Poll: For wives in the lifestyle—Have you ever fallen in love with a lover/bull/third?

[Drakebelg]

Over on twitter Cuck My Life Podcast did an interesting poll.
https://x.com/Cuckmylifepod/status/1902138487383453858

I've added an extra option "No, but I had a strong emotional connection" and I'm curious what the result will be.
My wife's carefully looking for her first for solodating and her biggest worry is falling in love with a third.

[Jujube]

Don’t you think this should be in Hot Wife Forum?

[PANTIES]

My wife moved in this past July , she gave birth to his baby in august and she’s pregnant again. Their second baby is due in late jue or early July.

pauline

[NSEW1]

No matter strong the bond going in, and regardless of communication and mutual alignment, I think there is always a meaningful risk of the wife falling in love with her lover and losing the love for husband.

Maybe one day when our cultural mores have evolved to acceptance of polyamorous and cuckold relationships, it may be possible and more common for a woman to love multiple men simultaneously, and for the men in such relationships to accept a “shared” or non-exclusive relationship.

[Drakebelg]

WOW, 50% have fallen in love.

My wife is right to have this concern before she starts dating. The idea is also pretty hot though. It's also hot that so many found it great.

[4incheslong]

My wife wanted a full relationship with other guys, not just a one night stand. As a cuck I would get only of her getting fucked and used. Not romantic to her. Not alpha to her. So she looked for other guys to fill that need. If order to justify that she would put the blame on me. I wasn't a good lover, a wimp. She would look for guy that was super confident and let him take charge of her. She went from "dabbling" with other men and wanting more, to full obsession.

[bradisalpha]

Over on twitter Cuck My Life Podcast did an interesting poll.
https://x.com/Cuckmylifepod/status/1902138487383453858

I've added an extra option "No, but I had a strong emotional connection" and I'm curious what the result will be.
My wife's carefully looking for her first for solodating and her biggest worry is falling in love with a third.

I believe it is normal and natural for a woman to have feelings of varying intensity and love while having sex with a man. However, it is also the responsibility of that man (BF/bull) to control that intensity and keep it concentrated to a sex only relationship. It may be love but it must be a controlled sexual love to not decrease her level of love and respect for her cuckold husband. An experienced BF knows how to make this work out for all.

In my experience…

Brad

[Mgcouplemn]

there has never been love involved with any of the couples when husband and I haved played as swingers in the past. Now at Hot-wifing now we just play with toys, married, big live toys that I can play with and toss when their batteries go low. Sometimes they seem to be getting too involved or clingy, then they gotta go.

Most of the guy we have over just want to fuck me and be gone. Usually because they have a wife waiting at home for them. there is one guy that brings his wife with him when he fucks me, she sits on the opposite side of the bed from my husband and plays with herself while my husband is masturbating on the other side. I just really enjoy fucking with a guy and looking over at my husband as he watches and jerks off. I do love only my husband, he gives me everything including the freedom to fuck other guys, course he gets to watch every guy fucking me too.

[Timewarner]

My wife admitted she did. I dont know why it's hotter. I think I like the idea she isn't a dumpster. And when they fuck it's hotter.

[Drakebelg]

Cool. Up to 60+ votes. If you add the results of the "Yes, it was great" + "Yes, it was complicated" + "No, but open to it" the cuckmylifepod and this are very similar CMLP-60%, here it's 56%. CMLP had 80+ so with 140+ couples it seems to be a pretty solid sample size to make some conclusions.

My wife is absolutely right to be concerned that she will fall in love with more than a 1 in 2 chance of it happening.
BUT
with a lot of people saying it was great.

[troilusand]

I marked "Great!" for my wife (she isn't on here, but I know her thoughts on the subject).

Cressida ALWAYS fell in love with the men she was with, even going back to when she cheated. She was addicted to the NRE that comes with falling in love. And Cressida was extremely capable of poly, and I learned it early on. As a matter of fact, I know I'm capable of poly, too. So therefore, I could believe it of her.

So now Drake, I'll tell you that "Great!" almost always led to "It's complicated".

Sometimes they ended with mutual agreement that "it was over"; and sometimes it ended in tears. Or there were tears while it was going on; like the time one lover cancelled a date because he wanted to see the mother of his one year old. Cressida never knew if his future lay with her, the mother of his child, or his ex-wife and their 11 year old boy. He was fucking all of them...and they all were in love with him. Jealousy made her decide to find a new lover.

Anyway, if you both can handle the emotions (her loving two men; and you knowing you risk losing her) then, in my experience, I RECOMMEND it!

PM if you have questions or want to talk...although I'm not on here as much as I used to be.

Troilus

[masculinecuck]

My wife and her 3 lovers are madly in love there is no doubt.
Makes for a nice arrangement for all of them.

[namitha157]

Im trying not to fall in love with my main side bf.

[troilusand]

It's only natural, Namitha.

Troy

[Bull4Oldrwives]

In all of my relationships, which have been long term, the wife and I have fallen in love. But the love we have shared is the unique love that can only happen between a wife and her boyfriend. When a wife is given complete sexual and emotional freedom by a courageous cuck she gets the opportunity to revel in a uniquely passionate love that allows her to experience incredible pleasure and romance-all within the safe cocoon of her marriage-what a gift to a wife.

[Drakebelg]

In all of my relationships, which have been long term, the wife and I have fallen in love. But the love we have shared is the unique love that can only happen between a wife and her boyfriend. When a wife is given complete sexual and emotional freedom by a courageous cuck she gets the opportunity to revel in a uniquely passionate love that allows her to experience incredible pleasure and romance-all within the safe cocoon of her marriage-what a gift to a wife.

That sounds amazing. I think I would love that for my wife.

[sana9889]

I did fall in love with my bf.
I do still love my husband.

Maybe its possible to love more than one person. But not so easy to be in love with more than one. As a woman anyway. Speaking from my experience.

[Tamilcuck]

Hello. I believe this is definitely possible. My wife has told me many times that she still loves me and our family and will never leave me. But she is deeply in love with her boyfriend. They have been making love together for 12 years and I plan to celebrate their love together.

It is only natural I believe when a woman experiences a man who can give her great sex where the husband. For me I could not have sex with her so I convinced her to take a bull and now a bf. They let me watch most times and they are now more into lovemaking than fuxking. It is truly wonderful to watch. I am looking forward to Sunday when they have their usual many hours in our bed. Then I get to eat her used pussy and she will give me a handjob. It is truly wonderful and I am so proud that they are in love with each other that I want to celebrate their 12th anniversary with an exchanging of vows on the beach near where we live. I can imagine the perfect sunset scenario with me standing in front of them and getting them to exchange their vows and dedications of love for each other. I will then take their hands and place them together and bless their union. The thought of that makes me so hard.

[Drakebelg]

I did fall in love with my bf.
I do still love my husband.

Maybe its possible to love more than one person. But not so easy to be in love with more than one. As a woman anyway. Speaking from my experience.

I am pretty sure it is possible but obviously for a lot of people it's difficult. With the path my wife and I are on and the type of emotional person she is i am accepting that she will fall in love with third. I will prepare myself as best as possible to be able to accept it, enjoy it, help her enjoy it , help her deal with the eventually break up and continue to strengthen our relationship.

[sana9889]

It is nice that you are such a good friend. You sound very supportive. She is lucky to have you.

I did fall in love with my bf.
I do still love my husband.

Maybe its possible to love more than one person. But not so easy to be in love with more than one. As a woman anyway. Speaking from my experience.

I am pretty sure it is possible but obviously for a lot of people it's difficult. With the path my wife and I are on and the type of emotional person she is i am accepting that she will fall in love with third. I will prepare myself as best as possible to be able to accept it, enjoy it, help her enjoy it , help her deal with the eventually break up and continue to strengthen our relationship.

[Tamilcuck]

Yes it is nice that you understand her and are there for her emotionally. That is what she will need in the long run.

As the cuck, we must support her emotionally as she will have a roller coaster of emotions. For my case, my wife went through a lot of mixed emotions and it was important that I was there to support her in that.

[Bull4Oldrwives]

Something that has not been mentioned here is the way the love the wife has for the husband evolves. It has been my experience that many wives develop an even deeper albeit different love for the man who has courageously facilitated the wife;s emotional and sexual journey and opened a life for her that she could not have imagined. I have never been interested in taking a wife away from her husband but I have had two wives tell me that they would never leave "this incredible life I have". It is also my experience that they become very protective of the cuck who has given so much to them.

[troilusand]

Yes, Bull4, love does evolve. My wife and I have evolved to the "family member" type of love. We are very affectionate, but NEVER passionate. When she was still active in the LS, I used to say "Cressida loves me, but is 'IN LOVE' with him." It's been a long time since we've been "in love". And Cressida WAS very protective of me. She appreciated the freedom and support I gave her in this LS.

And of all the men she fell in love with (many) there was only one she loved so much that she wanted to divorce me and marry him. She told me she would have but he couldn't get out of his marriage. This was back when she was cheating (even though she had permission). She told me this years later in a hotel on our 25th anniversary and we fucked like bunnies! She knew I'd love hearing there was a man she loved more than me and would have left me for in a second!

Troilus

[Tamilcuck]

Hi Troilus and Bull4. Although the cuck most times will not fuck with the wife, we provide emotional support. Most wives will understand how important the cuck is, both for stability and to be there to help in all the situations.

[Thebestdays1]

My ex fell in love with four of her lovers; she used to enjoy having that sort of connection with them. There was also one, who was married but fell madly in love with her, but she didn't feel quite the same for him, which caused her a lot of problems when she dumped him.
Some of them were married, including the one we split up over. One of them was single and I remember her coming home after a date with him, crying because they'd fallen out over something and she said she was upset because she thought they both loved each other. I wrote to him later that day and told him he'd upset her and he apologised for his behaviour the next time they met.
The last one I only found out about recently. She's been in love with her nephew since she started sucking him off over 25 years ago. I knew at the time that she really liked his penis. She'd talk to me about how much she loved the size and feel of it and how delicious his cum tasted and she enjoyed making me go down on him too. Yes, there was something special about it and I enjoyed the couple of times I sucked him off. However, I didn't know back then that she was meeting him behind my back and that she'd developed actual feelings for him. When she spoke about her feelings for his penis, she was also talking about her feelings for him. They still meet up whenever they can.