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Chastity cage recommendations
Posted: Fri May 23, 2025 1:50 am
by ohtobecucked
Hi all,
Having been a cuck for a month now, but 11 years into PF, I asked my wife if I could go perma-caged for my birthday next month. It's something I've thought about a LOT over the years and it's time to crack on!
I'm above average length at 7.5" so it needs to be ok for that. I'd love to try the flat ones, but I guess theyre only for short use? Shame because they're gorgeous looking little things.
Any help / advice / recommndations welcomed!
Re: Chastity cage recommendations
Posted: Fri May 23, 2025 6:44 am
by PANTIES
My mother in law measured me for a jail bird cage. IT’s custom made and I wear it 24/7/365. She keeps the key because she doesn’t want me to gave sex with her daughter only my wife’s lover gets to have her. I have worn my cage for three years. My cage had become part of me.
Also uses pantie shields in my panties to hid the lump. I really enjoy buying my pantie shields especially when I have to ask the clerk where are the panty shields.
sissy pauline
Re: Chastity cage recommendations
Posted: Fri May 23, 2025 6:46 am
by ohtobecucked
I’ll give it a look


Re: Chastity cage recommendations
Posted: Fri May 23, 2025 6:50 am
by ohtobecucked
PANTIES wrote: ↑Fri May 23, 2025 6:44 am
My mother in law measured me for a jail bird cage. IT’s custom made and I wear it 24/7/365. She keeps the key because she doesn’t want me to gave sex with her daughter only my wife’s lover gets to have her. I have worn my cage for three years. My cage had become part of me.
Also uses pantie shields in my panties to hid the lump. I really enjoy buying my pantie shields especially when I have to ask the clerk where are the panty shields.
sissy pauline
How long have you been locked now?
Re: Chastity cage recommendations
Posted: Fri May 23, 2025 6:55 am
by PANTIES
ohtobecucked wrote: ↑Fri May 23, 2025 6:50 am
PANTIES wrote: ↑Fri May 23, 2025 6:44 am
My mother in law measured me for a jail bird cage. IT’s custom made and I wear it 24/7/365. She keeps the key because she doesn’t want me to gave sex with her daughter only my wife’s lover gets to have her. I have worn my cage for three years. My cage had become part of me.
Also uses pantie shields in my panties to hid the lump. I really enjoy buying my pantie shields especially when I have to ask the clerk where are the panty shields.
sissy pauline
How long have you been locked now?
Just since December 2019. it was my wife’s lover who initially wanted me cage because he had become the man in her life. He purchased one however it was too big. My MIL liked the idea, she measured me, paid for my cage, locked me and she maintains the key. It took several months to get used to wearing however now it’s become part of me.
Sissy pauline
Re: Chastity cage recommendations
Posted: Fri May 23, 2025 7:02 am
by ohtobecucked
Amazing! That’s the dream…

Re: Chastity cage recommendations
Posted: Fri May 23, 2025 8:18 am
by ohtobecucked
PANTIES wrote: ↑Fri May 23, 2025 6:55 am
ohtobecucked wrote: ↑Fri May 23, 2025 6:50 am
PANTIES wrote: ↑Fri May 23, 2025 6:44 am
My mother in law measured me for a jail bird cage. IT’s custom made and I wear it 24/7/365. She keeps the key because she doesn’t want me to gave sex with her daughter only my wife’s lover gets to have her. I have worn my cage for three years. My cage had become part of me.
Also uses pantie shields in my panties to hid the lump. I really enjoy buying my pantie shields especially when I have to ask the clerk where are the panty shields.
sissy pauline
How long have you been locked now?
Just since December 2019. it was my wife’s lover who initially wanted me cage because he had become the man in her life. He purchased one however it was too big. My MIL liked the idea, she measured me, paid for my cage, locked me and she maintains the key. It took several months to get used to wearing however now it’s become part of me.
Sissy pauline
Have you seen / heard if the super flat ones would be ok up to 7.5” at all?
Re: Chastity cage recommendations
Posted: Fri May 23, 2025 8:42 am
by KHRunner
My suggestion is to not fixate on your size when erect. You probably want something between 1¾ to 2½" long.
Look up how to measure on the Mature Metal, Kink3d, and Ternence websites. You will probably over estimate the length you need. Smaller is better, even if you're 7.5". The more space to grow, the worse the experience will be and you'll end up regretting the purchase. You want to be stuffed in there so there's no movement.
I suggest you buy a $20-30 metal cage on Amazon (likely the Terence brand). Skip the plastic, they split in time and skip the custom for now. Get used to wearing it and figuring out what size will or will not work for you. You don't want to drop money on custom and realize it doesn't fit.
Then once you can wear it for 2+ weeks without issues, look into the Jailbird or Kink3d.
A flat cage would be fine, but not for your first cage.
Re: Chastity cage recommendations
Posted: Fri May 23, 2025 8:52 am
by PANTIES
I have no issues with my current cage, because of penis shrinkage I need a small cock cage. Wearing my cage 24/7/365 has become second nature. It took several weeks to be accustomed to my cage, now I want it all the time. MIL maintains control of the key. She keeps it on her bracelet.
sissy pauline
Re: Chastity cage recommendations
Posted: Fri May 23, 2025 9:01 am
by ohtobecucked
KHRunner wrote: ↑Fri May 23, 2025 8:42 am
My suggestion is to not fixate on your size when erect. You probably want something between 1¾ to 2½" long.
Look up how to measure on the Mature Metal, Kink3d, and Ternence websites. You will probably over estimate the length you need. Smaller is better, even if you're 7.5". The more space to grow, the worse the experience will be and you'll end up regretting the purchase. You want to be stuffed in there so there's no movement.
I suggest you buy a $20-30 metal cage on Amazon (likely the Terence brand). Skip the plastic, they split in time and skip the custom for now. Get used to wearing it and figuring out what size will or will not work for you. You don't want to drop money on custom and realize it doesn't fit.
Then once you can wear it for 2+ weeks without issues, look into the Jailbird or Kink3d.
A flat cage would be fine, but not for your first cage.
Thank you! Great advice, I'll definitely look it up.
Comfort important for sure, because I'm not planning to take it off (bar cleaning) from now on.
Thank you both x