Poll for active cuckolds

[hornedhubby]

Great discussion. Came back to the thread today and saw the updates.

Kudos to everyone who posted.

Parklife's post especially resonated with me with excellent points and observations in every paragraph.

Hoping this thread has legs. Attaboy to coastalkid.

[coastalkid]

Currently a wanna-be again but shared my then GF for 7 years in the past. I never considered myself a cuckold back then but more of a stag simply because I was never into humiliation, degradation, feminization , or had interest in men or man-to-man contact.

It was roughly 2-3 years after I ended our relationship that I came to terms that I was a cuckold. It took me some time to accept it as well as embrace it. I realized that I didn't have to be or do any of those traits that I mentioned above to be classified as a cuckold.

The fact that she only had to do minimal convincing in order for me to step aside for her to date another man/ allow another man to publicly date her, the act of being supportive of her going to live with another man, and lastly, the act of publicly accepting and abiding by her rules of me not interfering or blowing the cover that she belonged to him; these actions all helped me realize that I was indeed a cuckold at heart whether I wanted to accept it or not, and I did but only years after the break up.

I left her both because of many non lifestyle issues as well as the jealousy of seeing her going ALL the way with her boyfriend and publicly playing along with it. She had been with him for 3 years and publicly everyone only saw her with him. I was her secret side guy. Essentially the tables turned and she was cucking him with me.

It was sexy and scorching hot those entire 7 years of seeing her as my promiscuous gf. Until she became HIS promiscuous girlfriend.

Thanks for your response! I recognized your user name. I know you've been here a long time. That alone means something to me!

I think one of the many things I've learned here is that the definition of what a cuckold is and how they act/behave is very wide and loosely defined. There are many aspects of being a cuckold that I know would be a "non-starter" for me. When someone says they couldn't do this or they couldn't do that you often you read a post like, "Well, then this isn't the life for you!"

I've observed that each specific relationship has its own unique path, rules and implementation. Some couples may practice very similarly but no two seem to be alike. That's why I believe you are correct in saying you don't have to have the humiliation, degradation, feminization, man to man contact, or as in my greatest deal breaker, denial to be a cuckold. You at a minimum have to have a wife that fucks somebody else while you're married.

I've also learned from you and others here that, of the people on this website, over the years, only a handful have made this work in their own way. Countless others have come and gone. Their candles burned bright, but not for long! It's rare that couples match up sexually AND prove themselves committed to each other's love and best interests.

coastalkid: good insights, as usual. I recognize you from other sites. You usually provide a good perspective.

Thank you!

[kellycuckoldsmark]

My wife started fucking other guys when we were dating. We're considerably older now so we don't participate as often as we once did but we still play.

How old is too old? Last year we got reconnected with a couple we first met almost 25 years ago. There is a story behind how we met them and short version if Kelly really liked him when we met - she was 22 and he was 51 - and has always had a hold on her. He visited alone two weeks to give me a birthday treat (treat was him fucking Kelly). He is on pills but man, that guy could go and go and then go again. Doesn't finish every time but Kelly just likes him in her!

I am hoping to be that virile at his age and Kelly wants still to be a hotwife at 75. His wife still sees the occasional guy and when we visit girl.....

[coastalkid]

My wife started fucking other guys when we were dating. We're considerably older now so we don't participate as often as we once did but we still play.

How old is too old? Last year we got reconnected with a couple we first met almost 25 years ago. There is a story behind how we met them and short version if Kelly really liked him when we met - she was 22 and he was 51 - and has always had a hold on her. He visited alone two weeks to give me a birthday treat (treat was him fucking Kelly). He is on pills but man, that guy could go and go and then go again. Doesn't finish every time but Kelly just likes him in her!

I am hoping to be that virile at his age and Kelly wants still to be a hotwife at 75. His wife still sees the occasional guy and when we visit girl.....

As a wannabe I'm hoping it's never too late. I have an undying hope!

[masculinecuck]

I watch/clean for over 8 years now. My wife now 51 has three younger VERY well hung lovers, it works for us..................

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

Since 2007.

He fucked her for a year before I was allowed to watch. They got used to me watching/jerking and it became a monthly thing for 16.5 years. (He fucked her about twice weekly, though.) Then she dumped him and got a new boyfriend who now fucks her on weekends. No watching this time, but she often comes home horny (…and filled) and wants to fuck more.

It works for us…….but I do miss watching.