Our Hotwives

Biggest surprise to my wife and I was black lovers like more than one white wife. White women are use to the white man being faithful. Her black lover let her know their are to many white wife's needing him. She would have to accept her new life.

Yes but can you blame other women for not wanting him too?
Thankfully they are willing to share the love of BBC!

Black men?
So faithfulness is a matter of skin color?
I think you have to re-think that.

I concur. Men are men. This opening post crossed the racism line for me, as well. Would like to see the mods delete it.

I have a black son-in-law and a biracial grandson. Love them both. I guess I have skin in the game now, too.

??? there are white bulls that see multiple women too

What a crock of garbage. This isn’t the first racist post by this person.

I'm sure you and your wife haven't done a statistically significant sample of men of different races. Sounds like a case of confirmation bias by someone who's already racist.

Wow, a bunch of folks getting upset over a sex fantasy post. LOL

Well, it's called hotwifing. There are plenty of people who are unfaithful. Color has nothing to do with it.

surry wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 22, 2025 1:56 am

Wow, a bunch of folks getting upset over a sex fantasy post. LOL

If you had presented it as fantasy instead of truth, your responses would have most likely been different. If you and your wife are playing a fantasy lifestyle, it would be honest to say so upfront.

Yes I believe but don’t have the facts but isn’t the definition of Hotwife Lifestyle Cuckolding promiscuity? Fucking others outside of a monogamous relationship?
Ive heard of “fluid bonding” and some sort of monogamy contract between Bull and Hotwife but never had that or known anyone doing that.

Her number1 wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 22, 2025 12:35 pm

surry wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 22, 2025 1:56 am

Wow, a bunch of folks getting upset over a sex fantasy post. LOL

If you had presented it as fantasy instead of truth, your responses would have most likely been different. If you and your wife are playing a fantasy lifestyle, it would be honest to say so upfront.

I agree. If someone is discussing fantasies, it would be helpful if people knew that from the beginning. To get upset with people who responded to what they thought was a real post is hardly fair.

surry wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 22, 2025 1:56 am

Wow, a bunch of folks getting upset over a sex fantasy post. LOL

Read the title of your post; it is a supposed statement of fact. As a Black man who was married 16 years, widowed 25 years, finished raising our kids and spoiling the hell out of their kids I found it extremely offensive.

Is this the same BNWO person?

I nearly replied to that post about the whole kink promoting harmful stereotypes and this assumption that black men can’t be monogamous is one of the reasons why. I mean if you want to push things further I this mindset also leads into fathering children from multiple women and not bothering to look after them which is a pretty bad assumption to make.

Basically the BNWO kink only works if you are inherently racist.

Admittedly there are plenty of men out there who would be perfectly happy having multiple non serious partners rather than a singular one but this isn’t a function of skin colour.

Also the logical endpoint of BNWO is lots of mixed race people which totally defeats any concept of superiority

If he's telling her he has other women, he's being honest. The problem is not what is done, but when there are lies.

Don’t think this is true. My wife has been with three black men and all of them were exclusive with her. Infact, all three wanted to marry her.

surry wrote: ↑

Thu Feb 20, 2025 5:08 am

Biggest surprise to my wife and I was black lovers like more than one white wife. White women are use to the white man being faithful. Her black lover let her know their are to many white wife's needing him. She would have to accept her new life.

A couple of additional things:
1) You started with "black lovers" plural...you did reference 'lover' singular speaking to her so is her only having one accurate?

2) In my opinion couples don't usually openly share their overall playlist with the exception of when they are new. Some comes out within expressions of being experienced and what they're interested in 'now' but not as an example "we're interested and would add you to the list with our other three playmates".

I'd like the thoughts of others, possibly including the appropriateness off asking-in both directions.