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I had posted about it a few years but I guess those posts have been trimmed. It started out as a hotwife situation. Couple of guys were duds, but the last one really rocked her world. It was the first time in our relationship I felt insecure.
Wow! That is really really close to home! Do you ever worry about crossover into your vanilla life?surry wrote: ↑Tue Mar 25, 2025 7:03 amI guess asking your best friend to flirt with your wife. This is a wife who goes to church and is shy. When you try to tell her how you want to see her kissing another man and she gets mad, then your friend flirts with her and on the third visit he kissed her and she responded. She refused to talk about her kissing him. Two weeks later he is fucking her on our couch while I hold her legs open. She still will not talk about the sex but she calls him infront of you and she sends him nudes. He and her are fuck buddies now.
This was exactly what happened to me and my wife. I’m black . So, I was taken aback when my Latina wife said she was curious about white guys. The first 3 white guys she had sex with were duds. Just downright fucking awful. I foolishly thought there wasn’t anyone, black or white, that could satisfy my wife like I could. I think my wife was thinking the same thing.RoccoLexi69 wrote: ↑Tue Mar 25, 2025 7:08 amI had posted about it a few years but I guess those posts have been trimmed. It started out as a hotwife situation. Couple of guys were duds, but the last one really rocked her world. It was the first time in our relationship I felt insecure.
Can you provide some more background?RoccoLexi69 wrote: ↑Tue Mar 25, 2025 7:08 amI had posted about it a few years but I guess those posts have been trimmed. It started out as a hotwife situation. Couple of guys were duds, but the last one really rocked her world. It was the first time in our relationship I felt insecure.
Thank you for your question. What I wrote happened to my wife when we first year after marriage. I was a police officer and my partner - Jim and I would talk about our wife's. I was my wife's first boyfriend since age 13. She never dated anyone but me and is a shy church going woman. I complained to Jim how my wife just does missionary. He told me he makes his wife cum every time and I must be doing something wrong. I dared him to fuck my wife. He said he would but only if I do not interfere. Even if I get jealous he wants to test her limits and make her his sex property. I agreed. This is how I found myself holding her legs open after he had me undress her and show her body to him. Jim told my wife he was going to train her to be a slut for him as he fingered her pussy. For the first time he made her call her pussy "his cunt." He had her repeat it over and over as he slowly played with her. Jim had my wife tell me to hold her legs apart so Jim could "Fuck his cunt." My shy wife was humping Jim's hand and kissing me. My wife whispered to me she had never felt so nasty not even with me. She had a HUGH cum. (She told me later she did not like sex because she had to fake cumming for me.) But Jim and her had wild sex for three hours. Jim's wife knows about my wife and enjoys watching them too. It was her idea that my wife and I suck Jim off together. But my wife is still shy talking about sex.RoccoLexi69 wrote: ↑Tue Mar 25, 2025 7:10 amWow! That is really really close to home! Do you ever worry about crossover into your vanilla life?surry wrote: ↑Tue Mar 25, 2025 7:03 amI guess asking your best friend to flirt with your wife. This is a wife who goes to church and is shy. When you try to tell her how you want to see her kissing another man and she gets mad, then your friend flirts with her and on the third visit he kissed her and she responded. She refused to talk about her kissing him. Two weeks later he is fucking her on our couch while I hold her legs open. She still will not talk about the sex but she calls him infront of you and she sends him nudes. He and her are fuck buddies now.
You are 100 percent correct. If done right the boyfriend fills a need. I love waiting on my wife and him. I fix them meals, clean the house up when he is coming over. I arrange dates and even take her to him. I love seeing them together and I love hearing my wife say how much she loves him and me. She says he fills a need that I can't do. It was my wife who told me I should clean her pussy juice before I clean her. This would cement my role in our marriage. I do this for them and myself.tn_cpl_4bull wrote: ↑Tue Mar 25, 2025 9:04 amFor me, it was a conflict about how I felt about fluffing my wife's Bull. I am 100% straight, and for most of my life, have seen this act as being gay and disgusting. But the more and more I allowed myself to delve into my submissive side and embrace the fact that sexual humiliation turns me on, I began to research more deeply into cuckold roles.
I discovered, and came to accept, that a cuckold sucking the Bull's cock isn't really about sex or bi desire, it is all about showing him respect, demeaning yourself in front of him and your wife, demonstrating your position in the sexual hierarchy, putting on a entertaining show for her, and keeping the Man who fucks your wife in a constant, primal state of erection.
So even though I never saw myself taking on that role as one of my other cuckold duties, it now seems very natural. I don't enjoy the act itself, but greatly enjoy the humiliation aspect of it. And I enjoy the practical aspect of knowing the harder the Bull stays, the more pleasure he gives my beautiful wife. So I swallow my pride and ego, get on my knees, and do my duty with an enthusiastic attitude (so as not to spoil the mood with pouting). I still have mixed emotions. But the effect his powerful cock has on her orgasms later, makes all my mental anguish seem well worthwhile.
Surry, I would love to hear more of your story and what Jim has gotten your shy conservative wife to dosurry wrote: ↑Thu Mar 27, 2025 1:16 amYou are 100 percent correct. If done right the boyfriend fills a need. I love waiting on my wife and him. I fix them meals, clean the house up when he is coming over. I arrange dates and even take her to him. I love seeing them together and I love hearing my wife say how much she loves him and me. She says he fills a need that I can't do. It was my wife who told me I should clean her pussy juice before I clean her. This would cement my role in our marriage. I do this for them and myself.tn_cpl_4bull wrote: ↑Tue Mar 25, 2025 9:04 amFor me, it was a conflict about how I felt about fluffing my wife's Bull. I am 100% straight, and for most of my life, have seen this act as being gay and disgusting. But the more and more I allowed myself to delve into my submissive side and embrace the fact that sexual humiliation turns me on, I began to research more deeply into cuckold roles.
I discovered, and came to accept, that a cuckold sucking the Bull's cock isn't really about sex or bi desire, it is all about showing him respect, demeaning yourself in front of him and your wife, demonstrating your position in the sexual hierarchy, putting on a entertaining show for her, and keeping the Man who fucks your wife in a constant, primal state of erection.
So even though I never saw myself taking on that role as one of my other cuckold duties, it now seems very natural. I don't enjoy the act itself, but greatly enjoy the humiliation aspect of it. And I enjoy the practical aspect of knowing the harder the Bull stays, the more pleasure he gives my beautiful wife. So I swallow my pride and ego, get on my knees, and do my duty with an enthusiastic attitude (so as not to spoil the mood with pouting). I still have mixed emotions. But the effect his powerful cock has on her orgasms later, makes all my mental anguish seem well worthwhile.
Surry, I would love to hear more of your story and what Jim has gotten your shy conservative wife to dosurry wrote: ↑Thu Mar 27, 2025 1:16 amYou are 100 percent correct. If done right the boyfriend fills a need. I love waiting on my wife and him. I fix them meals, clean the house up when he is coming over. I arrange dates and even take her to him. I love seeing them together and I love hearing my wife say how much she loves him and me. She says he fills a need that I can't do. It was my wife who told me I should clean her pussy juice before I clean her. This would cement my role in our marriage. I do this for them and myself.tn_cpl_4bull wrote: ↑Tue Mar 25, 2025 9:04 amFor me, it was a conflict about how I felt about fluffing my wife's Bull. I am 100% straight, and for most of my life, have seen this act as being gay and disgusting. But the more and more I allowed myself to delve into my submissive side and embrace the fact that sexual humiliation turns me on, I began to research more deeply into cuckold roles.
I discovered, and came to accept, that a cuckold sucking the Bull's cock isn't really about sex or bi desire, it is all about showing him respect, demeaning yourself in front of him and your wife, demonstrating your position in the sexual hierarchy, putting on a entertaining show for her, and keeping the Man who fucks your wife in a constant, primal state of erection.
So even though I never saw myself taking on that role as one of my other cuckold duties, it now seems very natural. I don't enjoy the act itself, but greatly enjoy the humiliation aspect of it. And I enjoy the practical aspect of knowing the harder the Bull stays, the more pleasure he gives my beautiful wife. So I swallow my pride and ego, get on my knees, and do my duty with an enthusiastic attitude (so as not to spoil the mood with pouting). I still have mixed emotions. But the effect his powerful cock has on her orgasms later, makes all my mental anguish seem well worthwhile.
My wife Jane has always been shy and I was her first and only boyfriend since age 13. At age 16 a man befriended me and invited me into his home. He was nice at first but I ended up him siting on my chest and grabbing my hair and forcing me to suck his dick. I was embarrassed because he reached down my pants and found got me hard. I spent the next couple of hours him sucking me, fucking my ass as he told me to beg him to fuck me.. I had to tell him he was better than my girlfriend. Even though then I had only fingered her. He told me to bring her over so he could fuck her too. I promised to bring her over. I sucked him a lot. He kept my dick dripping. At the end he lifted me by my legs and had me jerk off on my own face. I never saw him again and told my future wife what happened. She was upset but all I could think about was taking her to his house. My shy wife did not like when I started telling her I wish I had taken her to that man's house. When I tried to get her to open up in bed she thought it was a sin and told me to don't be nasty.Colliercuck wrote: ↑Thu Mar 27, 2025 4:57 amSurry, I would love to hear more of your story and what Jim has gotten your shy conservative wife to dosurry wrote: ↑Thu Mar 27, 2025 1:16 amYou are 100 percent correct. If done right the boyfriend fills a need. I love waiting on my wife and him. I fix them meals, clean the house up when he is coming over. I arrange dates and even take her to him. I love seeing them together and I love hearing my wife say how much she loves him and me. She says he fills a need that I can't do. It was my wife who told me I should clean her pussy juice before I clean her. This would cement my role in our marriage. I do this for them and myself.tn_cpl_4bull wrote: ↑Tue Mar 25, 2025 9:04 amFor me, it was a conflict about how I felt about fluffing my wife's Bull. I am 100% straight, and for most of my life, have seen this act as being gay and disgusting. But the more and more I allowed myself to delve into my submissive side and embrace the fact that sexual humiliation turns me on, I began to research more deeply into cuckold roles.
I discovered, and came to accept, that a cuckold sucking the Bull's cock isn't really about sex or bi desire, it is all about showing him respect, demeaning yourself in front of him and your wife, demonstrating your position in the sexual hierarchy, putting on a entertaining show for her, and keeping the Man who fucks your wife in a constant, primal state of erection.
So even though I never saw myself taking on that role as one of my other cuckold duties, it now seems very natural. I don't enjoy the act itself, but greatly enjoy the humiliation aspect of it. And I enjoy the practical aspect of knowing the harder the Bull stays, the more pleasure he gives my beautiful wife. So I swallow my pride and ego, get on my knees, and do my duty with an enthusiastic attitude (so as not to spoil the mood with pouting). I still have mixed emotions. But the effect his powerful cock has on her orgasms later, makes all my mental anguish seem well worthwhile.
I wish my wife knew Jim!!!!! Great story!! I got hard just reading it……..how did the gang bang go and how long did jim own your wifesurry wrote: ↑Thu Mar 27, 2025 8:06 amMy wife Jane has always been shy and I was her first and only boyfriend since age 13. At age 16 a man befriended me and invited me into his home. He was nice at first but I ended up him siting on my chest and grabbing my hair and forcing me to suck his dick. I was embarrassed because he reached down my pants and found got me hard. I spent the next couple of hours him sucking me, fucking my ass as he told me to beg him to fuck me.. I had to tell him he was better than my girlfriend. Even though then I had only fingered her. He told me to bring her over so he could fuck her too. I promised to bring her over. I sucked him a lot. He kept my dick dripping. At the end he lifted me by my legs and had me jerk off on my own face. I never saw him again and told my future wife what happened. She was upset but all I could think about was taking her to his house. My shy wife did not like when I started telling her I wish I had taken her to that man's house. When I tried to get her to open up in bed she thought it was a sin and told me to don't be nasty.Colliercuck wrote: ↑Thu Mar 27, 2025 4:57 amSurry, I would love to hear more of your story and what Jim has gotten your shy conservative wife to dosurry wrote: ↑Thu Mar 27, 2025 1:16 amYou are 100 percent correct. If done right the boyfriend fills a need. I love waiting on my wife and him. I fix them meals, clean the house up when he is coming over. I arrange dates and even take her to him. I love seeing them together and I love hearing my wife say how much she loves him and me. She says he fills a need that I can't do. It was my wife who told me I should clean her pussy juice before I clean her. This would cement my role in our marriage. I do this for them and myself.tn_cpl_4bull wrote: ↑Tue Mar 25, 2025 9:04 amFor me, it was a conflict about how I felt about fluffing my wife's Bull. I am 100% straight, and for most of my life, have seen this act as being gay and disgusting. But the more and more I allowed myself to delve into my submissive side and embrace the fact that sexual humiliation turns me on, I began to research more deeply into cuckold roles.
I discovered, and came to accept, that a cuckold sucking the Bull's cock isn't really about sex or bi desire, it is all about showing him respect, demeaning yourself in front of him and your wife, demonstrating your position in the sexual hierarchy, putting on a entertaining show for her, and keeping the Man who fucks your wife in a constant, primal state of erection.
So even though I never saw myself taking on that role as one of my other cuckold duties, it now seems very natural. I don't enjoy the act itself, but greatly enjoy the humiliation aspect of it. And I enjoy the practical aspect of knowing the harder the Bull stays, the more pleasure he gives my beautiful wife. So I swallow my pride and ego, get on my knees, and do my duty with an enthusiastic attitude (so as not to spoil the mood with pouting). I still have mixed emotions. But the effect his powerful cock has on her orgasms later, makes all my mental anguish seem well worthwhile.
Jane started talking about her coworker Jim. Jim was a player and was a jock. He had slept with all the single women. I teased her and told her Jim would want to fuck her. Her reply was "We are friends besides he doesn't want me that way." After thinking it over I called him. I told him I was Janes husband, and she had a crush on him. She had never been with another man, and she was a bore in bed. Would he be interested in seducing her and training her for sex. He has my permission to do anything to her. All I ask is don't hurt her. I told him I had been fixed and she was not on birth control. I would leave that up to him and her. fuck her bareback or use protection. Can you please let me know what you get her to do. I would love if you could make her tell me you are her lover and I will act surprised and encourage her to obey you. Jim told me two weeks later she got a blow job from Jane in his car. He fingered her and made her cum. She told him it was her first cum. She had been faking it with me. This was a surprise. A week later my wife cried and confessed she had been a bad wife. She sucked off Jim and he made her cum. He wants to fuck her and get your permission. My wife was shaking. I held her and acted upset then I told her Jim must be special and she nodded yes. I told her I wanted her to be happy but if she wants to not disappoint Jim, she needs to obey him and never say no to him. Even if he wanted to meet me, I want to see you kissing him and treating him like a lover not a husband. We had hot sex and I witness her cumming for real. She would come home from a date telling me she swallowed his cum. She gave her ass to him. Then she told me Jim want's to keep her body from me. Would I be OK if we both obey Jim. I said I was not sure. She told me Jim was coming over when he gets off work. He wants to fuck me in our marriage bed. My wife did not know Jim and I had talked about this. Jim came over and Jane ran up and kissed him. Jim undressed Jane and my naked wife was sitting on his lap, I got up and got then some snacks and Jim and I discussed him fucking my wife and what he taught her and said for my wife's birthday he was thinking about spending the weekend at a hotel and he has two friends that want to fuck her. So, Jim and I discussed this gangbang Jane's will be involved in. Jim was slowly rubbing Janes pussy and Jane had her legs open wide so I could watch. I thanked Jim for denying Janes pussy from me. Jane said she wasn't sure if she wanted to get fucked by three men. I told her I don't think we had a choice. It's something Jim wants to do. Jim kissed her and fingered her hard until she came very hard. She told me later Jim doing it to her in front of her husband made her cum hard. I watched them fuck and I cleaned her pussy for the first time and Jim told me Jane had told me about the man I had sucked off. He told me I should be a good boy and get him clean then hard again. Jane took a deep breath and watched me. She said she has always wanted to see me do that. Jane did enjoy her birthday and got pregnant.
Did you jerk off thinking this was your wife? Jim and Jane were lovers for three years. Jim moved to another state and Jane would fly out to stay with him for a few weeks. Sadly she broke up with him because he was fucking another wife. The three of them had sex because she did not want to lose him. Jim wanted them to wrestle naked and the loser would be at the winner's mercy. The new wife was stronger and would get rough with her. The first time she spent eating her pussy and cleaning her and Jim. She would sit on Janes face and tried to smoother her. Jim liked hairy pussy and the new wife shaved Janes pussy bare. She wrote on above her pussy. "Not Jim's." Jane has big tits and the new wife called her cow and even texted her addressing her as cow. Jim thought this was a turn on. Jane got raped with a strap on by her. Jane begged her to stop and got embarrassed when the new wife made her cum on the strap on. The new wife teased her after this. She would be fucking Jane and telling Jim she was going to make "our Cow cum." Jim loved seeing one woman owning another woman. Jane knew she was being used by both of them. Jane would come home sore and upset but I could not get her to stop. It was like she needed this. Jane would say she is not going to let her win. She wants to show Jim she is woman enough for him. What made her to give up and come home to me, she flew out for a week visit. Jim and the new wife gave her to the new wife's husband. She spent the week at the new wife's home getting fucked and sucking her husband. She cleaned and cooked for him when they were not having sex. The new wife told Jane, Jim was hers and she was a gift to her husband. My wife said he was not a very good fuck and could see why she like getting fucked by Jim. Jane came home upset and I was glad to get her back.Colliercuck wrote: ↑Thu Mar 27, 2025 10:47 amI wish my wife knew Jim!!!!! Great story!! I got hard just reading it……..how did the gang bang go and how long did jim own your wifesurry wrote: ↑Thu Mar 27, 2025 8:06 amMy wife Jane has always been shy and I was her first and only boyfriend since age 13. At age 16 a man befriended me and invited me into his home. He was nice at first but I ended up him siting on my chest and grabbing my hair and forcing me to suck his dick. I was embarrassed because he reached down my pants and found got me hard. I spent the next couple of hours him sucking me, fucking my ass as he told me to beg him to fuck me.. I had to tell him he was better than my girlfriend. Even though then I had only fingered her. He told me to bring her over so he could fuck her too. I promised to bring her over. I sucked him a lot. He kept my dick dripping. At the end he lifted me by my legs and had me jerk off on my own face. I never saw him again and told my future wife what happened. She was upset but all I could think about was taking her to his house. My shy wife did not like when I started telling her I wish I had taken her to that man's house. When I tried to get her to open up in bed she thought it was a sin and told me to don't be nasty.Colliercuck wrote: ↑Thu Mar 27, 2025 4:57 amSurry, I would love to hear more of your story and what Jim has gotten your shy conservative wife to dosurry wrote: ↑Thu Mar 27, 2025 1:16 am
You are 100 percent correct. If done right the boyfriend fills a need. I love waiting on my wife and him. I fix them meals, clean the house up when he is coming over. I arrange dates and even take her to him. I love seeing them together and I love hearing my wife say how much she loves him and me. She says he fills a need that I can't do. It was my wife who told me I should clean her pussy juice before I clean her. This would cement my role in our marriage. I do this for them and myself.
Jane started talking about her coworker Jim. Jim was a player and was a jock. He had slept with all the single women. I teased her and told her Jim would want to fuck her. Her reply was "We are friends besides he doesn't want me that way." After thinking it over I called him. I told him I was Janes husband, and she had a crush on him. She had never been with another man, and she was a bore in bed. Would he be interested in seducing her and training her for sex. He has my permission to do anything to her. All I ask is don't hurt her. I told him I had been fixed and she was not on birth control. I would leave that up to him and her. fuck her bareback or use protection. Can you please let me know what you get her to do. I would love if you could make her tell me you are her lover and I will act surprised and encourage her to obey you. Jim told me two weeks later she got a blow job from Jane in his car. He fingered her and made her cum. She told him it was her first cum. She had been faking it with me. This was a surprise. A week later my wife cried and confessed she had been a bad wife. She sucked off Jim and he made her cum. He wants to fuck her and get your permission. My wife was shaking. I held her and acted upset then I told her Jim must be special and she nodded yes. I told her I wanted her to be happy but if she wants to not disappoint Jim, she needs to obey him and never say no to him. Even if he wanted to meet me, I want to see you kissing him and treating him like a lover not a husband. We had hot sex and I witness her cumming for real. She would come home from a date telling me she swallowed his cum. She gave her ass to him. Then she told me Jim want's to keep her body from me. Would I be OK if we both obey Jim. I said I was not sure. She told me Jim was coming over when he gets off work. He wants to fuck me in our marriage bed. My wife did not know Jim and I had talked about this. Jim came over and Jane ran up and kissed him. Jim undressed Jane and my naked wife was sitting on his lap, I got up and got then some snacks and Jim and I discussed him fucking my wife and what he taught her and said for my wife's birthday he was thinking about spending the weekend at a hotel and he has two friends that want to fuck her. So, Jim and I discussed this gangbang Jane's will be involved in. Jim was slowly rubbing Janes pussy and Jane had her legs open wide so I could watch. I thanked Jim for denying Janes pussy from me. Jane said she wasn't sure if she wanted to get fucked by three men. I told her I don't think we had a choice. It's something Jim wants to do. Jim kissed her and fingered her hard until she came very hard. She told me later Jim doing it to her in front of her husband made her cum hard. I watched them fuck and I cleaned her pussy for the first time and Jim told me Jane had told me about the man I had sucked off. He told me I should be a good boy and get him clean then hard again. Jane took a deep breath and watched me. She said she has always wanted to see me do that. Jane did enjoy her birthday and got pregnant.
The tldr; this guy was a complete stud. Checked off all her boxes unexpectedly. She got infatuated, too much to the point it made me insecure. I asked her to stop contacting him. Turns out she kept seeing him 1-4x/month. Oddly enough that was actually a fantasy I had!FNQLivin wrote: ↑Wed Mar 26, 2025 4:55 pmCan you provide some more background?RoccoLexi69 wrote: ↑Tue Mar 25, 2025 7:08 amI had posted about it a few years but I guess those posts have been trimmed. It started out as a hotwife situation. Couple of guys were duds, but the last one really rocked her world. It was the first time in our relationship I felt insecure.
bltn1966 wrote: ↑Wed Mar 26, 2025 3:13 pmThis was exactly what happened to me and my wife. I’m black . So, I was taken aback when my Latina wife said she was curious about white guys. The first 3 white guys she had sex with were duds. Just downright fucking awful. I foolishly thought there wasn’t anyone, black or white, that could satisfy my wife like I could. I think my wife was thinking the same thing.RoccoLexi69 wrote: ↑Tue Mar 25, 2025 7:08 amI had posted about it a few years but I guess those posts have been trimmed. It started out as a hotwife situation. Couple of guys were duds, but the last one really rocked her world. It was the first time in our relationship I felt insecure.
Then she went out with the 4th guy. WOW!!! He had my wife cumming and screaming like never before. It really crushed my ego. I always wanted to see a guy make my wife have one of her body shaking orgasms. Now I’m watching having body convulse a full minute after the guy stopped fucking her. Then she eagerly suck his dick when she regain her composure. Something she vowed she would never do with me. It hurt and it was a big blow to my ego but it was exactly what I wanted to see.