Dealing with jealousy.

[SecretHusband]

Out of curiosity, are there any husbands out there that got really jealous about the guy that their wife wanted to sleep with? Like, you are ok with the idea of your wife fucking someone else, you just didn’t want it to be him? Just curious if anyone had a good story.

[sana9889]

I get jealous of my bf having sex with other girls.
Including his wife- though I know they are doing this on purpsose.

[Tamilcuck]

Hello. My wife has been with her bf for a long time. I am never jealous as he is able to have good sex with her which u cannot provide. Watching their lovemaking is beautiful.

I am proud when I see the 2 of them very happy with each other as they are like a proper couple. Her bf is a good guy with a very big penis who takes care of her well.

[Tamilcuck]

Hello. I wanted to add that if you are jealous, it is probably normal. As i think back to the first night my wife was with her first bull and all their fucking sessions, I remember while I was excited. I was also nervous as I did not know what to expect. I could hear her enjoyment but my worry was also if the bull would be a good guy and if my wife would like him. Also if she would stop loving me.

These are normal feelings so do not worry so much.

[Gmor]

In my first true cuckolding experience I had moments of extreme jealousy. But this isn’t surprising as it started off as infidelity with her cheating on me.

This eventually evolved to her requesting (and then insisting) on us having an ‘open relationship’. I went along at first because this excited me but also I realized that this was a decision she was unilaterally making for us. I had no choice if I wanted to stay together.

I then had to battle my extreme excitement of her cuckolding me vs my jealously and humiliation of her affairs. It also created or acted as a catalyst of a huge part of my cuckolding fantasy which is penis size. I’m smaller than average (length and girth) and this ex girlfriend essentially became a ‘size queen’ after her first affair with a hugely endowed man. After this it became a condition precedent for her affair partners to be huge.

I’m just a wannabe with my current wife but she too is what I would describe as a size queen. Our sex life has always been poor which I learned over time was because of her dissatisfaction with my size. She had become very experienced with a well hung long term ex boyfriend as well as one hugely endowed affair partner (although she will say this transgression occurred while we were separated).

[Tamilcuck]

Size i think is v important to a wife. When my wife had her first bull and theor relationship ended in 2 months when he had to go overseas. She was so worried she would not be able to find someone as he must have a big penis. Since that was like the first proper sex she had, she associated good sex with a big penis.

Lucky her bf is big so she stopped looking.

[Dutch cuckold]

I use to have some kind of veto right that if I definitely didn't like the guy she would stop seeing him and this happened a couple of times cause she was dating assholes. Lately she is still into manly men but they got to be kinda nice guys so I didn't feel the need to protest about who she is dating for a long time.

On the other hand i don't think she would really care what i think anymore, if she wants to date someone she will. I probably remain the right to be uncomfortable with and refuse a certain type of guy coming to our house, although that right is probably fading also among other things.

[Tamilcuck]

Hi Dutch cuckcold. Your wife needs to know that you are just watching out for her so sometimes you veto. I hope she understands that.

However if she finds someone whe is really into who makes her feel good and she is happy, we must also go along with it as it is the natural order I feel. Is she happy with her current guy?

[Cdncuck]

I've read a lot of posts about jealousy but have never experienced it.

[surry]

It depends. If we talk about it beforehand, and I like the guy. Her cuckolding me vs my jealousy can be difficult. For example, when we were first married, she and the landlord, I was involved from the beginning. My best Friend and I loved it. I loved her cuckolding me. I did not have to be there, but watching was nice. When she met with someone she used to work with, I felt very jealous but couldn't say anything. The guy never liked me and wanted her to move in with him.
One time, I discovered that she and her black boss were planning for her to leave me, and I was very upset. We worked out where she has her freedom, and he knows it. She told him she was staying with me. Because of their work rule, I'm OK with our home and his home being used as a sex place. The three of us will hang out as friends.

[Dutch cuckold]

Hi Dutch cuckcold. Your wife needs to know that you are just watching out for her so sometimes you veto. I hope she understands that.

However if she finds someone whe is really into who makes her feel good and she is happy, we must also go along with it as it is the natural order I feel. Is she happy with her current guy?

Hi Tamilcuck, she is dating but nothing steady at the moment. She's in love wit a coworker and he's in love with her but that's not moving forward and nothing has happened.

Sometimes when I used a veto i was pretty intimidated by the guy his presence, I'm less jealous now than when we started out in the lifestyle. If she would really be in danger i could definitely stop her from pursuing this particular guy.

The love for the coworker is something I definitely can't stop, but he is a pretty normal person.

[Tamilcuck]

Hi Dutch cuckcold. Your wife needs to know that you are just watching out for her so sometimes you veto. I hope she understands that.

However if she finds someone whe is really into who makes her feel good and she is happy, we must also go along with it as it is the natural order I feel. Is she happy with her current guy?

Hi Tamilcuck, she is dating but nothing steady at the moment. She's in love wit a coworker and he's in love with her but that's not moving forward and nothing has happened.

Sometimes when I used a veto i was pretty intimidated by the guy his presence, I'm less jealous now than when we started out in the lifestyle. If she would really be in danger i could definitely stop her from pursuing this particular guy.

The love for the coworker is something I definitely can't stop, but he is a pretty normal person.

Yes the veto is important. When my wife was searching for her a bf, I did veto a few guys. 1 veto she did not like and still met the guy. She said the sex was good but too rough for her. When she came back she had love bites on her neck and all over her breasts. It was very disturbing for her and she did not go against my veto after that till she met her current bf.

The love factor is good. Maybe it will grow and they will sleep with each other.

[Dutch cuckold]

Hi Dutch cuckcold. Your wife needs to know that you are just watching out for her so sometimes you veto. I hope she understands that.

However if she finds someone whe is really into who makes her feel good and she is happy, we must also go along with it as it is the natural order I feel. Is she happy with her current guy?

Hi Tamilcuck, she is dating but nothing steady at the moment. She's in love wit a coworker and he's in love with her but that's not moving forward and nothing has happened.

Sometimes when I used a veto i was pretty intimidated by the guy his presence, I'm less jealous now than when we started out in the lifestyle. If she would really be in danger i could definitely stop her from pursuing this particular guy.

The love for the coworker is something I definitely can't stop, but he is a pretty normal person.

Yes the veto is important. When my wife was searching for her a bf, I did veto a few guys. 1 veto she did not like and still met the guy. She said the sex was good but too rough for her. When she came back she had love bites on her neck and all over her breasts. It was very disturbing for her and she did not go against my veto after that till she met her current bf.

The love factor is good. Maybe it will grow and they will sleep with each other.

I know what you mean, and you are right. My wife had a boyfriend couple years back which used to take her a bit to rough. She came home with bitemarks en bruises. I told her this is where I draw the line and I will have non of that. She needs to come home fully intact mentally and physically. After we talked she agreed and she stopped seeing him.

The love factor between her and her coworker is deep and intense although nothing has happened accept for a hug. Its been going on for at least two years now. It's forbidden because of their careers and also he has a wife that doesn't want an open marriage. Couple of times she told me she really loves him what makes me incredibly jealous and makes my dick incredibly hard, even more so than when she's having sex with a boyfriend she's not in love with.

I have new hopes about this one. They are going for drinks and a serious talk next monday.