Imagine wife offered a mutually exclusive choice between 3 options. Which would you choose and why?

[NSEW1]

Suppose you asked your wife to cuckold you with the hope that you could enjoy a mix of cuckolding and continued sex - best of both worlds. But she didn't like that idea. She wanted you to commit to one thing or another.

[Wannabee]

I went with the first one as closest to the correct answer for me, however, I'm fairly sure I wouldn't agree to that. I'd want my cake and eat it, so to speak.

[PlzFuckMyHotwife]

Suppose you asked your wife to cuckold you with the hope that you could enjoy a mix of cuckolding and continued sex - best of both worlds. But she didn't like that idea. She wanted you to commit to one thing or another.

That... would be a non-starter on so many levels. Not even close to even being within the realm of remote fantasies.

[Johnann2227]

I went with option 3. Just because I enjoy my wife fucking other men (and lots of them) it doesn't mean that I want to give up sex with her. Wearing a cage or sissy clothing is not for me. Calling her lovers master will never be me.
I am happy to fund hotel rooms, restaurants, holidays etc. I suck his cock daily and clean up their creampies. Gee, I have let her boyfriend move in with us permanently. But I will never give up sex with my wife.

[NSEW1]

I went with option 3. Just because I enjoy my wife fucking other men (and lots of them) it doesn't mean that I want to give up sex with her. Wearing a cage or sissy clothing is not for me. Calling her lovers master will never be me.
I am happy to fund hotel rooms, restaurants, holidays etc. I suck his cock daily and clean up their creampies. Gee, I have let her boyfriend move in with us permanently. But I will never give up sex with my wife.

Totally understand. Each couple has their own requirements to make things work. It’s a diverse lifestyle.

[Colliercuck]

Option one, except never allowed inside of her, I have to clean both of them.
He owns her pussy, they both own me
And chastity and panties completely
And all her friends and family know

[submissivedanny]

I went with option 1 but I am never allowed inside her nor am I ever allowed to masturbate and sometimes I am called into the bedroom to clean them and my wife also keeps me in chastity 24/7 and in sissy attire.

[xucked]

Option 4

Pussyfree & nudity-free but allowed to masturbate as often as I want as long as it is to things of her choosing while she humiliates me

Encouraged-bi

[NSEW1]

I went with option 1 but I am never allowed inside her nor am I ever allowed to masturbate and sometimes I am called into the bedroom to clean them and my wife also keeps me in chastity 24/7 and in sissy attire.

Wow that’s intense! It’d be even more humiliating if the wife punished you with spankings, or even worse, encouraged her lover to administer floggings!

[submissivedanny]

My wife's lover has spanked me before. During the pandemic he stayed with us for 3 months and he took over most of my punishments. He spanked me OTK bare bottom just like my wife does.

[Cuck_Steve]

Option 1.

It’s pretty much how my life is now with my wife and her boyfriend

[Ghalilaeus]

I voted 100% exclusive but I feel chastity should be permanent, no releases.

[inivisibletwin]

I need kind of a mix between options 1 and 2…

I’m happy to give up looking at her naked, and touching, in exchange for her being exclusive with her lover, but I would also need to be able to masturbate freely.

That’s closer to where I’m at now… I can look at and touch her tits, but her pussy is off limits to me completely in exchange for it belonging to her lover! Except for once a year on our anniversary… but I jerk off like every other day, if I couldn’t do that I’d go crazy

[Colliercuck]

I went with option 1 but I am never allowed inside her nor am I ever allowed to masturbate and sometimes I am called into the bedroom to clean them and my wife also keeps me in chastity 24/7 and in sissy attire.

Has she ever publicly humiliated you?? Outed you to anyone???
I have not been inside my wife going on 6 years, ever since she told me that I am to approach her and initiate a conversation about all of my fantasies and sexual desires…..I told her everything (some things she had been told before)
The next day, she told me, you love denial, well you are I. Denial, you will be denied, I hope you enjoy it, and I will find a man to please me and I will look good for him.
She also told me that I HAVE NEVER satisfied her sexually and that I HAVE NEVER given her an orgasm

[Colliercuck]

I went with option 1 but I am never allowed inside her nor am I ever allowed to masturbate and sometimes I am called into the bedroom to clean them and my wife also keeps me in chastity 24/7 and in sissy attire.

Has she ever publicly humiliated you?? Outed you to anyone???
I have not been inside my wife going on 6 years, ever since she told me that I am to approach her and initiate a conversation about all of my fantasies and sexual desires…..I told her everything (some things she had been told before)
The next day, she told me, you love denial, well you are I. Denial, you will be denied, I hope you enjoy it, and I will find a man to please me and I will look good for him.
She also told me that I HAVE NEVER satisfied her sexually and that I HAVE NEVER given her an orgasm

[Colliercuck]

I went with option 1 but I am never allowed inside her nor am I ever allowed to masturbate and sometimes I am called into the bedroom to clean them and my wife also keeps me in chastity 24/7 and in sissy attire.

[ucaneffher]

Definitely not calling another man "master" let alone sucking dick, MONOGAMY is it.

I have my own definition of humiliation which does not require me to call another man anything such as sir or master or anything else. But different strokes for different folks and I'm sure many here would not like my ideal arrangement of total surrender and acceptance of my girlfriend/wife completely belonging to another man. All without having to state the obvious or taking extra steps.

Here's what aligns more with me:
-she can go 100% exclusive with him
-he moves in and takes over my place completely
-she permanently shares bedroom and bed with him but spends the night on my room cuddling and connecting once or twice per week.

-i can watch but I must also allow them their privacy as a couple
-Im uncaged and can jerk 19 times s day if I want.
-I can help him by holding her for him or supporting her for awkward positions
-I get her pussy for my birthday and our anniversary
-he gets her pussy 365 days a year including my birthday and our anniversary if she want him on our days as well.

-i address him by dude, bro, bud, pal, man as in "hey man" and vice versa. He is not above me.

He simply becomes her main partner, the 3 of us know it, accept it, want it, and prefer it that way. All without the need for any ass kidding or gay stuff that's completely irrelevant to your wife belonging to another man.

[hornedhubby]

I chose #3 because I have absolutely no interest in serving or submitting to another guy.

I thought my cuck tendencies and desires were very strong, and I love being submissive to my wife. Were she to cuck me all of the dominance and orders would have to flow from her. I would be willing to do almost anything - hosting while cross dressed, fluffing, fuck-licking, etc. - that she demanded in a given moment to please her and give her pleasure. How much denial I received might be negotiable but I would have to remain highly involved with her sex life.

Kudos to the OP for posting a poll that truly separates the wheat from the chaff here on the Cuck side of OHW. I'm really surprised. I also believe strongly that the same poll posted here 10-15 years ago would have shown far less approval for options #1 and #2.

Given my curiosity to figure this out, I'm very interested in all replies on either side of the issue.

[airhorn]

I went with option 3. Just because I enjoy my wife fucking other men (and lots of them) it doesn't mean that I want to give up sex with her. Wearing a cage or sissy clothing is not for me. Calling her lovers master will never be me.
I am happy to fund hotel rooms, restaurants, holidays etc. I suck his cock daily and clean up their creampies. Gee, I have let her boyfriend move in with us permanently. But I will never give up sex with my wife.

I concur. #1 and #2 are out. I'd love if she was active with other men (and women!), and I'm totally open to taking part with her friends as well... but the first two options don't set well with me. If that means #3, no extramarital fun, fine. That's where we are now anyway.

[viking53]

Option 1.

It’s pretty much how my life is now with my wife and her boyfriend

Hi Steve

It's now almost 8 years that Cassie and Paul have been together. How have things developed recently? You were in panties and lingerie before. Have they pushed your feminisation further? Are you still happy with everything and how do you see it developing in the future?

[stubbyhubby]

I voted for the first option, but it would need some "modification".

1. I call no man "master". I am a cuck, not a slave. I will be submissive to him. I will happily suck his cock, eat his cum, lick and suck his balls and clean him after he fucks my wife and service him when my wife is not available.

2. I prefer being unlocked to be a reward that I earn and earning it to be a difficult thing that I can easily lose.

[ucaneffher]

Definitely not calling another man "master" let alone sucking dick, MONOGAMY is it.

I have my own definition of humiliation which does not require me to call another man anything such as sir or master or anything else. But different strokes for different folks and I'm sure many here would not like my ideal arrangement of total surrender and acceptance of my girlfriend/wife completely belonging to another man. All without having to state the obvious or taking extra steps.

Here's what aligns more with me:
-she can go 100% exclusive with him
-he moves in and takes over my place completely
-she permanently shares bedroom and bed with him but spends the night on my room cuddling and connecting once or twice per week.

-i can watch but I must also allow them their privacy as a couple
-Im uncaged and can jerk 19 times s day if I want.
-I can help him by holding her for him or supporting her for awkward positions
-I get her pussy for my birthday and our anniversary
-he gets her pussy 365 days a year including my birthday and our anniversary if she want him on our days as well.

-i address him by dude, bro, bud, pal, man as in "hey man" and vice versa. He is not above me.

He simply becomes her main partner, the 3 of us know it, accept it, want it, and prefer it that way. All without the need for any ass kidding or gay stuff that's completely irrelevant to your wife belonging to another man.

Look this is as far as I'm willing to go. Take it or leave it, wifey lol

Option 2 Modified: the bold black text I'll accept and the greyed out text gets sent to hell
Wife: "I become nearly exclusive with my lover. You'll get to masturbate freely, and we will have sex once every 3 months on special occasions. In exchange for these privileges, you WILL be allowed to watch, look at me naked, BUT you will not be allowed to touch me, or participate in anything sexual. You will wear sissy attire in his presence, address him as "Master", and suck his cock whenever he demands it."

[smoothmin]

Definitely not calling another man "master" let alone sucking dick, MONOGAMY is it.

I have my own definition of humiliation which does not require me to call another man anything such as sir or master or anything else. But different strokes for different folks and I'm sure many here would not like my ideal arrangement of total surrender and acceptance of my girlfriend/wife completely belonging to another man. All without having to state the obvious or taking extra steps.

Here's what aligns more with me:
-she can go 100% exclusive with him
-he moves in and takes over my place completely
-she permanently shares bedroom and bed with him but spends the night on my room cuddling and connecting once or twice per week.

-i can watch but I must also allow them their privacy as a couple
-Im uncaged and can jerk 19 times s day if I want.
-I can help him by holding her for him or supporting her for awkward positions
-I get her pussy for my birthday and our anniversary
-he gets her pussy 365 days a year including my birthday and our anniversary if she want him on our days as well.

-i address him by dude, bro, bud, pal, man as in "hey man" and vice versa. He is not above me.

He simply becomes her main partner, the 3 of us know it, accept it, want it, and prefer it that way. All without the need for any ass kidding or gay stuff that's completely irrelevant to your wife belonging to another man.

Look this is as far as I'm willing to go. Take it or leave it, wifey lol

Option 2 Modified: the bold black text I'll accept and the greyed out text gets sent to hell
Wife: "I become nearly exclusive with my lover. You'll get to masturbate freely, and we will have sex once every 3 months on special occasions. In exchange for these privileges, you WILL be allowed to watch, look at me naked, BUT you will not be allowed to touch me, or participate in anything sexual. You will wear sissy attire in his presence, address him as "Master", and suck his cock whenever he demands it."

I really kind of agree with you here. There maybe some minor changes (like wearing a chastity cage) but overall I agree. The calling of her boyfriend master is definitely out. My wife likes to sissify me but even with that we use real female names. There is a acceptance and understanding between all three of us.

[NSEW1]

Fascinating to see the continuum of cuckolding. For some it extends into one way wife sharing but with respect and little or no emasculation and humiliation. For others it can involve complete surrender, sissification, forced bi and submission to both wife and lover. Personal preferences show diversity. I lean towards wanting the latter but to each his own.

I think the root of these variances is based on what drives the desire for cuckolding itself. Is it to please the wife, or for the husband’s voyeuristic pleasure? Or is it driven by a compulsion to surrender to a dominant wife? Or is it because of a fetish for humiliation?

[Cuck_Steve]

Option 1.

It’s pretty much how my life is now with my wife and her boyfriend

Hi Steve

It's now almost 8 years that Cassie and Paul have been together. How have things developed recently? You were in panties and lingerie before. Have they pushed your feminisation further? Are you still happy with everything and how do you see it developing in the future?

I’m still wearing panties most of the time, but no my feminisation hasn’t really gone any further.

Miss Cassie spends two night a week sleeping in bed with me (no sex) and the other five nights with Master Paul. I get my monthly reward of getting out my chastity if I’ve been a good cuck to wank or if I’m really good, Miss Cassie will play with my dickie.

So things have just gone along the same for a while and into our routine. On the surface would seem not exciting compared to others on here, but we are all very happy with the way things are. I love seeing my wife so happy.

As far as how it develops, I’m not really sure. I usually just let them decide where things will go but I’m definitely going to do anything if it pleases Miss Cassie. That’ll always be my priority.