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what do i do when the husband has changed mind mid session?

Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2025 1:41 am
by RandomCock2
i have been a bull for quite a few years and its always one couple introducing another one ,
i had hardly needed to connect to other people through online.

but recently i met a couple through reddit and what a disaster it was.

the date was nice , i went to their apartment and made out,
but when we started having sex , husband came in his pants and immediately changed his mind.

he started shouting for us to stop ,
I'm never into cheating just so that i dont have to face uncomfortable situation like this , so even kn a cuckold environment, a behavior like this threw me off.

bt the wife leglocked me and kept staring at him dead in the eye and started thrusting herself.

i had 1/4th the time of my usual sessions , just waiting for the wife to cum and then i bolted .

i just hope to never have this uncomfortable situation again .

so what do you actually do in this situation?
I'm happy im not in usa otherwise there would be even risk of shooting i suppose.
has any one faced this?

Re: what do i do when the husband has changed mind mid session?

Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2025 6:38 am
by Teensy1
Always do what the wife wants. The cuck has no say. If he’s uncomfortable watching you pound her he can stay home as I do and masturbate.

Re: what do i do when the husband has changed mind mid session?

Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2025 7:43 am
by Tryagain
I would like to know - as others here i am sure - how long did you continue to fuck her after he said to stop? 2 minutes? 10 minutes? Did he remain in the room? Did he say or do anything else? What did she say after you finished?

And you kept your erection even through the anger by her husband? Impressive...

And what do you think caused him to want to stop? Was she screaming or moaning? Was you cock much bigger than his?

Re: what do i do when the husband has changed mind mid session?

Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2025 9:26 am
by Cdncuck
Teensy1 wrote:
Sun Apr 27, 2025 6:38 am
Always do what the wife wants. The cuck has no say. If he’s uncomfortable watching you pound her he can stay home as I do and masturbate.
Not all relationships work that. The cardinal rule is no means no. If the husband or wife wants it to end, then end it and get out. The couple have to sort out their issues. I don't think anyone wants to be caught up in a disagreement between husband and wife.

Just because the husband doesn't have a gun doesn't mean things can't get very ugly if the extra man doesn't leave. It's unfortunate but things like that happen sometimes.

Re: what do i do when the husband has changed mind mid session?

Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2025 3:47 am
by RandomCock2
Tryagain wrote:
Sun Apr 27, 2025 7:43 am
I would like to know - as others here i am sure - how long did you continue to fuck her after he said to stop? 2 minutes? 10 minutes? Did he remain in the room? Did he say or do anything else? What did she say after you finished?

And you kept your erection even through the anger by her husband? Impressive...

And what do you think caused him to want to stop? Was she screaming or moaning? Was you cock much bigger than his?
I did for about 6/7 mote minutes . He remained in the room. Like he shouted for a minute then started mumbling.then pacing around and still looking at us . Her wife felt regretful and told me that i can stay ,he isnt gonna go against her . Bt i felt the situation was too messy.

I was about to lose my erection bt the wife leglocking me and gyrating her pussy really sealed the deal.

I think its just the old PNC making him lose his mind, she was definitely moaning..but animalistically . To put things in perspective..my soft cock was bigger than his

He called me last night but i didnt accept .
I dont want anything to do with this situation

Re: what do i do when the husband has changed mind mid session?

Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2025 3:50 am
by RandomCock2
Cdncuck wrote:
Sun Apr 27, 2025 9:26 am
Teensy1 wrote:
Sun Apr 27, 2025 6:38 am
Always do what the wife wants. The cuck has no say. If he’s uncomfortable watching you pound her he can stay home as I do and masturbate.
Not all relationships work that. The cardinal rule is no means no. If the husband or wife wants it to end, then end it and get out. The couple have to sort out their issues. I don't think anyone wants to be caught up in a disagreement between husband and wife.

Just because the husband doesn't have a gun doesn't mean things can't get very ugly if the extra man doesn't leave. It's unfortunate but things like that happen sometimes.
You're absolutely right... Any one who loses their shit is scary . On retrospection, i should have stopped there and then . I made a mistake cause all of the blood thats supposed to be in my brain were somewhere else

Re: what do i do when the husband has changed mind mid session?

Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2025 4:05 am
by Filou
Cdncuck wrote:
Sun Apr 27, 2025 9:26 am
Teensy1 wrote:
Sun Apr 27, 2025 6:38 am
Always do what the wife wants. The cuck has no say. If he’s uncomfortable watching you pound her he can stay home as I do and masturbate.
Not all relationships work that. [...]
No reasonable relationship works that way ! And I agree: "No" means "No" - even from a sub / cuckold - and any further actions will get things more complicated - maybe for you as well.

To give an example from my past: Quite some time ago in between two relationships I also met a girl online. At some point she came over to my place, we talked and also agreed to safewords. The date / session did not go well that for several reasons. At some point I called code yellow, but when she did not react and still went on. When I realized that I called code red and still no reaction. When I finally was beeing able to act on my own again I put an end to it and threw her out of my house in her underwear. Some minutes later a guy insisted on her behalf and I just bade him to call the cops if she dared. Cops never came...

I do not know where you are, but there are more possible consequences than beeing shot. If he owns that place in the US you propably could go to prison for criminal trespass. At my place there would not be any legal actions against you possible (somewhat strange in regard to some other laws we have over here), but that still does not make it right in a moral manner.

The moral and ethical question is for you to decide and it seems that you chose to go on...

Re: what do i do when the husband has changed mind mid session?

Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2025 12:17 pm
by ticklemang
Should get him tied to a char and/or locked in chastity. Either of which will stop the PNC

Re: what do i do when the husband has changed mind mid session?

Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2025 12:38 pm
by Goodhornyprof
I’m kinda surprised this is even a question…

If asked to stop you stop. Being a bull is fun and all, but you do have a responsibility to protect their relationship, or at the very least do no harm to it. It is something that can happen with new couples, and it’s why I try to talk a lot to a husband before playing (especially for a first time). It’s one of the reasons why I like to use the yellow light / red light safe word style. Red is a hard stop, yellow is a “this is a lot right now and I need a second to get back to the right head space.” It sucks that you had that experience, but learn from it.

Re: what do i do when the husband has changed mind mid session?

Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2025 1:46 am
by surry
The man at first will feel all these emotions. Then afterward he will want to have it happen again. But sometimes the man may realize it is a mistake. Having a code word is great. Politely talking to them to decide what is happening. Then have them call you when they are ready. Taking it slower and building a relationship where you are just kissing while the husband is there. Sometimes that's all that will happen. But sometimes the husband will let you know they are ready.

Re: what do i do when the husband has changed mind mid session?

Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2025 2:15 am
by SmallTownGuy
I think the sex should never happen if anyone participating is not willing to. And in this case I also think the cuck/stag/hubby is one of the participants. Not juridically, but emotionally and ethically.

The whole cuck/stag/hotwife/vixen thing is based on the holy trinity of the cuck/stag, vixen/hotwife and bull/lover. Though in many cases the role of the cuck is somewhat sub, I think it should be clear to everyone has he right to veto.

Re: what do i do when the husband has changed mind mid session?

Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2025 2:17 am
by SmallTownGuy
I think the sex should never happen if anyone participating is not willing to. And in this case I also think the cuck/stag/hubby is one of the participants. Not juridically, but emotionally and ethically.

The whole cuck/stag/hotwife/vixen thing is based on the holy trinity of the cuck/stag, vixen/hotwife and bull/lover. Though in many cases the role of the cuck is somewhat sub, I think it should be clear to everyone has he right to veto.

Re: what do i do when the husband has changed mind mid session?

Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2025 5:14 am
by Wife4Guys
Dopamine crash, Prolactin rush

Hormone induced Dr Jekyll to Mr Hyde

Exit (quickly)