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Demanding bull
Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2025 5:05 pm
by Timewarner
Did any of you have a bull that was demanding over time? For example he would have you send her pics of her. Or even maybe an extreme of telling that you cant fuck her. Or even he become possessive of her
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2025 3:36 am
by Decman
Welcome to the forum.
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2025 5:20 am
by Barti
No!
In our relation my hotwife is 100% in charge.
She already dumped fuckers and bulls that were getting demanding. A bull is for sex. Otherwise... dump him.
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2025 9:14 am
by Cgb29
Her guys can be demanding to the extent that she wants them to be. They may be very dominant in bed, they may ask for certain things and she may provide those things, but fundamentally, she's the one in control, because she can kick them to the curb at any moment.
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2025 8:53 pm
by Mgcouplemn
If they tried we dumped them, I want to watch my wife fucking and masturbate, she wants me to watch. We are in this as partners and have fun.
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2025 4:11 am
by bradisalpha
Cgb29 wrote: ↑Sat Apr 12, 2025 9:14 am
Her guys can be demanding to the extent that she wants them to be. They may be very dominant in bed, they may ask for certain things and she may provide those things, but fundamentally, she's the one in control, because she can kick them to the curb at any moment.
Very true.. the wife does control the amount of “acceptable” demanding. However, presenting these demands in much less abusive and persistent ways has always provided me the same result. It would be to the bull’s best interest to educate himself on acceptable manners before approaching this lifestyle.
Just my thoughts…
Brad
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2025 4:37 am
by frank12
Ah yes, the ones who seem to learned how to be a "Bull" from watching porn videos. Those "hollywood fictional" scenes tend to leave out not only manners but also those essential understandings of what the wife and husband both want for themselves, for each other and for the overall relationship. Being demanding may be part of that at some moments but having a well-informed sense of when the moment calls for that is part of the pleasure.
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Sat Jun 14, 2025 11:11 am
by Tamilcuck
Timewarner wrote: ↑Fri Apr 11, 2025 5:05 pm
Did any of you have a bull that was demanding over time? For example he would have you send her pics of her. Or even maybe an extreme of telling that you cant fuck her. Or even he become possessive of her
Hi Tim. My wife's BF started v nice as a young guy of 20. Over the years he grew more bold and became more dominant. I did not mid as I loved to watch them.
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Sat Jun 14, 2025 11:15 am
by Tamilcuck
He became very aggressive along the way and did not allow me to watch certain sessions. I allowed it as I thought it was good since they were a couple. Is that wrong.
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Sat Jun 14, 2025 12:44 pm
by sconesy73
I think a lot of guys confuse being dominant with being rude and overbearing. My partner enjoys being dominated (not by me
) but in a way that's still respectful of her - and me to a certain extent.
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Sat Jun 14, 2025 1:05 pm
by Dream Weaver
frank12 wrote: ↑Sun Apr 13, 2025 4:37 am
Ah yes, the ones who seem to learned how to be a "Bull" from watching porn videos. Those "hollywood fictional" scenes tend to leave out not only manners but also those essential understandings of what the wife and husband both want for themselves, for each other and for the overall relationship. Being demanding may be part of that at some moments but having a well-informed sense of when the moment calls for that is part of the pleasure.
I’ve seen plenty of porn. Never really saw a demanding bull scene.
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Sat Jun 14, 2025 2:31 pm
by ferrisandrews
Everyone's take on this is different, for me I think a bull who grows more demanding is a natural part of the process, especially if he's proven himself and has gained our trust through consistency, reliability, etc. Bulls should have their own goals and milestones they are reaching for. If they can keep pace with the couple then I think they should push the couple's boundaries. Some bulls can become very exciting Doms and I would encourage men in that direction, if they so desire. As always they will need to communicate with the couple on what they are comfortable with, take baby steps, etc.
A great bull is gold, honestly. Once my wife finds a man she loves having sex with who is consistent and reliable, we give him quite a bit of leniency and latitude. Bulls are by nature temporary, whether we want them to be or not. If he wants to explore a deeper power exchange with us, we tend to lean into it.
Btw, losing sexual access to the wife, temporarily or permanently, is a common cuck fantasy. In practice temporary is probably best, imo. The idea is to lose control of how and when with the wife, not to lose access entirely. But to each their own.
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Sat Jun 14, 2025 7:34 pm
by Tamilcuck
Hi ferris. Yes the bf grew up with her as he was 20 when they met and is now 32. I like to give them their privacy so I do not mind. But the lovemaking is really sexy. So when I get the chance to watch iam very happy. Even after 12 years it is really wonderful to watch them.
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Sun Jun 15, 2025 12:56 am
by submissivedanny
My wife would never tolerate her boyfriend being demanding to her or me. She would never tolerate a boyfriend being mean to me. She would dump them immediately if they were mean or demanding to me.
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Sun Jun 15, 2025 3:37 am
by Ready2StartAgain
Timewarner wrote: ↑Fri Apr 11, 2025 5:05 pm
Did any of you have a bull that was demanding over time? For example he would have you send her pics of her. Or even maybe an extreme of telling that you cant fuck her. Or even he become possessive of her
Id love about bull like that!
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Sun Jun 15, 2025 3:37 am
by Ready2StartAgain
Timewarner wrote: ↑Fri Apr 11, 2025 5:05 pm
Did any of you have a bull that was demanding over time? For example he would have you send her pics of her. Or even maybe an extreme of telling that you cant fuck her. Or even he become possessive of her
Id love about bull like that! I had one cut me off PIV but that's about it. And would ask me to get them things while they fucked.
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Sun Jun 15, 2025 5:27 am
by DavaoMike
My wife Maricel’s boyfriend, Adam, isn’t demanding, as such. He’s very respectful of our marriage. However, over time, since I have a diminished libido (I am happy with sex about every 2-3 weeks, on average), he has basically filled the gap. Maricel and Adam make love about 3-4 times a week, sometimes more often, but I’m never denied. Adam does seem a bit possessive of Maricel, though it’s an unspoken possessiveness. He never complains on those somewhat rare occasions when I’m intimate with Maricel, but he doesn’t want to be present. He always leaves the room on those occasions. I speculate that he just doesn’t relish the thought of “his” girlfriend being sexual with another man, even though that “other man” is her husband. Still, he’s never demanding of Maricel in any way.
DM
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Mon Jun 16, 2025 7:53 pm
by Timewarner
DavaoMike wrote: ↑Sun Jun 15, 2025 5:27 am
My wife Maricel’s boyfriend, Adam, isn’t demanding, as such. He’s very respectful of our marriage. However, over time, since I have a diminished libido (I am happy with sex about every 2-3 weeks, on average), he has basically filled the gap. Maricel and Adam make love about 3-4 times a week, sometimes more often, but I’m never denied. Adam does seem a bit possessive of Maricel, though it’s an unspoken possessiveness. He never complains on those somewhat rare occasions when I’m intimate with Maricel, but he doesn’t want to be present. He always leaves the room on those occasions. I speculate that he just doesn’t relish the thought of “his” girlfriend being sexual with another man, even though that “other man” is her husband. Still, he’s never demanding of Maricel in any way.
DM
Oh thats hot. I remember when my hw only played oral with her boyfriend. I felt that was extremely hot cause it felt like I got to fuck his girlfri3nd and he couldn't. Kind of a reversal. But when they made love it pulled the cum right out of my cock. Watching her touch his face as he sank his bigger cock into her
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2025 8:47 am
by MartasBoy
The demanding bull we had once, was not operating out of porn scenarios. He just really was a masterful man, who seem to have some kind of incredible influence over my wife.
He expressed jealousy, in knowing that he had to share her with a husband. My wife just got very caught up in wanting to make him happy, so she volunteered that she would end sexual involvement with me, except for receiving massages and foot rubs, while they were dating. She just told me she didn't like making him feel bad, and needed to do this for him for a while.
My wife is a very strong feminist. She often talks about misogynistic men, and how much she hates that sort of thing. However, she seemed very easily influenced by him, and any demand he placed on her.
She catered to him quite a bit, something I have never seen her do for any other man. She would run to him pretty readily, whenever he called her up, desperate for a booty call from her. She would wear whatever he asked her to wear, even some things that she would normally refuse to wear, because she said they were slutty or demeaning.
He liked treating her like a cum slut at times and taking photos. I saw a few photos, where she had applied heavy eye makeup. He had written "cum slut" in lipstick across her chest and forehead. He had cum on her face to make her mascara and eyeliner run down her face everywhere.
When I asked her about it, and how it fit with her feminist values, she just laughed it off and said that it was something he was into, and she liked satisfying his fantasies.
I accompanied them once to a fourth of July picnic, with a bunch of his old college friends, in another town. They introduced me as her brother. She acted submissively girly, in a manner I have never seen her before. She wore cute shorts, platform sandals, and a crop top. She got a little drunk, and he was frequently grabbing her, and pulling her onto his lap, tickling her, and swatting her fanny. She was all giggly and girlish and accepted it all.
She fixed his plate of food at the picnic, and was fetching him beers the whole day. It was very different behavior for her. When I asked her later, what had brought such a change in behavior over her, she just laughed it off and said she was just having fun, and trying to act like his real girlfriend, in front of his friends.
He just seems to have some kind of strong influence over her, that makes her act in ways that seem very uncharacteristic for who she is normally.
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2025 12:08 am
by theothercuck
Timewarner wrote: ↑Fri Apr 11, 2025 5:05 pm
Did any of you have a bull that was demanding over time? For example he would have you send her pics of her. Or even maybe an extreme of telling that you cant fuck her. Or even he become possessive of her
No, I was an alpha male cuck. I didn't do any submission. I really don't understand it. There were a few guys that were disrespectful to me behind my back, privately to her, and she dropped them like a bad habit
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2025 12:50 am
by Ready2StartAgain
MartasBoy wrote: ↑Tue Jun 17, 2025 8:47 am
The demanding bull we had once, was not operating out of porn scenarios. He just really was a masterful man, who seem to have some kind of incredible influence over my wife.
He expressed jealousy, in knowing that he had to share her with a husband. My wife just got very caught up in wanting to make him happy, so she volunteered that she would end sexual involvement with me, except for receiving massages and foot rubs, while they were dating. She just told me she didn't like making him feel bad, and needed to do this for him for a while.
My wife is a very strong feminist. She often talks about misogynistic men, and how much she hates that sort of thing. However, she seemed very easily influenced by him, and any demand he placed on her.
She catered to him quite a bit, something I have never seen her do for any other man. She would run to him pretty readily, whenever he called her up, desperate for a booty call from her. She would wear whatever he asked her to wear, even some things that she would normally refuse to wear, because she said they were slutty or demeaning.
He liked treating her like a cum slut at times and taking photos. I saw a few photos, where she had applied heavy eye makeup. He had written "cum slut" in lipstick across her chest and forehead. He had cum on her face to make her mascara and eyeliner run down her face everywhere.
When I asked her about it, and how it fit with her feminist values, she just laughed it off and said that it was something he was into, and she liked satisfying his fantasies.
I accompanied them once to a fourth of July picnic, with a bunch of his old college friends, in another town. They introduced me as her brother. She acted submissively girly, in a manner I have never seen her before. She wore cute shorts, platform sandals, and a crop top. She got a little drunk, and he was frequently grabbing her, and pulling her onto his lap, tickling her, and swatting her fanny. She was all giggly and girlish and accepted it all.
She fixed his plate of food at the picnic, and was fetching him beers the whole day. It was very different behavior for her. When I asked her later, what had brought such a change in behavior over her, she just laughed it off and said she was just having fun, and trying to act like his real girlfriend, in front of his friends.
He just seems to have some kind of strong influence over her, that makes her act in ways that seem very uncharacteristic for who she is normally.
Martasboy that is normal when the bull is giving her amazing orgasms! He must be fucking her very good?! I could see a bull like that wanting you wearing panties or something.
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2025 12:56 am
by MartasBoy
Ready2StartAgain wrote: ↑Wed Jun 18, 2025 12:50 am
Martasboy that is normal when the bull is giving her amazing orgasms! He must be fucking her very good?! I could see a bull like that wanting you wearing panties or something.
Hmm, I don't know. She recently said that he may be moving back into our area and she'd like to start up with him again.
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2025 2:05 am
by Ready2StartAgain
MartasBoy wrote: ↑Wed Jun 18, 2025 12:56 am
Ready2StartAgain wrote: ↑Wed Jun 18, 2025 12:50 am
Martasboy that is normal when the bull is giving her amazing orgasms! He must be fucking her very good?! I could see a bull like that wanting you wearing panties or something.
Hmm, I don't know. She recently said that he may be moving back into our area and she'd like to start up with him again.
Oh well lucky you! Lucky him and her too! Look forward to stories!
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2025 9:26 am
by MartasBoy
Ready2StartAgain wrote: ↑Wed Jun 18, 2025 2:05 am
MartasBoy wrote: ↑Wed Jun 18, 2025 12:56 am
Ready2StartAgain wrote: ↑Wed Jun 18, 2025 12:50 am
Martasboy that is normal when the bull is giving her amazing orgasms! He must be fucking her very good?! I could see a bull like that wanting you wearing panties or something.
Hmm, I don't know. She recently said that he may be moving back into our area and she'd like to start up with him again.
Oh well lucky you! Lucky him and her too! Look forward to stories!
Yeah, lucky me, I guess. I find it a little unsettling. He has such a hold on her, that I have very little influence over her, or the entire situation. It leaves me feeling pretty helpless. It makes me a little nervous.
Re: Demanding bull
Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2025 3:51 pm
by Timewarner
Yeah, lucky me, I guess. I find it a little unsettling. He has such a hold on her, that I have very little influence over her, or the entire situation. It leaves me feeling pretty helpless. It makes me a little nervous.
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When is he coming back? Tell us what she said after hearing he was coming back.
) but in a way that's still respectful of her - and me to a certain extent.