cuck for some, stag for others

[CaliLondon]

When my wife (56) and I started this lifestyle two years ago, with my wife's main lover we've always had more of a stag/hotwife relationship. Bit by bit she is slowly adding to her pool of lovers and my relationship is very different with each. With N, it's always been the three of us in bed together, but with J, it's been a cuckold affair. Mostly due to his own shyness, my wife and him only meet behind closed doors in our second bedroom. Last night was no exception, with the only difference being, it was our 27th anniversary.

My wife called me on WhatsApp to listen in and that's what I did for over two hours. They started with very, very slow mutual stripping, then a shower, on to the massage table for a warm oil massage - he does all the work - and then fucking.

When they finished, we all met downstairs to eat the meal I had prepared and J and I talked about what positions my wife might want to try next time.

While doing a threesome is great, I'm finding that not being able to see, just hear, gets me about a zillion times more excited. It is a real roller-coaster of emotions, all great.

[stonemtncouple]

Yes! When listening my mind can fantasize and imagine all kinds of naughty things my wife is doing!

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

I’m in a similar situation.

Wife and her first boyfriend loved putting on a show for me. I loved it too, of course.

(By the way, it was during her time with this boyfriend when I opened this account on OHW, SheLikesWhenIWatch. Made sense for the time, and we thought it was going to be the three of us forever.)

She got tired of that boyfriend after 16+ years. There was some “taking for granted” behavior that compelled her to want to end it. At about the same time, a newer and younger guy started working with her. Much better looking. Also single, no kids, financially stable, sane/normal.

I was happy for her to jump from one boyfriend to another thinking I’d get a chance to watch her getting laid by someone new.

As their flirtation became more and more serious, I wanted us to come clean with him……..tell him I’m okay with the arrangement. (He thought she’d be cheating on me.) She was nervous, but she eventually broke it to him that this was our thing.

He immediately got excited at the prospect of having a full-blown relationship with her, sex and all, but he was reticent about me occasionally watching. He said he’d need to give it some time before he’d be ready to have me (or any guy, for that matter) watch his junk pounding his new girlfriend.

We figured it would eventually work itself out, and she REALLY wanted it to work out, so I capitulated and gave it the green light.

They were ecstatic, of course, and began their sex-charged relationship very soon thereafter.

Each time (about weekly?) she’d come home obviously very sexually satisfied, I’d ask her to give me the details.

She was (and has been) ALWAYS very forthcoming…..ALL the deets! In fact, she had a few clips of herself blowing him. She showed me. In them, he didn’t seem to mind, and he HAD to have known that she was taking the video so she could show me him cumming down her throat. Very hot watching her swallow! (And, by the way, I don’t know what his hang up is. His “junk” looks pretty good and well-maintained in that clip! He should be pretty proud of what he’s got.)

We realized at some point, of course, that I was harder than a woodpecker’s lips! Just the thought of this guy seducing my wife…….it was intoxicating…….in a way that watching just never provided. She suddenly realized that she had a sort of power over me, and she was relishing her newfound thrill.

Yes, it’s different, now. She looks forward to coming home, now, giving me ALL the sordid details, and then draining my nuts.

I’m not even sure I want to watch all the time. With her first boyfriend, I saw EVERYTHING. And don’t get me wrong, I cherish those memories (and countless video clips). There’s nothing like watching her get off on another man’s cock. I’ve seen them in every possible position; every possible circumstance. Gentle/rough, in bed/in the forest, from afar/close-up, participating/nonparticipatory. Pretty much EVERYTHING.

But I think I’m converting into a stay-at-home cuck, now. (It’s obviously an easier transition to make than in reverse. Once you’ve seen your wife get filled from a close up perspective, it’s not hard to imagine how her new boyfriend enjoys her, too.)

I love to hear her tell me the details. I love to imagine them in the throes of mind-blowing, back-arching, head-tilted-back, moan-out-loud, eye-rolling sex. I love the way she smells down there when she gets home. I love how she initiates the sex and eventually milks my cock.

We’ll see if he eventually feels comfortable enough to give me a show, but for now we’re all quite content. If it does come to pass that I’d be lucky enough to watch my wife moan on his dick, I think we’ll limit it to just a few special occasions each year. Maybe New Year’s, Valentine’s Day, our wedding anniversary, and either her or my birthday. I feel like her pussy should belong to him alone on these days. I’d just be “forced” to watch and jerk.

[Filou]

I am no one for too close definitions as that always excludes people. However the main difference to me between a cuckold and a stag as I understood it is rather about the dynamic itself and not whether you (are allowed to) watch or not...

[parklife]

Cuck/stag/whstever…. Agree with Filou that just don’t see defining but my wife’s relationships and our dynamic have often been very different from one guy to the next. Some FWB she is open about and shares everything about their encounters. I’ve never been involved or present and while early on she took pics and videos to share with me, over the years, those stopped. Some FWB are on a different level and she prefers not to talk about their time in similar detail. She ultimately tells me everything but those playmates and times are definitely different and are more for her. It’s best I don’t dwell and inquire too much or she shuts down. If I let her share at her pace, she eventually shares everything. Those relationships tend to lead to sharing other, non-sexual, details… emotions, feelings, nuance.

As our relationship evolved, it left sexual kink and became more self expression of our selves. Either that, it’s more fulfilling for her to own her sexual freedom and be less about satisfying my sexual perversion. So, she kind of has two types of relationships…. Sex that is less complicated and focused on fun and this she has no problem sharing the intimate details amd sex with others that is more emotionally connected and those details are more guarded though bring our bond closer.

Not sure I explained that well, but suffice to say our dynamic is different as her ralationships differ.