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Sounds like one hell of a night. Looking forward to hearing about the morning after.

(David, Sarah and i - conclusion)


The next morning I got up early. Everywhere there was evidence of the previous night’s events. Half full glasses of liquor, clothes discarded thru out the room, condoms wrappers on the floor.

Sarah had slipped on a pair of panties sometime in the night but was otherwise naked. David was still asleep in the bedroom.

As I started to clean up, i re-lived the previous night in my head. My biggest regret is that we didn't set an expectation for an end time. Honestly, I didn't expect them to fuck as long as they did. I had just assumed he would take off at some point during the night giving us a chance to reconnect. It didn't seem right to ask him to head out at 2:00 am, but now I wanted some alone time with my wife and checkout was in a couple of hours. I opened the door to the master bedroom, made enough noise so that David woke up…and told him it was time to head out.

After a few minutes of cleaning up the room, Sarah awoke and we were able to talk for a bit. She said she had a fun time, but a lot of things kept taking her out of the moment. She also felt it went on too long and was irritated that David had slept in the master bedroom.

Also, it turned out that David kept trying to convince her to fuck without a condom. She had to tell him no several times which started to bug her. I expect that was why she never could quite orgasm with him (although she said she was really close several times and his cock did feel amazing inside her.)

Eventually, David emerged from the bedroom to get dressed and gather his stuff. I had brought some bagels/pastries but he declined and said he had to get going. He thanked Sarah for a great time and gave her a hug goodbye. I know he was hoping for a morning romp but I had made it clear we were anxious to be alone.

It was such a relief to be just the two of us again. We enthusiastically undressed and hopped into the master bed.

We watched the video I’d shot on my phone as our hands moved over each others bodies. She was a bit embarrassed by how dirty she was talking and behaving but it really turned us on to watch her in action. Soon we were kissing passionately. I began to finger her and she jerked me off as the sounds of the previous night still played from my phone. As I kissed her body, I could taste the salt of their sweat on her.

“I want you to fuck me,” she said assertively but with love in her voice.

I was more than happy to oblige. My dick was so hard it hurt. My balls so heavy they felt like they were full of concrete.

I moved into missionary position and slid inside her. Her pussy was wet and puffy from the night before, She smiled up lovingly at me. She’d never looked so beautiful.

“Mmmm. that’s so nice.” she said with a sultry voice, wrapping her legs around me.

I could feel the effect of her marathon fuck session on her soft pussy as it welcomed me inside her. It felt so amazing to make love to her again after what I had witnessed the night before. I felt like I was melting into her as we shared this magical moment of reconnection. I slid slowly in and out of her as we stared into each other’s eyes.

Soon the biological imperative of the act began to overshadow the romance. I began to increase my speed as I felt the finish line approaching. Sarah sensed my impending orgasm and surprised me with more dirty talk.

“That’s it baby. Fuck me. I can’t wait to feel you cum inside me. I was thinking about this moment all night.”

I grabbed her by the ankles, holding her legs into a V shape as I fucked her as hard as I could. It was primal, the only thought now was to reclaim my mate, filling her with my seed. The moment soon became too intense and I thrust with pleasure as torrents of cum left my cock. I pumped furiously. I had never cum so hard in my entire life.

i was spent. my flaccid penis slid out of her with no chance of recovery.

“i’m so sorry i went so fast,” I said sincerely.

“That’s ok, I had fun this morning.”

We kissed and had a laugh about the sheer craziness of it all. Checkout time was close now, so we quickly packed our stuff and headed out.

When we stopped for a coffee on the way home, Sarah had to take her panties off in the drive thru. The volume of my orgasm had soaked them.

“My gods, it just keeps leaking out of me,” she laughed.

“Yeah, I’ve never cum that hard in my life. It was so amazing. Sorry i couldn’t get you to cum too.” I replied.

“That’s all right, you can try again when we got home. After I take a bath and have a long nap.”

amazing story. cant wait to hear of next days

So that happened about 3 years ago...I was over the moon!

Sarah was hyper sexual for the next few weeks. We were having sex often. She was also less reserved about talking dirty, especially when i was eating her out.

One day, she called out sick to work so she could "stay home, lounge in bad and masturbate all day."

But it seems our night with David had not been perfect. Sarah really didn't like taking about it, even when we were in bed. As time passed, she even seemed to have regrets about the evening. It was tough on us. It was just recently she opened up with her feelings about the night.

She said was still open to the "Hotwife lifestyle" but wanted to play on her own terms. Our understanding was that she had free reign to fuck who and when she wanted.

I thought that might be the end of it, but she ended up taking a lover a few months later.

Please continue! Sounds pretty exciting, but I'm thinking that the lover situation will be hard on you?

nnjcpl2002 wrote: Fri May 09, 2025 10:04 am Please continue! Sounds pretty exciting, but I'm thinking that the lover situation will be hard on you?

It was and it wasn't I guess.

A few months after out night with David, she had completely shut down the idea of having other men. I probably tried to push too much and i think it really made her reevaluate it all. Eventually, I stopped bringing it up, even as a fantasy, as it upset her to talk about. I felt really guilty about the part i played in setting it up.

I was disappointed but happy that i got to have a couple of experiences at least. But our sex life had taken a hit as a result. The frequency dropped. And she would rarely give blow jobs any more. We never fought about it, but it always seemed to be hanging there.

I tried to unplug myself from the fantasy but we all know how that goes. Pornhub was banned in my state so my "cuck porn" outlet was gone, too. My thread on OHW went dead from no activity.

Tough times.

So when i received a text from her that she was "vibing with a guy" on a girls trip, i was cautiously optimistic.

Love your telling of she story. Thanks for sharing!

Spiral - you have wonderful way of expressing your feelings on the night of her encounter with David. Looking forward to hearing more about her “vibing” on her girls trip….and how you have progressed in the ls

mattyg_2671 wrote: Fri May 09, 2025 9:30 pm Love your telling of she story. Thanks for sharing!

Thanks, mattyg. Just read your thread and..wow! Quite a journey to say the least.

Our wives both share that "inner vixen." My wife's doesn't come out as often as I'd like, but she is always worth the wait!

Haha, thanks, yes quite a journey. But it took my wife’s inner vixen a good 30+ years to fully show itself. I think it was always there but she suppressed it. I can’t believe that most of our adventure has occurred in the last 1.5 years!

Hello out there to anyone following. Crazy times lately. Seems after a 3 year absence, David may back in the picture. Did NOT see that coming.

Anyway, I'd like to give some quick backstory of our journey to catch us up the the present. Love the feedback...cant really talk to anyone else about it. thx!



Sarah and Trevor


After a few months of our sex life being on life support, there was a new development.

Sarah had been taking trips to Texas with a group of friends for the last few years. One of them runs a sweet AirBnB and hosts them all for a get together every summer. Up to this point it had been only girls, John (the host,) and his boyfriend.

I had never giving much thought to her playing while away on this trip. I didn’t think there would be any opportunity. We had pillow talked about her meeting a lover at a hotel bar while on a work trip or similar scenarios though, and I had made it clear she had an open pass should an opportunity present itself.

Anyway, about 8 months after our night with David, she was going down for the weekend. I was super excited, not just for her to have a fun trip, but because its also a total jerk-fest weekend for me.

Not jerking off in the shower. Not jerking off after everyone has gone to sleep. Nope, this weekend is about lying naked in the bed, watching porn, taking my time jerking off. Sarah knew this was the usual plan and we’d joked about it before she left.



After she arrived, we were texting back and forth about her flight, how the weather was, all that. When I asked about who came down, I was surprised to find out an old friend of hers, Trevor, was in attendance.

For the record, I like Trevor. He’s your typical guy that has a career in sales. Charismatic, funny and it helps that he’s athletic and good looking.

Trevor does not like me.

When we worked at the same company (years ago), I sat in on his panel interview for a job in my department. He actually flirted with the woman leading the interview (that would have been his boss.) She ended up going with another candidate. He would always give me shit about it whenever we would see each other. Eventually, he moved back east to take another job. So i was surprised to even see his name.

-How did Trevor end up on the girls trip? - I texted

-John invited him down. He knows he’s not gay but is fun to party with and John likes the eye candy lol - she replied

We kind of let it drop and said our goodnights. I put some Hotwife porn on tv.


I didn’t hear from her until late the next morning. It was early afternoon for her. She had slept late and was hungover. John was making breakfast.

-I have a confession - she texted out of the blue

My mind immediately went to Trevor. It had been at the back of my mind since last night.

-Yeah? What’s that?

-I swam topless last night. All the girls did

-Was everyone swimming? - i replied

Neither of us said anything but we both knew the implication was about Trevor.

-Yep

So at this point, the very least is that Trevor has now seen her tits. I was unsure how to feel about this, Of course, part of me was turned on.


-Any other confessions? - I texted back, not sure what answer I’d get or wanted.

I was trying to keep it fun and sexy. I wasn’t sure how to react, but I knew that getting defensive was the wrong move.

-Nope. Just drank too much

Probably the best outcome I figured. We talked about her day ahead and then she went for lunch.

Later in the afternoon, I got another text. It was a picture of her topless at the pool, covering her breasts with her arm.

-So I guess its topless all weekend then? - I replied

-Yep

-Cute pic. Make sure it doesn’t get around

-No worries, Trevor took it with my phone and I’m only sending it to you. Figured you could use it tonight.

So, Trevor had taken the photo. Was she teasing me? Sure. But also, was she testing my limits? Or hers?

I decided to play it cool and not press.

-Thanks! Super hot. I’ll take as many pics as you’ll send me - I replied


Later that night, the bomb dropped.

-So, do I still have a hall pass?

Thanks for updating and for leaving us hanging just waiting for your reply......

Please let us know for sure
(I would assume you answered yes since if you actually sent a NO, I think most of your readers will be dissapointed

Spiral - you left readers in suspense! Hope you said YES Looking forward to the events of her night with Trevor and your reaction to that

Sarah and Trevor - continued




-So, do I still have a hall pass?


Right then I knew. I got that feeling in my stomach I hadn’t felt for months. My breath quickened. I was hard almost instantly.

-Yeah, why do you ask?

Minutes passed before I finally got a reply:

-I’m just curious, you know, if you're serious. We’ve actually been talking about how cool you are

I texted back immediately:

-Who are you talking to?

Again, a long delay. Staring at my phone waiting for a reply. Stroking myself over my pants.

-John and Trevor. We’re playing drinking games and sharing stories

My mind was racing. Knowing this was happening without me, hundreds of miles away, was driving me crazy. I send a message back immediately: 


-What games are you playing?

Another long delay (minutes felt like hours at this point.)

-Truth or Dare lol. But just a lot of truth for me so far lol

I could tell she was getting more drunk with each text. When Sarah gets drunk, she gets super horny. There were a ton of emotions running thru my head. I was pacing like an animal in a cage.

-What have you told them? Have you told them about our anniversary last year?

A few agonizing minutes later:

-Yeah, I hope that’s ok. John asked what’s the craziest sex thing I’d ever done. That wins by a mile even for us lol

I couldn’t argue that, but it was crazy to have it out in the open now. The only people that knew at this time were me, Sarah and David (other than the anonymous readers on OHW when it was happening in real time.)

-I guess its ok if they can keep a secret. I wouldn’t want it to get back to us here at home. What was their reaction?

My dick was throbbing, waiting eagerly for her reply.

-They both thought it was sexy. John was jealous I got to play with such a big cock lol. Anyway, I’m jumping back in the pool. I’ll give you a call before bed.

It was like when the astronauts went around the dark side of the moon. I was cutoff from communication for the next few hours. I dared not jerk off, as my sexual excitement was struggling to keep the fear at bay.

So,
Your Wonderful Wife Sarah interpreted your responses as a Yes?

Seriously, She deserves to be kept satisfied by you and a select group of Bulls with Benefits!!!

Sincerely
elina

She seems like an awesome person - even when drunk and horny she still reaches out to you and communicates. Am I jumping the gun by asking if Trevor got lucky that night ?

For the next couple of hours I was a mess. That erotic nausea I hadn’t felt in months had me light headed. Whenever Sarah had played in the past, I was either there, as a willing participant (as with David or the house party we had attended,) or I found out after the fact (her ex.)

Tonight, I had no idea what was happening. Maybe nothing. Maybe she was sucking his cock even now. The angst was like nothing i had felt before.

Finally, she called. I picked up before the first ring had finished.

“Hey there! How’s it going?” I asked, trying to keep a calm voice.

“Really good. Everyone says hi.” I could tell she’d had a few drinks.

“Tell them all hello. Sorry I can’t be there. Sounds like you're having a good time though.”

“Yeah, I’m having a great time.” she replied thru slurring speech.

There was a brief silence. I was about to ask about her “hall pass” text but she brought it up for me.

“So, Trevor and I are going to fuck tonight.” she said, almost matter-of-fact.

Even thought I had been thinking of nothing else the past two hours, the statement still shocked me.

“Oh! Well…” i stuttered out.

“I just wanted to call and say goodnight and that I love you.”

“Thanks. I appreciate you telling me. When did you decide this? Is this your call to ask for permission?” I asked.

“Well, technically you already gave me permission. And we decided in the pool a few minutes ago. He and I have been skinny dipping. Everyone else has passed out for the night.”


She was right. I had given her an anytime pass. I shook my head at myself. How could this turned me on? Even if it was Trevor? Or maybe especially because it was him? Sometimes the way my head is wired is so confusing. Most men would be furious. Not me.

“Have fun tonight then. I can’t wait to hear all about it. I love you.”

“I love you too. Thanks!”

She hung up and I just stood there, in erotic shock. My hand instinctively went into my shorts and i began stroking myself.

The fact that I knew him made it so much more real in my head. I could see his face as she sucked his cock. See his tattooed arms hold her hips as he fucked her from behind. Their faces were clear as they kissed as she rode his cock. No women has ever been fucked so well as my wife had (in my head) that night.


Another thought occurred to me. I had always secretly liked that he hadn’t been hired by my department. I just always had that over him. That air of superiority was gone for sure now. Nothing says “got you back” like fucking someones wife.

The next morning she texted me a heart emoji and “can’t wait to be home.” It was understood that we would talk about it face to face after the kids were in bed.


Eight hours later she was home. I had tried to stay busy but I was mentally (and physically, if I’m being honest) edging myself all day. We still had dinner, laundry, all the mundane Sunday night activities preparing for the week ahead before we could talk. It was agonizing. A few times I caught her in a private smile.

Finally, we were in bed. She fired up a joint and I licked her pussy while she told me all about her night with Trevor.


They fucked twice that night. They were discreet (although he had to borrow condoms from John). He came into her room after they both showered. She shaved her pussy all the way bare for him. She said it was hot and he was a great lay. He ate her pussy (she came), she sucked his cock and they 69d. They fucked in lots of positions. Both times he finished inside the condom. They really made the most of their night.

Of course, I asked about his size.

“He’s bigger than you, but not like David, thank God.”

We hadn’t talked about David in months. It was always a mood killer whenever i brought it up. I cautiously took the opening.

“You think David was too big? You seemed to enjoy it at the time.” I swirled my tongue around her clit.

‘I guess the whole night was just “a lot” you know.” She took a drag off the joint and held it in, savoring the feeling of my efforts between her legs. “I actually loved his cock, although he never stopped talking about it.”

“Yeah, i remember. Part of the fantasy, i guess.”

“How’s that.” she asked with interest.

“Actually, i think it was more for me than you. You know, guy watching his wife get fucked by a hung bull. Cuckold fantasy stuff.”

“Did you like it?”

We were getting to it now.

“Yeah, I liked it.”

She took another puff of smoke from the joint, held it and exhaled.

“I liked it, too”

Thanks Spiral

Wonderful continuation.

I love Sarahs self confidence and the way She held you to your generall Hall-pass; not asking for you to confirm.
So good to see that She truly enjoyed Herself with Trevor and the wonderful way the two of you reconnected.

Sincerely
elina

Trevor and Sarah hooked up for three more vacation weekends over the next year. It became an open secret among that particular friend group that they were fucking.

Since everybody knew, they behave like a new couple on vacation. They share a room.

Also, they play bare, without condoms.

I was apprehensive at first. She said he only fucks his long time girlfriend and they’ve tested. I dunno, it's a risk. But i can’t deny that it's hotter.

i picture them in my mind, fucking skin to skin. He’s filling her pussy with his seed. The thought of his cum leaking out of her as they fall asleep together is both incredibly erotic and terrifying.

Sure, I’d rather be a part of it. But if our journey so far has taught me anything, it's not to press. We’re moving at her speed.

spiral462 wrote: Tue Apr 01, 2025 1:28 am She really embraced the fantasy at first. We had some amazing adventures to be sure. She even took a lover on her semi-annual "girl's trip." But after a while, she decided that it wasn't for her and that was the end of it. I eventually stopped posting and my thread went dormant.

I definitely enjoyed your retelling of your journey. There are several things that stand out to me.

First, that she (and you) had amazing adventures but for her reasons, determined that it wasn't for her. Did she ever share specifically what her reasons were? It's also interesting that whatever her reasons were, she changed her mind and wanted it again. It makes me think how deeply ingrained the experience is for everyone involved. You wanted it bad enough to feel like you pushed too much. You missed it too but realized you were being counter productive to your desires.

Second (and maybe should be first in my interest), is that your wife never once seemed inconsiderate of you. It sounds like she knew reconnecting/reclaiming was important to you and to her. When she said, “That’s it baby. Fuck me. I can’t wait to feel you cum inside me. I was thinking about this moment all night.” That speaks volumes about how good your wife is!

Third, David was a peculiar find. He knew his role and provided it. He was extremely confident, and apparently experienced. He seemed respectful to you while knowing he had to push your buttons some. He delivered for your wife to the point that you wished you had set a cutoff time.

Fourth, Trevor is another interesting twist. The whole rejection from the job position and consequential cold attitude toward you makes for a more complex dynamic. It's kind of strange to contemplate that he had thoughts of YOU while fucking your wife. That whole "I got you" vibe along with his slightly self assured personality confuses things. Surely, you've told your wife about your situation with Trevor but that didn't factor into your wife's choice to fuck Trevor.

What is the news regarding David being back in play? Looking forward to more of your posts. Thanks!

Seems that the game is definitely on again! I guess that's a good thing for both of you!

That update was hot, thanks for sharing. :-)

coastalkid wrote: Tue Jun 17, 2025 1:39 pm

spiral462 wrote: Tue Apr 01, 2025 1:28 am She really embraced the fantasy at first. We had some amazing adventures to be sure. She even took a lover on her semi-annual "girl's trip." But after a while, she decided that it wasn't for her and that was the end of it. I eventually stopped posting and my thread went dormant.

I definitely enjoyed your retelling of your journey. There are several things that stand out to me.

First, that she (and you) had amazing adventures but for her reasons, determined that it wasn't for her. Did she ever share specifically what her reasons were? It's also interesting that whatever her reasons were, she changed her mind and wanted it again. It makes me think how deeply ingrained the experience is for everyone involved. You wanted it bad enough to feel like you pushed too much. You missed it too but realized you were being counter productive to your desires.

Second (and maybe should be first in my interest), is that your wife never once seemed inconsiderate of you. It sounds like she knew reconnecting/reclaiming was important to you and to her. When she said, “That’s it baby. Fuck me. I can’t wait to feel you cum inside me. I was thinking about this moment all night.” That speaks volumes about how good your wife is!

Third, David was a peculiar find. He knew his role and provided it. He was extremely confident, and apparently experienced. He seemed respectful to you while knowing he had to push your buttons some. He delivered for your wife to the point that you wished you had set a cutoff time.

Fourth, Trevor is another interesting twist. The whole rejection from the job position and consequential cold attitude toward you makes for a more complex dynamic. It's kind of strange to contemplate that he had thoughts of YOU while fucking your wife. That whole "I got you" vibe along with his slightly self assured personality confuses things. Surely, you've told your wife about your situation with Trevor but that didn't factor into your wife's choice to fuck Trevor.

What is the news regarding David being back in play? Looking forward to more of your posts. Thanks!

Hey there coastalkid- thanks for reaching out.

There were significant developments we made with her relationship with Trevor.

First, she took the initiative, whereas before I was the one pushing (which seemed to always cause problems.) When she had decided not to continue with the “Hotwife” lifestyle, I made it clear she could still take any opportunity for extra-curricular sex. And with Trevor, opportunity presented itself.

My positive reaction gave her confidence to seek pleasure from other men, knowing she need not feel guilty and I wouldn’t throw it back in her face later. It gave her confidence in our relationship.

It also gave her loads (pun intended) of self confidence. Trevor is a good looking guy, years younger, fit, and he was really into her. They had hot, kinky, and fun sex together. And she got to tell me all about it while i worshipped her pussy at home. Everyone was a winner.

The professional rivalry between Trevor and I made my “cuck” perspective more clear to her. The embarrassment of knowing him was a turn on for me. There is a humiliation component to this which I’ve always found hot, but she really didn’t understand it. We got to play in this space with Trevor a bit. It was a big step for her, teasing me that his cock was bigger or that she’d swallow his cum and not mine. She could see how it gets me hot.

And yeah, she’s really sweet and considerate of me. We’re the couple that all our friends envy. We each think we hit the jackpot with each other, even after almost 30 years. Which is one of the reasons she initially had committed to stopping all together. She was worried about how the “Hotwife” lifestyle might change what is basically a rock solid relationship.

Which brings us to David.

I’ll drop a separate post regarding recent developments with him. We’ve been talking recently.

I have no doubt that they’ll fuck again soon.

Thank you Spiral for a wonderful post.

It is so good to see how you managed to support your Wife moving further into the cuckolding lifestyle through your devotion to Her, sharing the joys She had with Her lover while you have the privilege of licking Her pussy. In this way helping Her overcome Her fear that She might negatively impact your marriage through Her extramarital activities.

Now both of you are more confident in your marriage and your Wonderful Wife will be more able to let go completely and just enjoy the sex with Her bulls in full confidence that you really want this for Her.

Sincerely
elina
(submissive male)

coastalkid wrote: Tue Jun 17, 2025 1:39 pm

spiral462 wrote: Tue Apr 01, 2025 1:28 am She really embraced the fantasy at first. We had some amazing adventures to be sure. She even took a lover on her semi-annual "girl's trip." But after a while, she decided that it wasn't for her and that was the end of it. I eventually stopped posting and my thread went dormant.

I definitely enjoyed your retelling of your journey. There are several things that stand out to me.

First, that she (and you) had amazing adventures but for her reasons, determined that it wasn't for her. Did she ever share specifically what her reasons were? It's also interesting that whatever her reasons were, she changed her mind and wanted it again. It makes me think how deeply ingrained the experience is for everyone involved. You wanted it bad enough to feel like you pushed too much. You missed it too but realized you were being counter productive to your desires.

Second (and maybe should be first in my interest), is that your wife never once seemed inconsiderate of you. It sounds like she knew reconnecting/reclaiming was important to you and to her. When she said, “That’s it baby. Fuck me. I can’t wait to feel you cum inside me. I was thinking about this moment all night.” That speaks volumes about how good your wife is!

Third, David was a peculiar find. He knew his role and provided it. He was extremely confident, and apparently experienced. He seemed respectful to you while knowing he had to push your buttons some. He delivered for your wife to the point that you wished you had set a cutoff time.

Fourth, Trevor is another interesting twist. The whole rejection from the job position and consequential cold attitude toward you makes for a more complex dynamic. It's kind of strange to contemplate that he had thoughts of YOU while fucking your wife. That whole "I got you" vibe along with his slightly self assured personality confuses things. Surely, you've told your wife about your situation with Trevor but that didn't factor into your wife's choice to fuck Trevor.

What is the news regarding David being back in play? Looking forward to more of your posts. Thanks!

So, about David.

I am getting ahead of the story here, but he and Sarah have been talking on and off for a few months. It’s actually the reason I started posting again. She’s being coy about it, but I think a second tryst has become inevitable.

Even though our night with David was almost three years ago, it seems like he’s always been in the back of each of our minds when it comes to her extracurricular play.

It was so hot at the time. Which is why I was so confused that she soured on the experience afterwards.

She never could deny the sex was mind blowing. I have video evidence of her cries of ecstasy. Screams of carnal pleasure that I hadn’t heard before or since.

David would reach out thru a messaging app every few months or so. I’d tell Sarah, and be met with an eye roll. I eventually stopped responding altogether.

But an experience we shared on vacation last year seemed to change her mindset.

“Next time David reaches out, tell him “hello” from me,” she said one night, out of the blue. I of course responded to his most recent message later that night.

Before long we were talking on a 3 way group chat, with me mostly as a silent observer. The conversations between she and David, and she and myself were illuminating to say the least. The anonymity of chatting over an app, with someone we didn’t ever need to see again, helped us be vulnerable and have very open conversations.

Finally, I got her to open up about that night and the aftermath. I’m paraphrasing a summary of a few conversations.

First, she had her feelings hurt that he didn’t cum. When we first talked about this, I said he was probably so hopped up on viagra or whatever that he couldn’t get there.

She brought it up when they were texting recently. Turns out, he felt the same disappointment (she hadn’t cum either.)

She said she was too “in her head” to get there. “It’s different for women.” The standard answer, sure, but there were just too many factors in her head that night. She said she was “close” almost the whole night and really enjoyed the sex though. She was also holding back, knowing when she came, she was likely done and wanted him to finish, too.

His reasons for not cumming were a little different.

First, he said he never cums when he wears a condom. He got close when she was really deep throating him, but it just wasn’t in the cards that night. She agreed. After fucking for literally hours the condom did start to irritate her pussy.

Second, he said things have to get “really intense” for him to cum. I can’t imagine how things could have been “more intense” than their 3 hour fuck session, but ok.

She thought maybe he wasn’t into her because he didn’t go down on her.

“That’s your husband’s job.” was his reply. “I’m sure he was dying to eat you all night. He’s there to serve you. It’s part of it for him. You just need to give the word.”

Which really opened up a conversation about role play. Especially about hotwife/cuck dynamics. The night she fucked David was the first time she heard the term “bull.” And David was really just playing the part. She really didn’t understand that all the “suck that big cock” and me jerking off watching them was all part of my deeper fantasy.

It’s funny, i thought at the time our communication was so good. But looking back, had i been more honest about my desires we could have avoided literally years of confusion.

As far as she knew, i just wanted to watch my wife fuck another man. Which was true. But we didn’t really talk about the psychological part and how erotic it can be. She pushed back when he got too “alpha,” because she loves me and was defending me.

But that’s not what i wanted. i wanted her to tease me. i wanted him to belittle me. i wanted brutal honesty. How much bigger he is than me. How they fuck in positions i could never attempt. How she loves to deep throat his huge cock.

Honestly, when you’re in that situation, the sexual energy is like a drug. I really don’t know how far I’d be willing to go.