to see our friend if I needed relief and sometimes she'd do the same but rarely asked me to help her out. She seemed quite lonely at this point so I did whatever I could to cheer her up and although our sex life had suffered, she seemed very loving towards me.
She had started a new job just after her boyfriend had moved away and eventually, she had a new boyfriend and she became happy again and once again, our sex life improved.
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Last week Kris and I decided that we should get in touch with her former lover Vincent to see if he was interested in coming over to spend some time with her. We didn't go into detail about her lover moving away, but I don't think he really cared. He was very keen to reconnect with my wife and enjoy sex with her again after so much time.
It's been a couple of years since they had been together so my wife was hinting that she would like to spend some time alone with Vince. Although I was looking forward to watching them make love, I also realized that they could get better reacquainted if I wasn't there. So when Vince showed up on Friday evening I made it my business to be out at the store shopping for some things we needed for the house.
Even after all these years I felt a rush of excitement knowing that my wife was entertaining another man in our bedroom while I wasn't home. I imagined they would catch up and make small talk before going upstairs to fuck. Vince is married to a good friend of my wife, and she does not mind sharing her hubby with Kris due to his insatiable sexual appetite. I posted many times about their relationship back when they were a "couple', and their sex is off the charts HOT.
I went home around 11pm which gave Vince three hours with my wife, and I was not sure if he would be gone by then. Upon seeing his truck in front of our house I felt another rush of excitement as I pulled into the driveway. I was hoping they would still be in bed, but I heard the shower running when I went inside. Kris had purposely left the bathroom door slightly open, figuring I would enjoy hearing them play in the shower if I came home. I loved how they were laughing and playing like newlyweds as they cleaned each other and embraced under the hot water. I quietly went into the bedroom to wait for them and it wasn't a total surprise to see them enter the bedroom naked.
Kris came over and kissed me and I asked her if she and Vince had a good time while I was out. She laughed and asked her lover "I don't know - did we have a good time, honey ?". We all started laughing at the obvious answer to my question. When I said that I was sorry I had missed out on watching them, Kris teasingly asked "Aww I'm sorry - you didn't get to see me sucking Vince's big cock or fucking him". She was laughing loudly and I later found out she and Vince smoked a joint before I got home. He seemed a bit uncomfortable with my wife's behavior so he thanked me for having him over. Vince got dressed, and after kissing my wife, he and I went downstairs while Kris got in bed.
Vince apologized for Kris' teasing, and again thanked me for leaving him alone with my wife. I told him I was glad they had a good time and I was looking forward to his next visit, if he was interested. He smiled and described how he really enjoys sex with Kris since she is much more assertive in bed than his wife is. I then said I would love to hear details of their night from him, since Kris was probably passed out upstairs.
We went out to his truck and I got Vince to tell me all about what happened while I was out. He said that he and Kris spent some time chatting before making out on the couch. They kissed and caressed each other until Kris brushed against him and noticed he was getting a hard-on. She rubbed it and slid down his jeans. He told me she spent a long time licking and kissing his hard cock, telling him how much she missed him. I was happy that Vince felt comfortable sharing these erotic details with me. He knows how much I enjoy watching him fuck my wife and hearing all about what they did is the next best thing for me.
He went on to tell me that they went up to the bedroom and he fucked Kris for a few minutes before shooting his load. After resting a while, my wife got him hard again with her mouth and then he did her doggy-style and shot more come inside her after about 30 minutes. They spent the next hour kissing and fondling each other, with my wife telling him to suck her tits and lick her pussy. He admitted that he wasn't really into licking his come from her snatch, but after smoking the weed he agreed to make my wife happy. He asked if I ever tasted my own semen and was surprised when I said no. He figured my wife would have convinced me to try it in the heat of the moment.
While being honest with him, I told him that Kris often teases me about sucking her lover's dick to get it hard for her. He laughed and said "I could definitely see her asking you to do that". I said that I had no interest in doing it, but it turns me on to hear her fantasies about forcing me to do things against my will.
Vince is going to come over again this week. I will surely post an update then.
It's been a couple of years since they had been together so my wife was hinting that she would like to spend some time alone with Vince. Although I was looking forward to watching them make love, I also realized that they could get better reacquainted if I wasn't there. So when Vince showed up on Friday evening I made it my business to be out at the store shopping for some things we needed for the house.
Even after all these years I felt a rush of excitement knowing that my wife was entertaining another man in our bedroom while I wasn't home. I imagined they would catch up and make small talk before going upstairs to fuck. Vince is married to a good friend of my wife, and she does not mind sharing her hubby with Kris due to his insatiable sexual appetite. I posted many times about their relationship back when they were a "couple', and their sex is off the charts HOT.
I went home around 11pm which gave Vince three hours with my wife, and I was not sure if he would be gone by then. Upon seeing his truck in front of our house I felt another rush of excitement as I pulled into the driveway. I was hoping they would still be in bed, but I heard the shower running when I went inside. Kris had purposely left the bathroom door slightly open, figuring I would enjoy hearing them play in the shower if I came home. I loved how they were laughing and playing like newlyweds as they cleaned each other and embraced under the hot water. I quietly went into the bedroom to wait for them and it wasn't a total surprise to see them enter the bedroom naked.
Kris came over and kissed me and I asked her if she and Vince had a good time while I was out. She laughed and asked her lover "I don't know - did we have a good time, honey ?". We all started laughing at the obvious answer to my question. When I said that I was sorry I had missed out on watching them, Kris teasingly asked "Aww I'm sorry - you didn't get to see me sucking Vince's big cock or fucking him". She was laughing loudly and I later found out she and Vince smoked a joint before I got home. He seemed a bit uncomfortable with my wife's behavior so he thanked me for having him over. Vince got dressed, and after kissing my wife, he and I went downstairs while Kris got in bed.
Vince apologized for Kris' teasing, and again thanked me for leaving him alone with my wife. I told him I was glad they had a good time and I was looking forward to his next visit, if he was interested. He smiled and described how he really enjoys sex with Kris since she is much more assertive in bed than his wife is. I then said I would love to hear details of their night from him, since Kris was probably passed out upstairs.
We went out to his truck and I got Vince to tell me all about what happened while I was out. He said that he and Kris spent some time chatting before making out on the couch. They kissed and caressed each other until Kris brushed against him and noticed he was getting a hard-on. She rubbed it and slid down his jeans. He told me she spent a long time licking and kissing his hard cock, telling him how much she missed him. I was happy that Vince felt comfortable sharing these erotic details with me. He knows how much I enjoy watching him fuck my wife and hearing all about what they did is the next best thing for me.
He went on to tell me that they went up to the bedroom and he fucked Kris for a few minutes before shooting his load. After resting a while, my wife got him hard again with her mouth and then he did her doggy-style and shot more come inside her after about 30 minutes. They spent the next hour kissing and fondling each other, with my wife telling him to suck her tits and lick her pussy. He admitted that he wasn't really into licking his come from her snatch, but after smoking the weed he agreed to make my wife happy. He asked if I ever tasted my own semen and was surprised when I said no. He figured my wife would have convinced me to try it in the heat of the moment.
While being honest with him, I told him that Kris often teases me about sucking her lover's dick to get it hard for her. He laughed and said "I could definitely see her asking you to do that". I said that I had no interest in doing it, but it turns me on to hear her fantasies about forcing me to do things against my will.
Vince is going to come over again this week. I will surely post an update then.
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Re: Wife's lover moving away
We moved 400 miles away from her favorite “friend with benefits” 8 years ago. They still manage to fuck about once a quarter. He comes and stays at our home or she flys up to visit him.
It was a emotional stress for her when they went from once a week/every other weekends together, to a long distance relationship.
I think her Hotwife Bull dynamic gets stale if she spends too much time together. The sexual energy drains and it gets too “everyday” routine.
I think with her, the best frequency once the New Relationship Energy wears off, one year for her, is once a month.
Even long distance relationships can manage with phone sex and sexting.
It was a emotional stress for her when they went from once a week/every other weekends together, to a long distance relationship.
I think her Hotwife Bull dynamic gets stale if she spends too much time together. The sexual energy drains and it gets too “everyday” routine.
I think with her, the best frequency once the New Relationship Energy wears off, one year for her, is once a month.
Even long distance relationships can manage with phone sex and sexting.
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venus-can99
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Re: Wife's lover moving away
Great to hear that Vince and Kris were able to reconnect and pick up where they left off…. Do you think that Vince might become a regular?
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Yes, now that Jake has moved out of state I can definitely see Vince becoming a regular for my wife, as he was a few years ago. Kris really likes him and his bedroom skills are right up there with any of her past lovers. I enjoy watching them make love, and also giving them privacy at times so they can have fun without any distractions. Just thinking about Vince driving my wife crazy with his big dick gets me really hard.
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venus-can99
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Re: Wife's lover moving away
How often do they plan to get together?
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In the past, Vince would typically get together with my wife once or twice a week. As for this second time around I am not sure how things will play out, and judging from how much Kris missed him I am expecting at least that same frequency. I am planning to give them a lot of privacy to enjoy themselves, but also looking forward to watching and listening to their passion too.