Cuck tounge is my term for failure to communicate and saying the wrong things and then wishing you said it differently. I have been dating a beautiful woman on qnd off for a year. Early on she me mentioned she has a friends with benefits and I stumbled to say I was open but not leather know it turned me on with her honesty.
She admitted there wasn't all the other things she wants and they had an agreement that if one was dating they take a break. Mafter we took our break she went back to him and wasn't ready to give up the sex. So after a 10 out of 10 date and she revieled on an early date she said her fantasy was her and two men. We spoke on the phone when felt safe to talk about thier sexual chemistry but didn't give details and I clearly said I was open minded and she seemed to be relaxed about it but I didn't speak up.
Hoping for support and guidance so I can not get cuck tounge and say a few things. I have since cleared up that I see us being together as she did and that we could work through about a two to three year challenge that means sacrifice as we both travel for work but aligned in our work and we both are interested in being a progression we could move into each other's place. I want to discuss more about that she doesn't have to stop that with me.
Anyone have experience with knowing she has had a fuck buddy for a few years and was thankful or even perspective from a gf or wife having the same experience dating a guy who was accepting and encouraged you to not miss out on pleasurable continuance of sex. Would love to hear other experiences where this was an aha moment for the cuck in you.
Cuck tounge
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ucaneffher
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Re: Cuck tounge
I must clarify... cuck tounge or cuck tongue?
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Threeisacharm
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Re: Cuck tounge
I just mean I get nervous and don't always say everything at the right time. We spoke about it and told her how I wanted her to continue with her lover for now and she appreciated that and we will talk a out it in person.
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Threeisacharm
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Re: Cuck tounge
Another example of getting tounge tied and going away thinking why didn't you say a few more things and talking openly. I have had experiences but took a secondary role that allows me to be a vouyer. Seems as soon as I am dating women others also seem to be attracted to me. This is more of an observation that when I have a love interest I must have different energy and release of pharamones.
My love interest is away with her fwb for work and I am not pushing but got limited messages from her and I am understanding and have my own work functions to attend where I talked to a high school friend of my ex. I am just going to assume her girl network heard I was a bisexual cuckold. She asked me if I had been dating as my socials have never had me with anyone. I shared the dating app experience and a busy schedule and focused on myself . I was about to talk about my new interests and she shared her experiences. She didn't say the apps she liked but said I should try open relations. She said that she tried to talk to her new boyfriend and he is a hard no and that she misses those hookups.
We were interuppted and agreed to talk again and so I agreed but shut up. I went home in my head thinking I should have said "I would let you". Then I ran 25 things I should have said. Your heart starts beating and wonder was she trying to get me to admit what happened with my ex ran through my mind.
I want to invite her over and think that even if she wasn't saying she likes to play but just friendly advise and felt safe saying it to me. Maybe she knows a perfect match for me. I think we have chemistry and this wasn't the first time we spoke, but first that she introduced sex talk that she likes open relationships. I am going to say that I wouldn't mind my gf having Tinder as long as I getting see all the spicy messages, details, reclaiming and prefer being there.
I want to be honest with my love interest that this happened and tell her why it was important and to be honest about my preferences.
My love interest is away with her fwb for work and I am not pushing but got limited messages from her and I am understanding and have my own work functions to attend where I talked to a high school friend of my ex. I am just going to assume her girl network heard I was a bisexual cuckold. She asked me if I had been dating as my socials have never had me with anyone. I shared the dating app experience and a busy schedule and focused on myself . I was about to talk about my new interests and she shared her experiences. She didn't say the apps she liked but said I should try open relations. She said that she tried to talk to her new boyfriend and he is a hard no and that she misses those hookups.
We were interuppted and agreed to talk again and so I agreed but shut up. I went home in my head thinking I should have said "I would let you". Then I ran 25 things I should have said. Your heart starts beating and wonder was she trying to get me to admit what happened with my ex ran through my mind.
I want to invite her over and think that even if she wasn't saying she likes to play but just friendly advise and felt safe saying it to me. Maybe she knows a perfect match for me. I think we have chemistry and this wasn't the first time we spoke, but first that she introduced sex talk that she likes open relationships. I am going to say that I wouldn't mind my gf having Tinder as long as I getting see all the spicy messages, details, reclaiming and prefer being there.
I want to be honest with my love interest that this happened and tell her why it was important and to be honest about my preferences.