Finally!!!!! After nearly 11 years, I am finally a cuck!

[realcucklife]

Look forward to seeing it
There plenty of people eager to read your experiences.
for me this page was very inspiring, you just have to skip the negative voices that do appear from time to time.

[mattyg_2671]

So sorry to hear that this may be your last post. Another poster is leaving the forum because of some folks who seem to demean and berate people trying to relate their experiences. Good luck and hope you find a good place to chat

Hey, I really appreciate that. You'd think sharing a common interest would unite people - but I've realised there are a good few on here I would never want anything to with ever.

Claiming some sort of superiority, and for what?? They're pathetic.

Thanks for continuing to post, I’m enjoying the developments and sorry I’ve not replied until now. It’s amazing how some people behave on here with assumptions, unsolicited advice, criticism etc. I’ve just been using the forum for myself, like a journal to get everything out, and maybe look back on my story in future on as a contemporaneous record. I hope you can look past the idiots.

[ohtobecucked]

RCL - thank you, I appreciate it. I maybe overreacted and I truly apologise, but I felt called out for no reason and this site has given me a lot of happiness this past few years - and especially now. Would hate to have that taken away.

I honestly don’t think I’d be near this point without the encouragement of this site and friends on others. 11 years is a long time! But now, there’s nothing I’d trade for it. Grateful to continue on.

[ohtobecucked]

Matty - thank you so much! Everyone has been so kind. Honestly this is a fantastic place mostly, no hard feelings from me.

My main goal and aim now is to carry on supporting my wife and looking forward to sorting a long-term / permanent cage as I approach my 40th

EDIT: I’ve just read some of your own thread - wonderful stuff. I truly wish that all men lose their sexual rights to the wife once married and at that point the bull takes over.

It’s a truly unmatched physical and mental sensation for me and one I would happily submit to with absolutely no qualms. I hope it is making you as happy as it has made me.

[mattyg_2671]

Unmatched certainly! It’s tough at times, the frustration and angst can be difficult! On cages, I had a small steel cage but it was quite heavy, and was unbearable after a few days. She wanted something for “long term use” so we’ve now got a Kink3D Cobra which is a lightweight 3D printed resin (in pink!) with an internal lock, it’s very comfortable apart from the 5am morning hard-ons. You just need to size it correctly, although it is quite expensive. She loves the look of it (makes her laugh) and she likes to have me show other people, my dick looks tiny and ridiculous in its little pink prison, especially compared to that big black cock last night.

How do you feel about “Permanent”? Does that literally mean no more orgasms forever or will she relent from time to time? Either way it sounds both scary and insanely hot at the same time, it will be a total mindfuck. Will she allow you one last big celebratory cum before she locks you up, like a death row inmate’s final meal?!

[ohtobecucked]

Unmatched certainly! It’s tough at times, the frustration and angst can be difficult! On cages, I had a small steel cage but it was quite heavy, and was unbearable after a few days. She wanted something for “long term use” so we’ve now got a Kink3D Cobra which is a lightweight 3D printed resin (in pink!) with an internal lock, it’s very comfortable apart from the 5am morning hard-ons. You just need to size it correctly, although it is quite expensive. She loves the look of it (makes her laugh) and she likes to have me show other people, my dick looks tiny and ridiculous in its little pink prison, especially compared to that big black cock last night.

How do you feel about “Permanent”? Does that literally mean no more orgasms forever or will she relent from time to time? Either way it sounds both scary and insanely hot at the same time, it will be a total mindfuck. Will she allow you one last big celebratory cum before she locks you up, like a death row inmate’s final meal?!

Haha! I like that death row meal shout!

Honestly, like everything else - if it became a real, REAL issue then yeah, we’d address it. Nobody is wanting to literally torture the other. But, give it absolutely everything and see where we end up? Yeah, cool .

I used to run ultramarathons regularly, I’m used to being uncomfortable . I’m honestly looking forward to seeing where it takes us.

[ohtobecucked]

So this past few days - for me at least! - have been big. My wife had met her now 'BF' for a few times this past week and she's been having a load of fun. If anyone remembers, I had asked her to see if there was any interest in becoming a 'proper' bull for us (IE to fuck me, make me suck cock, etc) but she had been wary to talk about it. Outside of the 'lifestyle' (which we are new to as a couple!) she is very much not one for discussing sexuality / cuckolding and all that goodstuff. Just the way she was brought up, I guess.

Ayway, I had begged her to at least ask and she finally plucked up the courage. Steve hasn't said an outright YES to anything yet, wants us to all meet for food / drinks and then to discuss. This is his first time in the lifestyle as well, and yeah, I'm sure he's loving absolutely fucking the brains out (her words :-)) of my wife, but there's other parts too.

So, he has said he'd be willing try to a lot of things if pushed and if there was no huge onus on him to do it from ourside.

And now, we have drinks in order to meet properly on Friday night, so hopefully it goes well. My one thing that's keeping me turned on above all and desperate that it works is that he knows I am very submissive and am happy to take multiple cocks at once if it is in service to the bull. Even though he is knew to the lifestyle, he definitely hasn't given any vibes to me make me think there is no long-term at all with this guy - in fact, the total opposite.

Hoping I at least get one time with his cock. He is smaller than me length wise but WAY bigger girth and I'd take that everyday.

[elina]

And now, we have drinks in order to meet properly on Friday night, so hopefully it goes well. My one thing that's keeping me turned on above all and desperate that it works is that he knows I am very submissive and am happy to take multiple cocks at once if it is in service to the bull. Even though he is knew to the lifestyle, he definitely hasn't given any vibes to me make me think there is no long-term at all with this guy - in fact, the total opposite.

Hoping I at least get one time with his cock. He is smaller than me length wise but WAY bigger girth and I'd take that everyday.

Probably a good time and idea to demonstrate your submissiveness, allow Your Wife to do most of the talking, remember to be supportive in what they say, and grab every opportunity to be of service to Your Wife and Her Lover.

Best of luck and hope you will update.

Sincerely
elina

[ohtobecucked]

Sat at home on a Saturday night, the last before I turn 40 and my wife is getting plowed by her BF while I watch censored porn but under strict instruction not to cum - and then from Monday (my 40th) I'm caged with no intention of me getting out.

And I wouldn't swap any of it for anything. I am so glad I found this lifestyle and even more glad I persevered and finally convinced her to act and to forget about me. Just everything I hoped for.

I'm so happy for her that she's now getting the fucking of her life every weekend. We have never had any issue in that department but when our daughter was born, my wife was very much 'no sex!' and that went on for a while. Over time I gradually introduced it (she was so angry at me that first week!!!!!) and now, 11 years later, she's staying at her boyfriend's - and I'm 2 days from perma-caging. So grateful to her for standing by me and seeing how much it went - but even more, I'm delighted for her (and her BF) and I can't wait to see where this takes us next.

[venus-can99]

Many (early) happy returns on your milestone birthday

[magnus]

I'm loving this thread and loving the dynamic for you, ohtobecucked. It sounds like you really love being submissive to your wife and I hope it works out for you that you get to submit to her bull as well.

It's slightly different than the cuckold dynamic I enjoy with my wife, but super hot none the less and I really enjoy reading about your adventure. Thanks for sharing.

[FunBull69]

I think you may feel the moniker justified now, but it seems you've been one for much longer. Congrats

[St4gC7ck]

wow! you really are a little sissy huh!! Congrats!! Making me hard thinking I could become this sissified with my hotgirlfriend. I do have feelings some days where I love the idea that I never get to fuck her ever again. It's been 1 year so far, but no bull. Just a complex thing we are in now but yeah!

[elina]

Dear ohtobecucked

Thank you so much for updating.

Wonderful to see how you are progressing and looking forward to hear from you once you have been locked.

I didn't see an update on your Friday night dinner with your Wife, now alsoCuckoldress, and Her Bull but I assume this must have gone well given that the next weekend you are alone while Your Cuckoldress is enjoying Herself with Her Bull and you are waiting to be locked up today?

Sincere regards
elina
(Now chaste and locked for more than a month)