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chastity belt and its end
Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2025 9:57 am
by Suedostbaier
has anybody any experience concerning the end of any chastity measure? Does a wife open the cage and throw it away for loss of interest? Does the hubby open the object with the help of simple pliers and end his chastity ordeal? - No, i am not certain that this topic is of any interest...quite the opposite - but i love questions nobody would dare asking
Re: chastity belt and its end
Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2025 4:00 am
by Ghalilaeus
My personal experience on the topic is that her interest in kink faded away, kinky sex became less frequent and I stopped wearing the cage, ending the relationship some after. This happened several times. Also, normal cages with a base ring cannot be worn indefinitely and are not very secure, because either the ring constraints blood supply or it lets balls slip through. Prolonged chastity 24/7 requires a PA piercing. I never did it because I never stayed long enough in a Femdom relationship to commit to this level.
Re: chastity belt and its end
Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2025 11:54 am
by Suedostbaier
Hi Ghalilaeus - sounds like Galilej/Israel....thanks for obviously sincere answer...i guessed as much...but to improve - how can the fading of her interest be prevented? Is there a mistake in the relationship that you would hold yourself responsible of? Or is it simply her own interest that faded all by itself? I guess it is easier to shift all the guilt towards her...or is it simply natural to say that any such relation formates has a half-life of ca2 years?
Re: chastity belt and its end
Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2025 8:18 pm
by Ghalilaeus
Suedostbaier wrote: ↑Sun Mar 23, 2025 11:54 am
Hi Ghalilaeus - sounds like Galilej/Israel....thanks for obviously sincere answer...i guessed as much...but to improve - how can the fading of her interest be prevented? Is there a mistake in the relationship that you would hold yourself responsible of? Or is it simply her own interest that faded all by itself? I guess it is easier to shift all the guilt towards her...or is it simply natural to say that any such relation formates has a half-life of ca2 years?
Italian actually, nick is an homage to Scientist Galileo.
Women have on average a lower libido than males, due to the lower level of testosterone. In a vanilla or, better, maledom relationship this is controlled by the man dictating rhythms. In a Femdom relationship the rhythms are the woman's and they are bland. Thus once the novelty of a Femdom relationship wears off, women basically drown it in sleep. They use their power to avoid having sex, just to discover, too late, that it was sex (even denial of it but in a kinky context) that gave them power.
There are exceptions but very few.
Re: chastity belt and its end
Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2025 3:48 am
by submissivedanny
I've been in chastity for over 15 years. I don't know if I would say the kink faded but after a few months in chastity my sex drive faded. I haven't had sex with my wife in over 15 years mainly because my cock is so small I really can't get it in her. It only about an inch and a half erect. My chastity cage comes off every night for cleaning and for shaving while I'm in the shower. It goes back on shortly after I'm out of the shower. I'm so used to wearing the cage I feel naked without it.
Re: chastity belt and its end
Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2025 5:26 am
by Barti
Ghalilaeus wrote: ↑Sun Mar 23, 2025 8:18 pm
Suedostbaier wrote: ↑Sun Mar 23, 2025 11:54 am
Hi Ghalilaeus - sounds like Galilej/Israel....thanks for obviously sincere answer...i guessed as much...but to improve - how can the fading of her interest be prevented? Is there a mistake in the relationship that you would hold yourself responsible of? Or is it simply her own interest that faded all by itself? I guess it is easier to shift all the guilt towards her...or is it simply natural to say that any such relation formates has a half-life of ca2 years?
Italian actually, nick is an homage to Scientist Galileo.
Women have on average a lower libido than males, due to the lower level of testosterone. In a vanilla or, better, maledom relationship this is controlled by the man dictating rhythms. In a Femdom relationship the rhythms are the woman's and they are bland. Thus once the novelty of a Femdom relationship wears off, women basically drown it in sleep. They use their power to avoid having sex, just to discover, too late, that it was sex (even denial of it but in a kinky context) that gave them power.
There are exceptions but very few.
I can not believe what I am reading. I absloutely don't agree! Maybe I only understand why you are not long in an FLR. You don't understand or want FLR maybe?
My Hotwife has sex with lots of men. Every week more than 10. You can read in our topic (Cuck Kevin and Hotwife). I am permantly caged. We are together mor than 2 years, we know each other for +5yrs. Her sexdrive is always very high. An FLR, a Hotwife/Cuckold Lifestyle is NOT "a kink" or "a game", "a novelty",... It is, like any other relation, a 24/7 lifestyle that only works with trust, open communication and Love.
In an FLR you grow. In the beginning I was mad when she fantasised over not fucking me more tha once a month.... now it wil be less than once a year. Her dominance is always growing and our boundaries/limits are always evolving. Since septembre i even don't have a stop word anymore.
When I read things like above (for example "Thus once the novelty of a Femdom relationship wears off, women basically drown it in sleep. They use their power to avoid having sex, just to discover, too late, that it was sex (even denial of it but in a kinky context) that gave them power") my stomach hurts! So untrue, So False, So NOT understanding your partner or real FLR.
My next post will be positive again, but I had to react to this Nonsense.
Re: chastity belt and its end
Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2025 7:30 am
by Ghalilaeus
Barti wrote: ↑Mon Mar 24, 2025 5:26 am
Ghalilaeus wrote: ↑Sun Mar 23, 2025 8:18 pm
Suedostbaier wrote: ↑Sun Mar 23, 2025 11:54 am
Hi Ghalilaeus - sounds like Galilej/Israel....thanks for obviously sincere answer...i guessed as much...but to improve - how can the fading of her interest be prevented? Is there a mistake in the relationship that you would hold yourself responsible of? Or is it simply her own interest that faded all by itself? I guess it is easier to shift all the guilt towards her...or is it simply natural to say that any such relation formates has a half-life of ca2 years?
Italian actually, nick is an homage to Scientist Galileo.
Women have on average a lower libido than males, due to the lower level of testosterone. In a vanilla or, better, maledom relationship this is controlled by the man dictating rhythms. In a Femdom relationship the rhythms are the woman's and they are bland. Thus once the novelty of a Femdom relationship wears off, women basically drown it in sleep. They use their power to avoid having sex, just to discover, too late, that it was sex (even denial of it but in a kinky context) that gave them power.
There are exceptions but very few.
I can not believe what I am reading. I absloutely don't agree! Maybe I only understand why you are not long in an FLR. You don't understand or want FLR maybe?
My Hotwife has sex with lots of men. Every week more than 10. You can read in our topic (Cuck Kevin and Hotwife). I am permantly caged. We are together mor than 2 years, we know each other for +5yrs. Her sexdrive is always very high. An FLR, a Hotwife/Cuckold Lifestyle is NOT "a kink" or "a game", "a novelty",... It is, like any other relation, a 24/7 lifestyle that only works with trust, open communication and Love.
In an FLR you grow. In the beginning I was mad when she fantasised over not fucking me more tha once a month.... now it wil be less than once a year. Her dominance is always growing and our boundaries/limits are always evolving. Since septembre i even don't have a stop word anymore.
When I read things like above (for example "Thus once the novelty of a Femdom relationship wears off, women basically drown it in sleep. They use their power to avoid having sex, just to discover, too late, that it was sex (even denial of it but in a kinky context) that gave them power") my stomach hurts! So untrue, So False, So NOT understanding your partner or real FLR.
My next post will be positive again, but I had to react to this Nonsense.
"on average". You found a rare treasure, but I have 40 years of experience to back up my claims.
Re: chastity belt and its end
Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2025 8:27 am
by Barti
Might be true. I only became submissive in her shadow and caged because of her effect on me. Although i dont think woman have a lower sex-drive also. When i read your story i think you are looking too much for this typical relation, instead of embaracing the unique wishes of your partners.
(But i don't want to Hurt or blame you. You are absolutely right that my relation and my hotwife are a rare treasure. She and I knows that our kind of love is pretty rare/unique)
Re: chastity belt and its end
Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2025 9:30 am
by CTHotwifeHusband
My wife introduced chastity and caging into our relationship when we married (indeed, I was caged during the ceremony), and after a period of intermittent caging I am now basically caged 24/7. As someone else has remarked, I am so accustomed to it that I feel naked without it on. For us, it is integral to the power dynamic of our FLR, and it underscores that there isn't really any place for my tiny erect cock in the scheme of things.
My sex drive is as high as ever, just constantly thwarted, rarely indulged. (But there are of course many pleasures in cumming while caged.)
Re: chastity belt and its end
Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2025 9:36 am
by Suedostbaier
Hi Galileo, come stai? Mi e piaciuto la tua risposta - but to ascribe the weak feminine sex drive to a low testosterone level is too easy...my gf at the time had hairy legs and cunt - hairs up to her navel - a sign for a high level of testo. . We had sex often but she was not convinced that she liked it. She could cum in no time at all...but then the desire faded and she found a person who was boring like a sleeping pill. His advantage: he wished only one thing - to stay with her. A combination of boring people...
Then - the short penis is not a handicap...contrary to what people believe! First HIS orgasm with a 2 incher is no worse than with a 12 incher. Then she has just to press and she can cum -can lesbians cum? No question about that - just some pressing and they cum!