My first time PF. What is your experience?

[Dutch cuckold]

It's been five months now for me and this is the first time in this or any relationship that I am not allowed to fuck my wife.

The wife is doing great, she feels incredibly confident and powerful. It's a big change for her and I didn't expected that.

I love seeing her this way. She humiliates me more and plays mind games by telling me her desires and telling her men i am no longer allowed to fuck her.

It is a big turn on for me what makes it all the more frustrating. I feel moody and irritated sometimes even aggressive.

How did you guys started out being PF?
Did you feel frustrated and if so how did you deal with it?
Did it change your wife's attitude when you stopped fucking her?

[ucaneffher]

My first and only time PF was for a total of 8 months while her boyfriend and other fuck buddies had the time of their life with her. In those 8 months she had sex just about every day. I was also moody and just short of begging for sloppy seconds for the first 4 to 5 months until I accepted that all I could do was masturbate to her getting ready to go out every night. Once day after in months he finally let me have her and she felt so different!

Before being in the lifestyle Typically whenever we did not have sex during her time of the month, she always felt super tight and that's sort of what I was expecting after me not having sex for 8 months but it was one hell of an awakening when I slipped inside with zero effort. She of course laughed and said that it was me not getting laid but she was getting laid every day and of course she was going to feel wider than normal.

I was glad to finally get some but a part of me wanted to see how long I could handle being denied while her boyfriend and 2-3 other regulars were keeping her satisfied nightly.

Just hang in there!

[Ready2StartAgain]

I started out PF with my ex because I later found out her BF was coaching her not to fuck me anymore. She just stopped fucking me, would make up excuses like she was tired to not fuck me. Then one day I overheard her BF and her talking and giggling how she was only fucking him now. I didn't like it because it seemed shady to me and this lifestyle requires trust. But I was immensely turned on and still jerk off when I think of it sometimes.

[Barti]

I am 10 months pussy free.
She fucks lots of men at home (3 bare bulls come over often. Lots of tinder dates also, in clubs, .... )

[Angsty Cuck]

How did it come about for you? Did she inform you you were now pussy free or did you guys decide it together? Do you think she’ll fuck you in the future?

[Dutch cuckold]

Hi angsty cuck,

It started at the beginning of our relationship, one of the first things times we had sex she told me she "actually likes big thick dicks better", as a posed to the pencil shape I have. This made her not a big fan of sucking mine so this never happened a lot. Her dates were and are usually better endowed and she loves sucking them.

A couple years back this fact started out to be a fun thing to mention in the bedroom. Regularly she or I were mentioning she hardly ever sucks mine even though she loves sucking cock. This both turns us on. I love eating her ass while she satisfies her self with a toy and after she orgasms she is not always in the mood for me to fuck her so this also was happening less and less.

About five months ago she told me it was only logical for us to stop fucking. This mind game turns us both on so I agreed. I know if I insist I could fuck her probably every now and again, but she is acting sexy and self confident since we stopped having sex so i wanna keep her in this flow.

Problem is I'm very frustrated and I'm hoping the experience of you guys can help me continue.

[Angsty Cuck]

Does she know how frustrated you are? Does she ever talk about letting you fuck her again?

[ohtobecucked]

11 years here, wouldn’t change it for anything! I’d be so annoyed at myself if I had to reset the clock, so I’m hoping to stay PF forever at this point.

[Jezza2543]

I started out PF with my ex because I later found out her BF was coaching her not to fuck me anymore. She just stopped fucking me, would make up excuses like she was tired to not fuck me. Then one day I overheard her BF and her talking and giggling how she was only fucking him now. I didn't like it because it seemed shady to me and this lifestyle requires trust. But I was immensely turned on and still jerk off when I think of it sometimes.

Is that how she became your ex or is that a different story? Is she still with him?

[elina]

Does she know how frustrated you are? Does she ever talk about letting you fuck her again?

Does She actively tease you and then deny you to drive up your frustrations and longing for Her?
Would you like to encourage Her to do this?
I really hope this incredibly Sexy Lady makes you eat Her pussy even more now that you are not alloved to fuck Her.

Sincerely
elina

[Dutch cuckold]

Yes she knows how frustrated I am, she says she really enjoys me being frustrated, makes her feel powerful.

She actively teases me constantly, she has taken a real pleasure in doing so. We cuddled in bed this morning and I was allowed to ride my dick against her leg while she told me that I'm lucky for that, and that is going to be all i am getting in the foreseeable future.

She has a bf coming to our house tonight and she told me i can shave her pussy and lick her ass while she's preparing for her date. She also made it clear that i am not allowed to fuck her after he leaves.

She knows this turns me on and drives me crazy at the same time. I thank her constantly for everything that I am allowed to do and tell her I really look up to her and admire her. She replies by telling me I should. the way she behaves since i am pussy free is incredibly confident and sexy, wearing high heels in the house almost every day and stuff like that just to drive me crazy.

I am very happy with all of this but could really use some advice from you guys about how to deal with the frustrated feelings i am having.

[elina]

Yes she knows how frustrated I am, she says she really enjoys me being frustrated, makes her feel powerful.

She actively teases me constantly, she has taken a real pleasure in doing so. We cuddled in bed this morning and I was allowed to ride my dick against her leg while she told me that I'm lucky for that, and that is going to be all i am getting in the foreseeable future.

She has a bf coming to our house tonight and she told me i can shave her pussy and lick her ass while she's preparing for her date. She also made it clear that i am not allowed to fuck her after he leaves.

She knows this turns me on and drives me crazy at the same time. I thank her constantly for everything that I am allowed to do and tell her I really look up to her and admire her. She replies by telling me I should. the way she behaves since i am pussy free is incredibly confident and sexy, wearing high heels in the house almost every day and stuff like that just to drive me crazy.

I am very happy with all of this but could really use some advice from you guys about how to deal with the frustrated feelings i am having.

Thanks,

Sounds like Your Wife, slowly transforming into a Cuckoldress? truly knows how to string you along.

My only advice on how to deal with the frustrated feelings is to try to channel the energy into pleasing Her. What can you do to make Her cuddle your head, how can you lick Her with enthusiasm every time She allows it. Try to anticipate Her desires and make an effort to please Her in the hope that She will recognize this.

Good luck
sincerely
elina

[Angsty Cuck]

As someone who ruined his cuckold relationship because of my frustration and jealousy, making her the center of my “sexual universe” would have helped a lot. I would make it my goal for her to get everything she wants.

[Cdncuck]

It's been five months now for me and this is the first time in this or any relationship that I am not allowed to fuck my wife.

The wife is doing great, she feels incredibly confident and powerful. It's a big change for her and I didn't expected that.

It affected my wife in a similar way. Taking me pussy free and caging me gave her a real sense of her own sexual power. It also made her more confident in her every day life.

I love seeing her this way. She humiliates me more and plays mind games by telling me her desires and telling her men i am no longer allowed to fuck her.

Again, very similar experience. My wife teased me more and humiliated me more. She just became meaner and more aggressive with me.

It is a big turn on for me what makes it all the more frustrating. I feel moody and irritated sometimes even aggressive.

You're right. Huge turn on. What I find is I get moody and anxious if she's not getting enough cock. Don't feel aggressive though.

How did you guys started out being PF?
Did you feel frustrated and if so how did you deal with it?

The idea of making me pussy free didn't come up until her body count started to really go up. The more cock she got, the less she wanted to fuck me. Understandable. I have a smallish cock and I am definitely a cuckold so understood where she was coming from.

Still, it was frustrating. My absolute favorite thing ever was sloppy seconds. That's followed very closely by my second favorite thing, cream pie. Just because I understood why she took me pussy free didn't make it any easier to accept.

I tried not to be resentful and bitchy about it but it took me a few months to completely accept. Knowing how important sloppy seconds is to me, she made a couple of compromises. I can't penetrate her anymore but she is willing to put me on my back and rub her cum-filled cunt all over my cock and balls as she tells me how good the sex was and cock shaming me. It's not sloppy seconds exactly but I have come to enjoy it.

Did it change your wife's attitude when you stopped fucking her?

Yes. It absolutely changed her attitude.
She has more confidence in her every day life at work and with her friends, not just in the bedroom.
She seems generally happier.

We still enjoy sex with each other but it's very different. I don't penetrate of course. However, we
both enjoy her humiliating me and me eating cream pie. It seems we are more intimate with each other. There's more cuddling and holding.

She doesn't engage in intimacy with her other men. That's reserved for us but she has emasculated me and doesn't see me as male the same way she sees other men. It's difficult to describe but apparently seeing me as less male makes sharing intimacy with me easier. She didn't feel that way when I was "one of the boys".

Our situation is certainly out of the ordinary but it works for us. I've come to enjoy things being this way as opposed how we were before.

[Ready2StartAgain]

I started out PF with my ex because I later found out her BF was coaching her not to fuck me anymore. She just stopped fucking me, would make up excuses like she was tired to not fuck me. Then one day I overheard her BF and her talking and giggling how she was only fucking him now. I didn't like it because it seemed shady to me and this lifestyle requires trust. But I was immensely turned on and still jerk off when I think of it sometimes.

Is that how she became your ex or is that a different story? Is she still with him?

Sadly, that is how she became my ex. Idlike her to become my next too! And pickup where we left off! Just with clear minds now with better communication. Shes not with him as she's with someone else. But possibly she's still fucking him. The guy really gave it to her good!

[SubSnuggler]

I think if you were allowed to masturbate or she frequently (daily) gave you hand jobs it would be easier. If you are locked and only given an orgasm once a month or so (and that one usually ruined) it makes it a lot harder. Being pussyfree is easier than being orgasm free.

[Dutch cuckold]

It's been five months now for me and this is the first time in this or any relationship that I am not allowed to fuck my wife.

The wife is doing great, she feels incredibly confident and powerful. It's a big change for her and I didn't expected that.

It affected my wife in a similar way. Taking me pussy free and caging me gave her a real sense of her own sexual power. It also made her more confident in her every day life.

I love seeing her this way. She humiliates me more and plays mind games by telling me her desires and telling her men i am no longer allowed to fuck her.

Again, very similar experience. My wife teased me more and humiliated me more. She just became meaner and more aggressive with me.

It is a big turn on for me what makes it all the more frustrating. I feel moody and irritated sometimes even aggressive.

You're right. Huge turn on. What I find is I get moody and anxious if she's not getting enough cock. Don't feel aggressive though.

How did you guys started out being PF?
Did you feel frustrated and if so how did you deal with it?

The idea of making me pussy free didn't come up until her body count started to really go up. The more cock she got, the less she wanted to fuck me. Understandable. I have a smallish cock and I am definitely a cuckold so understood where she was coming from.

Still, it was frustrating. My absolute favorite thing ever was sloppy seconds. That's followed very closely by my second favorite thing, cream pie. Just because I understood why she took me pussy free didn't make it any easier to accept.

I tried not to be resentful and bitchy about it but it took me a few months to completely accept. Knowing how important sloppy seconds is to me, she made a couple of compromises. I can't penetrate her anymore but she is willing to put me on my back and rub her cum-filled cunt all over my cock and balls as she tells me how good the sex was and cock shaming me. It's not sloppy seconds exactly but I have come to enjoy it.

Did it change your wife's attitude when you stopped fucking her?

Yes. It absolutely changed her attitude.
She has more confidence in her every day life at work and with her friends, not just in the bedroom.
She seems generally happier.

We still enjoy sex with each other but it's very different. I don't penetrate of course. However, we
both enjoy her humiliating me and me eating cream pie. It seems we are more intimate with each other. There's more cuddling and holding.

She doesn't engage in intimacy with her other men. That's reserved for us but she has emasculated me and doesn't see me as male the same way she sees other men. It's difficult to describe but apparently seeing me as less male makes sharing intimacy with me easier. She didn't feel that way when I was "one of the boys".

Our situation is certainly out of the ordinary but it works for us. I've come to enjoy things being this way as opposed how we were before.

Very helpful, thank you!

She is still seeing me as one of the boys I would like that to change into something different maybe like you are experiencing. She really likes intimacy especially with other men and I love it when she does that. The pussy free dynamic between us is new and we have to figure out how to make it work for us, like it works for you guys.

[stubbyhubby]

I knew it was going to be that way from the beginning. Lisa outright said if she fucked another guy then I had to accept that I was giving up my "husband rights" meaning I had no right to expect sex or even ask for it and I had no say in who she slept with. I even had to repeat it back to her. It's been that way every since. She cut me off from that day forward and has enjoyed other men at will.

[Dutch cuckold]

I knew it was going to be that way from the beginning. Lisa outright said if she fucked another guy then I had to accept that I was giving up my "husband rights" meaning I had no right to expect sex or even ask for it and I had no say in who she slept with. I even had to repeat it back to her. It's been that way every since. She cut me off from that day forward and has enjoyed other men at will.

How did you deal with the frustration or didn't you have any?

[Lovefeet]

I am not a cuckold but I wannes write my opinions. She wants to change you, as I know she is a domme. So I guess she is in that part of your relationship or it comes from her bull. Which one wants you to make pf do you know?

In my opinion, if you break your feelings to fuck her and could accept her satisfaction is the most important thing you can solve it. After all, if it comes from her bull, when he gone it will be over for you.

I hope I didn’t cross the line.

[Tamilcuck]

Hello Dutch. Congratulations to you. I have not been in my wife's pussy for almost 12 years. Even before that I was not very good with sex because of small penis. She has had a bf for 12 years and recently a new strong bull with a very big penis.

I agree the frustration wi come but my regularly gives me handjobs or finger jobs as she calls them. I also eat her out regularly especially after she has sex with bf or bull so it is a good experience for me. I am happy she is having alot of sex that she could not have with me.

As cucks, it is good that we are not to go into our wife's pussy as that should be reserved for proper big penises so she has good experiences.