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I'm sure this topic has been brought up many times on here, forgive me for asking it again, I just didnt feel like scrolling through how-ever-many pages in the hopes of finding it...

I've decided to buy my first cock cage.

This is something I'll be enforcing on myself, as my wife and her boyfriend have never shown interest in it, and while I've been denied access to her pussy for a long time, denying my cock was never something she wanted to do. Now, the status of my pussy denial has changed, I am allowed to see and touch it, but only with my hands and mouth... my dick is not allowed to enter her pussy at all, except for once a year on our anniversary.

so, given that new rules, i thought it would be fun, even though I'm doing it to myself, to lock up my dick when ever she is with another man, which is pretty often.

so, I'm looking for recommendations for my first cage!

I don't expect (at least not yet) that it will be for long term wearing. Probly wont be more than a few hours at a time, or at most over night, if she is spending the night with another man... I dont know how i'll take to it, i may end up wearing it when ever she sleeps in her boyfriend's room, which is is on average about 4 to 5 nights a week, meaning she sleeps in my bed with me only about 2 to 3 nights a week... give or take...

I'm also not into sounding...

i just want to try being locked away while she fucks another man... even though im doing it to myself

For me, being locked while my wife is enjoying another man is delicious torture. I love/hate it. OK, I mostly love and crave it.

If you are just testing it out, there are lots of inexpensive cock cages. If you are not sure about this, that might be a good place to start since the better cages are a bit expensive. My go to is the KINK3D Cobra, but that is around $200. Mature Metal is another good high-end item.

If you will be self-locking, I suggest you get a timed lock box. Amazon has a few options. I have the "kitchen safe mini", but there are other options now. If you lock yourself and still have access to the keys, it doesn't provide the same emotional response as knowing that you cannot get out even if you change your mind. The idea is to put the keys in the timed lock box and set it for the length of time you expect them to be together. That takes away your control and heightens the frustration and loss of control.

Enjoy!

For me, being locked while my wife is enjoying another man is delicious torture. I love/hate it. OK, I mostly love and crave it.

If you are just testing it out, there are lots of inexpensive cock cages. If you are not sure about this, that might be a good place to start since the better cages are a bit expensive. My go to is the KINK3D Cobra, but that is around $200. Mature Metal is another good high-end item.

If you will be self-locking, I suggest you get a timed lock box. Amazon has a few options. I have the "kitchen safe mini", but there are other options now. If you lock yourself and still have access to the keys, it doesn't provide the same emotional response as knowing that you cannot get out even if you change your mind. The idea is to put the keys in the timed lock box and set it for the length of time you expect them to be together. That takes away your control and heightens the frustration and loss of control.

Enjoy!

Holy Trainer. makes plastic devices for under $200 that get good reviews. My wife and I have been involved with chastity for years and I have a rather expensive collection lol.
https://www.holytrainer.com/chastity-li ... y-shop.asp

I would not recommend the CB-6xxx Series. That's what I started with and in retrospect it is just terrible.
If looking for an cheaper option the holy trainer might be ok for only several hours use. It is not custom made though and the chance that it might hurt if you f.e. get an erection inside it is larger compared to custom made models. However using a cheaper non-custom model with severl baserings to choose from might help with sizing problems in the beginning.
For only 200 Dollar more you can go custom right brom the beginning with the bawr CBs which get quite some praise. Especally if you cosider their really low costs.

Cherry keeper has a huge selection and is amazing value.

Did u get it?
Did u lock your little dick?

Get the smallest you can find, as far as the cage. It may not seem like it but the smallest ones tend to be the most comfortable.

Also get one with varying size rings as it's hard to know which size you may need.

Plastic is light but it will need some sort of lube or baby powder to keep it from chaffing you. Metal is better but heavier.

Get the kind with the built-in lock, most of them are coming that way these days.

Also, get the pouched panties so your cage, cock and balls reside in a pouch and kept isolated while you walk. Mainstream brands like hanes offers these and helps you from chaffing on your inner thighs when you walk and are caged.

Bumping to keep inivisible twin in our thoughts. Hope he comes back soon.

I wear a black cobra nub. Have been for many years everyday. All cucks need to be in Chasity.

Find a kink3d place that does fittings and go with that. All the recommendations or guides on the internet will never replace actually having someone fit you. Yes it may be a guy helping you. Get over it

Check out BadAssWorkroom (https://bawrpro.com/), extremely high quality, reasonably priced. Titanium is the way to go, IMHO.

I am somewhat new to chastity. I tried a few years ago with a cheap device and it was horrible. Also my wife was not interested at all, so I threw it away and gave up on that. I recently brought it up again and she seemed a little interested and said she would go along with it, try it out. I had explained that if she didn’t want any part of it that I didn’t want to do it. I want her to be in charge here. So last week I ordered a kink3d cobra. Size n+ with standard ring. Fits great, I wore for a few hours on and off at first and now I’ve been in it for 48 hours, with time out twice yesterday, once for a hand job and once for a shower then she wanted it locked back up. I have slept last 2 nights in it, that went better than expected, and I wear it at work. I’m on my feet and do a good share of manly work so it’s quite a thrill to have this secret. I would definitely recommend that product after taking your time with the measurement process. They have a great website and the shipping was quick.

Cherrykeeper is amazing price quality and has a huge range.